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So as you all know it's the big party this time next week... So now the nerves are setting in!! Meeting new people, looking ok, not making a twat of myself, having a good time with my date for the night (although we have met before so not quite as terrified about this as I would be)
BUT.. I think the nerves is part of the fun. And if the last big social is anything to go by after about 5 minutes I'll be having a whale of a time!!
So do you still get nervous?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We'll be nervous as it's our first big social gig. Always a tad shy in a new crowd even though we've exchanged plenty of banter/flirts with quite a few of the attendees. Hugely looking forward to seeing everyone.
The only downer is money's a bit tight so I can get my dinner suit look rocking  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I probably won't get nervous until the day. I have two meets to get through before Saturday anyway 
I won't disclose when my last meet was! Let's just say we arranged it by telegram  "
Awww. Better than smoke signals though! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I'm not nervous about the social, as I rub along ok wherever I am, mostly due to being a happily oblivious nincompoop. I am a bit nervous about doing a comedy routine in front of 200 people, though, but I'm sure I'll be fine once I start.  |
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"I'm not nervous about the social, as I rub along ok wherever I am, mostly due to being a happily oblivious nincompoop. I am a bit nervous about doing a comedy routine in front of 200 people, though, but I'm sure I'll be fine once I start. "
I'm well excited about this!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't generally get nerves before meets but have put my name down for social and admit to being nervous about attending, not done one before but as with all things there has to be a first time and nothing ventured ......... |
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over a year ago
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Nerves are part of the fun gets the adrenalin pumping around the body.
What I need to curb is my tendency to talk to much when I meet people for the 1st time! |
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"I'm not nervous about the social, as I rub along ok wherever I am, mostly due to being a happily oblivious nincompoop. I am a bit nervous about doing a comedy routine in front of 200 people, though, but I'm sure I'll be fine once I start. "
You'll smash it for sure.
From our messages I think your life is one long comedy routine, better than any TV show xx |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Nerves are part of the fun gets the adrenalin pumping around the body.
What I need to curb is my tendency to talk to much when I meet people for the 1st time!"
I've heard that said before 
A spare pair of knickers usually comes in handy for those situations. |
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"I'm not nervous about the social, as I rub along ok wherever I am, mostly due to being a happily oblivious nincompoop. I am a bit nervous about doing a comedy routine in front of 200 people, though, but I'm sure I'll be fine once I start. "
awww gutted I can't make it now, really wanted to see you doing your routine.
as for nerves I feel like throwing up backstage but once I'm performing I'm okay...it's the waiting I don't like.
You'll be fab x |
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I always joke at socials that I'm wary of people taking issue with me about forum posts... As ever, the list has must meets, hopefully meet, general indifference and a few avoid at all costs!
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"I'm not nervous about the social, as I rub along ok wherever I am, mostly due to being a happily oblivious nincompoop. I am a bit nervous about doing a comedy routine in front of 200 people, though, but I'm sure I'll be fine once I start.
awww gutted I can't make it now, really wanted to see you doing your routine.
as for nerves I feel like throwing up backstage but once I'm performing I'm okay...it's the waiting I don't like.
You'll be fab x"
I have a few backstage rituals that I always carry out before a gig, the main one being annoying the crap out of the sound guy with an overly loud amp and specific things coming through my monitor. If he looks seriously pissed I know everything is gonna go fine!  |
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I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates |
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"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
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eBay pops. Mine was a fiver and arrived within a week x |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates "
You can always sit with me and Wyrd...another one for the coven is always welcome |
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"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates "
You're the only one going I've met before! I'll have a drink with you! Be good to catch up! |
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"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates
You're the only one going I've met before! I'll have a drink with you! Be good to catch up! "
Cool |
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"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
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You need a mask pops! Have a look in the works if you have one close to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need a mask pops!
That's a bit harsh! 
...may just have to follow Lucy around and get her to grope my beard.
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You can follow me around as much as you want pops!! You may fit under my dress |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I'm nervous because I have difficulty with faces and won't recognise anyone.
