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Those of you with an interesting collection of toys, outfits, straps, ropes and whatever else you may like to indulge in when enjoying your sexual encounters... have you made plans for someone to come and clear out the sex stuff before the rest of your family start rooting through your belongings?
It is something I did think about once. Obviously not because I’d be embarrassed… but more to save the embarrassment of my mum and dad or to prevent youngsters in the family finding stuff. Those things are no longer an issue so I’m no longer concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i remember this being discussed a wee while ago and someone had a friend i think was called dudley who knew about all the stuff and would go and remove it before family went round!
iv chose my dudley and they know where everythin is and to get it out the house quickly if anythin does happen to me! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always wonder what the person who gets your laptop thinks about saved messages and on line history 
And the photos!"
There will be a spinster somewhere who every one thinks is a twice sunday church sort and after she passes away relatives will find on her computer a profile named ganbang-anytime-girl and pictures of her doing all sorts. The odds are this must have happened at some point  |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
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When I go off on my road trips, I leave sealed instructions to be opened by a friend in the event of my untimely demise. It details all my accounts with various NSFW sites, passwords etc, so he can at least tell people what has happened. I don't like the thought of just disappearing one day, I have lots of "friends" on-line who ought to know why I no longer make contact.
There's also a breakdown of the numbers in my phone, who are friends and who are "friends", lol. Some may not wish to be asked by my next of kin how they knew me!
I don't have any real hangups though, I do what I do and am deceiving no-one, it would be different if I had children that I wanted to keep oblivious. My parents would have to accept that I am what I am too, and they KNOW anyway,to a certain extent, I'm sure. They certainly don't think I'm a celibate monk.
I'd rather they weren't confonted with a pic of me in full glorious pornographic technicolour though, so my friend would have to remove certain hard drives before turning the clean ones with my business accounts etc over to my next of kin.
I've also detailed various items in my home and work which ought to be removed but would probably be binned by anyone clearing my life out. For example, there are some old spanking magazines somewhere which are fetching a pretty penny (like hundreds of pounds!!) from enthusiasts, I'd prefer someone I loved profitted from them than they just get skipped by an embarrassed relative.
I guess I really ought to write a proper will.... |
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over a year ago
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Yeah wot id probably do is when i die or when my mum dies,,,,touch wood not 4 a very long time yet! phew! sorry ! But id transfer all the data from my computer to sum deletion bin n the good things goto decent members of ure family then delete my account n stamp on my pc! then im secret safe! lol
Id do this b4 i die. lol  |
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"Yeah wot id probably do is when i die or when my mum dies,,,,touch wood not 4 a very long time yet! phew! sorry ! But id transfer all the data from my computer to sum deletion bin n the good things goto decent members of ure family then delete my account n stamp on my pc! then im secret safe! lol
Id do this b4 i die. lol "
You do realise don't you that Deleteing your data doesn't actually delete it from your PC or laptop? Just renders that disc space re-usable.
For better deletion use Eraser or Cleaner or similar.
I'm such a belligerent git i'm gonna outlive you all
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah wot id probably do is when i die or when my mum dies,,,,touch wood not 4 a very long time yet! phew! sorry ! But id transfer all the data from my computer to sum deletion bin n the good things goto decent members of ure family then delete my account n stamp on my pc! then im secret safe! lol
Id do this b4 i die. lol
You do realise don't you that Deleteing your data doesn't actually delete it from your PC or laptop? Just renders that disc space re-usable.
For better deletion use Eraser or Cleaner or similar.
I'm such a belligerent git i'm gonna outlive you all
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Or just STAMP on the fucker!! or throw ure pc into sum lake! or throw it outta 90 story sky scraper!! lol lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think best bet----Give all ya good stuff to ya family whos still around etc or new ones,,,all the bad stuff u dont wanna them to see,,,
before u die ,,,,just stamp on the pc! or get a hammer! simple  |
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"Think best bet----Give all ya good stuff to ya family whos still around etc or new ones,,,all the bad stuff u dont wanna them to see,,,
before u die ,,,,just stamp on the pc! or get a hammer! simple "
I think you are missing the point. If you have enough warning to hammer your pc/laptop, then you have enough warning to bin the sex stuff. What happens if there is no warning... if you get run over or hit by a chunk of blue ice or shot by a pissed off taxi driver. |
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"Think best bet----Give all ya good stuff to ya family whos still around etc or new ones,,,all the bad stuff u dont wanna them to see,,,
before u die ,,,,just stamp on the pc! or get a hammer! simple
I think you are missing the point. If you have enough warning to hammer your pc/laptop, then you have enough warning to bin the sex stuff. What happens if there is no warning... if you get run over or hit by a chunk of blue ice or shot by a pissed off taxi driver."
