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Has 'Escorting' become acceptable?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just had a chance meeting and coffee with an ex work collegue . I had worked with her about 10 years ago when she was early twenties...
On speaking to her she mentioned she lived in an expensive are where she owned her own home...very nice car...ect....so I asked if she was married ( she wasnt-divorced)....she wasnt at all embarrassed to say that since leaving my company she had worked as an escort.......
In the early day 2-3 clients a day from a friends house that was also an escort....sometimes visiting clients...
These days it was only 2-3 times a week...
do we think that in this day and age 'escorting' is becoming an acceptable method of making a living........? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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£5.3 billion is the estimate of this sector of the black market. So I guess it's not unpopular!! Also worth noting the value is higher than the black market for drugs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"£5.3 billion is the estimate of this sector of the black market. So I guess it's not unpopular!! Also worth noting the value is higher than the black market for drugs. "
In 'street walker' terms they are, sadly, often intrinsically linked |
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I would definitely work as an escort if the demand was there. Incidentally, I think I would prefer to work as a 'non sexual' escort which surprises me but somehow if I was being paid for sex it would take the fun out of it for me I think.
Then again, it's back to the day job as there isn't a hareem of ladies awaiting my attention so the demand isn't there ha ha.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"£5.3 billion is the estimate of this sector of the black market. So I guess it's not unpopular!! Also worth noting the value is higher than the black market for drugs. "
And there's us,giving it away for free  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think they r a great idea if the single guy's on this site put there hand in there pocket instead of spending all there time moaning about not getting any meets they want everything for nothing and that's not how it works if u take a girl out on a date u pay if you marry her u pay but most guy's on this site don't even want to pay half for a hotel but want everything in the bedroom if you pay for it you get it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"£5.3 billion is the estimate of this sector of the black market. So I guess it's not unpopular!! Also worth noting the value is higher than the black market for drugs.
And there's us,giving it away for free "
Lol made me laugh.
It was in the news recently that the government are planning to up our GDP by some 10billion pounds to account for prostitution and drugs, despite this all being black market. Apparently other countries include these figures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When wasn't it acceptable? it's borderline legal depending on how the transaction is managed. But I doubt she tells her parents / parish priest etc. exactly what is involved in her method of earning a living. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When wasn't it acceptable? it's borderline legal depending on how the transaction is managed. But I doubt she tells her parents / parish priest etc. exactly what is involved in her method of earning a living."
Or HMRC ?  George is a missing out ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When wasn't it acceptable? it's borderline legal depending on how the transaction is managed. But I doubt she tells her parents / parish priest etc. exactly what is involved in her method of earning a living.
Or HMRC ? George is a missing out !"
HMRC will take their cut as long as it's listed as "life style coach" or simular |
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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire |
We all love sex and we have been to parties where we get more verifications in a night. And we are giving it away for free...
I think it would be hypocritical to have a dim view of her...
I get the feeling that you are asking because you like the lady and think that she might make a good swinging partner as she does not have hang ups..
To be honest as you are in to swinging she might make a perfect partner. But you have to square it away in your own head first.
With friends and family you don't have to disclose that fact. But then again I guess you will also be keeping the fact your a swing quiet as well.
If you think that she would be a good partner for you then go for it...
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
Me & John have both done this, the status quo seem to have accepted it now & rightly so.
Secret Diaries of a call girl boosted escorting by 25% when the series aired so there are more people than you would imagine doing this.
Its a myth that escorts don't pay tax as the people we know do & some even have liability insurance, the women we know lead a middle classed life & are a million miles from the street walkers who they get categorized with.
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"I think they r a great idea if the single guy's on this site put there hand in there pocket instead of spending all there time moaning about not getting any meets they want everything for nothing and that's not how it works if u take a girl out on a date u pay if you marry her u pay but most guy's on this site don't even want to pay half for a hotel but want everything in the bedroom if you pay for it you get it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's acceptable but imagine all those disgusting smelly men they have to sleep with. I couldn't do it. Not to mention the psycho freaks out there too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they r a great idea if the single guy's on this site put there hand in there pocket instead of spending all there time moaning about not getting any meets they want everything for nothing and that's not how it works if u take a girl out on a date u pay if you marry her u pay but most guy's on this site don't even want to pay half for a hotel but want everything in the bedroom if you pay for it you get it "
Say what ?
Its a swinging site, Which i am meant to believe is for people to meet and have mutual interests and pleasure.
If you are lucky enough to hook up with a single Female do you expect her to buy you dinner and drinks.
My oh My 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When wasn't it acceptable? it's borderline legal depending on how the transaction is managed. But I doubt she tells her parents / parish priest etc. exactly what is involved in her method of earning a living.
Or HMRC ? George is a missing out !"
