Are they still your kids or your mates ?. Im out with my lad having a few pints playing pool generally having a laff. Hes no longer my son he has my back an I his hes my best mate. Is this normal or is everyone like this with there grown up kids |
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I'm the same with both my son & daughter. You're still their parent but they are also adults. Glad to hear you have such a great relationship with your son. Xx |
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I remember my daughter falling out with 1 of her friends when she was13. They were discussing best friends, my daughter told her " my mum will always be my bestest friend". Her friend felt a bit put out. They are still friends & although I'm her mum & she has just become a mum, nothing has changed. I'm still her best friend. Even to the point when she had her baby & asked me to be with them she introduced me to the midwife as" this is Lynne, my mum & best friend" xx |
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"My kids will always be my kids, even though they are grown up and we are close, I'll never see them as a mate they are my babies  "
How old are your kids ? My lad stopped being a baby when he could put me on my arse lmao |
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"My kids will always be my kids, even though they are grown up and we are close, I'll never see them as a mate they are my babies
How old are your kids ? My lad stopped being a baby when he could put me on my arse lmao"
My mum still calls me and my sister her babies and we are 34 & 29! |
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"I remember my daughter falling out with 1 of her friends when she was13. They were discussing best friends, my daughter told her " my mum will always be my bestest friend". Her friend felt a bit put out. They are still friends & although I'm her mum & she has just become a mum, nothing has changed. I'm still her best friend. Even to the point when she had her baby & asked me to be with them she introduced me to the midwife as" this is Lynne, my mum & best friend" xx"
Awwww ya big softie.... im a gramps to but sadly because of my lads ex gf im only just starting to see him hes almost 3 now. Makes my blood boil wjen I think what iv missed an for nothing |
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"My kids will always be my kids, even though they are grown up and we are close, I'll never see them as a mate they are my babies
How old are your kids ? My lad stopped being a baby when he could put me on my arse lmao
My mum still calls me and my sister her babies and we are 34 & 29! "
I think that's a mum thing. As a man I didn't give birth to my son, so perhaps that's why I dont see him that way even now  |
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Both our boys are like mates to me, but I still have to put them right at times. They both still live at home, although they have both left to live with their girlfriends on two occasions. They're 25 and 28   |
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"im not best mates with my kids,im still their Mum and I like it that way,i have a best mate and she knows everything about me,i don't want my kids to know everything"
I don't think there's anything my lad doesn't no about me. When me an his mum split 13/14 yrs ago she made a point of telling him all the bad things I used to do when I was young as my past is of a colourful side but it is however past but rather than turn him against me it made me a hero in his eyes an although im far from proud of my youth I decided he would at least no the fact. so I leveled with him an it just carried on from there. Now hes the same with me theres nothing we need hide an I love it like this |
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