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By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago
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This is available to paid members....now there's a reason to cough up a fiver every couple of months!
Anyway to those of you who have this option, anyone noticed the amount of people looking at your profile, in our case, of a lot younger age than you? So you obviously investigate their profile and find...only meeting 21-35 or under 36 or some such.
Now why on earth do they even bother looking at your profile when it quite clearly says you are both knocking fifty or even older? Sorry I just can't fathom this out.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is available to paid members....now there's a reason to cough up a fiver every couple of months!
Anyway to those of you who have this option, anyone noticed the amount of people looking at your profile, in our case, of a lot younger age than you? So you obviously investigate their profile and find...only meeting 21-35 or under 36 or some such.
Now why on earth do they even bother looking at your profile when it quite clearly says you are both knocking fifty or even older? Sorry I just can't fathom this out. "
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Some people just click on every profile online.... and some people look to see who the people they are planning to meet have met.
Personally I can't see much use in the 'looked at me' function.... other than spotting the odd-balls who seem to look at your profile 20 times per day. |
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over a year ago
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"Some people just click on every profile online.... and some people look to see who the people they are planning to meet have met.
Personally I can't see much use in the 'looked at me' function.... other than spotting the odd-balls who seem to look at your profile 20 times per day."
Agree with you, and if they are interested they will contact you. I'm not really bothered who looks and dont contact, only the ones who do write to us |
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Perhaps its when you write something in one of the forums and they want to have a look at the person saying it.
I.e- just read a post where yet another single guy was whinging about no meets and a lot of people had been to his profile to look at his verifications (6 in 6 months) and commented on this.
I might have had a look at the profile of the older couple who posted on here just to see what they looked like having read this.
Its just human curiosity i think.
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"other than spotting the odd-balls who seem to look at your profile 20 times per day."
Maybe looking 20 times a day gives an indication their interested, just nervous about taking the next step, I suspect their hoping “You” will make the first contact  |
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"other than spotting the odd-balls who seem to look at your profile 20 times per day.
Maybe looking 20 times a day gives an indication their interested, just nervous about taking the next step, I suspect their hoping “You” will make the first contact "
Then they should do a username search for 'Bob Hope'  |
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um... why be on here if you don't want people looking at your profile? Surely look upon it as a compliment that someone has looked? Its a sight that your profile or persona is interesting surely...
Its human nature to look and watch and that... have a nose about... just chill out surely... It unerves me when guys check my profile out but its up to them... and equally its lead to some nice friendly chats with some lovely women that have looked but not messaged me... it can all help to break the ice aurely?
So I'm happy to pay my fiver and get this option... and in many respects I'd prefer everybody to pay the token fee too... might just then out the losers and time wasters that everybody seems to come across... hum...  |
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"other than spotting the odd-balls who seem to look at your profile 20 times per day.
Maybe looking 20 times a day gives an indication their interested, just nervous about taking the next step, I suspect their hoping “You” will make the first contact
Then they should do a username search for 'Bob Hope' "
For us, "No Hope" does seem to come up quite alot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people just click on every profile online.... and some people look to see who the people they are planning to meet have met.
Personally I can't see much use in the 'looked at me' function.... other than spotting the odd-balls who seem to look at your profile 20 times per day."
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"um... why be on here if you don't want people looking at your profile? Surely look upon it as a compliment that someone has looked? Its a sight that your profile or persona is interesting surely...
Its human nature to look and watch and that... have a nose about... just chill out surely... It unerves me when guys check my profile out but its up to them... and equally its lead to some nice friendly chats with some lovely women that have looked but not messaged me... it can all help to break the ice aurely?
So I'm happy to pay my fiver and get this option... and in many respects I'd prefer everybody to pay the token fee too... might just then out the losers and time wasters that everybody seems to come across... hum... "
Someone paying a fiver doesn't make them any more genuine or any less likely to waste your time I am afraid.
I have been on enough pay sites to know that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps its when you write something in one of the forums and they want to have a look at the person saying it.
I.e- just read a post where yet another single guy was whinging about no meets and a lot of people had been to his profile to look at his verifications (6 in 6 months) and commented on this.
I might have had a look at the profile of the older couple who posted on here just to see what they looked like having read this.
Its just human curiosity i think.
Bam x "
I agree and you don't know the persons age until you look at the profile!!
I don't search profiles but if someone has written something funny, annoying etc in the forums I click on their profile to get a better insight!