I'm also stressed about what to wear, money being short and having to pack, (I hate packing for anything, even just an overnight stay. It usually leads to a near breakdown).
Otherwise I'm fine. People can take me or leave me and if I'm not having a good time I can leave, so I'm not worried about it.
I'm looking forward to meeting a few people for the first time and to seeing some people again. |
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"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
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Get creative pops and make one - cornflakes box, scissors, glue, glitter, felt tips and a bit of elastic and you're sorted - and unique!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need a mask pops!
That's a bit harsh!
...may just have to follow Lucy around and get her to grope my beard.
You can follow me around as much as you want pops!! You may fit under my dress "
Oh my.
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"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
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I've just ordered one on eBay, 3 quid, will be here Thursday at the latest!  |
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You need a mask pops!
That's a bit harsh!
...may just have to follow Lucy around and get her to grope my beard.
You can follow me around as much as you want pops!! You may fit under my dress "
I know I won't fit.... but can I try!  |
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"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23 "
My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)
Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
Just make your own. I have. "
Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates
You can always sit with me and Wyrd...another one for the coven is always welcome"
Yep. Come and cackle with us. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
Just make your own. I have.
Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!"
But they told me it gets you fizzing at the bung hole  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
Just make your own. I have.
Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!
But they told me it gets you fizzing at the bung hole "
Are you sure that's something you want to happen though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm nervous because I have difficulty with faces and won't recognise anyone.
I'm also stressed about what to wear, money being short and having to pack, (I hate packing for anything, even just an overnight stay. It usually leads to a near breakdown).
Otherwise I'm fine. People can take me or leave me and if I'm not having a good time I can leave, so I'm not worried about it.
I'm looking forward to meeting a few people for the first time and to seeing some people again."
Make a list of what you want to pack, takes the stress out of it as you can tick off things as they go in your bag. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
Just make your own. I have.
Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!
But they told me it gets you fizzing at the bung hole
Are you sure that's something you want to happen though?"
Will it burn holes in my socks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are the guys wearing by the way? I've kind of put on a lot of weight lately.
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Luke is wearing a tux! And I think lots of the men are coming booted and suited |
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"What are the guys wearing by the way? I've kind of put on a lot of weight lately.
Luke is wearing a tux! And I think lots of the men are coming booted and suited "
Yes, I'll be dressed up. Well my own take on it. It's not a kilt and DM's night! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.
I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.
Just make your own. I have.
Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!
But they told me it gets you fizzing at the bung hole
Are you sure that's something you want to happen though?
Will it burn holes in my socks?"
Quite possibly |
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There is a fine line, if any, between nerves and excitement - most of it is interpretation. Nervousness can be calmed in may ways, largely I think the best are doing those things that relax you. Yoga, meditation etc are excellent, though you can gain similar benefits from good relaxation and healthy breathing exercises. Plenty of slower, deeper breathing, out count for twice as long as in breaths. Freeing your mind of any negative anxieties, such as imagining negative stuff happening - notice any thoughts arising, smile and stop them in their tracks. Ensure you focus on your strengths and qualities, and not the opposite. Do some exercise too, as you will be focusing on your exercise and not upcoming stuff. Eat well, avoid some caffeine if possible. And lots of rest and good sleep. Hope you have a fabulous time! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Currently I might be wearing a bed sheet and claiming I thought it was a toga party.
I need to dig through my wardrobe this weekend at some point and see if I have anything vaguely suitable I can fit into. |
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"There is a fine line, if any, between nerves and excitement - most of it is interpretation. Nervousness can be calmed in may ways, largely I think the best are doing those things that relax you. Yoga, meditation etc are excellent, though you can gain similar benefits from good relaxation and healthy breathing exercises. Plenty of slower, deeper breathing, out count for twice as long as in breaths. Freeing your mind of any negative anxieties, such as imagining negative stuff happening - notice any thoughts arising, smile and stop them in their tracks. Ensure you focus on your strengths and qualities, and not the opposite. Do some exercise too, as you will be focusing on your exercise and not upcoming stuff. Eat well, avoid some caffeine if possible. And lots of rest and good sleep. Hope you have a fabulous time! "
Avoiding Caffeine is impossible in my house. It's what keeps me alive x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.
