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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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woke up to numerous texts from the girlfriend of a guy that i meet off here ....been seeing him for few months ...been to his most times ....cant work out if im annoyed or feeling guilty |
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"I wouldn't feel annoyed at her for sending you texts after all it's her boyfriend...personally I'd be annoyed with myself for getting involved in drama..."
Or do I take it you never knew he had a girlfriend? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"he told me he was single ....nothing in the house that shows he has a gf .....
was a shock as i was away for the weekend visiting my best mate "
Well I wouldn't be annoyed at her, she obviously suspected something that made her go through his phone!
I should imagine he is having much worse day than you! And an even worse one for the GF |
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"he told me he was single ....nothing in the house that shows he has a gf .....
was a shock as i was away for the weekend visiting my best mate
Well I wouldn't be annoyed at her, she obviously suspected something that made her go through his phone!
I should imagine he is having much worse day than you! And an even worse one for the GF "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if i knew he had a gf i wouldnt have started anything with him ...."
Don't feel annoyed or guilty then. I'd feel a little bit upset that he duped you but as has been said block him. Maybe text her and explain that you didn't know about her.
If you didn't know it's not your fault. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position |
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"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "
If you can, block her number he can answer any questions she may have. |
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"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "
Best thing you can do and take it from my experience is to ignore the texts and ignore him...you will get dragged into something that won't have a pretty ending |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "
Best option is not to get any further involved then you already are. Just hold your head high and walk away. Yes it's frustrating, upsetting and makes you angry but if you get any more involved it'll just make it worse! |
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"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "
You owe no loyalty to him or any explanation to her.
If it makes you feel better answer her questions honestly. If you'd rather have nothing to do with it block or ignore. |
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"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "
Text him & tell him to sort it out its his bloody mess, your not in the wrong! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally I would text her saying
I got into a sexual relationship with him from a swingers site. You had no idea he had a gf. He said he was single.
You do not want a relationship.
Any issues are with him not me.
Now please I do not want to hear from either of you ever again, this is between you and him to sort.
I am blocking both your numbers and cutting all ties to him
Goodbye and dump the fucker. |
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"Personally I would text her saying
I got into a sexual relationship with him from a swingers site. You had no idea he had a gf. He said he was single.
You do not want a relationship.
Any issues are with him not me.
Now please I do not want to hear from either of you ever again, this is between you and him to sort.
I am blocking both your numbers and cutting all ties to him
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Yes I think I would do something like this, help the poor girl out, clear my name, then leave them to it. |
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