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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont think its so much what you do as who you meet
ive been meeting people off the net for about 10 years now
in that time done it all, groups, gang bangs, clubs etc etc etc but my best experience was just a a 1 on 1 with a guy i meet from another site, went to his home and we just clicked straight away, he was my type in every way, which i dont find offen on here, we had so much in common and because the mental stimulation was there the sex was just out of this world
so to me its not what you do but who you do it with"
I can relate to this: I was contacted on another site by a man with an almost blank profile, but his opening message prompted me to respond "I think you're too tame for me, I'd kill you!" instead of just deleting.
He wrote back saying I should try him, but before I could I developed lymph oedema in both my legs and had four layers of compression bandages from my toes to my knees.
We chatted every day for a month, I was off work bored, miserable and fed up.
He only worked 15 minutes away. I remember saying I could murder a Starbuck's and he offered to bring me one.
True to his word he did. It was like opening the door to a friend. We chatted, drank coffee and some how ended up in bed. It wasn't the best sex in the world, he was shy, nervous not had sex for two years, I felt unnattractive with my bandaged, ulcerated legs and I thought shame, this will probably be a one off, pity as I like him!
Any way when he left I thought that was it, but within 15 minutes he was on the phone thanking me for a lovely afternoon and we went back to our usual conversation: nothing had changed!
Two years on it gets better. We speak several times a day, we socialise going for dinner etc and now have amazing sex! An alpha male outside the bedroom, high powered job, into endurance sports and marathon running but totally submissive an putty in my hands.
He doesn't see other people I do.
He's ready to commit (he uses that word a lot) but been there done that.
Never say never...just not yet! |