Very few choose their time of departure from this world |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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I suppose we are very lucky where this is concerned. About 6 years ago we had to tell the kids what we do because some arse (who was also on a swinger site) told everyone where Mrs R works and had printed pictures of us both!
We have a file on the PC and the backup hard drive called "At your own peril, our pics" Everything even slightly risque is in there and it is very easy to delete that one file. It also has all of our messages and emails, so nicely contained!
Because the kids know, it makes it very easy for us to forget about what will happen when we are no longer here, but reading this thread has certainly made me think..... |
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"I suppose we are very lucky where this is concerned. About 6 years ago we had to tell the kids what we do because some arse (who was also on a swinger site) told everyone where Mrs R works and had printed pictures of us both!
We have a file on the PC and the backup hard drive called "At your own peril, our pics" Everything even slightly risque is in there and it is very easy to delete that one file. It also has all of our messages and emails, so nicely contained!
Because the kids know, it makes it very easy for us to forget about what will happen when we are no longer here, but reading this thread has certainly made me think..... "
Yea! on yer own head be it.  |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Those of you with an interesting collection of toys, outfits, straps, ropes and whatever else you may like to indulge in when enjoying your sexual encounters... have you made plans for someone to come and clear out the sex stuff before the rest of your family start rooting through your belongings?
It is something I did think about once. Obviously not because I’d be embarrassed… but more to save the embarrassment of my mum and dad or to prevent youngsters in the family finding stuff. Those things are no longer an issue so I’m no longer concerned."
theyll probably think.hope i get them in the will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those of you with an interesting collection of toys, outfits, straps, ropes and whatever else you may like to indulge in when enjoying your sexual encounters... have you made plans for someone to come and clear out the sex stuff before the rest of your family start rooting through your belongings?
It is something I did think about once. Obviously not because I’d be embarrassed… but more to save the embarrassment of my mum and dad or to prevent youngsters in the family finding stuff. Those things are no longer an issue so I’m no longer concerned.
theyll probably think.hope i get them in the will. "
yeah! 2rite |
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once i've gone i won't care so sod it BUT i was unexpectedly admitted to hospital a few years ago and (as moms do) my mom came to my place to pack me a bag. wasn't until i was lying in my hospital bed unable to sleep that night that it suddenly struck me what she would of found whilst hunting for undies, dressing gown etc |
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"once i've gone i won't care so sod it BUT i was unexpectedly admitted to hospital a few years ago and (as moms do) my mom came to my place to pack me a bag. wasn't until i was lying in my hospital bed unable to sleep that night that it suddenly struck me what she would of found whilst hunting for undies, dressing gown etc "
That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"once i've gone i won't care so sod it BUT i was unexpectedly admitted to hospital a few years ago and (as moms do) my mom came to my place to pack me a bag. wasn't until i was lying in my hospital bed unable to sleep that night that it suddenly struck me what she would of found whilst hunting for undies, dressing gown etc
That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her..... "
Sorry to hear that love x  |
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"once i've gone i won't care so sod it BUT i was unexpectedly admitted to hospital a few years ago and (as moms do) my mom came to my place to pack me a bag. wasn't until i was lying in my hospital bed unable to sleep that night that it suddenly struck me what she would of found whilst hunting for undies, dressing gown etc
That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her..... "
don't know which one is worse  |
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"once i've gone i won't care so sod it BUT i was unexpectedly admitted to hospital a few years ago and (as moms do) my mom came to my place to pack me a bag. wasn't until i was lying in my hospital bed unable to sleep that night that it suddenly struck me what she would of found whilst hunting for undies, dressing gown etc
That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her.....
don't know which one is worse "
Would be worse if they were Dads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates "
aw - but you do
On the topic : I am not worried as kids are actually aware of my lifestyle - so nothing would really shock them - they would just have a giggle I think. |
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By *eritageMan
over a year ago
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"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates
aw - but you do
On the topic : I am not worried as kids are actually aware of my lifestyle - so nothing would really shock them - they would just have a giggle I think.
wow thats ace and brave"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates
aw - but you do
On the topic : I am not worried as kids are actually aware of my lifestyle - so nothing would really shock them - they would just have a giggle I think.
wow thats ace and brave"
well, they are old enough now... and it also means if ever anybody accidentally gave it away, my friends etc... it would not be an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those of you with an interesting collection of toys, outfits, straps, ropes and whatever else you may like to indulge in when enjoying your sexual encounters... have you made plans for someone to come and clear out the sex stuff before the rest of your family start rooting through your belongings?
