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It depends on the man.
Some older men have lots of charisma, in the way they look and handle themselves, others not so much and they just look 'old'.
My naughty-M is a bit older than me and is very sexy and very charismatic. But I am sure he was too when he was younger.
So, I think it is 'a way of being' and not age related.
Do I make sense? lol  |
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over a year ago
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"It depends on the man.
Some older men have lots of charisma, in the way they look and handle themselves, others not so much and they just look 'old'.
My naughty-M is a bit older than me and is very sexy and very charismatic. But I am sure he was too when he was younger.
So, I think it is 'a way of being' and not age related.
Do I make sense? lol "
Usually, no, but on this occasion, yes 
I think your spot on, I have got so much more confident as I have got older that I look a different person. I love aging, life just gets better.
And despite a very wild set of 20's people seem surprised at my age so that probably helps a bit  |
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"because they remind you of your dad and they make a fuss of you, or you want someone who is masterful."
I don't recall any older man I've been with ever reminding me of my dad. I'd be quite frankly disturbed if that was the case. |
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"because they remind you of your dad and they make a fuss of you, or you want someone who is masterful.
I don't recall any older man I've been with ever reminding me of my dad. I'd be quite frankly disturbed if that was the case. "
Actualy i think its a subconscious thing. |
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when your young boys of your own age may take you for granted but an older man will be very grateful to have someone much younger and he may make you feel more special. 
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"because they remind you of your dad and they make a fuss of you, or you want someone who is masterful.
I don't recall any older man I've been with ever reminding me of my dad. I'd be quite frankly disturbed if that was the case.
Actualy i think its a subconscious thing."
I'd definitely be conscious if a meet reminded me of my dad. I couldn't bring myself to sleep with someone that did. Bork.  |
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"Lets be honest, does it matter what age, colour, gender we are ultimately if you find that person attractive very little else matters......does it?  "
Yes, if they have a fetish for BBC, older men, young and huing, TV's... hairy men, bald men... lol
It is all just in the head though. I'm open, I like many different types and in many different ways |
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"because they remind you of your dad and they make a fuss of you, or you want someone who is masterful.
I don't recall any older man I've been with ever reminding me of my dad. I'd be quite frankly disturbed if that was the case.
Actualy i think its a subconscious thing.
I'd definitely be conscious if a meet reminded me of my dad. I couldn't bring myself to sleep with someone that did. Bork. "
Well if you didnt like your dad then maybe he reminds you of an uncle. |
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"when your young boys of your own age may take you for granted but an older man will be very grateful to have someone much younger and he may make you feel more special.
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"because they remind you of your dad and they make a fuss of you, or you want someone who is masterful.
I don't recall any older man I've been with ever reminding me of my dad. I'd be quite frankly disturbed if that was the case.
Actualy i think its a subconscious thing.
I'd definitely be conscious if a meet reminded me of my dad. I couldn't bring myself to sleep with someone that did. Bork.
Well if you didnt like your dad then maybe he reminds you of an uncle."
I like my dad. Which is why I wouldn't sleep with someone that reminded me of him. I like older men. For no other reason than that I like them. |
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as a mature gentleman, I find my self more assertive and happy with my life, I love to make sure the lady I am with gets maxium pleasure from our play and i like to take it slowly and more gently, unlike when i was a young man when every girl was a challenge to get her knickers of and fuck her weather she was pleasured or no.
And to be honest I am not worried if some one finds me atractive assetive or a twat, I am me and happy in my own skin.
But ladies dont count us out because of age, you could be missing a very speacial play time. |
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"It depends on the man.
Some older men have lots of charisma, in the way they look and handle themselves, others not so much and they just look 'old'.
My naughty-M is a bit older than me and is very sexy and very charismatic. But I am sure he was too when he was younger.
So, I think it is 'a way of being' and not age related.
Do I make sense? lol "
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I don't go for older men at all, in fact I struggle to find anyone near my age that I am attracted to, either mentally or physically.
