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The reason I wanted to try the cuckold experience.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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One of the reasons I got into trying cuckolding was my wife and I went to a pub before we were married early on In our relationship and we had a argument and I walked out the pub, but I remember there being a guy there that I didn't particularly like the look of as he'd been giving my funny looks, anyway I went back to my flat and I'd rang her roughly a two hours after when I'd calmed down, but I could hear music in the background so I clicked in straight away she was still at the pub, but for some reason I said to her I bet your chatting to that dickhead ain't you! But not really believing it more trying to annoy her. Anyway she answered back saying I've known him a while and they've got a mutual friend who they were chatting about, at this point I was livid and I put the phone down! And straight after I text her saying I bet his trying to chat you up but she text back saying no his telling her about there mutual friend so I replied just fuck him if that's what you really want! In a jealous rage. She replied back saying yes I'll fuck him hard. This made my blood boil so I jumped In my car and drove there, I hesitated getting out the car when I got there not knowing what I might see so I peeped through a window and what did I see her sitting so close to him that if she got any closer she'd had been in his lap, and them chatting and her laughing at the top of her voice which made me more angry. I went in and walked to the toilet so I had to walk right past them. She ignored me and carried on laughing, I remember looking at the barmaids face as we were regulars and she clicked into what was going on thinking I was going to kick off, I came out and was about to leave but she ran up behind me and got into my car and we had a massive row, and I dropped her off, but I often wondered what happened when they went outside the pub for a smoke, did they have a quickie? or did she perform a sex act on him? Did they kiss passionately? As well as being jealous it made my heart rush with excitement too, and was such a turn on imagining, hence the reason I asked her to try it. |
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"One of the reasons I got into trying cuckolding was my wife and I went to a pub before we were married early on In our relationship and we had a argument and I walked out the pub, but I remember there being a guy there that I didn't particularly like the look of as he'd been giving my funny looks, anyway I went back to my flat and I'd rang her roughly a two hours after when I'd calmed down, but I could hear music in the background so I clicked in straight away she was still at the pub, but for some reason I said to her I bet your chatting to that dickhead ain't you! But not really believing it more trying to annoy her. Anyway she answered back saying I've known him a while and they've got a mutual friend who they were chatting about, at this point I was livid and I put the phone down! And straight after I text her saying I bet his trying to chat you up but she text back saying no his telling her about there mutual friend so I replied just fuck him if that's what you really want! In a jealous rage. She replied back saying yes I'll fuck him hard. This made my blood boil so I jumped In my car and drove there, I hesitated getting out the car when I got there not knowing what I might see so I peeped through a window and what did I see her sitting so close to him that if she got any closer she'd had been in his lap, and them chatting and her laughing at the top of her voice which made me more angry. I went in and walked to the toilet so I had to walk right past them. She ignored me and carried on laughing, I remember looking at the barmaids face as we were regulars and she clicked into what was going on thinking I was going to kick off, I came out and was about to leave but she ran up behind me and got into my car and we had a massive row, and I dropped her off, but I often wondered what happened when they went outside the pub for a smoke, did they have a quickie? or did she perform a sex act on him? Did they kiss passionately? As well as being jealous it made my heart rush with excitement too, and was such a turn on imagining, hence the reason I asked her to try it."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of the reasons I got into trying cuckolding was my wife and I went to a pub before we were married early on In our relationship and we had a argument and I walked out the pub, but I remember there being a guy there that I didn't particularly like the look of as he'd been giving my funny looks, anyway I went back to my flat and I'd rang her roughly a two hours after when I'd calmed down, but I could hear music in the background so I clicked in straight away she was still at the pub, but for some reason I said to her I bet your chatting to that dickhead ain't you! But not really believing it more trying to annoy her. Anyway she answered back saying I've known him a while and they've got a mutual friend who they were chatting about, at this point I was livid and I put the phone down! And straight after I text her saying I bet his trying to chat you up but she text back saying no his telling her about there mutual friend so I replied just fuck him if that's what you really want! In a jealous rage. She replied back