It is something I did think about once. Obviously not because I’d be embarrassed… but more to save the embarrassment of my mum and dad or to prevent youngsters in the family finding stuff. Those things are no longer an issue so I’m no longer concerned."
ok so basically embaresment factor for those after.....ermm thats their problem, however, if you don't want anyhting to show up ( anywhere )after you die don't have in house beforeehand is my thought, likewise anything on computer - set it up so that it deletes history / cache have an overwrite for eveything at end of online session, know not easy but hey if don't want your history known it isn't too hard to keep things private |
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" ...however, if you don't want anyhting to show up ( anywhere )after you die don't have in house beforeehand is my thought, ..."
So where does one keep one's toy collection.... not to mention ball-gag, nipple clamps, gimp mask and whatever else floats the owners boat? |
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By *eritageMan
over a year ago
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"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates
aw - but you do
On the topic : I am not worried as kids are actually aware of my lifestyle - so nothing would really shock them - they would just have a giggle I think.
wow thats ace and brave
well, they are old enough now... and it also means if ever anybody accidentally gave it away, my friends etc... it would not be an issue."
true very protective admire you a lot for that |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver... thats not what i heard "
They said they wouldn't tell... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" ...however, if you don't want anyhting to show up ( anywhere )after you die don't have in house beforeehand is my thought, ...
So where does one keep one's toy collection.... not to mention ball-gag, nipple clamps, gimp mask and whatever else floats the owners boat?"
not in house, iof don't have partner to remove/. not easy but then I wouldn't have anything in house that couldn't be seen as otherwise than innocent |
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"once i've gone i won't care so sod it BUT i was unexpectedly admitted to hospital a few years ago and (as moms do) my mom came to my place to pack me a bag. wasn't until i was lying in my hospital bed unable to sleep that night that it suddenly struck me what she would of found whilst hunting for undies, dressing gown etc
That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her.....
don't know which one is worse "
My Hubby can barely look her in the eye still |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend is also my naughty friend who knows everything, and she has already been asked to be the executor of my will and clear my stuff when I die!
Problem solved.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My best friend is also my naughty friend who knows everything, and she has already been asked to be the executor of my will and clear my stuff when I die!
Problem solved. "
everyone should be lucky enpough to have a fiend like that, alas us singles habe to work to delete etc,. matter of course now really lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No but ive told the kids where i want and dont want to be buried and what music i want played at the funeral as i dont want my mum interfering and doing it how she would want it  |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver... "
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal"
how do i do that then? |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal
how do i do that then?"
Some of us need no certification
You re in!! |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal
how do i do that then?
Some of us need no certification
You re in!! "
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well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in" |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal
how do i do that then?
Some of us need no certification
You re in!!
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well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in" "
lol - will send you the certificate of immortality |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal
how do i do that then?
Some of us need no certification
You re in!!
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well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"
lol - will send you the certificate of immortality "
thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others. |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal
how do i do that then?
Some of us need no certification
You re in!!
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well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"
lol - will send you the certificate of immortality
thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others."
That will be a new thread then - what certificates and what you had to do to gain them?
Go on - spill |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal
how do i do that then?
Some of us need no certification
You re in!!
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well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"
lol - will send you the certificate of immortality
thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others.
That will be a new thread then - what certificates and what you had to do to gain them?
Go on - spill"
50m Breaststroke for starters
thats mins not metres |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal
how do i do that then?
Some of us need no certification
You re in!!
'
well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"
lol - will send you the certificate of immortality
thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others.
That will be a new thread then - what certificates and what you had to do to gain them?
Go on - spill"
Wot u guts?? or ya beans?
which is best? lol |
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"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....
But then I'm a giver...
Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal
how do i do that then?
Some of us need no certification
You re in!!
'
well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"
lol - will send you the certificate of immortality
thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others.
That will be a new thread then - what certificates and what you had to do to gain them?
Go on - spill
50m Breaststroke for starters
thats mins not metres "
You are just sooooo in the zone |
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