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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Apart from the usual reasons, what have you seen / heard to make you reject someone immediately? My would be seeing a can of Febreze in the background of a photo. Yes, I'm that petty... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Apart from the usual reasons, what have you seen / heard to make you reject someone immediately? My would be seeing a can of Febreze in the background of a photo. Yes, I'm that petty..."
Would the squirty bottle be more acceptable?
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"Text messages from someone's partner mentioning their family and calling me a slag was an instant no from me. "
Lmao iv had that from a hubby I knew nothing about. The call went somthing like
Oi you paul
Ye
You shaggin my wife
Er dont think so whos your wife
Look mate dont take the piss I mean bla bla
Oi right In that case yes I am but I new nawt about you mate sorry if I had id never have gone there
Oh shit its true then
Sorry mate ye
Waaaaa waaaaaa waaaaaa |
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"Addressing messages to just one of us does the trick here and for me (f) a single mans profile with more females on show than him.
That one does it for me every time.
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Eeeek didn't no you was a cuple sorry lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to swerve round single profiles full of action shots of two or more bodies. I want to see how the profile owner represents themself not several other unknowns. I just always find myself wondering if permission has been sought....a wee bug bear of mine.....  |
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"Message saying
Never been with a French or black girl before... 
Am in your area tonight...
Owwwww hope my accent thing didn't offend eeeek 
Abso not or you would have known about it lol x"
Phew.....god that bot lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Comments like....
You're stunning for your age
Err cheers mate!!
Lmfao are bloke really that dumb ffs"
Yep. Then he asked to see some more photos....presumably so he could confirm his opinion of me....on yer bike love |
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"Comments like....
You're stunning for your age
Err cheers mate!!
Lmfao are bloke really that dumb ffs
Yep. Then he asked to see some more photos....presumably so he could confirm his opinion of me....on yer bike love "
Hey us real bikers arnt like that |
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I'm sorry to say but reading someones verification that reads like war and peace ...
and when you look at some of the poster profiles and see unprotected sex and all sorts of comments
makes me go .... NO thanks, not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Comments like....
You're stunning for your age
Err cheers mate!!
Lmfao are bloke really that dumb ffs
Yep. Then he asked to see some more photos....presumably so he could confirm his opinion of me....on yer bike love
Hey us real bikers arnt like that "
Proof please  |
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Pics that reveal more of the other person they are shagging than the user are a big no from me. I wonder what horrors they are hiding. Plus any sitting on a loo - I dont care when they flushed it, but it is such a dreadful association. Also those who dont check their pics, as many upload such small files that clicking to enlarge them does no such thing. I dont meet if I cant scrutinise without an electron microscope, which I cant afford. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ones that say 'your gorgeous' My avatar doesn't have a head! What if I've got a face like Pat Butchers ugly sister? ? Or if I don't actually have a head?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from the usual reasons, what have you seen / heard to make you reject someone immediately? My would be seeing a can of Febreze in the background of a photo. Yes, I'm that petty..."
''Would you like to watch me eat my cum from a glass with a spoon?''
ummmm......no. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"When a guy uses the word 'boobies'... like he's a 12 year old.
or titties lol x"
I always use the word boobies 
Crude messages get an instant rejection from me. Suck my cock, tends to get a lively, personal and not too positive response. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a guy uses the word 'boobies'... like he's a 12 year old.
or titties lol x
I always use the word boobies
Crude messages get an instant rejection from me. Suck my cock, tends to get a lively, personal and not too positive response. "
Ahhh you like to do the ole cryptic thing you naughty naughty person. ...dance around the issues with a few euphemisms hey  bet you rather the ole fancy unwrapping my sausage roll for a picnic smoothy line don't you ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a guy uses the word 'boobies'... like he's a 12 year old.
or titties lol x
or puppies"
 hey some of us have limited vocabulary. ..Help us out what can we call them without sounding like we're writing a mills and boon novel. ....dear miss, I've quickly skirted through the contents of your profile to get to the pics and after oggling your delightful hanging flesh orbs I've decided you may be lucky enough to get banged by my triffid. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"When a guy uses the word 'boobies'... like he's a 12 year old.
or titties lol x"
That word is an instant turn off for me. It brings to mind a leering, creepy man.
Quite a few of the words used for boobs are off-putting for me. I don't even like the word tits much. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"When a guy uses the word 'boobies'... like he's a 12 year old.
or titties lol x
or puppies hey some of us have limited vocabulary. ..Help us out what can we call them without sounding like we're writing a mills and boon novel. ....dear miss, I've quickly skirted through the contents of your profile to get to the pics and after oggling your delightful hanging flesh orbs I've decided you may be lucky enough to get banged by my triffid. "
Boobs or breasts works best for me. |
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"Ones that say 'your gorgeous' My avatar doesn't have a head! What if I've got a face like Pat Butchers ugly sister? ? Or if I don't actually have a head? "
I don't think that would bother a large proportion of the men on here |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Addressing messages to just one of us does the trick here and for me (f) a single mans profile with more females on show than him.
