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Why do guys say they're solvent?
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
They might think it will tip the balance between getting a response and getting ignored.
Maybe they are suggesting that dinner will be on them?
I've never had a message like that on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that?  "
It's because they are twats, but a lot of women are materialistic and like guys with lots of money!  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Have you stated no poor men on your profile?  "
Being a notorious attracter of the unemployed type, maybe I should.
Bank balances that make Bill Gates feel inadequate only please.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the ones claiming that they were / are : pilots or spend their time between here and Dubai. But either way just bragging about their social status.
No interest to me I'm afraid, it's the person and connection that counts.
The guy I have spent most time chatting to and met several times over the years is a factory worker.
In fact I think I'm more likely to hit delete on someone who tries to sell themself off their grand profession  |
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"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that?
It's because they are twats, but a lot of women are materialistic and like guys with lots of money! "
Is it a lot? Pretty much every woman I know seems to have 'not being an arsehole' as their number one trait they look for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that?
It's because they are twats, but a lot of women are materialistic and like guys with lots of money!
Is it a lot? Pretty much every woman I know seems to have 'not being an arsehole' as their number one trait they look for. "
Yeap that's pretty much at the top of my list to. Also not stinking of BO and looking like a tramp is pretty high to. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I once had one from a guy who was very big on sports cars with username, profile pic and clothing all showing a sports car.
I wasn't sure if I was meant to be meeting him or just a sports car. |
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Im guessing that they may not have had much luck and are just adding it to make them appear stable in the hope of being attractive enough overall. Some people still use fab as a bit like a dating site too, where solvent would be likely appropriate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Becuase in the normal dating scene, a guy is a more attractive long yerm partner to a woman (or so they believe) if he has a stable source of income. In the swinging world they actually just need to be reasonably attractive and be able to satisfy a girl. The haven't "got" the idea of swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that? "
They are hoping to attract the gold diggers. They wrongly assume a lot/most women are gold diggers and it will play a big part in whether you decide to meet them or not. They associate wealth with attractiveness and hope you do also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that?
because they believe that money attracts women, and it does attract some."
It certainly does, usually the wrong sort. |
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