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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you have a hot list ? How long have those people been on it without you doing anything about contact ? If so why have one ?
Or maybe pluck up the courage and declare who they are in public. ..you never know. |
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" Do you have a hot list ? How long have those people been on it without you doing anything about contact ? If so why have one ?
Or maybe pluck up the courage and declare who they are in public. ..you never know. "
I've got loads on mine!! Some I'm saving for a rainy day, some I've got my beady eye on, some are on the back burner!! But it's useful to have them all in one place and see their updates if I want, whereas friends updates are 'in your face' whether you like it or not (on a desktop).
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I had a few in Bristol when I was travelling there regularly but now I'm not, so will never meet them. As for the rest, the OP is right. I need to start making an effort to message the hotties that catch my eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many of the women on my hotlist haven't been online for weeks or longer, but as long as they haven't got single males blocked I always make some sort of attempt to message them - even after years of swinging, I still get nervous when messaging the ones I REALLY like (not that there's a huge number of them, but still). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few on mine some I have chatted with and will move over to friends list and others I would like to chat with but haven't had the chance yet.
But as Frisky said its good to have them in one place to see whats going on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use my hotlist quite a bit because I might see a profile I like, but know I can't meet for a few weeks so I kind of keep them on the reserves list till messaging would be of benefit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought the hotlist was just for a page of eye candy"
It can be anything you want. I looked at mine and simply thought why keep a list of people I thought were sexually attractive with no intention to act. Maybe you're right it's just a place to store eye candy.
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Often life's too busy to get meets arranged, stuff happens, so I have added the occasional users to my hot list. It's not a top priority to be arranged meets list, just others who've caught my attention at slightly the wrong time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use hot list for potential meets and for some people who I find interesting even if I don't want to hook up with. Just find their enrollment in lifestyle interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use hot list for potential meets and for some people who I find interesting even if I don't want to hook up with. Just find their enrollment in lifestyle interesting."
Dan spell check... involvement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have quite a few on mine ~ it's my perving list mainly, contains men but also woman & couples I find interesting....
blimey I sound like a right ole stalker lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have quite a few on mine ~ it's my perving list mainly, contains men but also woman & couples I find interesting....
blimey I sound like a right ole stalker lol "
Join the club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hot list hmmm
Consists of those I/we find yummy, but mainly, have yet to send a message. Some have moved across to friends... After the initial
Messages...
It's kind of a to do list! Or a hope to do list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have quite a few on mine ~ it's my perving list mainly, contains men but also woman & couples I find interesting....
blimey I sound like a right ole stalker lol "
^^^ Stalker
Be warned
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I've never used it.
Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though "
If you could just find out how many hotlists you're on without knowing who it could either be a nice ego boost or completely deflating. The mystery is quite nice considering the alternative.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe for the benefit of those poor and despondent individuals feeling like they will have no luck,the site could have a box denoting the fact that you've been hot listed.
Assuming you will of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hot list hmmm
Consists of those I/we find yummy, but mainly, have yet to send a message. Some have moved across to friends... After the initial
Messages...
It's kind of a to do list! Or a hope to do list. "
That's very efficient |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never used it.
Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though
If you could just find out how many hotlists you're on without knowing who it could either be a nice ego boost or completely deflating. The mystery is quite nice considering the alternative. "
Yeah it wow be good to see that actually. Who doesn't like an ego boost |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I've never used it.
Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though
If you could just find out how many hotlists you're on without knowing who it could either be a nice ego boost or completely deflating. The mystery is quite nice considering the alternative.
Yeah it wow be good to see that actually. Who doesn't like an ego boost "
But what if you're not on anyone's? Or you are and the number drops - you'd start thinking "well, what did I do there then to no longer be hot?" More trouble than it's worth I reckon! |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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" Do you have a hot list ? How long have those people been on it without you doing anything about contact ? If so why have one ?
Or maybe pluck up the courage and declare who they are in public. ..you never know. "
why yes, of course. There are some gorgeous men and stunning ladies on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never used it.
Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though
If you could just find out how many hotlists you're on without knowing who it could either be a nice ego boost or completely deflating. The mystery is quite nice considering the alternative.
Yeah it wow be good to see that actually. Who doesn't like an ego boost
But what if you're not on anyone's? Or you are and the number drops - you'd start thinking "well, what did I do there then to no longer be hot?" More trouble than it's worth I reckon!"
or maybe you'll review your methods and profile and come out fighting |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
As I m not quiet Old enough yet to perve openly, there are some on my list who I enjoy looking at their pictures thank goodness for  mode or I might have restraining orders,, others are those I m interested in and will be messaging soon |
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"As I m not quiet Old enough yet to perve openly, there are some on my list who I enjoy looking at their pictures thank goodness for mode or I might have restraining orders,, others are those I m interested in and will be messaging soon "
Not old enough? Are you under 18, naughty one? I'll tell your mum....
If you look at pictures, doesn't it show up on the "looked at me" bit of the admired ones account, so they can tell you've lusted after them so ardently.?
Sorry for all the Qs, but we are newish and still learning. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"As I m not quiet Old enough yet to perve openly, there are some on my list who I enjoy looking at their pictures thank goodness for mode or I might have restraining orders,, others are those I m interested in and will be messaging soon
Not old enough? Are you under 18, naughty one? I'll tell your mum....
If you look at pictures, doesn't it show up on the "looked at me" bit of the admired ones account, so they can tell you've lusted after them so ardently.?
Sorry for all the Qs, but we are newish and still learning."
Oh, you can stealth perv by turning off the looked at me option in your privacy settings. People only ever know I've looked at them if I want them to... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there should be an option to choose to be informed if you've been added to someone's hotlist.
That way, if you want to know you can.
But the person who adds you won't know you know..
I think I'd like a feature like that. |
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"As I m not quiet Old enough yet to perve openly, there are some on my list who I enjoy looking at their pictures thank goodness for mode or I might have restraining orders,, others are those I m interested in and will be messaging soon
Not old enough? Are you under 18, naughty one? I'll tell your mum....
If you look at pictures, doesn't it show up on the "looked at me" bit of the admired ones account, so they can tell you've lusted after them so ardently.?
Sorry for all the Qs, but we are newish and still learning.
Oh, you can stealth perv by turning off the looked at me option in your privacy settings. People only ever know I've looked at them if I want them to..."
Ahh, thanks. Funnily enough, I just looked at your profile because of your other thread. Very nice. The Mr likes your photos. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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" Do you have a hot list ? How long have those people been on it without you doing anything about contact ? If so why have one ?
Or maybe pluck up the courage and declare who they are in public. ..you never know. "
We use the hotlist for a few reasons....
Those that interest us but we haven't contacted yet.....or we have chatted too but not enough to make our friends list.
Those that live miles away but we like perving their pics. 
Those who are always throwing strops as their rants and updates make us chuckle.
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Same for me