It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!) |
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"I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!)"
I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.
It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken."
You'll remember me. I'll give you a clue by pulling your knickers out of your bum |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.
It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken.
You'll remember me. I'll give you a clue by pulling your knickers out of your bum "
What will you do if I'm not wearing any? |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.
It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken.
You'll remember me. I'll give you a clue by pulling your knickers out of your bum
What will you do if I'm not wearing any? "
Get a smelly finger I guess  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.
It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken.
You'll remember me. I'll give you a clue by pulling your knickers out of your bum
What will you do if I'm not wearing any?
Get a smelly finger I guess "
Put the burger down first, eh? I don't want to be explaining that one in A&E! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!)
I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night "
Wearing glasses under masks is impossible, and wearing glasses over masks just looks silly. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!)
I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night
Wearing glasses under masks is impossible, and wearing glasses over masks just looks silly."
Borrow Ryan's cardboard, scissors and stuff and fashion one around your glasses. Make the glasses an integral part. |
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"I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!)
I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night
Wearing glasses under masks is impossible, and wearing glasses over masks just looks silly."
I guess I'm going to be looking silly |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!)
I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night
Wearing glasses under masks is impossible, and wearing glasses over masks just looks silly.
Borrow Ryan's cardboard, scissors and stuff and fashion one around your glasses. Make the glasses an integral part."
Now that's a thought |
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"I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!)"
That's why I got a mask on a stick instead of a mask on elastic x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23
My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)
Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit "
I'm not saying a word about what I have spent |
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"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23
My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)
Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit
I'm not saying a word about what I have spent "
Oh blimey don't start adding up what you've spent...!!!
Just think of it as an investment ~ dress, heels & lingerie all can worn again on another night out ( with a different set of friends obvs! ) |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23
My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)
Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit
I'm not saying a word about what I have spent
Oh blimey don't start adding up what you've spent...!!!
Just think of it as an investment ~ dress, heels & lingerie all can worn again on another night out ( with a different set of friends obvs! ) "
Exactly, and spent over a few months not that noticeable |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates "
Your best mate partner in crime is attending isn't she? As long as bags are not left behind and we keep poking you with a sharp stick all should be well.
I get nervous, but usually about finding the place and then settling into my look for the occasion. Once I am happy with me then the nerves disappear.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.
It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken."
You don't have to recognise anyone - we are wearing masks.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23
My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)
Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit
I'm not saying a word about what I have spent
Oh blimey don't start adding up what you've spent...!!!
Just think of it as an investment ~ dress, heels & lingerie all can worn again on another night out ( with a different set of friends obvs! )
Exactly, and spent over a few months not that noticeable "
The last minute skirt I have just bought was only a fiver. There are sale bargains out there right now.
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"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates
Your best mate partner in crime is attending isn't she? As long as bags are not left behind and we keep poking you with a sharp stick all should be well.
I get nervous, but usually about finding the place and then settling into my look for the occasion. Once I am happy with me then the nerves disappear.
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I'm not sure if she is |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates
Your best mate partner in crime is attending isn't she? As long as bags are not left behind and we keep poking you with a sharp stick all should be well.
I get nervous, but usually about finding the place and then settling into my look for the occasion. Once I am happy with me then the nerves disappear.
I'm not sure if she is "
She's still on the list.
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates
Your best mate partner in crime is attending isn't she? As long as bags are not left behind and we keep poking you with a sharp stick all should be well.
I get nervous, but usually about finding the place and then settling into my look for the occasion. Once I am happy with me then the nerves disappear.
I'm not sure if she is "
Maybe. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't get nervous, in fact I'm almost freakishly confident!
So if there are any nervous nellies out there come to me and I'll hold your hand
(please note: offer only applies to fit, boy totty and reciprocity is expected )"
Can I be an exception to the rule and get a hand hold? Pooping my pants! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I be an exception to the rule and get a hand hold? Pooping my pants! lol
You can hold my hand if you recognise me with my mask on "
I'm sure you'll catch my eye somehow... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get nervous, in fact I'm almost freakishly confident!
