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How often should people meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seen some posts lately from people complaining that people are on here but not meeting. Possibly they are taking a break or too busy to arrange a meet at the moment. (How dare they!)
So... how often do you think should people meet?
Daily...?
Weekly.. ?
Fortnightly... ?
Monthly...?
Annually.........?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on fab for just over year now and I have worked out that on average, I meet every two weeks. So if others can follow suit, would be good for me. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.
Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike. "
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When and how often I meet is down to me. Some people have a lives outside of fabs and some people would do well to remember that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seen some posts lately from people complaining that people are on here but not meeting. Possibly they are taking a break or too busy to arrange a meet at the moment. (How dare they!)
So... how often do you think should people meet?
Daily...?
Weekly.. ?
Fortnightly... ?
Monthly...?
Annually.........?
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as and when they feel like meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It goes on the individual lifestyle I guess, I wouldn't wanna meet every week. We meet just to add a little extra spice now & again isn't a must for us. Every individual is here for different reasons, each to their own.  |
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"Seen some posts lately from people complaining that people are on here but not meeting. Possibly they are taking a break or too busy to arrange a meet at the moment. (How dare they!)
So... how often do you think should people meet?
Daily...?
Weekly.. ?
Fortnightly... ?
Monthly...?
Annually.........?
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when ever they want to lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.
Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike.
Once again:
When and how often I meet is down to me. Some people have a lives outside of fabs and some people would do well to remember that."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when. 
It'll be Tuesday
As in 'See you next Tuesday'?  "
I think Fab should move to a system where you are sent a directive each week - 'You must meet xxx within 10 days or your membership will be terminated' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when.
It'll be Tuesday
As in 'See you next Tuesday'?
I think Fab should move to a system where you are sent a directive each week - 'You must meet xxx within 10 days or your membership will be terminated'"
There's two Tuesdays in 10 days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when.
It'll be Tuesday
As in 'See you next Tuesday'?
I think Fab should move to a system where you are sent a directive each week - 'You must meet xxx within 10 days or your membership will be terminated'
There's two Tuesdays in 10 days. "
I was allowing room for people to retain membership but still be called a time waster - these forums would die if there was nothing to moan about |
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As often as they want.
If you're a couple you probably have a sex life together, are you fucking daily, weekly. Do you just fuck, give each other head, handjobs, toys?
Do you have regular fbs you meet?
Do you arrange new meets?
And are they private meets?
Do you go to the clubs at weekends?
Or week nights?
What about days eg outdoors at Eurekas?
And do you arrange a club meet or do you like the thrill of pulling a new random couple who takes your eye ?
So it can be a little or a lot, depending on who, how and when
Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say whenever you wanna meet lol I've only been on fab 3 weeks and have had 4 meets, 3 with same guy but it's up to each individual when they meet isn't it ?? X x |
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Maybe we should all ( in somes opinion) have like and old fashioned dance card! Tick off each time we fuck? Lol .... People forget not all choose to show every verie! Or 'need' to show the world and their brother what they are doing 24/7 lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe we should all ( in somes opinion) have like and old fashioned dance card! Tick off each time we fuck? Lol .... People forget not all choose to show every verie! Or 'need' to show the world and their brother what they are doing 24/7 lol "
Just of late our card will be empty so that's fucked us up , we must be time wasters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's be realistic here.....if you're a single guy by all accounts it's never....you never get any replies. If you're a single female it's never.....because single guys are all time wasters, if you're a couple it's never because no one meets your long list of requirements! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.
Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike.
Once again:
When and how often I meet is down to me. Some people have a lives outside of fabs and some people would do well to remember that."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe we should all ( in somes opinion) have like and old fashioned dance card! Tick off each time we fuck? Lol .... People forget not all choose to show every verie! Or 'need' to show the world and their brother what they are doing 24/7 lol
Just of late our card will be empty so that's fucked us up , we must be time wasters how very dare you be here... Off with your head!!! "
At least now we have joined the majority ooooch bitchy |
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Double it and add 30.... oh no silly me - that's the weather!
I think a Fabs fuck loyalty card is a great idea... do we get a free shag if we get 10 stamps ?
We will stick to 'whenever we want' ta
Xx |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
My only question(s):
Who determines how often anyone should meet?
Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)
What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough |
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"My only question(s):
Who determines how often anyone should meet?
Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)
What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough "
naughty you is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seen some posts lately from people complaining that people are on here but not meeting. Possibly they are taking a break or too busy to arrange a meet at the moment. (How dare they!)
