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By *etwife OP Woman
over a year ago
hanworth |
I was out on saturday with some guy ive been fucking we where in the pub garden having a cheeky grope lol. But i didnt realise that i was seen by my husbands brother who i didnt know was in the pub. He came round today and showed me a picture hed taken on his phone.
He said he wouldnt show my husband if i went round to his on saturday and was nice to him meaning sexually his a creep but dont know if i should do it or not.
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ooops id tell him where to go and take the consequences.. deny everything .. if you go along with him your admitting tgere was omething going on .. claim you was pissed at the time |
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By *aitinkCouple
over a year ago
York |
Fess up now - not to the fucking, but to being a bit out of control. When bro comes round he'll be surprised and if hubby has half a brain he'll realize the delay is very suspicious. You wont need to rat out the brother at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be blackmailed by anybody.Just going to have to face the consequences im afraid. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
Is your husband's friend married?...
.. if so, go along and take a sneaky photo of your hand on his cock first chance you get - then leave up and him there unsatisfied with blue balls then sent the pic to his wife if he says a word.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd probably re-evaluate my life and have a seriously hard think. |
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My third eye he say you will fuck the living shite out of him.
Thats all.  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Don;t be blackmailed, but one of the perils of playing behind your partners back. Sit down and explain to hubby, good luck
Can just imagine how this post would be going if it was a male
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lieing on the internet
why didn't i ever think of that?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree to meet him let him think he going to get a fuck then knee him in the balls and tell him where to go |
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I'm not sure what you should do... but I need to stop laughing  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Only you know what to do.
I wouldn't give in the bribery but then I am not in your position. You have your reasons for what you do but perhaps be more careful?
Before anyone states the "if this was a man..." stuff I say the same on those threads too.
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"Don't be blackmailed by anybody.Just going to have to face the consequences im afraid."
This. 
....and next time don't play so close to home if you fear being caught out. Hope it works out ok for you. |
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whatever you do if you decide to carry on as before just think about that old saying of not shitting on ones own doorstep perhaps..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Call your brother in law's bluff. It's the only option that can possibly work out well for you. |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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just fuck him u may enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My third eye he say you will fuck the living shite out of him.
Thats all. "
Ha ha |
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By *xpresMan
over a year ago
Elland |
If you was a bloke who said he had been discovered playing away with some young lady...
you would be hung drawn n quatered on here how things are so different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd probably re-evaluate my life and have a seriously hard think. "
This |
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When you play with fire and can't even manage to be discreet, this is what happens: I have no sympathy for your predicament.
As for those wishing the op good luck: I wonder how you'd have responded if the op had been a married man...as I thought!  |
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"If you was a bloke who said he had been discovered playing away with some young lady...
you would be hung drawn n quatered on here how things are so different "
Ain't that the truth! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will say same as I did to married guy in same position - your on a swingers site behind your husbands back so its time for a lot of thinking. If you fuck the brother you will be at his beck and call for ever; and then you will need to explain that to hubby as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You got caught fess up and take the consequences as for your sleazy brother inlaw I'd tell your husband. With any luck your bother inlaws arms will shrink over night and he will get infested with a real itchy dose of crabs he carn't scratch lol.  |
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"When you play with fire and can't even manage to be discreet, this is what happens: I have no sympathy for your predicament.
As for those wishing the op good luck: I wonder how you'd have responded if the op had been a married man...as I thought! "
Yes if it was a married man i'd have said serves you right! Lol.  |
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"When you play with fire and can't even manage to be discreet, this is what happens: I have no sympathy for your predicament.
As for those wishing the op good luck: I wonder how you'd have responded if the op had been a married man...as I thought!
Yes if it was a married man i'd have said serves you right! Lol. "
At least you're honest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oops. Landed right in the shit. But what do you expect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could always go round and bite the guys cock off.
Let him try and explain that to your husband. |
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"When you play with fire and can't even manage to be discreet, this is what happens: I have no sympathy for your predicament.