So if there are any nervous nellies out there come to me and I'll hold your hand
(please note: offer only applies to fit, boy totty and reciprocity is expected )"
Oh crap! Grrr
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so now my problem isn't nerves it's my devil child who has decided sleep is for the week.
So if anyone was planning on bringing me a birthday present a can of red bull would be great "
You can nap on the journey up there |
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I went to my first social this year, and was absolutely bricking it. Although I knew a few from the chat rooms it was very daunting. but the time it was nearly over I had settled down and started to enjoy it. More socials planned for this year!! |
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Don't you hate it when on the Saturday it's all 'this time next week ' then 24 hours later it's 'this time next week ' tiredness, prob slightly hungover and on my way home to a 3 year old who won't understand either!! Lol x |
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over a year ago
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"I can't decide on shoes now.
You're worse than a woman
Black suede? Tan? Or dark brown?
Giz a helping hand.
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I like dark brown shoes but it does depend on what you are wearing... |
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"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?
Not sure on the clubs dress code re:jeans.. Let me check the website x "
It says 'we expect gents to be a smart as possible, trousers, shirt and a tie' so even if you don't wanna wear the full monty i would say no jeans x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok? "
You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.
Talking of garters... |
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"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?
You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.
Talking of garters..."
Lucy has a lovely new flogger that needs testing out!! |
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"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?
You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.
Talking of garters..."
I promise no jeans |
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"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?
You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.
Talking of garters...
I promise no jeans "
Opt for your Calvin's, a dickie and a mask. You'll fit right in. |
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"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?
You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.
Talking of garters...
I promise no jeans
Opt for your Calvin's, a dickie and a mask. You'll fit right in. "
Oh I'll have my Calvins on. You can have a peek if you can find me |
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"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?
You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.
Talking of garters...
I promise no jeans
Opt for your Calvin's, a dickie and a mask. You'll fit right in.
Oh I'll have my Calvins on. You can have a peek if you can find me"
I'll find you |
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over a year ago
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"I hope so.
I may need a name badge
There isn't name badges, you will be given a few name cards to give out "
Oh that's great idea. I will certainly keep an eye out for you though |
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"Yes I am am just meet one time and my english is not very good is soo hard for me
The nerves will go and you'll enjoy yourselves.
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You're not on the list for the social you know that don't you? You never got back to me after you asked where the club was. |
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Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then. |
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"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then. "
Wear what you like to that one |
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"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then. "
And it's 2.30-6 xx |
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"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.
Wear what you like to that one "
Thank fook for that |
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"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.
And it's 2.30-6 xx "
Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol |
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"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.
And it's 2.30-6 xx
Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol "
He's the chauffeur then? Good man! |
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"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.
And it's 2.30-6 xx
Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol
He's the chauffeur then? Good man! "
I know lol driving Miss daisy and I'm bringing all my black and silver jewellery xx |
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"I hope so.
I may need a name badge
There isn't name badges, you will be given a few name cards to give out
Oh that's great idea. I will certainly keep an eye out for you though "
You won't be able to miss me |
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"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.
And it's 2.30-6 xx
Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol
He's the chauffeur then? Good man!
I know lol driving Miss daisy and I'm bringing all my black and silver jewellery xx "
Bring a cooler bag with your jewellery Miss Daisy, need to keep the beers on ice.  |
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"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?
I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.
And it's 2.30-6 xx
Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol
He's the chauffeur then? Good man!
I know lol driving Miss daisy and I'm bringing all my black and silver jewellery xx
Bring a cooler bag with your jewellery Miss Daisy, need to keep the beers on ice. "
Yes Jeeves I can do that |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Yes I am am just meet one time and my english is not very good is soo hard for me
The nerves will go and you'll enjoy yourselves.
You're not on the list for the social you know that don't you? You never got back to me after you asked where the club was. "
I'm not on the list for the pre-social social either. I didn't know what to do because I don't know what time I'll be able to get there. I dithered and then forgot. Oops. |
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