So... how often do you think should people meet?
Daily...?
Weekly.. ?
Fortnightly... ?
Monthly...?
Annually.........?
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Women 3 times a day, Men Annually, that should quieten down the forums a bit  |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"My only question(s):
Who determines how often anyone should meet?
Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)
What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough naughty you is! "
Lol, I can sometimes go 3 meets in a month to nothing for a year, it cums and goes |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Let's be realistic here.....if you're a single guy by all accounts it's never....you never get any replies. If you're a single female it's never.....because single guys are all time wasters, if you're a couple it's never because no one meets your long list of requirements! "
Very good! |
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"My only question(s):
Who determines how often anyone should meet?
Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)
What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough naughty you is!
Lol, I can sometimes go 3 meets in a month to nothing for a year, it cums and goes "
' the actress said to the Bishop"! Lol |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"My only question(s):
Who determines how often anyone should meet?
Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)
What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough naughty you is!
Lol, I can sometimes go 3 meets in a month to nothing for a year, it cums and goes ' the actress said to the Bishop"! Lol "
Sounds as bad as a catholic confessional, minus pews, plus alter |
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"My only question(s):
Who determines how often anyone should meet?
Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)
What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough naughty you is!
Lol, I can sometimes go 3 meets in a month to nothing for a year, it cums and goes ' the actress said to the Bishop"! Lol
Sounds as bad as a catholic confessional, minus pews, plus alter "
lol |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.
Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike.
Once again:
When and how often I meet is down to me. Some people have a lives outside of fabs and some people would do well to remember that.
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I do meet my fb every week though, but not been able to arrange additional meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no rule on this...... you meet as often or as little as YOU want ...everyone has their own idea of what things should be and everyone is different  "
True x I never follow rules anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Let's be realistic here.....if you're a single guy by all accounts it's never....you never get any replies. If you're a single female it's never.....because single guys are all time wasters, if you're a couple it's never because no one meets your long list of requirements! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's be realistic here.....if you're a single guy by all accounts it's never....you never get any replies. If you're a single female it's never.....because single guys are all time wasters, if you're a couple it's never because no one meets your long list of requirements! "
Hello pleased To meet you... |
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So... how often do you think should people meet?
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I don't.
I do have a few thoughts on those who have no interest whatsoever in the pursuit of no strings casual sex and are opposed to being in a swinging relationship posting about how others should do it. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
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So... how often do you think should people meet?
I don't.
I do have a few thoughts on those who have no interest whatsoever in the pursuit of no strings casual sex and are opposed to being in a swinging relationship posting about how others should do it."
Hahaha, I once saw a couple in a club (who do not play with others as she can't stand the thought or her man playing with another woman) advising this couple how "playing with single men was detrimental to their marriage". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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So... how often do you think should people meet?
I don't.
I do have a few thoughts on those who have no interest whatsoever in the pursuit of no strings casual sex and are opposed to being in a swinging relationship posting about how others should do it."
Hope you don't mean me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.
You have a great way with words Femme. "
No she don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.
You have a great way with words Femme.
No she don't "
You do |
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"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.
You have a great way with words Femme.
No she don't "
Well it made me laugh, lol, you've obviously got a bee in your bonnet about something?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.
You have a great way with words Femme.
No she don't
Well it made me laugh, lol, you've obviously got a bee in your bonnet about something? "
Lol no I don't. You think she has great way with words and I don't think she does. Simple as that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whenever they want to. "
I think it's cool that some people just want to hang out on here...but I do think that giving people the advice that they should meet is the right advice...not for any other reason than that this is simply the best way to get into the scene. When they meet or how often they meet is totally up to them imo.
From our point of view it's been useful, even though we're not ready to swing yet, to chat with various people and get a feel for the scene. I've gone out on several socials as well. And so being on Fab and meeting people has helped bring us up to speed about how we'd like to proceed when we're ready to get cracking
Again...it's all about being open minded to the fact that everyone's got their reasons for doing what they're doing and someone might be the most genuine and cool couple but just needing to approach the scene in a way which is slightly different from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not answering that. I rarely have a private one to one meet. Am a bit picky in terms of who i meet - i need that 'click', the conversation flows, the cheeky banter, the gorgeous eyes and lips. When it happens, it happens. That's all i can say.
My meets so far have been the socials and parties. This was something i wanted to explore this year. So, i can finally tick that off. |
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