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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's the best excuse for being unable to accomodate?
Mine has to be that their cat gets jealous so they can't have strangers back!
That along with a pic showing his wedding ring had left me slightly suspicious  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I've had stalkers in the past, he said.
But he was very persistent I should let him come to mine, even though I was a lodger in someone else's house at the time.
I'm safe he said, read my veris. I'll be very discreet, he said.
So I told him I don't stalk people and he should accommodate. No, he said, I don't accommodate.
Neither do I!!! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Why does there have to be an excuse? Why can't you just accept they can not accommodate ?"
I usually do but I've lost count of the number of potential meets who've questioned it and tried to persuade me to change my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will only question it with men who I believe are married/cheating (my own personal preference not to go anywhere near cheats).
I myself can't accomodate sometimes when I have kids at home and I accept people do t have to accomodate but there are some funny reasons why 40 year old "single" men can't accomodate  they must think i was born yesterday lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had stalkers in the past, he said.
But he was very persistent I should let him come to mine, even though I was a lodger in someone else's house at the time.
I'm safe he said, read my veris. I'll be very discreet, he said.
So I told him I don't stalk people and he should accommodate. No, he said, I don't accommodate.
Neither do I!!!"
I love it when people say I'm genuine...like nutters identify themselves straight away lol xx |
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I know men who put they can't accommodate when they can...it's because it's their home and personal space and won't let any tits and fanny come to their home..it's their chose..single men have as much right not to accommodate as single women and couples..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always think there is too much read into people not accommodating. There was a thread the other day I read about why many don't and there was some pretty good reasons for not doing so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had stalkers in the past, he said.
But he was very persistent I should let him come to mine, even though I was a lodger in someone else's house at the time.
I'm safe he said, read my veris. I'll be very discreet, he said.
So I told him I don't stalk people and he should accommodate. No, he said, I don't accommodate.
Neither do I!!!"
Always love the "check my veris" quote...first thing we were offered on here was by someone saying he would verify us to get us started....we now look at verifications verrry carefully |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I don't, won't, and never been asked why not. I wouldn't ask anyone else why they can't either."
I've had a few people ask me why not. Generally I take the view it's none of their business how I run my life. The simple truth is my place is a swine to find and I've no intention of going out in drab mode to wave to someone and then going back in to glam up. No one hardly ever gets to see me in drab mode.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't, won't, and never been asked why not. I wouldn't ask anyone else why they can't either.
I've had a few people ask me why not. Generally I take the view it's none of their business how I run my life. The simple truth is my place is a swine to find and I've no intention of going out in drab mode to wave to someone and then going back in to glam up. No one hardly ever gets to see me in drab mode. "
lol @ drab mode, after seeing your posts in forums I can't ever imagine you as drab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Might get blasted for this...but some women can be rather crazy! I've had stalkers, call my house phone all hours of the night and I'm glad they didn't know where I lived! So this might be a reason.
Also being a lodger might be a reason.
Also living with housemates might be a reason.
Also living with family might be a reason. I didn't move out till very late. And this is more common in these hard financial times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Might get blasted for this...but some women can be rather crazy! I've had stalkers, call my house phone all hours of the night and I'm glad they didn't know where I lived! So this might be a reason.
Also being a lodger might be a reason.
Also living with housemates might be a reason.
Also living with family might be a reason. I didn't move out till very late. And this is more common in these hard financial times. "
what do you mean crazy? The voices in my head want to know
Im unable to accomodate sometimes so I by no means expect everyone to be able to...isn't that why Travel lodges were invented
I was just wondering if anyone had heard any silly reasons why people can't, in conversation!
And not just on Fab either. I remember meeting a guy in a club who I thought was amazing. I shared a room with my sister at the time so couldn't take him back to mine. When I asked if we could go to his he said no because his dad refused to put locks on any doors and often "sleep walked" in on people on the toilet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as a single male in his 40's, I still have my daughter living with me and therefore can only accommodate when I've made other arrangements for the evening/weekend.
However, it IS the right of everyone to choose who enters their front/back door.
IMHO
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind if men cant accommodate, i actually prefer to use hotels, i feel more relaxed on mutual ground than someone's home, what does piss me off however are men who moan at me for not accommodating when they don't |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't mind if men cant accommodate, i actually prefer to use hotels, i feel more relaxed on mutual ground than someone's home, what does piss me off however are men who moan at me for not accommodating when they don't"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will only question it with men who I believe are married/cheating (my own personal preference not to go anywhere near cheats).
I myself can't accomodate sometimes when I have kids at home and I accept people do t have to accomodate but there are some funny reasons why 40 year old "single" men can't accomodate they must think i was born yesterday lol"
I best change my housing situation then otherwise in a few years you will probably think im married!Or maybe I am |
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I've never asked why people don't accommodate. But ifi get messages from people that don't either I just message back saying we won't work out as neither of us accommodate.
I did once meet a guy and in his profile it said can accommodate and he asked to come back to mine. I said no but I'm fine to go his and he said he doesn't accommodate because he is house sharing. Sorry but stupid reason when orofile says you can.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I
will only question it with men who I believe are married/cheating (my
own personal preference not to go anywhere near cheats).
I myself can't accomodate sometimes when I have kids at home and I
accept people do t have to accomodate but there are some funny reasons
why 40 year old "single" men can't accomodate they must think i was
born yesterday lol"
For a while I was unable to accommodate as I had a terminally ill close relative living in part of my house. I had a woman complain I must be married. I explained she was wrong. Assumption can be dangerous |
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"I've never asked why people don't accommodate. But ifi get messages from people that don't either I just message back saying we won't work out as neither of us accommodate.
I did once meet a guy and in his profile it said can accommodate and he asked to come back to mine. I said no but I'm fine to go his and he said he doesn't accommodate because he is house sharing. Sorry but stupid reason when orofile says you can.
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One guy I met who said he accommodated omitted to add only on the floor! |
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"I've never asked why people don't accommodate. But ifi get messages from people that don't either I just message back saying we won't work out as neither of us accommodate.
I did once meet a guy and in his profile it said can accommodate and he asked to come back to mine. I said no but I'm fine to go his and he said he doesn't accommodate because he is house sharing. Sorry but stupid reason when orofile says you can.
One guy I met who said he accommodated omitted to add only on the floor! "
Oh how charming I so must meet such a lovely gentleman |
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