saying yes I'll fuck him hard. This made my blood boil so I jumped In my car and drove there, I hesitated getting out the car when I got there not knowing what I might see so I peeped through a window and what did I see her sitting so close to him that if she got any closer she'd had been in his lap, and them chatting and her laughing at the top of her voice which made me more angry. I went in and walked to the toilet so I had to walk right past them. She ignored me and carried on laughing, I remember looking at the barmaids face as we were regulars and she clicked into what was going on thinking I was going to kick off, I came out and was about to leave but she ran up behind me and got into my car and we had a massive row, and I dropped her off, but I often wondered what happened when they went outside the pub for a smoke, did they have a quickie? or did she perform a sex act on him? Did they kiss passionately? As well as being jealous it made my heart rush with excitement too, and was such a turn on imagining, hence the reason I asked her to try it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of the reasons I got into trying cuckolding was my wife and I went to a pub before we were married early on In our relationship and we had a argument and I walked out the pub, but I remember there being a guy there that I didn't particularly like the look of as he'd been giving my funny looks, anyway I went back to my flat and I'd rang her roughly a two hours after when I'd calmed down, but I could hear music in the background so I clicked in straight away she was still at the pub, but for some reason I said to her I bet your chatting to that dickhead ain't you! But not really believing it more trying to annoy her. Anyway she answered back saying I've known him a while and they've got a mutual friend who they were chatting about, at this point I was livid and I put the phone down! And straight after I text her saying I bet his trying to chat you up but she text back saying no his telling her about there mutual friend so I replied just fuck him if that's what you really want! In a jealous rage. She replied back saying yes I'll fuck him hard. This made my blood boil so I jumped In my car and drove there, I hesitated getting out the car when I got there not knowing what I might see so I peeped through a window and what did I see her sitting so close to him that if she got any closer she'd had been in his lap, and them chatting and her laughing at the top of her voice which made me more angry. I went in and walked to the toilet so I had to walk right past them. She ignored me and carried on laughing, I remember looking at the barmaids face as we were regulars and she clicked into what was going on thinking I was going to kick off, I came out and was about to leave but she ran up behind me and got into my car and we had a massive row, and I dropped her off, but I often wondered what happened when they went outside the pub for a smoke, did they have a quickie? or did she perform a sex act on him? Did they kiss passionately? As well as being jealous it made my heart rush with excitement too, and was such a turn on imagining, hence the reason I asked her to try it."
You sound like my ex husband,seeing something that didn't happen,getting off on imagining it did and making yourself angry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as you don't turn on her when she does it. It's what you want don't forget "
This is my thought too. Make vary sure you can handle it. After reading your story I'm pretty sure nothing happened and it was all in your head. How long ago was that? Are you more secure now in your relationship then at that time? Have you ever thrown it in her face in an argument? If so I say leave it as a fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As long as you don't turn on her when she does it. It's what you want don't forget
This is my thought too. Make vary sure you can handle it. After reading your story I'm pretty sure nothing happened and it was all in your head. How long ago was that? Are you more secure now in your relationship then at that time? Have you ever thrown it in her face in an argument? If so I say leave it as a fantasy. "
Well since then we have got married, any we are a cuckold couple, been together roughly 6years been into this scene 14 month  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why a weak man Ash? Read the the heading and what I wrote, then maybe you'll get it without judging "
This is controversial but most cuckold men are weak , no where is my tin hat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like me saying most guys who wear a tie in there profile pic are weak, pathetic  "
True, are cuckolding and tie wearing linked??the fact you want your partner or wife to humiliate you suggests your weak, the fact I am wearing a tie suggests I am at a wedding. Comprehend ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why a weak man Ash? Read the the heading and what I wrote, then maybe you'll get it without judging
This is controversial but most cuckold men are weak , no where is my tin hat"
cuckold men can actually be strong men, it's just they might perceive themselves to be weak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is the first time I've ever heard of a cuckold guy being weak minded, maybe you could teach me a thing or two lol"
i am into the cuckold fetish myself
it is common for a cuckold man to perceive him self as weak even if others perceive him to be strong.
