Introduce her to the forums and we can all chat with her, if it is a bit tough for you. Otherwise, chat with some of the blokes in your area, build friendships and get ready for it, if she shows interest when they pop round. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"It was me (M) who brought up the subject for us. Initially a few years ago and it was a complete no. Although more recently she came round to the idea."
If she's come round to the idea then why do you need to do anything to get her to swing? That suggests you've had the conversation and she's expressed an interest in trying it.
Job done. Unless you've nagged her about it since she said no and she's finally said maybe to shut you up. If she's said maybe and then not mentioned it again, respect her wishes and drop it; she doesn't want to. |
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"It was me (M) who brought up the subject for us. Initially a few years ago and it was a complete no. Although more recently she came round to the idea.
If she's come round to the idea then why do you need to do anything to get her to swing? That suggests you've had the conversation and she's expressed an interest in trying it.
Job done. Unless you've nagged her about it since she said no and she's finally said maybe to shut you up. If she's said maybe and then not mentioned it again, respect her wishes and drop it; she doesn't want to."
he's not the OP though, I think he was just saying how his partner originally didn't want to but came round to the idea, "if at first you don't succeed" type thing. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"It was me (M) who brought up the subject for us. Initially a few years ago and it was a complete no. Although more recently she came round to the idea.
If she's come round to the idea then why do you need to do anything to get her to swing? That suggests you've had the conversation and she's expressed an interest in trying it.
Job done. Unless you've nagged her about it since she said no and she's finally said maybe to shut you up. If she's said maybe and then not mentioned it again, respect her wishes and drop it; she doesn't want to. he's not the OP though, I think he was just saying how his partner originally didn't want to but came round to the idea, "if at first you don't succeed" type thing."
Good point, well presented. I am half asleep and thought it was the OP posting. I should go to bed... |
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Swinging isnt for everyone, nor for us all 100% of the time. If you can introduce her to some swinging friends it could well influence her, if she is potentially interested. But overall, it is important to totally respect her wishes and not harm your relationship by pushing her into something that does not fit her needs. |
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