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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering, how many fabsters would meet other fabsters just to meet.
I am not saying to play, but just to meet others who have spare time and like minded in the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met like minded couples on holidays before and found it nice and relaxing to chat.
However the same cannot be said for the likeminded single guys we have come across. |
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We met several couples whilst on holiday in gran canaria. We went to the bars and clubs with them at night and also met up on the beach some days. No play was involved but it was great to have met some great like minded people who we will see again in the future.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't go out of my way to meet up with a fabber on holiday purely because they're on fab,we always end up meeting lots of people on holiday and having a good laugh with them anyway
Although if a play opportunity presented itself then I may take it  |
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Fab is just a part of my life, though sex is an important part of it. Many ways to find sex with the right people, on hols and in general life. I tend to have a varied social group too and may get bored with too much weight in one area. Id meet the right people, and continue to avoid the wrong ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At Cap d'Agde it is hard NOT to meet couples in the lifestyle. The people we have met have been fun and relaxed however we never intended, nor have we, played.
What we did find though is with single guys they think because we are there, we are there for their convenience and she is automatically free game for them!
For a couple of them, that was a REAL bad mistake to make.
But to be fair, that is no different to the behaviour of the majority of single guys on here really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At Cap d'Agde it is hard NOT to meet couples in the lifestyle. The people we have met have been fun and relaxed however we never intended, nor have we, played.
What we did find though is with single guys they think because we are there, we are there for their convenience and she is automatically free game for them!
For a couple of them, that was a REAL bad mistake to make.
But to be fair, that is no different to the behaviour of the majority of single guys on here really."
Why don't you block single guys from messaging you? Make your profile a lot less ranty if you do |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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This year will be the first holiday I'll be on my own, and I'll probably put a post up on the worldwide forum nearer the sate, but I am not going to make an effort to travel across the island just because. If someone is nearby then maybe a drink and chat will be on the cards. Otherwise I'll rely on my charm and chat up a local. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At Cap d'Agde it is hard NOT to meet couples in the lifestyle. The people we have met have been fun and relaxed however we never intended, nor have we, played.
What we did find though is with single guys they think because we are there, we are there for their convenience and she is automatically free game for them!
For a couple of them, that was a REAL bad mistake to make.
But to be fair, that is no different to the behaviour of the majority of single guys on here really."
So that's twice in one thread you have bashed single guys.
Most will probably be put off by your moaning anyway.  |
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"At Cap d'Agde it is hard NOT to meet couples in the lifestyle. The people we have met have been fun and relaxed however we never intended, nor have we, played.
What we did find though is with single guys they think because we are there, we are there for their convenience and she is automatically free game for them!
For a couple of them, that was a REAL bad mistake to make.
But to be fair, that is no different to the behaviour of the majority of single guys on here really."
In my opinion there are lots of guys on here that are extremely respectful. Its a real shame they get such a bad name at times like this. It must take some real guts to meet couples and have physical contact with someone else's lady...
Big up to the single guys!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At Cap d 'Agde it is hard NOT to meet couples in the lifestyle. The people we have met have been fun and relaxed however we never intended, nor have we, played.
What we did find though is with single guys they think because we are there, we are there for their convenience and she is automatically free game for them!
For a couple of them, that was a REAL bad mistake to make.
But to be fair, that is no different to the behaviour of the majority of single guys on here really.
In my opinion there are lots of guys on here that are extremely respectful. Its a real shame they get such a bad name at times like this. It must take some real guts to meet couples and have physical contact with someone else's lady...
Big up to the single guys!
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Thanks for your support  but I have seen some single men being demanding and even Possessive over potential play friends. Which in my mind is craaaazzzzy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sunlovinnude, what we are not saying is that you belong to the majority of tosser single guys. You may well be a decent one however it is a shame that the arseholes out there give you a bad name. You will have surely heard all the horror stories of single guys giving people abuse just for saying no?
Voyeur33, while you are fully entitled to your opinion, so are we, although we are not speaking from opinion we are speaking from experience.
And as for you last comment about single guys being put of by our moaning do you think we really give a toss? We would be extremely happy if it puts you all off as we have no interest in any of you. Like everyone else on here, freedom of choice.
We do not want to get into the blocking discussion again. Our profile is described as ranty above. Again opinions are respected but we are happy the way it is.
However if people read and respect our profile. blocking is surely irrelevant isn't it?
But back to the original topic.
Meeting the right people on holiday? Great relaxing fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sunlovinnude, what we are not saying is that you belong to the majority of tosser single guys. You may well be a decent one however it is a shame that the arseholes out there give you a bad name. You will have surely heard all the horror stories of single guys giving people abuse just for saying no?
Voyeur33, while you are fully entitled to your opinion, so are we, although we are not speaking from opinion we are speaking from experience.
And as for you last comment about single guys being put of by our moaning do you think we really give a toss? We would be extremely happy if it puts you all off as we have no interest in any of you. Like everyone else on here, freedom of choice.