it's all about the cuckolds perception of himself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tbh mate I stumbled across this, it wasn't something I thought about in the sense of being strong minded or weak minded, it's more of a roleplay for us, and other times I like to be dominant with her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why a weak man Ash? Read the the heading and what I wrote, then maybe you'll get it without judging
This is controversial but most cuckold men are weak , no where is my tin hat"
So every sub man is weak? Most cuckhold men have very high powered and demanding jobs and life the cuckhold is their escape from it why judge them.
I would love to be a lover in a cuckhold quite a horny thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why a weak man Ash? Read the the heading and what I wrote, then maybe you'll get it without judging
This is controversial but most cuckold men are weak , no where is my tin hat
cuckold men can actually be strong men, it's just they might perceive themselves to be weak."
That makes no sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh mate I stumbled across this, it wasn't something I thought about in the sense of being strong minded or weak minded, it's more of a roleplay for us, and other times I like to be dominant with her "
lol, ok i see.
so you just want to act out the fancy say once or twice rather than permanently get into it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why a weak man Ash? Read the the heading and what I wrote, then maybe you'll get it without judging
This is controversial but most cuckold men are weak , no where is my tin hat
So every sub man is weak? Most cuckhold men have very high powered and demanding jobs and life the cuckhold is their escape from it why judge them.
I would love to be a lover in a cuckhold quite a horny thought "
Not every, but most, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh mate I stumbled across this, it wasn't something I thought about in the sense of being strong minded or weak minded, it's more of a roleplay for us, and other times I like to be dominant with her
lol, ok i see.
so you just want to act out the fancy say once or twice rather than permanently get into it?"
Have yiu any 'real life' experience of cuckolding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why a weak man Ash? Read the the heading and what I wrote, then maybe you'll get it without judging
This is controversial but most cuckold men are weak , no where is my tin hat
cuckold men can actually be strong men, it's just they might perceive themselves to be weak.
That makes no sense "
the way someone perceives themselves is not necessarily the way other people in society see them.
example, someone may think they are successful but society may see them as being unsuccessful and vice versa. |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"It's like me saying most guys who wear a tie in there profile pic are weak, pathetic
True, are cuckolding and tie wearing linked??the fact you want your partner or wife to humiliate you suggests your weak, the fact I am wearing a tie suggests I am at a wedding. Comprehend ??"
Although,even for a wedding,
it's a weak tie.
The necessity to explain,
why your wearing a weak tie,
only increases,your underlying insecure weakness.
On the other hand,we should all be allowed our individual kinks.
Ffs It's a swingers site,weak insecure tie wearers included.
Expletives only site denied
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes 100% I couldn't deal with her ordering me around 24/7 lol but the cuckold thing is a big turn on for us  "
yes it is a kinky fetish.
there is no harm in trying out a variety of fetishes as long as you both want to do it.
you should tell each other all the things you are interested in and do them one by one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky"
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like me saying most guys who wear a tie in there profile pic are weak, pathetic
True, are cuckolding and tie wearing linked??the fact you want your partner or wife to humiliate you suggests your weak, the fact I am wearing a tie suggests I am at a wedding. Comprehend ??
Although,even for a wedding,
it's a weak tie.
The necessity to explain,
why your wearing a weak tie,
only increases,your underlying insecure weakness.
On the other hand,we should all be allowed our individual kinks.
Ffs It's a swingers site,weak insecure tie wearers included.
Expletives only site denied
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The tie maybe weak, who said you cannot enjoy your kinks, maybe you should learn to read. In my opinion most cuckold men are weak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?"
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as you don't turn on her when she does it. It's what you want don't forget
This is my thought too. Make vary sure you can handle it. After reading your story I'm pretty sure nothing happened and it was all in your head. How long ago was that? Are you more secure now in your relationship then at that time? Have you ever thrown it in her face in an argument? If so I say leave it as a fantasy.