Yes but then the government could break the law by living off immoral earnings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's acceptable but imagine all those disgusting smelly men they have to sleep with. I couldn't do it. Not to mention the psycho freaks out there too. "
I'm amused that you think people who pay for sex would be unattractive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not something that would impress me if any of my daughters said that was their lifestyle choice!"
No me neither as i would want better for my daughter if i had one.
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"When wasn't it acceptable? it's borderline legal depending on how the transaction is managed. But I doubt she tells her parents / parish priest etc. exactly what is involved in her method of earning a living.
Or HMRC ? George is a missing out !Yes but then the government could break the law by living off immoral earnings."
The law needs to be changed, its about time it was made fully legal in this country now. More people would pay tax and the treasury would make huge gains from it. Plus the working girls could be much better protected by law if it was fully legal. Making it illegal is not going to stop it...it has always happened and will always continue to happen in the future. |
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Some of the most honest people i have meet were working girls(and no that wasnt on a professional level) I have no problem with the girl taht is running her own destiny,she works ,she makes the money.i do have a problem with the girls that have no say and are doing this to line others pockets.Two different things situations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 18/06/14 20:14:10]"
If a %age of guys wanting sex with an escort that are well off enough to pay are smelly and dirty, what is your impression of men on a swinging site expecting free sex. What percentage of them are dirty, unattractive and smelly?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not acceptable no. However it's dressed up very few would have respect for anybody that admitted to such.
I think there are a minority of women that have full control of their circumstances and are worthy of some respect, but I don't think that's the case for the majority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day sex sells and while other businesses are closing escorts, webcam and other sex industries are thriving apart from the porn industry as no one is buying videos and mags but getting their kicks online. And with the likes of the internet and agencies online escorting is a lot safer than working on the streets. So provided the girls are doing it for themselves rather than a pimp or to fuel a drug habit then I say go girls some use it as a business, others use it as a way to put themselves through college etc x |
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I think it's significantly more acceptable than it has been in my life time. I'm certainly cool with anyone doing with their bodies exactly what they choose to. My concern would be for someone's safety, but overall I think that this is safer than walking the streets etc. We need a law change, allowing more than one female to work from the same premises legally - it's disgusting that it's the way that it is. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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We used to have this argument with fellow porn stars that porn is no different to escorting, both are paid money for sex & the only difference is one activity is filmed & the other isn't.
Porn escorting swinging are all shunned by mainstream for being perverted or weird but it is slowly becoming more acceptable as time goes on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We used to have this argument with fellow porn stars that porn is no different to escorting, both are paid money for sex & the only difference is one activity is filmed & the other isn't.
Porn escorting swinging are all shunned by mainstream for being perverted or weird but it is slowly becoming more acceptable as time goes on.
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You have a point there its less of a shock issue with people but as the control religion has over the population has dropped sexual deviancy has become more accepted. Saying that there will always be individuals and groups who will hate and dislike people who are not as pious as they are which is a little depressing really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see nothing wrong with escorts, they look after themselves and check regularly. As posted earlier, some only need to be with clients 2/3 times a week, Unlike the street walkers. I have a friend who is an ex street walker who has cleaned up her life and now waiting to marry her bloke. Now no one gets to play with her except him. |
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By *iglimoMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I think escorting is an acceptable vocation. as long as it's kept safe and the escort is regularly checked, if they provide other services, then I can't see the issue with it. I would do it myself if I knew how to go about it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they r a great idea if the single guy's on this site put there hand in there pocket instead of spending all there time moaning about not getting any meets they want everything for nothing and that's not how it works if u take a girl out on a date u pay if you marry her u pay but most guy's on this site don't even want to pay half for a hotel but want everything in the bedroom if you pay for it you get it "
Inarticulate and irrelevant drivel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Escorts aint street working people and when it comes to sex well that is up to then your paying to be escorted / there company not all escorts have sex infact many dont |
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"Escorts aint street working people and when it comes to sex well that is up to then your paying to be escorted / there company not all escorts have sex infact many dont"
"Many don't"? Sorry that is BS. Maybe a few don't but they are a definite minority.
ASnd for the person that said it should be made legal
Newsflash:
It IS legal lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So who's going to ask the burning question?? 
Who's hired an escort?
We have!! 1 hour later she called her office to 'check in' and fairplay they wanted to see her as she wanted to 'clock off' and she stayed all night!!
Happy days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me & John have both done this, the status quo seem to have accepted it now & rightly so.
Secret Diaries of a call girl boosted escorting by 25% when the series aired so there are more people than you would imagine doing this.
Its a myth that escorts don't pay tax as the people we know do & some even have liability insurance, the women we know lead a middle classed life & are a million miles from the street walkers who they get categorized with.
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Liability insurance...???!!!???
In case someone chokes on a pubic hair, or falls out of bed and breaks something...???!!!???
