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Would you introduce family members to clubs or swinging????
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Might sound weird but we were in a club once and a "couple" came in but soon separated and the women later said during a chat the guy was her brother and that they go to clubs but separate. Then we heard of a women introducing her sister to a club. We ourselves wouldn't tell anyone about our lifestyle but each to there own. What do your guys feel about it?  |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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know of a brother and sister who go to Abfabs together but play separate.
Friends and family know of my lifestyle and if they wanted to go to a club with me then bring it on lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No i wouldn't go to a club with a family member, if i ever went to a club and i saw a member of my family there i would leave, i couldn't imagine walking round in my underwear chatting up men with my brother there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We travel 40+ miles out of our area in case of bumping into anyone. Not 100% guaranteed but less likely chance. Unfortunately some of the popular clubs are on our doorstep but never been  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a mother and daughter who are currently both members of Well known club in West Brom...and yes I have played with both (but not at club). Have met another mother and daughter at Chams... Seems not to bother some people. |
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Many in my family are fairly open and relaxed about most things. It would depend on the club, whether play would be done in private only etc. If so, I dont see any reason not to, as we have done naturism before and would not be engaging in activity together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I introduced my sister to fab, and also too chameleons..!!
We never play together or in same room....and we have very different taste in men so it works pretty well..!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We travel 40+ miles out of our area in case of bumping into anyone. Not 100% guaranteed but less likely chance. Unfortunately some of the popular clubs are on our doorstep but never been "
You probably have just as much chance of seeing someone you know, if not more, as a lot of people in your area could have the same in mind as you...!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club"
My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club
My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here."
I do |
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"It is weird and no fooking chance "
Why is it weird ? No having a pop but don't get that. Like I said above my sis told me about fab becouse I left anther site id told her I was on. It's honesty in my eyes not weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if a family member was at a club then i would want to leave, we only go to local clubs so I'm sure there's a chance but as already been said, most people tend to travel out of the area for clubs so we're probably safe using the one up the road |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think if a family member was at a club then i would want to leave, we only go to local clubs so I'm sure there's a chance but as already been said, most people tend to travel out of the area for clubs so we're probably safe using the one up the road "
Lol but maybe that's exactly what the others think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if a family member was at a club then i would want to leave, we only go to local clubs so I'm sure there's a chance but as already been said, most people tend to travel out of the area for clubs so we're probably safe using the one up the road
Lol but maybe that's exactly what the others think."
Your probably right but I've already seem 2 colleagues there 
It's too good a club not to go |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think if a family member was at a club then i would want to leave, we only go to local clubs so I'm sure there's a chance but as already been said, most people tend to travel out of the area for clubs so we're probably safe using the one up the road
Lol but maybe that's exactly what the others think.
Your probably right but I've already seem 2 colleagues there
It's too good a club not to go "
Wish we could be do bold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if a family member was at a club then i would want to leave, we only go to local clubs so I'm sure there's a chance but as already been said, most people tend to travel out of the area for clubs so we're probably safe using the one up the road
Lol but maybe that's exactly what the others think.
Your probably right but I've already seem 2 colleagues there
It's too good a club not to go
Wish we could be do bold"
At the end of the day the way we see it is that if we see someone we know there, they've got to admit to others they were there to tell people they saw us
if that makes sense lol |
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"No I would never introduce a family member to a club or go with them. I don't discuss my sex life or share any aspects of it with family. "
Weirdo! What kind of swingers are you not sharing with all and sundry? Tut tut! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.
Speak for yourself: my age is correct.
As to the op...no and thrice no!"
I'm not on about knocking 10 years off, if you can know a couple of years off why not??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club
My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here."
I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is weird and no fooking chance
Why is it weird ? No having a pop but don't get that. Like I said above my sis told me about fab becouse I left anther site id told her I was on. It's honesty in my eyes not weird "
I don't discuss details of my sex life with my sister we just don't have that kind of relationship. So in my eyes it's weird. But if you do then fair enough I am not knocking you for it.
However the OP mentioned going to a club . How would you feel about that? Or playing in the same room as a sibling? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club
My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.
I do "
In cow years you are 295 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Might sound weird but we were in a club once and a "couple" came in but soon separated and the women later said during a chat the guy was her brother and that they go to clubs but separate. Then we heard of a women introducing her sister to a club. We ourselves wouldn't tell anyone about our lifestyle but each to there own. What do your guys feel about it? "
Just wrong . . On so many levels.
I definitely wouldn't wanna see a family member 'at it'. . Or for them to see me
Couldn't think of anything worse! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club
My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.
I do
In cow years you are 295 "
Oi ya cheeky feeker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No Way! I used to have a pub I could dance like a nutter to the bands, get embarrassingly d*unk and generally misbehave and have a lot of fun. Then I took my kids down for a gig and they liked it and use it often now I have to behave like a dad, even the barmaids who used to flirt with me call me dad these days... |
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I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.
Speak for yourself: my age is correct.
As to the op...no and thrice no!
I'm not on about knocking 10 years off, if you can know a couple of years off why not???"
For those that have seen my face pic they'd agree I could knock ten years (and some) of my age, but why would I? I am the age I am and not desperate to get under filters etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.
Speak for yourself: my age is correct.
As to the op...no and thrice no!
I'm not on about knocking 10 years off, if you can know a couple of years off why not???
For those that have seen my face pic they'd agree I could knock ten years (and some) of my age, but why would I? I am the age I am and not desperate to get under filters etc."
Who's desperate to get under filters????
If there's certain things I may not want to put up I won't. And to people we meet we would tell them so don't understand how it affects anyone else??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is weird and no fooking chance
Why is it weird ? No having a pop but don't get that. Like I said above my sis told me about fab becouse I left anther site id told her I was on. It's honesty in my eyes not weird "
would you not feel a bit odd walking round a club and seeing your sister in her sexy undies having guys chatting chatting her up for a shag?
there are some things i don't need to see and from a family member that's one of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.
Speak for yourself: my age is correct.
As to the op...no and thrice no!
I'm not on about knocking 10 years off, if you can know a couple of years off why not???"
Why do you need to knock years off at 35? Can't say I feel the need to at 45 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Might sound weird but we were in a club once and a "couple" came in but soon separated and the women later said during a chat the guy was her brother and that they go to clubs but separate. Then we heard of a women introducing her sister to a club. We ourselves wouldn't tell anyone about our lifestyle but each to there own. What do your guys feel about it?
Just wrong . . On so many levels.
I definitely wouldn't wanna see a family member 'at it'. . Or for them to see me
Couldn't think of anything worse!"
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Strangely enough, was just chatting with my vanilla mates at the weekend about my next big birthday in a coupla years...said I was thinking about a party at a Manchester club and a couple of them said they'd fancy coming along with their partners to see what it was like...my sister and cousin are part of my circle of friends and I said I'd happily invite the non relations but not them (they didn't mention an interest anyway)...can't think of anything more awkward to be honest |
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