Well since then we have got married, any we are a cuckold couple, been together roughly 6years been into this scene 14 month "
Oh ok I got the impression this was something you hadn't tried yet. Im glad it works for you. I say if it works and you're happy keep it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's like me saying most guys who wear a tie in there profile pic are weak, pathetic
True, are cuckolding and tie wearing linked??the fact you want your partner or wife to humiliate you suggests your weak, the fact I am wearing a tie suggests I am at a wedding. Comprehend ??
Although,even for a wedding,
it's a weak tie.
The necessity to explain,
why your wearing a weak tie,
only increases,your underlying insecure weakness.
On the other hand,we should all be allowed our individual kinks.
Ffs It's a swingers site,weak insecure tie wearers included.
Expletives only site denied
The tie maybe weak, who said you cannot enjoy your kinks, maybe you should learn to read. In my opinion most cuckold men are weak"
no, commonly they perceive themselves as weak. however, people in society may view them as being strong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like me saying most guys who wear a tie in there profile pic are weak, pathetic
True, are cuckolding and tie wearing linked??the fact you want your partner or wife to humiliate you suggests your weak, the fact I am wearing a tie suggests I am at a wedding. Comprehend ??
Although,even for a wedding,
it's a weak tie.
The necessity to explain,
why your wearing a weak tie,
only increases,your underlying insecure weakness.
On the other hand,we should all be allowed our individual kinks.
Ffs It's a swingers site,weak insecure tie wearers included.
Expletives only site denied
The tie maybe weak, who said you cannot enjoy your kinks, maybe you should learn to read. In my opinion most cuckold men are weak
no, commonly they perceive themselves as weak. however, people in society may view them as being strong."
What is you 'real life' experience of cuckolding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding"
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?"
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced "
are you a cuckold? if not can you comment on it accurately?
what parts of cuckolding do you disagree with me about? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've seen women play in clubs with the partner giving orders in a kind of sub/dom situation is that not cuckolding? Or is cuckolding only when the guys playing the sub role? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen women play in clubs with the partner giving orders in a kind of sub/dom situation is that not cuckolding? Or is cuckolding only when the guys playing the sub role? "
interesting point.
however, commonly, cuckolds are submissive.
you would need to tell me more about what you saw. lol, i bet it looked fun tho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
are you a cuckold? if not can you comment on it accurately?
what parts of cuckolding do you disagree with me about?"
I am not a cuckold but I have met several 'cuckold ' couples, that gives me a personal insight that you lack, what makes you think your views on cuckolding are correct
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing "
Be careful what you tell him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced "
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine? |
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him"
Goodnight Genuineguy sure there might be someone in the other rooms to annoy |
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
are you a cuckold? if not can you comment on it accurately?
what parts of cuckolding do you disagree with me about?
I am not a cuckold but I have met several 'cuckold ' couples, that gives me a personal insight that you lack, what makes you think your views on cuckolding are correct
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i have chatted with many and many of cuckolds over the internet.
also i have read extracts from psychology articles.
i did this to rationalise the deep intense feelings i have. now i understand more. however, if i experience it for real then yes i probably will understand more again. |
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him"
why? what are you implying? |
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
Goodnight Genuineguy sure there might be someone in the other rooms to annoy "
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
why? what are you implying?"
I am implying that you have latent motivations for writing in the forums |
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine?"
I have 'real life' experience of a cuckold 'in action' so to speak, you have text books and online chats, your lack of 'real life' indicates you have a lack of understanding |
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over a year ago
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
why? what are you implying?
I am implying that you have latent motivations for writing in the forums "
are you suggesting i am concealing something ???
i simply want to advertise myself and hopefully chat and meet people that are interested in the same stuff i am.
what's wrong with that ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine?