As for those wishing the op good luck: I wonder how you'd have responded if the op had been a married man...as I thought! "
Ahhh forget the married man thing. A better ending to that question would be... I wonder how you'd have responded if the op had been a married to you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't ever give into blackmail once you do you're fucked, literally!
So you're left with two choices as is see it.
1.call your brother in laws bluff, tell him to tell your husband....or
2.tell your husband what happened & add the fact that your brother in law is prepared to buy your silence with a sexual act.
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
OP, you need to protect the security of your images better. You seem to have quite an active life according to the green arrow.  |
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You are just going to have to deal with the consequences of cheating on your husband.... |
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Try and get the brother to say things to you whlst recording the conversation. Protest to him you were d*unk and only fondled.
Ask him what he wants in return for silence.
Then send him a copy of the recording and ask how his wife would enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never net no fucker have you over a proverbial barrel
Call his bluff
If he dobs you in, you'll just have to take the consequences, but at least you will do so with the knowledge that you haven't shagged 'a creep' |
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tell him to go fk himself and get a life, What is this, jeremy kyle ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was out on saturday with some guy ive been fucking we where in the pub garden having a cheeky grope lol. But i didnt realise that i was seen by my husbands brother who i didnt know was in the pub. He came round today and showed me a picture hed taken on his phone.
He said he wouldnt show my husband if i went round to his on saturday and was nice to him meaning sexually his a creep but dont know if i should do it or not.
I'd thing your husband would be more pissed off if he found out you'd fucked his brother and, given this nobs approach so far, that's probably a decided possibility
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd think ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some complete suckers in this forum |
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"There are some complete suckers in this forum "
hands up on that one..
my usual 'smells like something smelly' take a gander at the OP's green arrow before commenting sadly failed this time..
doh
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some complete suckers in this forum "
I was kind of thinking the same and a a couple of others that relate to cheap rolex watches and £5 louis vuitton handbags. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"There are some complete suckers in this forum "
Have you seen the new yogurts called Suckies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some complete suckers in this forum "
Oh am I sucker then....just said what I thought... |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Green arrow and image security. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was out on saturday with some guy ive been fucking we where in the pub garden having a cheeky grope lol. But i didnt realise that i was seen by my husbands brother who i didnt know was in the pub. He came round today and showed me a picture hed taken on his phone.
He said he wouldnt show my husband if i went round to his on saturday and was nice to him meaning sexually his a creep but dont know if i should do it or not.
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is that your husband in your photo gallery ? Ye let me chin him then come round to my house !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some complete suckers in this forum
Have you seen the new yogurts called Suckies?"
No but they sound as though they'll be like frubes |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"There are some complete suckers in this forum
Have you seen the new yogurts called Suckies?
No but they sound as though they'll be like frubes"
They are in a pouch. I buy the big tubs of the same range but when I saw the name I blushed as I call a BJ a sucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Play with fire get burnt , tell hubby and take the consequences don't give the brother the chance to black mail you it will end in tears sooner or later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After using the green arrow and reading your previous threads my opinion is call his bluff and let him tell your husband
He's probably better off without you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You simply cannot let him blackmail you. |
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By *etwife OP Woman
over a year ago
hanworth |
If my hubby new i cheated then my marrige is over so dont think i got choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what a prick ur brother in law is tho to even suggest that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If my hubby new i cheated then my marrige is over so dont think i got choice"
Oh dear,you'll just have to fuck him them
What a hardship for you |
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Next time on jackanory.....!!!
So you are cheating on your husband and don't want him to find out cos he will leave you and the only way for him not to find out us to fuck his brother? What if you're not a good enough fuck and he still tells on you? One way or another this will come out and your husband will be heartbroken.
After reading some of your other posts you clearly have no respect for your husband anyway, fucking people bareback and letting him fuck you after with no knowledge.