WTF...!!! You really couldn't make this up...lmao |
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public liability insurance is not about ..chocking on a pubic hair . we have a hair dressing salon and we have a few million public liability on it ....hang on ..i aint vival sassoon but this is the perameters you work in with comercial property |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"public liability insurance is not about ..chocking on a pubic hair . we have a hair dressing salon and we have a few million public liability on it ....hang on ..i aint vival sassoon but this is the perameters you work in with comercial property"
An escort working in a commercial property...would that be a termed a brothel...? Try applying for public liability insurance for a brothel and see how far you get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I said 7 weeks ago, when wasn't it acceptable? strange how it's perfectly acceptable to employ someone to kill others, but people question if it's acceptable to have sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be more acceptable if it was made legal and laws passed to control the industry.
At the moment to many young girls get into escorting not as a lifestyle choice but as a need. Either because the system has let them down or because of a drug / drink habit. Or more disturbing because of a controlling partner.
I use to work in a child protection unit on the south coast and it heartbreaking each time i had to remove children from their mothers due to this trade. Thankfully many went home once their mothers got the help they needed and longed for. Some however saw escorting as a lifestyle and as easy money and gave up their children so they could continue.
If escorting became legal then precautions could be better put in place to protect others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely we are doing the same thing but for free so who's the stupid ones? Does it make us better just coz we don't charge? Perhaps the fact that men are willing to and have the money to pay would lead to a better class of men. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"public liability insurance is not about ..chocking on a pubic hair . we have a hair dressing salon and we have a few million public liability on it ....hang on ..i aint vival sassoon but this is the perameters you work in with comercial property
An escort working in a commercial property...would that be a termed a brothel...? Try applying for public liability insurance for a brothel and see how far you get."
The ladies we know have their own property/home where by law they can work from & pay tax like the rest of us, most have public liability insurance & have their business put down has "Massage".
Councils, Police now work with the girls rather than against them as long as its only one girl per property. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it that if people are good at something they are allowed to sell their services, Except sex!! Surely if you are a competent adult you should be allowed to do what you want with your body. I had somebody force me to do it and took all the money and I could not report it as it is illegal. If it was legal I'd be able to get the bastard done. I didn't like it nor want to do it but if its your own choice I see no harm
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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"Why is it that if people are good at something they are allowed to sell their services, Except sex!! Surely if you are a competent adult you should be allowed to do what you want with your body. I had somebody force me to do it and took all the money and I could not report it as it is illegal. If it was legal I'd be able to get the bastard done. I didn't like it nor want to do it but if its your own choice I see no harm
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It is legal and someone using a girls services & trying to not pay can be reported to the police, we have worked with local councils & police to break up gangs exploiting girls where the gangs in most cases they keep their passports etc & force them to work.
Councils don't like brothels, agencies etc & advise the girls if they are insistent on escorting to do it independently. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"We don't have a problem with it but we do with the exploitation that just can't seem to be separated from it."
You have a sex workers union set up for escorts where for a small regular fee they fight their corner with authorities that are not up on the law etc, we ourselves have worked with the local GUM clinic trying to get girls to work under better conditions etc so things are changing to make it acceptable.
We wouldn't think twice of shopping someone who was exploiting girls as its pimps, gangs & agencies that make the act of escorting seedy & distasteful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why does the UK not follow the lead of Switzerland? There brothels and escorts are legal, they pay tax and have full status as independent workers (both male and female). Less troubles for authorities and also less problems for the girls and boys. Also we all gain from such a solution as then they would be paying NI and taxes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just had a chance meeting and coffee with an ex work collegue . I had worked with her about 10 years ago when she was early twenties...
On speaking to her she mentioned she lived in an expensive are where she owned her own home...very nice car...ect....so I asked if she was married ( she wasnt-divorced)....she wasnt at all embarrassed to say that since leaving my company she had worked as an escort.......
In the early day 2-3 clients a day from a friends house that was also an escort....sometimes visiting clients...
These days it was only 2-3 times a week...
do we think that in this day and age 'escorting' is becoming an acceptable method of making a living........?"
Yea definitely I think its a cracking job and who ever does it good on them. If I could I would do it. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"Why does the UK not follow the lead of Switzerland? There brothels and escorts are legal, they pay tax and have full status as independent workers (both male and female). Less troubles for authorities and also less problems for the girls and boys. Also we all gain from such a solution as then they would be paying NI and taxes. "
They have been for over 5 years now, the ladies we know pay tax & their NI & have regular health checks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely we are doing the same thing but for free so who's the stupid ones? Does it make us better just coz we don't charge? Perhaps the fact that men are willing to and have the money to pay would lead to a better class of men. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely we are doing the same thing but for free so who's the stupid ones? Does it make us better just coz we don't charge? Perhaps the fact that men are willing to and have the money to pay would lead to a better class of men. "
There are better ways to judge the class of a person than by whether they are prepared to pay for sex. |
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