I have 'real life' experience of a cuckold 'in action' so to speak, you have text books and online chats, your lack of 'real life' indicates you have a lack of understanding "
how can you have real life experiences of a cuckold in action when you are not a cuckold??
explain ?? |
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over a year ago
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
why? what are you implying?
I am implying that you have latent motivations for writing in the forums
are you suggesting i am concealing something ???
i simply want to advertise myself and hopefully chat and meet people that are interested in the same stuff i am.
what's wrong with that ?"
I think you are concealing something, with all your so called knowledge on the subject, and baring in mind the length of time you have been on here , why haven't you had any 'real life' experience. |
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine?
I have 'real life' experience of a cuckold 'in action' so to speak, you have text books and online chats, your lack of 'real life' indicates you have a lack of understanding
how can you have real life experiences of a cuckold in action when you are not a cuckold??
explain ??"
Are you serious? Is being a cuckold a solo pursuit |
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
why? what are you implying?
I am implying that you have latent motivations for writing in the forums
are you suggesting i am concealing something ???
i simply want to advertise myself and hopefully chat and meet people that are interested in the same stuff i am.
what's wrong with that ?
I think you are concealing something, with all your so called knowledge on the subject, and baring in mind the length of time you have been on here , why haven't you had any 'real life' experience. "
because no one really wants to invite a single white guy to a house or hotel to watch a bbc have sex with his cuckold wife. also, single women are not interested.
do you have any idea how many e-mails i have sent out. |
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over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine?
I have 'real life' experience of a cuckold 'in action' so to speak, you have text books and online chats, your lack of 'real life' indicates you have a lack of understanding
how can you have real life experiences of a cuckold in action when you are not a cuckold??
explain ??
Are you serious? Is being a cuckold a solo pursuit "
but you are not a cuckold and therefore do not understand the raw emotions.
you only know what someone has told you in general conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why a weak man Ash? Read the the heading and what I wrote, then maybe you'll get it without judging
This is controversial but most cuckold men are weak , no where is my tin hat
cuckold men can actually be strong men, it's just they might perceive themselves to be weak."
If someone perceives themself to be weak then aren't they? I think therefore I am....?
I don't know enough about cuckolding to have an opinion on if they are or not but it would seem to me if they thought themselves to be weak then they would be. It would make me think that the strong public perception is the front that mask what they truly are inside. Only they would be able to determine what they are. Opinions? |
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
why? what are you implying?
I am implying that you have latent motivations for writing in the forums
are you suggesting i am concealing something ???
i simply want to advertise myself and hopefully chat and meet people that are interested in the same stuff i am.
what's wrong with that ?
I think you are concealing something, with all your so called knowledge on the subject, and baring in mind the length of time you have been on here , why haven't you had any 'real life' experience.
because no one really wants to invite a single white guy to a house or hotel to watch a bbc have sex with his cuckold wife. also, single women are not interested.
do you have any idea how many e-mails i have sent out."
Probably no more than I do, yet I have met people and you haven't, what does this suggest? Maybe your approach is wrong, maybe your perception of cuckolding is wrong either way it's not working |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
why? what are you implying?
I am implying that you have latent motivations for writing in the forums
are you suggesting i am concealing something ???
i simply want to advertise myself and hopefully chat and meet people that are interested in the same stuff i am.
what's wrong with that ?
I think you are concealing something, with all your so called knowledge on the subject, and baring in mind the length of time you have been on here , why haven't you had any 'real life' experience.
because no one really wants to invite a single white guy to a house or hotel to watch a bbc have sex with his cuckold wife. also, single women are not interested.
do you have any idea how many e-mails i have sent out.
Probably no more than I do, yet I have met people and you haven't, what does this suggest? Maybe your approach is wrong, maybe your perception of cuckolding is wrong either way it's not working "
yer you have probably met single women that are looking for men.
i have to try and get responses from single women/couples that are looking for bbc.
i think my job is harder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine?
I have 'real life' experience of a cuckold 'in action' so to speak, you have text books and online chats, your lack of 'real life' indicates you have a lack of understanding
how can you have real life experiences of a cuckold in action when you are not a cuckold??
explain ??
