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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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First of all the guy I'm talking about I meet though another site.
Was messaging a This guy for a little while and had a few phone calls. anyway he was bugging me for more but by now he was getting on my nerves so I politely said I'm not really interested but thanks.
He sent me the most affensive message. Basic along the lines of I'm a whore and my daughter will be to and we'll both die of Aids. I didn't want to let him know he got to me so I laugh at him and call him pathetic and was that the best he could do. That was a month ago.
He's now sent me a text saying hi sexy. I'm not a violent person but I really really want to hurt him for what he said not about me but about my daughter.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wouldnt worry about what he said because lots of men think the same way as he does only they say it behind your back. He must have just been very angry that you didnt want to meet him, lucky you didnt.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block the crazy psycho and move on chick. He clearly had issues, stay well clear.
Also, take a deep breath, count to 10 and forget he even existed. You'll feel so much better for it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell him that if he doesn't stop bothering you,you will pass on his information to an ex who you are on good terms with. And is not as patient as you, oh and he has just got from a tour of duty in Afghanistan as he is a royal Marines and quite a violent chap with a short fuse but very protective of you.
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over a year ago
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It's ok he's not ganna message back. I know his type. He left it a month to message me again cuz he thought I'd forgive and forget. Now I've ripped him a new one he won't dare text again.
I don't need advice to get rid of him just had to get it off my chest. I was murderous. I've calmed down now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes a persons ego won't let them take rejection. The best thing is to ignore them and don't waste any energy thinking about them. It has the benefit of showing them what a waste of space they are, nobody likes to be ignored after all. I met a woman who was part of a fb couple off here once who told me a guy had threatened to rape her in front of her kids because she told him she wasn't interested. It put her off swinging for a good while after that. It truly baggers belief what people have to deal with sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fuckers messages back. Took them a good 5 hours. Same old shIt Again.
Told him I'll call the police if he messages me again. Said it wouldn't do them any favours talking about a small child that way.
He is fucking nut. |
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"First of all the guy I'm talking about I meet though another site.
Was messaging a This guy for a little while and had a few phone calls. anyway he was bugging me for more but by now he was getting on my nerves so I politely said I'm not really interested but thanks.
He sent me the most affensive message. Basic along the lines of I'm a whore and my daughter will be to and we'll both die of Aids. I didn't want to let him know he got to me so I laugh at him and call him pathetic and was that the best he could do. That was a month ago.
He's now sent me a text saying hi sexy. I'm not a violent person but I really really want to hurt him for what he said not about me but about my daughter. "
(think we,ve had a message off the same guy) sounds like the same one who meassaged us off the sister site to this one. xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm very glad you got this sorted.. a few years ago I had a similar experience with a lady after we'd met a couple of times and I left hers to go to work...
Plenty of abuse later I rang her up, had it out with her, she said she hated me and bye forever, then 6 weeks later she was phoning me up and kept this up with a phonecall a month for the next six months until she got the message. |
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"It's ok he's not ganna message back. I know his type. He left it a month to message me again cuz he thought I'd forgive and forget. Now I've ripped him a new one he won't dare text again.
I don't need advice to get rid of him just had to get it off my chest. I was murderous. I've calmed down now.
Thanks everyone. "
Don't need advice, but still got the problem, part of the problem is you too......ditch your sim card/change phone number, only , if you have to, give out the number for the sim you can ditch, not being harsh but you seem a tad niave. Getting it off your chest id great but wise up & protect yourslef and your child!
So if you have same number next month & he passes your number along?????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignore he knows which buttons to press, most people would kill for their children. As most would ignore jibes aimed at themselves. I'd say you had a lucky escape. Don't rise to it... Block him and his number out of your life. |
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