That one does it for me every time.
Eeeek didn't no you was a cuple sorry lol"
No, the single male profiles with a finger nail of theirs and the whole body and face of a woman.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When a guy uses the word 'boobies'... like he's a 12 year old.
or titties lol x
or puppies hey some of us have limited vocabulary. ..Help us out what can we call them without sounding like we're writing a mills and boon novel. ....dear miss, I've quickly skirted through the contents of your profile to get to the pics and after oggling your delightful hanging flesh orbs I've decided you may be lucky enough to get banged by my triffid. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bum pics where they haven't wiped their arse from doing a number 2
where is the green faced emoti when you need it?
Seen a few shitty arses and ladies with bog roll amongst their flaps! "
WTF?
I have never seen anything like that, and hopefully never will!
Sara x |
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"Pics taken over the loo that's not been flushed
Do people really do that?
YES!
I don't like the ones where the cock is resting on the sink either.
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Or resting on anything - firstly 'cos it just looks wrong and secondly 'cos what, is it too weak to stand up on it's own?? Lol!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bum pics where they haven't wiped their arse from doing a number 2
where is the green faced emoti when you need it?
Seen a few shitty arses and ladies with bog roll amongst their flaps! "
I think I just threw up a little  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The pics where they've clearly forgotten to remove wedding ring or how about the pic i got sent in a message not so long ago...guy claimed he was single but in the bath pic you could clearly see all the wife/girlfriends bath n hair stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, in no particular order,
Text speak, if you cannot write in English, you need help.
A profile full of dont's.
A female / couples profile that tells everyone how wonderful you are and then why I should jump through hoops to even think about mailing you.
A female profile that's just a complete bitch list, yes your a limited commodity, but act like a diamond not a shit, that way you might attract more quality people.
Females that look at my clearly single male profile, but when you read there's it says not interested in single males, why were you looking ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The pics where they've clearly forgotten to remove wedding ring or how about the pic i got sent in a message not so long ago...guy claimed he was single but in the bath pic you could clearly see all the wife/girlfriends bath n hair stuff "
Maybe he was just metrosexual, and confident in his masculinity, whilst trying to get in touch with his feminine side |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"The pics where they've clearly forgotten to remove wedding ring or how about the pic i got sent in a message not so long ago...guy claimed he was single but in the bath pic you could clearly see all the wife/girlfriends bath n hair stuff "
Maybe it was his bath and hair stuff.
I asked someone about the wedding ring on their photo to be told that it was an old picture. When I asked how long they had been single then the reply was 10 years. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Most of these would fall under my 'usual' reasons rather than flippant!
Although to be honest my usual reasons are also mostly quite flippant."
My usual one that is deemed flippant is men calling me "hun".
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"Message saying
Never been with a French or black girl before...
Am in your area tonight... "
Yep, anyone seeking a black bird is pointed in the direction of the Tower of London, with advice to look out for the Yeoman Warders! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pics taken over the loo that's not been flushed
Do people really do that?
YES!
I don't like the ones where the cock is resting on the sink either.
Or resting on anything - firstly 'cos it just looks wrong and secondly 'cos what, is it too weak to stand up on it's own?? Lol!!
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haha that made me laugh out loud...precise and to the point as always frisky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Text speak is a pet peeve of mine i can't stand it at all and also people who think they are god's gift to everyone else and want you to bow down to them it just boils my blood to know that there is people so self centred out there!
Also one more thing people who take the mik out of your because you have problems spelling or something like that  Christ that does my head in  |
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"I tend to swerve round single profiles full of action shots of two or more bodies. I want to see how the profile owner represents themself not several other unknowns. I just always find myself wondering if permission has been sought....a wee bug bear of mine..... "
Single male profiles with visible face shots of his playmates and only his knob on show! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flippant
"Mate, yer wife don't look all that but I'll service er for ya"
Who says the age of chivalry is dead??"
Jesus really what is wrong with people, just as well we don't have gun licensees over her or you would see more murders through fabs than anywhere else.. |
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"Bum pics where they haven't wiped their arse from doing a number 2
where is the green faced emoti when you need it?
Seen a few shitty arses and ladies with bog roll amongst their flaps! "
...I repeat: wtf?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of these would fall under my 'usual' reasons rather than flippant!
Although to be honest my usual reasons are also mostly quite flippant.
My usual one that is deemed flippant is men calling me "hun".
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Same - and women.
Also weird objects in dark places, messy bedrooms, usernames that sound like they've been made up by dirty old men and my chav radar. |
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"Addressing messages to just one of us does the trick here and for me (f) a single mans profile with more females on show than him.
That one does it for me every time.