Are you serious? Is being a cuckold a solo pursuit
but you are not a cuckold and therefore do not understand the raw emotions.
you only know what someone has told you in general conversation."
And neither are you, therefore what makes you think you know everything about the subject? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine?
I have 'real life' experience of a cuckold 'in action' so to speak, you have text books and online chats, your lack of 'real life' indicates you have a lack of understanding
how can you have real life experiences of a cuckold in action when you are not a cuckold??
explain ??
Are you serious? Is being a cuckold a solo pursuit
but you are not a cuckold and therefore do not understand the raw emotions.
you only know what someone has told you in general conversation.
And neither are you, therefore what makes you think you know everything about the subject? "
i never said i did.
on this post i have already admitted my knowledge of cuckolding will improve once i get to do it.
this is a forum i can give my opinion like you can give yours.
however, for whatever reason people think that their opinions are superior to mine. |
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over a year ago
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
why? what are you implying?
I am implying that you have latent motivations for writing in the forums
are you suggesting i am concealing something ???
i simply want to advertise myself and hopefully chat and meet people that are interested in the same stuff i am.
what's wrong with that ?
I think you are concealing something, with all your so called knowledge on the subject, and baring in mind the length of time you have been on here , why haven't you had any 'real life' experience.
because no one really wants to invite a single white guy to a house or hotel to watch a bbc have sex with his cuckold wife. also, single women are not interested.
do you have any idea how many e-mails i have sent out.
Probably no more than I do, yet I have met people and you haven't, what does this suggest? Maybe your approach is wrong, maybe your perception of cuckolding is wrong either way it's not working
yer you have probably met single women that are looking for men.
i have to try and get responses from single women/couples that are looking for bbc.
i think my job is harder."
I think your deluded, your fantasy will always be a fantasy if you don't change your ways. stop trying to 'educate' people about things you know very little about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine?
I have 'real life' experience of a cuckold 'in action' so to speak, you have text books and online chats, your lack of 'real life' indicates you have a lack of understanding
how can you have real life experiences of a cuckold in action when you are not a cuckold??
explain ??
Are you serious? Is being a cuckold a solo pursuit
but you are not a cuckold and therefore do not understand the raw emotions.
you only know what someone has told you in general conversation.
And neither are you, therefore what makes you think you know everything about the subject?
i never said i did.
on this post i have already admitted my knowledge of cuckolding will improve once i get to do it.
this is a forum i can give my opinion like you can give yours.
however, for whatever reason people think that their opinions are superior to mine."
People with 'real life ' experience opinions are superior than yours, I am afraid you have no credibility in here |
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over a year ago
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"Well not sure what to call it now, but add us and I'll tell you a bit more, I do like to see her play but I'm wouldn't say I'm submissive, it's more that were on a equal footing
Be careful what you tell him
why? what are you implying?
I am implying that you have latent motivations for writing in the forums
are you suggesting i am concealing something ???
i simply want to advertise myself and hopefully chat and meet people that are interested in the same stuff i am.
what's wrong with that ?
I think you are concealing something, with all your so called knowledge on the subject, and baring in mind the length of time you have been on here , why haven't you had any 'real life' experience.
because no one really wants to invite a single white guy to a house or hotel to watch a bbc have sex with his cuckold wife. also, single women are not interested.
do you have any idea how many e-mails i have sent out.
Probably no more than I do, yet I have met people and you haven't, what does this suggest? Maybe your approach is wrong, maybe your perception of cuckolding is wrong either way it's not working
yer you have probably met single women that are looking for men.
i have to try and get responses from single women/couples that are looking for bbc.
i think my job is harder.