But that's not 'cos I am ageist per se - some of my college buddies are still hot, but they're irreverent, lively and playful still, as well as physically attractive!
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"Not necessarily.....a man can be sexy whatever his age
Agree. Plus I've met some older men who have been clueless and lacking in confidence."
Stands to reason they will not be as confident as a much younger chap, most of the time. i have met nicer young men than old men. |
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"Age and maturity are not the same thing.
spot on
Wheeeeee I got a right answer!
*jumps up and down on the sofa*"
Letting the child out to play is often a sign of maturity too |
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"Age and maturity are not the same thing.
spot on
Wheeeeee I got a right answer!
*jumps up and down on the sofa*
Letting the child out to play is often a sign of maturity too "
"In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play." ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
I like to play!!
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"Age and maturity are not the same thing.
spot on
Wheeeeee I got a right answer!
*jumps up and down on the sofa*
Letting the child out to play is often a sign of maturity too
"In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play." ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
I like to play!!
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I love to play too  |
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"Age and maturity are not the same thing.
spot on
Wheeeeee I got a right answer!
*jumps up and down on the sofa*
Letting the child out to play is often a sign of maturity too
"In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play." ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
I like to play!!
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"Adults never stop being children, they just learn how to hide it better" - Mark Twain
You're quote is better lol I love Nietzsche. |
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"Age and maturity are not the same thing.
spot on
Wheeeeee I got a right answer!
*jumps up and down on the sofa*
Letting the child out to play is often a sign of maturity too
"In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play." ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
I like to play!!
"Adults never stop being children, they just learn how to hide it better" - Mark Twain
You're quote is better lol I love Nietzsche."
Yea, he has some brilliant quotes, and a damn fine name!
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"because they remind you of your dad and they make a fuss of you, or you want someone who is masterful.
I don't recall any older man I've been with ever reminding me of my dad. I'd be quite frankly disturbed if that was the case.
Actualy i think its a subconscious thing.
I'd definitely be conscious if a meet reminded me of my dad. I couldn't bring myself to sleep with someone that did. Bork.
Well if you didnt like your dad then maybe he reminds you of an uncle."
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I dont know if older guys are any sexier but I myself am having far more fun now than I did 20 years ago,
it could be I'm more comfortable and confident now.
Kim says I'm flirtatious in my manor which helps get me into most ladies knickers but I just call it charm lol.
Being a photographer as also give me more confidence as i'm used to seeing half naked/naked women on a professional level and know how to not make them feel uncomfortable.
Getting old is inevitable but if you keep a good outlook on life its bloody good fun. |
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"A sexy man is a sexy man no matter how old or young!
Yep!
Ruby
C'est vrai But what makes him sexy? "
100 different people would give you 100 different answers. I think that's a personal thing. |
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"A sexy man is a sexy man no matter how old or young!
Yep!
Ruby
C'est vrai But what makes him sexy?
100 different people would give you 100 different answers. I think that's a personal thing. "
Then it's a mystery why some men are found sexy by lots of women...there must be some common characteristics surely? |
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
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When we first started swinging I (J) said younger guys only...after about 5 months that changed purely and simply because I was fed up with the childish behaviour I'd encountered and so began the search for the 'older' guy as it were..now don't get me wrong here, its individuals preference, and maybe I was unlucky in the younger guys we met..
Older guys just do it for me..lol and us |
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I think if an older man (55) can hook up with a much younger female, that female is going to treated like a princess especially if they are half Danish.. |
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"I think if an older man (55) can hook up with a much younger female, that female is going to treated like a princess especially if they are half Danish.."
what if she isn't.t that much younger. . . No princess treatment ? Lol |
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"because they remind you of your dad and they make a fuss of you, or you want someone who is masterful.
I don't recall any older man I've been with ever reminding me of my dad. I'd be quite frankly disturbed if that was the case.
Actualy i think its a subconscious thing.
I'd definitely be conscious if a meet reminded me of my dad. I couldn't bring myself to sleep with someone that did. Bork.
Well if you didnt like your dad then maybe he reminds you of an uncle."
funny as |
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