Eeeek didn't no you was a cuple sorry lol
No, the single male profiles with a finger nail of theirs and the whole body and face of a woman.
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You too huh?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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quite a few things to be honest!
generally any message that contains the following....
fuck / suck / squirt / gush / gangbang / heavy cummer / repeater!
oh and dodgy looking close up body parts....really?! |
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"Pics taken over the loo that's not been flushed
Do people really do that?
YES!
I don't like the ones where the cock is resting on the sink either.
Or resting on anything - firstly 'cos it just looks wrong and secondly 'cos what, is it too weak to stand up on it's own?? Lol!!
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Bum pics where they haven't wiped their arse from doing a number 2
where is the green faced emoti when you need it?
Seen a few shitty arses and ladies with bog roll amongst their flaps!
...I repeat: wtf?!!"
Dont tell me that after all this time youve never seen one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of you ladies to collate this and write a book of what not to do, you would be rich. Mind you looking at some of this post and previous posts on a similar subject, they never read the profiles so why would the read the book
You lot are obviously very strong in character and resolve to deal with such an onslaught like this.. If I had a hat on now I would be tipping it at each and everyone of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"quite a few things to be honest!
generally any message that contains the following....
fuck / suck / squirt / gush / gangbang / heavy cummer / repeater!
oh and dodgy looking close up body parts....really?! "
Speak for yourself, I love those kind of messages  |
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"Bum pics where they haven't wiped their arse from doing a number 2
where is the green faced emoti when you need it?
Seen a few shitty arses and ladies with bog roll amongst their flaps!
...I repeat: wtf?!!
Dont tell me that after all this time youve never seen one "
No! And I've been here six years! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bum pics where they haven't wiped their arse from doing a number 2
where is the green faced emoti when you need it?
Seen a few shitty arses and ladies with bog roll amongst their flaps!
...I repeat: wtf?!!
Dont tell me that after all this time youve never seen one "
Nope never, and nor do I want too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg just had a guy say I see your into water sports have you tried it with nappies or plastic pants? Erm nope look again vomit! "
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Addressing messages to just one of us does the trick here and for me (f) a single mans profile with more females on show than him.
That one does it for me every time.
Eeeek didn't no you was a cuple sorry lol
No, the single male profiles with a finger nail of theirs and the whole body and face of a woman.
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Hate those! Or couples profiles where there's 6+ different people in the pics and you have no idea which ones are the people on the profile. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have been known to turn gents down because of the look in their eyes "
Equally, I have said yes to meeting because of a glint of something in their eyes. Even when I know I'm heading for trouble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the expression jog on on peoples profiles off putting
ie....i'm a big girl so if your into skinny women jog on etc
like they need telling not to contact you of your not their type |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I also find profiles of people who's pics show more of their last meet than them off putting
was looking at one single guys profile and the only pic was a full shot of a woman with his cum on her tits, what's the point in that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can't abide text speak. I like a message to at least mention my name so it's not just a copy & paste message sent out to all & sundry. The messages that start 'I really like all your pics, you look lovely'.....I have one public picture & you can't see me clearly...oh and the old chestnut 'how are you today'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Text messages from someone's partner mentioning their family and calling me a slag was an instant no from me.
Lmao iv had that from a hubby I knew nothing about. The call went somthing like
Oi you paul
Ye
You shaggin my wife
Er dont think so whos your wife
Look mate dont take the piss I mean bla bla
Oi right In that case yes I am but I new nawt about you mate sorry if I had id never have gone there
Oh shit its true then
Sorry mate ye
Waaaaa waaaaaa waaaaaa"
No way. How red did you go?
Had a woman send a pic of her bent over showing her bum. Little bit of tissue stuck in bum cheek! Was a nice bum but put me righget off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't abide text speak. I like a message to at least mention my name so it's not just a copy & paste message sent out to all & sundry. The messages that start 'I really like all your pics, you look lovely'.....I have one public picture & you can't see me clearly...oh and the old chestnut 'how are you today'
xx
Rant over "
how r' u' 2day (insert name) it's a red car n u clearly r not wearing knickers in the pic so must b gr8 pics in pvate... No... Oh OK should have bought a green car anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't abide text speak. I like a message to at least mention my name so it's not just a copy & paste message sent out to all & sundry. The messages that start 'I really like all your pics, you look lovely'.....I have one public picture & you can't see me clearly...oh and the old chestnut 'how are you today'
xx
Rant over
how r' u' 2day (insert name) it's a red car n u clearly r not wearing knickers in the pic so must b gr8 pics in pvate... No... Oh OK should have bought a green car anyway "
 thanks for making me smile first day back at work after hols |
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We send a picture to a couple as requested then got the reply! Thanks..k has a definite type of swinging friend.. Then were blocked lol There pictures were nothing to write home about. Time wasters and silly b******s xx |
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