I think your deluded, your fantasy will always be a fantasy if you don't change your ways. stop trying to 'educate' people about things you know very little about "
in my posts i normally ask questions about bbc rather than cuckolding.
i am not trying to educate anyone. however i will never prostitute my opinions just to appease people.
this is a forum and i am happy to debate my opinions. |
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"I get you, and cheers for the explanation for a moment I thought I'd said something bad, never thought of it in a sub/dom role just thought of it as kinky
yes it looks kinky on video
however, the cuckolds in real life can be very submissive. some enjoy doing really humiliating things, lol.
the women may be fem dom or sub.
can i ask what you and your partner like about the cuckold fetish specifically?
What, if any is your 'real life' experience of cuckolding
i do not have any 'real' life experiences in cuckolding.
does that surprise you?
No,it makes perfect sense, how can you comment accurately on something you haven't experienced
a man may have a high paid job, nice car, boat, university education and lots of money. society may see this man as being strong and successful. however, he may also be a cuckold.
commonly, cuckolds perceive themselves as being weak but society may perceive them as being strong.
also, i presume your not a cuckold. therefore, why is your opinion of cuckolding superior to mine?
I have 'real life' experience of a cuckold 'in action' so to speak, you have text books and online chats, your lack of 'real life' indicates you have a lack of understanding
how can you have real life experiences of a cuckold in action when you are not a cuckold??
explain ??
Are you serious? Is being a cuckold a solo pursuit
but you are not a cuckold and therefore do not understand the raw emotions.
you only know what someone has told you in general conversation.
And neither are you, therefore what makes you think you know everything about the subject?
i never said i did.
on this post i have already admitted my knowledge of cuckolding will improve once i get to do it.
this is a forum i can give my opinion like you can give yours.
however, for whatever reason people think that their opinions are superior to mine.
People with 'real life ' experience opinions are superior than yours, I am afraid you have no credibility in here "
not everyone has experience in cuckolding. therefore what 'real life' experiences do these people have and how does their lack of cuckolding experience makes their opinions superior to mine??
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Im sorry but neither of you seem to understand it, its like you are trying to put a label on it, 1 explanation, it doesnt have that, its down to each individual taste and has a very very wide range, from the very mild the very extreme, and because a cuck gets pleasure from seeing his wife fucked doesnt make him weak, some will be no doubt but to say most is a sweeping statement that is ill informed and yes I we have plenty real life experience in cuckolding and have over the years and still now many friends who are into cuckolding so I think we are eligible to reply on here. |
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I know nothing about cuckolding but If he is happy for his wife to be enjoying herself this way, he has agreed to it so that doesn't make him weak, but then what do I know. some comments always seem to spoil threads for others |
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I think that was a good debate. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and I think they both put their opinion across without getting childish, which is good. |
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over a year ago
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"It's like me saying most guys who wear a tie in there profile pic are weak, pathetic
True, are cuckolding and tie wearing linked??the fact you want your partner or wife to humiliate you suggests your weak, the fact I am wearing a tie suggests I am at a wedding. Comprehend ??
Although,even for a wedding,
it's a weak tie.
The necessity to explain,
why your wearing a weak tie,
only increases,your underlying insecure weakness.
On the other hand,we should all be allowed our individual kinks.
Ffs It's a swingers site,weak insecure tie wearers included.
Expletives only site denied
The tie maybe weak, who said you cannot enjoy your kinks, maybe you should learn to read. In my opinion most cuckold men are weak"
Thanks for the advice,you were right.
The reading malarkey is pure good.
May I also say,my opinion on most tie wearing guys.
Was jaded,perhaps even prejudiced,
bordering on sweeping generalisation,
and stereotyping.
The reason guys have a preference for tie wearing,
like most preferences,is likely to be wide and varied.
So tarring most of them with the same brush,
especially with my limited knowledge,
was sheer ignorance personified,mostly.
Comprehend??
Ps I'm loving the reading thing so much,I might even do it again.(thank you)
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"And why a weak man Ash? Read the the heading and what I wrote, then maybe you'll get it without judging "
It was like 3am when I wrote that, tired, sleepy and I only managed managed to read half the post before posting. Oops. Have no idea why I said 'weak man' apologies |
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