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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed   "
What was wrong with pic? |
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"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed "
it's your profile no one make anyone look at it so as long as the photo isn't breaking site rules then I don't see what their problem would be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My pictures are all sorts. And they're sometimes private, other times public. Won't tickle everyone's fancy..but, it's ykur profile at the end of the day.
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"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed
What was wrong with pic?"
To my mind nothing, it has been used on my profile many times.....they found it objectionable and wanted me to remove it, am still a bit shocked that I was asked to do this, obviously if a mod or admin didn't like it would be removed, but I am trying to figure out the narrow mind of the person on a site like this. |
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"Id tell them to take their eyeballs out and rinse them with bleach if they're that distressed"
Wished I had been quick witted enough to have done so, but as it was the first time ever in 5 years on the site I have had a comment like that  |
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"I probably wouldn't reply. I'd block them to save them the discomfort of seeing my photos ever again.
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My response was lol, don't look again, but haven't blocked them, just to add to their discomfort....me bad!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.
...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?
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"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.
...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?
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Nor me!, I may have said everyone is taller than me when am on my knees. |
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By *LCoupleCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
Depends on whether the person complaining has a connection with the pic, i.e. they or their partner was in it. Then I feel they have the right to request it removed. If not however then I'd simply say "Don't look then". |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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"Depends on whether the person complaining has a connection with the pic, i.e. they or their partner was in it. Then I feel they have the right to request it removed. If not however then I'd simply say "Don't look then"."
Person lives hundreds of miles away and I have not nor would have met them, but appreciate the comment |
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""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above. "
Brilliant!! If I thought I would have the comment again I will use that quote mwah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above. "
This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.
...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?
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That's harsh!
Had someone message me today saying I look good for my age. I said it was a backhanded compliment.
Best thing was he was confused by what I meant. ha |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above.
This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time. "
Actually, it's passive/aggressive.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had someone message me just to suggest that there was no need for me to post all of my veris. i bluntly responded that it was my profile, and id show what i damn well liked |
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""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above.
This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time. "
Cut and paste doesn't take much time or effort though and it is a good use or words, and they really can't take (any more) offence and report you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above.
This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time.
Cut and paste doesn't take much time or effort though and it is a good use or words, and they really can't take (any more) offence and report you? "
Yeah true. Plus I would find that type of response more annoying do I guess it serves it's purpose lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.
...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?
That's harsh!
Had someone message me today saying I look good for my age. I said it was a backhanded compliment.
Best thing was he was confused by what I meant. ha "
I just had to reply by saying 'thanks...i think'.
..i haven't had a compliment in a while. So, i'm taking that in my stride.
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"If the pic has been approved by a mod then I would block the person, that way they need never be offended by my pics again. Simple."
Left them unblocked so they can be offended again, if they decide to look, also reported the profile  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above.
This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time.
Cut and paste doesn't take much time or effort though and it is a good use or words, and they really can't take (any more) offence and report you?
Yeah true. Plus I would find that type of response more annoying do I guess it serves it's purpose lol"
That was the point of it. Then you block to piss them off further as they can't respond. And you've broken no site rules. I often respond like this if someone is rude. Gives me a sense of smug satisfaction - bitch that I am. |
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""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above.
This type if response is wishy washy. It's being polite and rude at the same time (passive). If you think someone a cock, just call them a cock. Simple and takes less time.
Cut and paste doesn't take much time or effort though and it is a good use or words, and they really can't take (any more) offence and report you?
Yeah true. Plus I would find that type of response more annoying do I guess it serves it's purpose lol
That was the point of it. Then you block to piss them off further as they can't respond. And you've broken no site rules. I often respond like this if someone is rude. Gives me a sense of smug satisfaction - bitch that I am. "
Loving you! ;-0x...am also going to post some more pics of same ilk so if they look again they will be gagging lmao  |
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""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above. "
Did this but changed wording to "unreasoned and unsolicited"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends, what they object to and how they word the objection. If they say the background is messy for instance then I may well review the picture and possibly thank them and swap it out.
If they have some rights over the picture e.g. some of their body parts are in it then I would remove it no questions asked.
If they just don't like a legit picture content then block and forget. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above.
Did this but changed wording to "unreasoned and unsolicited" "
Hope you blocked right after! |
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""Thank you for your reasoned, if unsolicited, critique of one of my pictures. I realise that we all have different likes and dislikes. However, simply because you have an opinion, it does not necessarily mean that you are entitled to enforce someone to hear or see it.
Since you have seen fit to ensure I know your thoughts on one of my pictures, allow me to share one of mine. It is my opinion that your perspective of any part of my profile is a complete irrelevance to me. I further believe you should do as the good Book says: go forth and multiply."
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Feel free to copy and paste the above.
