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"been dating a guy (hence dating aswell as swinging... now after a year he tells me he not ready to commit... always leaves me when we go to clubs... is it time to kick this guy to the kerb..." Only you can decide on that one. Weigh up the pro's and cons and make a decision upon that. | |||
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"been dating a guy (hence dating aswell as swinging... now after a year he tells me he not ready to commit... always leaves me when we go to clubs... is it time to kick this guy to the kerb..." I'm surprised you haven't already if you both understood you were dating and not just swinging as playmates. xxxx | |||
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"As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here." thanks for that but i have already discussed it with him... all i get is "i thought we having fun"... | |||
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"As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here.thanks for that but i have already discussed it with him... all i get is "i thought we having fun"..." You are still asking members to discuss another member (your profile partner) and to be honest it's pretty much naming and shaming. | |||
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"As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here.thanks for that but i have already discussed it with him... all i get is "i thought we having fun"..." thats a pretty detailed response from a bloke | |||
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"As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here.thanks for that but i have already discussed it with him... all i get is "i thought we having fun"... You are still asking members to discuss another member (your profile partner) and to be honest it's pretty much naming and shaming." oh yes, i forgot bout that..oops...suppose its time to close the thread... | |||
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"If the sex is good, keep him as a playmate, as in one of many! "i like your answer - esp as it seems it was only for the sex anyway - cos any man that left me at clubs would not be any more than that.  | |||
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"The fact that you are asking the question should tell you what the answer is without anyone else commenting on it." My thoughts exactly!  | |||
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"No one could reach a decision on the little information you give. I don't see why he should commit. I don't see anything wrong with him leaving you in clubs. When you ask him about it he says 'but we are having fun?' All I can summise is that both of you have NEVER sat down and said what you want from your 'relationship' for want of a better word. You did say dating which ; however you feel about him is NOT engaged or committed in any other way? Have you said - We are dating. We are a couple. We should commit to each other. When we go out we stick together? I'm imagining the blokes version of this ... We've been seeing each other for months for fun and now she thinks we are engaged. We go to swingers clubs to meet others and she won't swing on her own. I like seeing her but I might as well be married. etc etc etc ....... I don't think it's time for you to cut and run yet. I DO think you should think about what you want. Sit and talk with him. If you both agree - stick together. If you want diff things.... split. xx Gran xx P.S. If i was at a club with a bloke and he left me - I wouldn't go with him again. He'd be no bloody use would he. " thanks for your wise words... xxx | |||
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"No one could reach a decision on the little information you give. I don't see why he should commit. I don't see anything wrong with him leaving you in clubs. When you ask him about it he says 'but we are having fun?' All I can summise is that both of you have NEVER sat down and said what you want from your 'relationship' for want of a better word. You did say dating which ; however you feel about him is NOT engaged or committed in any other way? Have you said - We are dating. We are a couple. We should commit to each other. When we go out we stick together? I'm imagining the blokes version of this ... We've been seeing each other for months for fun and now she thinks we are engaged. We go to swingers clubs to meet others and she won't swing on her own. I like seeing her but I might as well be married. etc etc etc ....... I don't think it's time for you to cut and run yet. I DO think you should think about what you want. Sit and talk with him. If you both agree - stick together. If you want diff things.... split. xx Gran xx P.S. If i was at a club with a bloke and he left me - I wouldn't go with him again. He'd be no bloody use would he. " good post.....I agree with what gran said 100% | |||
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"She is asking advice in her relationship.....lots of people ask advice about their other halves." i was just thinking.nice stockings rugby.  | |||
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"Ty saucy "Yeah nice stockings ruby he says in a deep manley voice lol xx(guess who)xx  | |||
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"lol hello little man...........with the deep manly voice but now with boobs too " xx | |||
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"lol hello little man...........with the deep manly voice but now with boobs too "if yous two want to get it on.i can wait. | |||
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"Are you at Chezzas or she at yours? ~~nosey" Yeah ya are alnt ya lol xx | |||
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"Well if I was a guy 'dating' a woman and found a thread like this (started using our couple's profile) ... you wouldn't be left with a decision to make about whether to walk away or not. And I seriously can't believe this is being allowed to run." I agree with you on that score polo and did when you mentioned it before. Im imagining being a couple and my other half discussing me in public and the 'public' aware of who I am  I'd be gone too ..... or at least peeling myself of the ceiling. | |||
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"to everyone thats commented on this thread...thanks for your advice(hence the word advice) the person mentioned does know about the thread and if he was bothered he could report me...lol... but you will all be pleased to know we have reached a decision... xxx" which is?...common.... spill | |||
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"to everyone thats commented on this thread...thanks for your advice(hence the word advice) the person mentioned does know about the thread and if he was bothered he could report me...lol... but you will all be pleased to know we have reached a decision... xxx" Glad to be of ( cough ) assistance. So , ure gonna mug Rafa are you.
Seriously, even i await with baited breath. | |||
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"Yeah "just walk away,,walk away ,,walk away" as in the song.. "that was out of tune | |||
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"Yeah "just walk away,,walk away ,,walk away" as in the song..
that was out of tune "Who do u think ur BGT Judge? lol how do u know its out of tune how can u tell??? its a pc !! its a pc! u miles away anyway! lol | |||
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" lets make passionate love! "Thort you'd never ask
was hoping actually. | |||
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" lets make passionate love!
Thort you'd never ask
was hoping actually."er YUK! no thanks! | |||
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"as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)..." good for you once a pussylover , always a pussylover nice avatar too | |||
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"as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)... good for you once a pussylover , always a pussylover nice avatar too" cheers my old taeta! | |||
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"as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)..." Cor! His loss chuck .... xx | |||
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"as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)... good for you once a pussylover , always a pussylover nice avatar too cheers my old taeta! "Why do you always assume comments are aimed at you?!! | |||
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