As others have said: human nature! |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
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"Perhaps its when you write something in one of the forums and they want to have a look at the person saying it. "
I do this too. Is there the reverse option where you can see from someone's profile which threads they have contributed to? (I don't think I have noticed this, but maybe I'm a bit slow)
Sometimes I look at profiles and wonder if they post on here, you can tell a lot about people from their forum postings, but when there's pages of threads about FIGHT etc you can't easily tell who has posted anything a bit more significant, even if it was only a day or so ago. |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe looking 20 times a day gives an indication their interested, just nervous about taking the next step, I suspect their hoping “You” will make the first contact "
Or, you change your profile pic often, and perverts like me see a pic of a perfect arse, click on the profile to find it's one of the ones that isn't looking for someone like me, and one I've already looked at recently.
My apologies to any Gold members who have noticed me repeatedly looking at their profile, I call it entrapment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is available to paid members....now there's a reason to cough up a fiver every couple of months!
Anyway to those of you who have this option, anyone noticed the amount of people looking at your profile, in our case, of a lot younger age than you? So you obviously investigate their profile and find...only meeting 21-35 or under 36 or some such.
Now why on earth do they even bother looking at your profile when it quite clearly says you are both knocking fifty or even older? Sorry I just can't fathom this out. "
Yeah and why do they look at your profile and then say they have no interest wot so ever!! or say we dont do single guys? so why look in the 1st place? Most odd?  |
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over a year ago
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"cause untill they investigate your
profile they cant see ur age limit
And the age filter dont always work either"
Thats why i suggested "fabyoungsters" but everyone hates it! u cant win sumtimes! |
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By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago
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"cause untill they investigate your
profile they cant see ur age limit
And the age filter dont always work either
Thats why i suggested "fabyoungsters" but everyone hates it! u cant win sumtimes! "
Don't get me wrong, there is no problem with youngsters looking at our profile at all, especially if their own says they don't mind meeting older people.But when they state nobody over a certain age, why not use the age filter? Even the browse facility shows screen names and ages, so there really is no need for them to look at people outside their bracket, spooky! |
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we look in anyones profile just to see what them people are like where they from etc, so i say if you dont like people looking at your profile then hide it do somethin, but my main point is if we click on a persons profile and says do not wink or message us if your under '30' then we wont so there must be a dont look rule now if your under a certain age is that it...
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"This is available to paid members....now there's a reason to cough up a fiver every couple of months!
Anyway to those of you who have this option, anyone noticed the amount of people looking at your profile, in our case, of a lot younger age than you? So you obviously investigate their profile and find...only meeting 21-35 or under 36 or some such.
Now why on earth do they even bother looking at your profile when it quite clearly says you are both knocking fifty or even older? Sorry I just can't fathom this out. "
Are your ages in your name or something as I thought that you had to go into someones profile in order to see info like that! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is available to paid members....now there's a reason to cough up a fiver every couple of months!
Anyway to those of you who have this option, anyone noticed the amount of people looking at your profile, in our case, of a lot younger age than you? So you obviously investigate their profile and find...only meeting 21-35 or under 36 or some such.
Now why on earth do they even bother looking at your profile when it quite clearly says you are both knocking fifty or even older? Sorry I just can't fathom this out.
Are your ages in your name or something as I thought that you had to go into someones profile in order to see info like that! Z"
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm? yea |
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"This is available to paid members....now there's a reason to cough up a fiver every couple of months!
Anyway to those of you who have this option, anyone noticed the amount of people looking at your profile, in our case, of a lot younger age than you? So you obviously investigate their profile and find...only meeting 21-35 or under 36 or some such.
Now why on earth do they even bother looking at your profile when it quite clearly says you are both knocking fifty or even older? Sorry I just can't fathom this out.
Are your ages in your name or something as I thought that you had to go into someones profile in order to see info like that! Z
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm? yea "
unless you're phycic  that is! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps its when you write something in one of the forums and they want to have a look at the person saying it.
I do this too. Is there the reverse option where you can see from someone's profile which threads they have contributed to? (I don't think I have noticed this, but maybe I'm a bit slow)
Sometimes I look at profiles and wonder if they post on here, you can tell a lot about people from their forum postings, but when there's pages of threads about FIGHT etc you can't easily tell who has posted anything a bit more significant, even if it was only a day or so ago.
thats where my section on fourms come in handy but mods dont do the layout of this site strange that lol
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What it is with you and your sarcasm towards the mods on here?
Why do you find it so difficult to understand a simple statement like this.....
The mods do not have anything to do with the layout of the fourms,admin do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps its when you write something in one of the forums and they want to have a look at the person saying it.