Did this but changed wording to "unreasoned and unsolicited"
Hope you blocked right after! "
No I am being bad so when I post more pictures like those they can be more offended....  ,I haven't blocked the profile so I can send admin to messages as am not sure if they are deleted just from the profiles or from the database;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It still baffles me as to why some people waste their time messaging stuff like that. They really should get a life and message people they are interested in rather than bothering people they clearly have no interest in. |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.
...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?
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did it make you happy? dopey lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.
...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?
did it make you happy? dopey lol"
Yeah. I finally got a message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed "
Probably the same as I would if someone asked me to chop my cock of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed it's your profile no one make anyone look at it so as long as the photo isn't breaking site rules then I don't see what their problem would be. "
The only problems I've had with pics is cock pics and skid marks in men's boxers! |
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"didn't meet with someone else's approval, with a request to remove it....would your answer be rude or polite?...my reply was very polite, but pointed it's your profile no one make anyone look at it so as long as the photo isn't breaking site rules then I don't see what their problem would be.
The only problems I've had with pics is cock pics and skid marks in men's boxers! "
yuck lol, not had that yet, hopefully never will |
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"I have had this happen to me, quite a few times actually, I ignore and never reply "
Really had it a few times?
Bloody hell there must be some saddos here if they object to any of your pictures, nothing offensive or disturbing in any of your pics., and can appreciate that you don't reply |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I would refer them to Arkell v Pressdram 1971
ermmm me have to look that up, thanks will do tomorrow when back online"
Arkell v. Pressdram (1971) [unreported]
Solicitor (Goodman Derrick & Co.):
We act for Mr Arkell who is Retail Credit Manager of Granada TV Rental Ltd. His attention has been drawn to an article appearing in the issue of Private Eye dated 9th April 1971 on page 4. The statements made about Mr Arkell are entirely untrue and clearly highly defamatory. We are therefore instructed to require from you immediately your proposals for dealing with the matter. Mr Arkell's first concern is that there should be a full retraction at the earliest possible date in Private Eye and he will also want his costs paid. His attitude to damages will be governed by the nature of your reply.
Private Eye:
We acknowledge your letter of 29th April referring to Mr J. Arkell. We note that Mr Arkell's attitude to damages will be governed by the nature of our reply and would therefore be grateful if you would inform us what his attitude to damages would be, were he to learn that the nature of our reply is as follows: fuck off.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mind you. I got a message today from someone saying i'm quite cute for a dwarf.
...now, i don't know what to make of that message. Was that a compliment or a back handed slap?
That's harsh!
Had someone message me today saying I look good for my age. I said it was a backhanded compliment.
Best thing was he was confused by what I meant. ha "
i had a similar one. apparently i am 'some bit of gear for 40'..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if they are going to go out of their way to be rude, I would say piss off and look at someone else's then.
If there is nothing good to say, then say nothing at all.
Her |
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"I would refer them to Arkell v Pressdram 1971
ermmm me have to look that up, thanks will do tomorrow when back online
Arkell v. Pressdram (1971) [unreported]
Solicitor (Goodman Derrick & Co.):
We act for Mr Arkell who is Retail Credit Manager of Granada TV Rental Ltd. His attention has been drawn to an article appearing in the issue of Private Eye dated 9th April 1971 on page 4. The statements made about Mr Arkell are entirely untrue and clearly highly defamatory. We are therefore instructed to require from you immediately your proposals for dealing with the matter. Mr Arkell's first concern is that there should be a full retraction at the earliest possible date in Private Eye and he will also want his costs paid. His attitude to damages will be governed by the nature of your reply.
Private Eye:
We acknowledge your letter of 29th April referring to Mr J. Arkell. We note that Mr Arkell's attitude to damages will be governed by the nature of our reply and would therefore be grateful if you would inform us what his attitude to damages would be, were he to learn that the nature of our reply is as follows: fuck off.
[No further reply]
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lmao, thanks |
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"Well if they are going to go out of their way to be rude, I would say piss off and look at someone else's then.
If there is nothing good to say, then say nothing at all.
Her"
Appreciate that, in messages I am not rude, I just point out that if they had read my profile they should not have sent me a message as they are wasting their time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well if they are going to go out of their way to be rude, I would say piss off and look at someone else's then.
If there is nothing good to say, then say nothing at all.
Her
Appreciate that, in messages I am not rude, I just point out that if they had read my profile they should not have sent me a message as they are wasting their time"
Treat as your treated |
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"Well if they are going to go out of their way to be rude, I would say piss off and look at someone else's then.
If there is nothing good to say, then say nothing at all.
Her
Appreciate that, in messages I am not rude, I just point out that if they had read my profile they should not have sent me a message as they are wasting their time Treat as your treated "
fair enough, just waiting to give me a rude reply so can report again |
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"my pics my profile, so sod em they don't have to look "
reported profile and looks like admin blocked us from each other as after the last message I checked the profile & can only see two wee boxes, not the usual "you have blocked" or "they blocked you" message, thanks mods/admin, will save that profile some grief or heartburn lol |
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