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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, first I'd like to say hello all 
So I am new to the world of swinging and also very excites about getting started but I don't seem to have gotten anywhere as yet and hints or tips very welcome also how does one start to go about getting verified ready for meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will find the more thought and effort you put into your messages, the more success you'll have. View profiles in detail and try to find some common ground, shared turn ons, for example, and make a point of bringing this up in your message. Also try to see what the tone is in their profile - quite formal, bit shy, very down and dirty and message accordingly. Ultimately, I think that's all you can do. A bit like sex, what works for one person won't do it for the next so it can be a case of potluck, especially for single straight men! Good luck. It'll happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell the women here a bit more about yourself. Oh and maybe change your profile pic to a torso shot. Personally I don't like seeing avatar pics of a cock, you can have it as a public pic and they will look if they want to. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't get verified "ready for meets". You get verified by HAVING meets. To do that you need to put in some effort.
6 weeks without success means you probably need to look at your profile and your approach. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Welcome to the forums,
You ll find lots of useful (and useless) advice in the archives its generic advice so you ll have to put your personality into the text,
I believe the H factor is needed
Honesty,, 
Humour.. 
Hung like a horse* 
If you can display these in your messages and profile you ll do well,
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* the hung bit isn t inportant thats just for the fabs  |
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"Tell the women here a bit more about yourself. Oh and maybe change your profile pic to a torso shot. Personally I don't like seeing avatar pics of a cock, you can have it as a public pic and they will look if they want to. Good luck "
agree with the above. Also try organised socials or going to clubs..x |
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You dont need to have shag meets to get verified as anyone you have met can do that. The more established they are, probably the more weight your profile will gain. Youve been to clubs, so Id encourage you to carry on going. Look for others to meet of any gender- decent people, for a laugh, beer, whatever. Follow profile help tips if it makes sense and the changes reflect you - not all ideas will be accurate and reflect everyone. Use the forums, get known and never be negative about much, as it deters others. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tell the women here a bit more about yourself. Oh and maybe change your profile pic to a torso shot. Personally I don't like seeing avatar pics of a cock, you can have it as a public pic and they will look if they want to. Good luck
agree with the above. Also try organised socials or going to clubs..x"
Any socials going on in the north west? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell the women here a bit more about yourself. Oh and maybe change your profile pic to a torso shot. Personally I don't like seeing avatar pics of a cock, you can have it as a public pic and they will look if they want to. Good luck
agree with the above. Also try organised socials or going to clubs..x
Any socials going on in the north west? "
You can find that information by looking in the appopriate forum section...try meets, events, clubs and uk sections for a start |
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