I do this too. Is there the reverse option where you can see from someone's profile which threads they have contributed to? (I don't think I have noticed this, but maybe I'm a bit slow)
Sometimes I look at profiles and wonder if they post on here, you can tell a lot about people from their forum postings, but when there's pages of threads about FIGHT etc you can't easily tell who has posted anything a bit more significant, even if it was only a day or so ago.
thats where my section on fourms come in handy but mods dont do the layout of this site strange that lol
What it is with you and your sarcasm towards the mods on here?
Why do you find it so difficult to understand a simple statement like this.....
The mods do not have anything to do with the layout of the fourms,admin do!"
Oh rite ok thanks 4 telling me that i have nothing againest the layout of the forums i just agree with the other people who say good things about things thats all...sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not aimed at you Notts but _ouple1234
Oh rite ok then cheers 4 that
Aww - it's not always you in the wrong you know! Z"
Cheers Gorgeous xxx u a lovely cracker! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not aimed at you Notts but _ouple1234
Oh rite ok then cheers 4 that
Aww - it's not always you in the wrong you know! Z
Cheers Gorgeous xxx u a lovely cracker!
Cream or ritz? Z"
Which is best???
only 1way to find out-----FIGHT!!
(u asked 4 that!) lol |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
warwickshire |
" Is there the reverse option where you can see from someone's profile which threads they have contributed to? "
Ah, apparently if you click on the little green arrow by someone's name, it lists the threads they have posted to. You learn something new every day!
(Thanks for the PM I received letting me in on this one) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Is there the reverse option where you can see from someone's profile which threads they have contributed to?
Ah, apparently if you click on the little green arrow by someone's name, it lists the threads they have posted to. You learn something new every day!
(Thanks for the PM I received letting me in on this one)"
np pal np |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"PMSL, I think yours must have got lost in the post. "
Arrrr but the postman rang me toady n said he found it ,,,they £5 charge to come n fetch it! lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps its when you write something in one of the forums and they want to have a look at the person saying it.
I do this too. Is there the reverse option where you can see from someone's profile which threads they have contributed to? (I don't think I have noticed this, but maybe I'm a bit slow)
Sometimes I look at profiles and wonder if they post on here, you can tell a lot about people from their forum postings, but when there's pages of threads about FIGHT etc you can't easily tell who has posted anything a bit more significant, even if it was only a day or so ago."
picking up on this - besides the regular posters - I look at people who posted funny, witty or even serious contributions - the way somebody posts does not give the whole story but tells you something about the personality I feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"cause untill they investigate your
profile they cant see ur age limit
And the age filter dont always work either
Thats why i suggested "fabyoungsters" but everyone hates it! u cant win sumtimes! "
Would be much better to be able to set an age limit to viewing ones profile, for example, i would possibly set mine so that no-one under 30-35 could view my profile, would save all the youngsters wasting their time, in saying that though, doesnt stop them sending me messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"cause untill they investigate your
profile they cant see ur age limit
And the age filter dont always work either
Thats why i suggested "fabyoungsters" but everyone hates it! u cant win sumtimes!
Would be much better to be able to set an age limit to viewing ones profile, for example, i would possibly set mine so that no-one under 30-35 could view my profile, would save all the youngsters wasting their time, in saying that though, doesnt stop them sending me messages "
isn't stopping someone looking at your profile, whatever age, taste etc as futile as trying to stop people looking at you in the street or a bar?.....just curious as I don't see any difference and don't understand why there are any objections to be looked at |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"This is available to paid members....now there's a reason to cough up a fiver every couple of months!
Anyway to those of you who have this option, anyone noticed the amount of people looking at your profile, in our case, of a lot younger age than you? So you obviously investigate their profile and find...only meeting 21-35 or under 36 or some such.
Now why on earth do they even bother looking at your profile when it quite clearly says you are both knocking fifty or even older? Sorry I just can't fathom this out. "
K and I have had this discussion so many times, does seem a bit daft but then there is nothing as quere as folk as they say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps its only one of the young couple that doesn't want to meet ppl over a certain age.
The other one could be having a lustful perve at the "oldies" on the sly!
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
i think I am weird.... in that I am more likely to reply to people who have "looked at me" than i am to those who wink or send friend invites....
I know... weird!!!
I am just flattered than people took the time to actually read my profile... or be disappointed at the pics!!! lol
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By *udereMan
over a year ago
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Its just curiosity people see your phot or read a forum post or wotnot and have a peep for more info,theres a few that are always looking at mine but never make any contact im certainly not going to lose any sleep over it if i was botherd about people seeing it i wouldnt be on here |
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