We do not want to get into the blocking discussion again. Our profile is described as ranty above. Again opinions are respected but we are happy the way it is.
However if people read and respect our profile. blocking is surely irrelevant isn't it?
But back to the original topic.
Meeting the right people on holiday? Great relaxing fun."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sunlovinnude, what we are not saying is that you belong to the majority of tosser single guys. You may well be a decent one however it is a shame that the arseholes out there give you a bad name. You will have surely heard all the horror stories of single guys giving people abuse just for saying no?
Voyeur33, while you are fully entitled to your opinion, so are we, although we are not speaking from opinion we are speaking from experience.
And as for you last comment about single guys being put of by our moaning do you think we really give a toss? We would be extremely happy if it puts you all off as we have no interest in any of you. Like everyone else on here, freedom of choice.
We do not want to get into the blocking discussion again. Our profile is described as ranty above. Again opinions are respected but we are happy the way it is.
However if people read and respect our profile. blocking is surely irrelevant isn't it?
But back to the original topic.
Meeting the right people on holiday? Great relaxing fun."
Completely agree and I hope you find the people you are looking for.But in my opinion based on your conduct in the forum if I had a female playmate I would avoid you like the plague. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sunlovinnude, what we are not saying is that you belong to the majority of tosser single guys. You may well be a decent one however it is a shame that the arseholes out there give you a bad name. You will have surely heard all the horror stories of single guys giving people abuse just for saying no?
Voyeur33, while you are fully entitled to your opinion, so are we, although we are not speaking from opinion we are speaking from experience.
And as for you last comment about single guys being put of by our moaning do you think we really give a toss? We would be extremely happy if it puts you all off as we have no interest in any of you. Like everyone else on here, freedom of choice.
We do not want to get into the blocking discussion again. Our profile is described as ranty above. Again opinions are respected but we are happy the way it is.
However if people read and respect our profile. blocking is surely irrelevant isn't it?
But back to the original topic.
Meeting the right people on holiday? Great relaxing fun."
I suggest you read the original post again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering, how many fabsters would meet other fabsters just to meet.
I am not saying to play, but just to meet others who have spare time and like minded in the lifestyle. "
Yeah, but only to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Voyeur33.
Thanks for your comments.
There would be absolutely no need to avoid us as you would not even cause us to take a second look so we guess our conduct and profile has had EXACTLY the effect we intended. Interestingly enough we have found that decent single guys have contacted us agreeing fully with what we say-strange that!
You and a playmate, no interest to us either as it says in our profile so it is great we are not looking for people like you.
Back to the original topic, still fun to meet the right people on holiday as we have found. The key is meting the type of people you want to meet, not the ones who want to harass you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Voyeur33.
Thanks for your comments.
There would be absolutely no need to avoid us as you would not even cause us to take a second look so we guess our conduct and profile has had EXACTLY the effect we intended. Interestingly enough we have found that decent single guys have contacted us agreeing fully with what we say-strange that!
You and a playmate, no interest to us either as it says in our profile so it is great we are not looking for people like you.
Back to the original topic, still fun to meet the right people on holiday as we have found. The key is meting the type of people you want to meet, not the ones who want to harass you."
Very strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Strange to you maybe, but it reads pretty clear to most.
This is exactly the type of thing that gets single guys the reputation they have.
Like we said, please avoid us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Voyeur33.
Thanks for your comments.
There would be absolutely no need to avoid us as you would not even cause us to take a second look so we guess our conduct and profile has had EXACTLY the effect we intended. Interestingly enough we have found that decent single guys have contacted us agreeing fully with what we say-strange that!
You and a playmate, no interest to us either as it says in our profile so it is great we are not looking for people like you.
Back to the original topic, still fun to meet the right people on holiday as we have found. The key is meting the type of people you want to meet, not the ones who want to harass you."
Your profile does say your after MF couples though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange to you maybe, but it reads pretty clear to most.
This is exactly the type of thing that gets single guys the reputation they have.
Like we said, please avoid us."
You came on a thread and bashed single guys for no reason whatsoever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did not bash whatsoever, just made honest comments that even decent single guys agree with!
We have had plenty of guys act like arseholes on here and when we have been on holiday and if you have taken the care to read all our comments, we have said MOST not ALL. The thread is about opinions on meeting people on holiday and we simply gave that.
If you choose to be part of the offended most section that is your choice.
Cute and sassy, although we say mf, we also say no fuck buddies, however we take your point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We did not bash whatsoever, just made honest comments that even decent single guys agree with!
We have had plenty of guys act like arseholes on here and when we have been on holiday and if you have taken the care to read all our comments, we have said MOST not ALL. The thread is about opinions on meeting people on holiday and we simply gave that.
If you choose to be part of the offended most section that is your choice.
Cute and sassy, although we say mf, we also say no fuck buddies, however we take your point."
You keep saying back to the original topic but im afraid you are the ones that brought it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met like minded couples on holidays before and found it nice and relaxing to chat.
