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are there any genuine ladies on here???
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we are a couple and have decided to start our swinging fun with some 3somes with ladies before we try the delights of couples (adam not so sure about men touching me yet)!!!
so we are searching and searching on here, we do chat to ladies through mail on here and then on msn, but as soon as we ask them to put their cam on they disappear!!!
so is this because they are shy? or is it because they are men?? what do you think?
we are after a lovely lady who is as equally nice as us (because we are nice too) to come over and make Adams night!! oh, and im sure it would make my night too!!!
is it so wrong to ask to cam with someone to say Hi before we meet??
or do you think there is something wrong with our profile?? maybe we are a bit too full on with the content and scare everyone away???
do tell, I need this 3some soon!!!
Jay! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just briefly glancing at your profile two things are immediately evident, you say you love camming and all your veris are through webcam.
Many ladies will go onto cam to prove they are who they say they are (myself included) but that is as far as it goes, anything else is kept for when the meet happens.
Maybe you are ready for a meet with a lady but your profile is giving conflicting information to those reading it.
Just my interpretation, hope you continue to have lots of fun however you decide.
Laine xxxx |
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mmm, see what you mean!! i will have a look at the wording.... we do love to cam with couples but want to meet ladies.... maybe i should say for ladies to cam just to say hi.... uummm, I DON'T KNOW!!! |
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i just tweeked the profile saying we love to cam with couples but are really after ladies for 3some. i also put that we like to put the cam on to just say hi and to show our faces before meeting....... hope its going to help.
Jay |
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i never use cam, basically because i'm a busy mum and just keep popping on and off here in between housework and being mum so i always look a right state! i'd never get a meet if they saw the 'busy daytime' me  |
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"i never use cam, basically because i'm a busy mum and just keep popping on and off here in between housework and being mum so i always look a right state! i'd never get a meet if they saw the 'busy daytime' me "
Add work to that and there is no chance of me switching my cam on!
I'd also have no chance! |
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"loulisa2 - how do you get meets then?? maybe its just us do you think?? just not sexy enough??"
i know you were asking Louisa but thught i'd butt in 
not all of the people i have met have wanted to cam before meeting them, some are happy enough with face pics etc
dont think its a case of not being sexy enough, just a case of some people being camera shy  |
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you play how you want to play, dont change tactics or do anything you dont want to do
if seeing a person on cam to make sure they match their pic is important to you then carry on doing what you afre doing - no rights or wrongs in this game |
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facepics would be ok but now have had 3 experiences where we chat and swap pics with ladies and they wont cam, once we ask them to go on cam to say hi, they delete us or ignore us and never hear from them again!! i would worry about meeting a single lady now without seeing them for real first!! |
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I just don't have a cam- this pc is soooo ancient it wouldn't work with one :o)
I tend to find that a chat on the phone allows people to know that I'm genuine |
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"you play how you want to play, dont change tactics or do anything you dont want to do
if seeing a person on cam to make sure they match their pic is important to you then carry on doing what you afre doing - no rights or wrongs in this game "
ummmm. you are right, will just have to keep at it how we want to i guess. if we leave it too long i know Adam will change his mind like he has done with meeting couples. |
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"I just don't have a cam- this pc is soooo ancient it wouldn't work with one :o)
I tend to find that a chat on the phone allows people to know that I'm genuine"
phone is a good idea! im happy with face pics too but the phone call would verify they were ladies. |
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"loulisa2 - how do you get meets then?? maybe its just us do you think?? just not sexy enough??"
i have never been asked to cam  i usually just chat to whoever i'm planning to meet on the phone a couple of times before the meet |
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I never play without meeting socially first. A pic/cam can only portray so much, face to face you can tell if the chemistry is there.
I've never had a no show once a meet has been set up. Then again I appeal to a "niche market". |
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A little suggestion to the OP.
How about broadening your search, try a couple with a view to soft swing only, you could state the males stick to their own partners whilst the females can play together also.
Just a thought. |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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"A little suggestion to the OP.
How about broadening your search, try a couple with a view to soft swing only, you could state the males stick to their own partners whilst the females can play together also.
Just a thought."
Well blow me loony bin.
You do come out with a good idea once in a while eh!!
I am impressed, lol x |
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"A little suggestion to the OP.
How about broadening your search, try a couple with a view to soft swing only, you could state the males stick to their own partners whilst the females can play together also.
Just a thought.
Well blow me loony bin.
You do come out with a good idea once in a while eh!!
I am impressed, lol x"
Don't blame me, I was told what to post.  |
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By *ebzStarWoman
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"A little suggestion to the OP.
How about broadening your search, try a couple with a view to soft swing only, you could state the males stick to their own partners whilst the females can play together also.
Just a thought.
Well blow me loony bin.
You do come out with a good idea once in a while eh!!
I am impressed, lol x
Don't blame me, I was told what to post. "
Phew.
ok.
I can come out of my state of shock now then!! x |
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good ideas guys. thanks
although it was a good suggestion meeting and doing soft swing, still don't think Adam would be comfy with that at the moment. im working on it!!
a club is also a good idea too... we have thought about the clubs so maybe thats the option to start with.
xxxxx |
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im quite happy to meet you as you are not that far from me, as long as you dont mind a doddery old woman of 49  cant cam though as i dont have one, happy to meet socially though halfway |
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"mmmmmm, thanks guys!! liking the thought of meeting! thanks also for replying to my thread too. its nice to know there are normal and lovely ladies out there, just need the time to find them. "
not sure about being "normal" lol but hey- only too happy to help - you sound lovely yourself |
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"oooh if only you were a little closer I'd have helped you give Adam a great time
Some great ideas on here though, hope things work out for you xx"
think we should arrange a ladies only meet to explore the possibilities?? |
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