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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Suck don't they. Been a month and still can't get her out of my head. I know I'm only 21 but I thought she was the one.
Treated her like shit being young and dumb my god don't I regret it.
Gay rant over thanks for listening  |
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That what happens when you treat people like shit....you don't know what you had until you have lost it...maybe have a rethink on how you treat others in the future...
If you don't treat a person with respect and love....someone else will...I'm sure you will be right as rain soon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Break ups are tough, by the sounds of it youve only got to blame, so man up move on and be a better man.
Recently went through one my self, she was unbelievably nice to me, thoughtful, kind, caring and understanding but it lacked that spark. I felt like a dick finishing things but i couldnt give her what she deserved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Break ups can make you do all sorts of mad things ... like joining swingers sites the week before it happens and not being able to decide on your own age 
By your own admission you were a dick.
Recognising it is one thing
Now it's up to you to do something about it before you meet the next lady 'lucky' enough to call you her partner.
Then all you have to do is keep yourself in check. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap
You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?
Am I reading that right ?
Or you getting confused with numbers again ? |
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"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap
You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?
Am I reading that right ?
Or you getting confused with numbers again ?"
He has 22 on his profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap
You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?
Am I reading that right ?
Or you getting confused with numbers again ?
He has 22 on his profile "
but only 21 in his op
must be the turmoil of the break up
poor lad doesn't know where he's up to ... |
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"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap
You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?
Am I reading that right ?
Or you getting confused with numbers again ?
He has 22 on his profile
but only 21 in his op
must be the turmoil of the break up
poor lad doesn't know where he's up to ..."
I know I feel his pain |
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All first relationship breakups are hard, even those that are making light of your breakup have been there at least once.
Try and learn by your mistakes, none of us where perfect at your age and not so as weve matured.
Give yourself time out and if/when you meet someone else you will have more maturity for a relationship. 15 is young to get into a long relationship, not many people stay with their first loves |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"All first relationship breakups are hard, even those that are making light of your breakup have been there at least once.
Try and learn by your mistakes, none of us where perfect at your age and not so as weve matured.
Give yourself time out and if/when you meet someone else you will have more maturity for a relationship. 15 is young to get into a long relationship, not many people stay with their first loves"
I agree Diamonds.  Does it really matter what his age is or isnt? He didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued.
Having your heart broken, whether self inflicted or not is painful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Took me the better part of a year to get over my last break up, we had been together for 5 years. We do survive these things, though it sometimes feels like we will never get over them |
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"All first relationship breakups are hard, even those that are making light of your breakup have been there at least once.
Try and learn by your mistakes, none of us where perfect at your age and not so as weve matured.
Give yourself time out and if/when you meet someone else you will have more maturity for a relationship. 15 is young to get into a long relationship, not many people stay with their first lovesI agree Diamonds. Does it really matter what his age is or isnt? He didn't ask for his profile to be critiqued.
Having your heart broken, whether self inflicted or not is painful."
Very true...Op sorry if I came across as rude...time is a great healer in break ups |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap
You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?
Am I reading that right ?
Or you getting confused with numbers again ?"
I thought exactly the same. Why was a 20 year old woman with a school boy?  |
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"So she is now 26 and you are 21, so that is a 5 year age gap
You met her when you were 15 (and therefore school age) and she would have been 20 ?
Am I reading that right ?
Or you getting confused with numbers again ? I thought exactly the same. Why was a 20 year old woman with a school boy? "
Maybe he was mature for his age and she was young, doesnt mean they necessarily had sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We didn't sleep together till I was 16. She was a mates older sister so know here since I was a lot younger. We moved in with each other when I was 18 and out relationship didn't really take off till then. I hope this clears up some questions haha |
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"We didn't sleep together till I was 16. She was a mates older sister so know here since I was a lot younger. We moved in with each other when I was 18 and out relationship didn't really take off till then. I hope this clears up some questions haha"
You never needed to explain yourself, however I do hope that you can move on from the break up and reflect on mistakes that were made...you are young enjoy single life for a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In time you will look back on this as a lesson in life, although painful it's experiences like these who make you who you are, good luck and it does get better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Young man as the saying goes, treat them mean keeps them keen, its not true.
We never know what we have until its gone, Woo her up a bit and you never know, never say never.
Good luck.
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Suck don't they. Been a month and still can't get her out of my head. I know I'm only 21 but I thought she was the one.
Treated her like shit being young and dumb my god don't I regret it.
Gay rant over thanks for listening "
Break ups are never fun but you are young and have clearly reflected on your behaviour. Live and learn, onwards and upwards as they say.
Not sure why you describe it as 'gay' though |
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