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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone ever met one of their friends with benefits or fuck buddies just the once and never got to meet them again due to certain circumstances?
I know I have. I've had 3 fwbs and never got to meet them again due to them all starting relationships.
Anyone else had this? |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Has anyone ever met one of their friends with benefits or fuck buddies just the once and never got to meet them again due to certain circumstances?
I know I have. I've had 3 fwbs and never got to meet them again due to them all starting relationships.
Anyone else had this?"
I'm confused, or maybe you are. If you meet someone once and never again they are not, nor have they ever ever been, an fb. They are just a single NSA meet.
My fb and I had been meeting for months before we decided we were fbs.
I have had guys, however, who have messaged asking to be my fb - as if it can be decided like that! I feel that you may have tried to do this but you simply cannot until you know that you are very compatible and that often only comes when you have met a number of times.
Just because you SAY you are going to be fbs does not make it so. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place"
Do you not think they may have being polite rather than hurt your feelings? Just a suggestion |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place"
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with!"
Ok ok. I get the point. Jeez. I can't ask anything out of curiosity without getting head bitten off can I. |
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"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with!
Ok ok. I get the point. Jeez. I can't ask anything out of curiosity without getting head bitten off can I."
lol you think this is getting your head bitten off!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody's biting your head off, merely pointing out that you maybe reading a bit more into your meets than the other party. My advice, be a little less sensitive when reading replies that you might not wanna hear. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with!
Ok ok. I get the point. Jeez. I can't ask anything out of curiosity without getting head bitten off can I."
I wasn't biting your head off at all. No need to be so touchy because you made a mistake and people pointed it out. Just learn from it. I was trying to make you understand that there was no need to stress about it as it was not an fb relationship. Just as others have done. However, this has clearly offended you when no offence was intended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever met one of their friends with benefits or fuck buddies just the once and never got to meet them again due to certain circumstances?
I know I have. I've had 3 fwbs and never got to meet them again due to them all starting relationships.
Anyone else had this?
I'm confused, or maybe you are. If you meet someone once and never again they are not, nor have they ever ever been, an fb. They are just a single NSA meet.
My fb and I had been meeting for months before we decided we were fbs.
I have had guys, however, who have messaged asking to be my fb - as if it can be decided like that! I feel that you may have tried to do this but you simply cannot until you know that you are very compatible and that often only comes when you have met a number of times.
Just because you SAY you are going to be fbs does not make it so."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with!
Ok ok. I get the point. Jeez. I can't ask anything out of curiosity without getting head bitten off can I.
I wasn't biting your head off at all. No need to be so touchy because you made a mistake and people pointed it out. Just learn from it. I was trying to make you understand that there was no need to stress about it as it was not an fb relationship. Just as others have done. However, this has clearly offended you when no offence was intended."
You're right. I apologise. Due to my autism, I can find some things a bit confusing and can take a while to understand them properly |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with!
Ok ok. I get the point. Jeez. I can't ask anything out of curiosity without getting head bitten off can I.
I wasn't biting your head off at all. No need to be so touchy because you made a mistake and people pointed it out. Just learn from it. I was trying to make you understand that there was no need to stress about it as it was not an fb relationship. Just as others have done. However, this has clearly offended you when no offence was intended.
You're right. I apologise. Due to my autism, I can find some things a bit confusing and can take a while to understand them properly"
No worries. Just remember - talking about maybe being fbs with people you have not met or have only just met does not make them fbs. Often an fb relationship takes time to build. Sometimes you get lucky and it happens quicker but rarely after just one meet.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with!
Ok ok. I get the point. Jeez. I can't ask anything out of curiosity without getting head bitten off can I.
I wasn't biting your head off at all. No need to be so touchy because you made a mistake and people pointed it out. Just learn from it. I was trying to make you understand that there was no need to stress about it as it was not an fb relationship. Just as others have done. However, this has clearly offended you when no offence was intended.
You're right. I apologise. Due to my autism, I can find some things a bit confusing and can take a while to understand them properly
No worries. Just remember - talking about maybe being fbs with people you have not met or have only just met does not make them fbs. Often an fb relationship takes time to build. Sometimes you get lucky and it happens quicker but rarely after just one meet.
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Okie dokie. I never actually knew that being an fwb was a proper relationship. I need to learn more about this. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with!
Ok ok. I get the point. Jeez. I can't ask anything out of curiosity without getting head bitten off can I.
I wasn't biting your head off at all. No need to be so touchy because you made a mistake and people pointed it out. Just learn from it. I was trying to make you understand that there was no need to stress about it as it was not an fb relationship. Just as others have done. However, this has clearly offended you when no offence was intended.
You're right. I apologise. Due to my autism, I can find some things a bit confusing and can take a while to understand them properly
No worries. Just remember - talking about maybe being fbs with people you have not met or have only just met does not make them fbs. Often an fb relationship takes time to build. Sometimes you get lucky and it happens quicker but rarely after just one meet.
Okie dokie. I never actually knew that being an fwb was a proper relationship. I need to learn more about this."
All continuous interactions with anyone are relationships. Being fbs is not boyfriend/girlfriend, but it is a friendship with sex. At least it is for me. However, for some they simply meet the same person time and again for sex without considering each other friends.
The point is though is that it is continuous and regular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Do you not think they may have being polite rather than hurt your feelings? Just a suggestion "
Or maybe life did just get in the way like op stated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do remember each of them agreeing to meet up again but with life getting in the way which we all can't avoid really, it was difficult to sort out a time and place
Just because they agreed to meet up again does not make them fbs. Honestly! I have met a number of guys more than once. I did not consider them fbs. They did not consider me fbs. It was simply repeat fun.
You need to sort out your definition of an fb to begin with!
Ok ok. I get the point. Jeez. I can't ask anything out of curiosity without getting head bitten off can I.
I wasn't biting your head off at all. No need to be so touchy because you made a mistake and people pointed it out. Just learn from it. I was trying to make you understand that there was no need to stress about it as it was not an fb relationship. Just as others have done. However, this has clearly offended you when no offence was intended.
You're right. I apologise. Due to my autism, I can find some things a bit confusing and can take a while to understand them properly
No worries. Just remember - talking about maybe being fbs with people you have not met or have only just met does not make them fbs. Often an fb relationship takes time to build. Sometimes you get lucky and it happens quicker but rarely after just one meet.
Okie dokie. I never actually knew that being an fwb was a proper relationship. I need to learn more about this.
All continuous interactions with anyone are relationships. Being fbs is not boyfriend/girlfriend, but it is a friendship with sex. At least it is for me. However, for some they simply meet the same person time and again for sex without considering each other friends.
The point is though is that it is continuous and regular."
Very interesting. Thanks very much |
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