However the same cannot be said for the likeminded single guys we have come across.
Think that was our second post.
We brought up the misbehaviour of some single guys when meeting on holidays.
Yes we did bring it up, and as it was after saying we would met people on holiday depending on who it was, this was a point relevant to this topic.
May we ask you to point out where you mentioned anything about the original topic?
Surely if you fit in the category of decent single guys you would agree with our comments?
After all, have you experienced the type of bad behaviour on holidays that we have from single guys?
We have a few times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you condone bad behaviour Voyeur33?
It seems that you do not like the fact we have stated something that happens often and has happened to us both on here and on our holidays? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have met like minded couples on holidays before and found it nice and relaxing to chat.
However the same cannot be said for the likeminded single guys we have come across."
You have put all single guys you have met in the same bracket. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt travel miles out of my way to meet, but if we were in the same place then i dont see why a social exchange couldnt take place, id meet other locals so its the same kinda thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am pretty sure that getting laid on holiday, especially for singles is considerably easier than it is at home. Why go through the logistics of arranging a meet with the complications of timing and geography, when you can walk into any bar and pull a vanilla for the night 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course we have Voyeur33, because that is how they have behaved.
What exactly is your problem? Has it touched a nerve??
If the type of behaviour we are talking about is not the way that you behave, why all this disagreement?
Surely people who behave badly should be spoken about??
If you do not agree with this type of behaviour you should be agreeing with us so that we can all see that decent single guys find this behaviour just as unacceptable as we do.
We ask again, do you agree with this type of behaviour? You didn't seem to answer that.
We have met couples on holiday and had a great laugh, and come across single guys who act like total pricks. We will be a lot more careful who we talk to next time.
Was that not the original subject? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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John Connie.
We agree totally with you.
We met two great couples last year. Had a nice relaxing time but no playing.
We have all arranged to met in Cap again this Summer.
The guys we met however decided that because of what my wife was wearing she was theirs to have.
Meeting like-minded couples on holidays? We have enjoyed it!
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By *LCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"I am pretty sure that getting laid on holiday, especially for singles is considerably easier than it is at home. Why go through the logistics of arranging a meet with the complications of timing and geography, when you can walk into any bar and pull a vanilla for the night
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Certainly for Singles that's probably true. It's a bit hard for couples. One of us could be chatting up someone but eventually you'll have to do the and this is my wife/husband, fancy a threesome?
We certainly would consider meeting someone socially (and maybe more) whilst on holiday. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course we have Voyeur33, because that is how they have behaved.
What exactly is your problem? Has it touched a nerve??
If the type of behaviour we are talking about is not the way that you behave, why all this disagreement?
Surely people who behave badly should be spoken about??
If you do not agree with this type of behaviour you should be agreeing with us so that we can all see that decent single guys find this behaviour just as unacceptable as we do.
We ask again, do you agree with this type of behaviour? You didn't seem to answer that.
We have met couples on holiday and had a great laugh, and come across single guys who act like total pricks. We will be a lot more careful who we talk to next time.
Was that not the original subject?"
I'm not disagreeing,just don't think you should tar everybody with the same brush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Voyeur33.
Would you like to please take some time, then show us where exactly we have tarred everyone with the same brush??
We can't see it.
We have used the words 'majority' and 'most' what do those words mean to you?
Are you reading something else?
Have you taken a few minutes to think about how this makes you look?
You seem to be fixated on something that we haven't said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have met like minded couples on holidays before and found it nice and relaxing to chat.
However the same cannot be said for the likeminded single guys we have come across."
^Here^
I have nothing further to add to be honest,I've looked at previous threads that you have posted on and you are very argumentative in quite a few of them.
So im just going to walk away and not return to this thread,i hope you have a nice holiday when you go away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha ha ha!!
The single guys we have come across.
Does that mean all?? No.
You have tried to twist something to suit yourself and failed miserably.
There is nothing wrong in being argumentative when you are right, however when you are wrong like you are it appears silly and childish. You portray yourself as adult and mature on your profile (before you blocked us!) so why spoil it all by acting this way?
We make no bones that we don't think much of single guys and we base that on the way we have been treated.
You however want to invent things that haven't been said.
And you used the word 'argumentative'?
Thanks for your thoughts on our holiday. We always enjoy our time at Cap in spite of the single guys!
See ya! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny Mysterious Guy!
Seriously though, it isn't hard to be decent.
Show others the respect you would like to receive, and respect other's choices.
We are sure there are SOME like that, but a lot on here seem to think that couples are here at their beck and call.
Have fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering, how many fabsters would meet other fabsters just to meet.
I am not saying to play, but just to meet others who have spare time and like minded in the lifestyle. "
I only meet women for the social aspect, if sparks fly from that so be it but i never meet with expectations of sex.
It's actually nice to meet people you can talk to about this side of life, i always struggle to integrate it into a conversation at the office  |
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