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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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do you give someone when they cancel a meet? Or maybe it's not a cancel...just a message the next day that would say Sorry I've had a lot on" for example...what do you think? |
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"do you give someone when they cancel a meet? Or maybe it's not a cancel...just a message the next day that would say Sorry I've had a lot on" for example...what do you think?"
Message the next day? Report to admin as a no show and tell them where to get off!!!!
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over a year ago
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Depends on the circumstances but if its the day after, I'd probably move on. Some people have genuine excuses but the cat died one or similar then no second chance! I've had to cancel once for a genuine family issue but rearranged it there and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on why they've cancelled. If they have young family type responsibilities I'm more lenient, Ive had to cancel due to babysitters problems or sick bugs before so Im more understanding of others.
But single men get one chance only, they're ten to the penny on here so not going to waste my time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's a genuine problem as to why they have cancelled then I usually try to rearrange there and then. If I get the impressions excuses are being made about rearrangements, or just get the impression they don't actually want to meet and don't have the balls to say so, then I just cut all ties. I'm not wasting my time. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"do you give someone when they cancel a meet? Or maybe it's not a cancel...just a message the next day that would say Sorry I've had a lot on" for example...what do you think?"
If they didnt cancel and left me waiting and dropped me a message the next day, then I would say block, but things can come up at the last minute,if it happened twice then I would just leave em to it and forget about them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you give someone when they cancel a meet? Or maybe it's not a cancel...just a message the next day that would say Sorry I've had a lot on" for example...what do you think?"
If they don't give you ample warning one if you turn up and they don't and don't inform you then they are best avoided totally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they cancel prior to the meet, then they get another chance. If they were to try and message the next day because they were a no show, they would not be able to message me, as they would have already been blocked. It takes 30 seconds to cancel. I've had last minute emergencies, but I would always inform the guy that I can't make it. It's just common decency. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"If they cancelled prior to the meet, I would treat it individually.
Not turning up without any prior notification, then there would be no second chance. "
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My reasoning as well,  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"do you give someone when they cancel a meet? Or maybe it's not a cancel...just a message the next day that would say Sorry I've had a lot on" for example...what do you think?"
One chance. That's it. My time is as valuable as anyone else's. |
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"do you give someone when they cancel a meet? Or maybe it's not a cancel...just a message the next day that would say Sorry I've had a lot on" for example...what do you think?"
2 chances only except for my fb and she can have about 486. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they're genuinely still interested in meeting there's no harm in giving a second chance after all life does get in the way sometimes. It's those who you chat with for weeks they suggest several different meets and then all of a sudden there profile disappears that get my goat. |
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Genuine meets usually are keen to rearrange a date ...more of a postponement than cancellation...and the timewasters tend towards catastrophic events preventing the meet...some so ridiculous annoyance turns to laughter before the inevitable block |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"do you give someone when they cancel a meet? Or maybe it's not a cancel...just a message the next day that would say Sorry I've had a lot on" for example...what do you think?
If they don't give you ample warning one if you turn up and they don't and don't inform you then they are best avoided totally. "
This happened to me twice. reported and blocked. |
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"I've had to cancel, people have had to cancel on me. There is life outside fab   "
Indeed, but it doesn't usually involve being swept down a swollen river for five miles and ending up in hospital with multiple fractures and concussion that erased his memory of the meet...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you generally know if its a genuine cancellation or someone taking the piss. Like someone else said, the more elaborate and far fetched the excuse, the more you think hmmm, ok then. My favourite was a guy I text the morning of the meet, got no reply, text a couple more times then got "I've got no petrol but can't fill up yet as my wallet is at my mates and I haven't even got enough petrol to get to him so will have to wait until he brings it over and he was well d*unk last night" Really??? Some people must think I was born yesterday!!! |
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"I've had to cancel, people have had to cancel on me. There is life outside fab
Indeed, but it doesn't usually involve being swept down a swollen river for five miles and ending up in hospital with multiple fractures and concussion that erased his memory of the meet...lol"
I did have one once who swore blind he had a benign tumour in his throat that meant when he got a virus he suddenly found himself struggling to breathe and had to be rushed to hospital, leaving his phone behind in the panic! I had met him before, and the story was so ridiculous I figured it might actually be true (not sure he had that much imagination!), and he was begging to meet any night I chose, so I gave him another chance and he came good and treated me to the whole evening! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"do you give someone when they cancel a meet? Or maybe it's not a cancel...just a message the next day that would say Sorry I've had a lot on" for example...what do you think?
One chance. That's it. My time is as valuable as anyone else's. "
I'm Suprised we havnt met yet you living so close and look as hot as you do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a young daughter myself, I can be relaxed about that, as I fully understand.
But you kind of know by certain excuses I think, I can normally see bollox.
But we have to be realistic that things come up in life at the last minute, and family ect must come first.
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