What is it the guys say when a married man is disrespectful to their wife? Oh yes, send him round here and I'll show him how a real woman treats him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah I'm not buying into this one 
Needs moving to the stories and fantasies section me thinks, either that or Michael Gove needs to give new direction on calibre of teaching staff |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"I was out on saturday with some guy ive been fucking we where in the pub garden having a cheeky grope lol. But i didnt realise that i was seen by my husbands brother who i didnt know was in the pub. He came round today and showed me a picture hed taken on his phone.
He said he wouldnt show my husband if i went round to his on saturday and was nice to him meaning sexually his a creep but dont know if i should do it or not.
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maybe let your husband know what a twat brother he's got ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You cheat on your partner and you're not even discreet about it. You deserve everything you get.
However don't give in to blackmail but you have to have a long hard look at what you're doing & why.
If it was me I'd actually use it as an opener to have a grown up talk with my partner. Fix the relationship or split up....but be honest!
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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"If my hubby new i cheated then my marrige is over so dont think i got choice"
Should have thought about that before you cheated! Play with fire and you will get burned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was out on saturday with some guy ive been fucking we where in the pub garden having a cheeky grope lol. But i didnt realise that i was seen by my husbands brother who i didnt know was in the pub. He came round today and showed me a picture hed taken on his phone.
He said he wouldnt show my husband if i went round to his on saturday and was nice to him meaning sexually his a creep but dont know if i should do it or not.
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How can you either consider it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Next time on jackanory.....!!!
So you are cheating on your husband and don't want him to find out cos he will leave you and the only way for him not to find out us to fuck his brother? What if you're not a good enough fuck and he still tells on you? One way or another this will come out and your husband will be heartbroken.
After reading some of your other posts you clearly have no respect for your husband anyway, fucking people bareback and letting him fuck you after with no knowledge.
What is it the guys say when a married man is disrespectful to their wife? Oh yes, send him round here and I'll show him how a real woman treats him "
Oh I get it now, I'm a bit naive sometimes. Thanks OP, actually felt for you for a moment there. Still, what goes around and all that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He said he wouldnt show my husband if i went round to his on saturday and was nice to him meaning sexually his a creep but dont know if i should do it or not."
Why not invite him next time you shag your best mates boyfriend, then get your husband to lick his cum from you as per usual? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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thats not very cheery cherry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you should sit down and talk to your husband. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If what you wrote is true then what do you expect? It's all very well having xtra men to fuck you if you can't get enough of what you need at home but why do you have to go for drinks and shit like that?
Even a moron would realise that sooner or later someone is going to see you out with another man and ask questions LoL. I know that I am on here and married and looking for a regular fuck buddy but I would never ever take someone else out to places with the chance that someone would see them now gat would be rubbing my wife's nose in it EEG. Though we are less of a couple every day I just would not embarrass her in that way! |
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If you were not a cheating liar in the first place you would not be in such a situation. Do you not think your husband deserves better than that?
A relationship is nothing without trust and respect.
I detest nothing more than a liar.
I hope he finds the truth out about you and kicks you to the kerb and divorces you.
You made your bed now sleep in it |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I was out on saturday with some guy ive been fucking we where in the pub garden having a cheeky grope lol. But i didnt realise that i was seen by my husbands brother who i didnt know was in the pub. He came round today and showed me a picture hed taken on his phone.
He said he wouldnt show my husband if i went round to his on saturday and was nice to him meaning sexually his a creep but dont know if i should do it or not.
maybe let your husband know what a twat brother he's got ?"
Or what a mistake he made marrying you. I have no sympathy for anyone who sleeps around bareback and then has sex with their partner afterwards exposing them unknowingly to risk. YOU choosethe risk but you've not given him a choice.
As others have said - vile indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shakes head |
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"If my hubby new i cheated then my marrige is over so dont think i got choicestop being such a slut then ???? "
^^ what he said ^^
Me I love being a slut but I take no risks with my health and I lie to no one. I've never cheated but been cheated on by my now ex husband. It wasn't the cheating that hurt is was all the lies he told me |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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On a tangent of a sort, does anyone else dislike bad fantasy? |
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there needs to be an element of feasibility about it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You brought this on yourself so just face the consequences |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Ive removed posts and Im closing this now |
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