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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

or do they suck the fun out it by turning it into some boring dating with endless rules, endless talking etc.

Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??

Interested to hear some of your experiences.

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Sits quietly in the corner of the room and awaits the onslaught ...

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I come on here to suck the fun out of all sexual experiences - not just my own but yours too.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

some will, some wont..

same as some men will and some wont..

same as..

etc etc

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS over a year ago

Limavady

Well that's the way not to find out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I come on here to suck the fun out of all sexual experiences - not just my own but yours too.

I thought we were meant to do that...is that where I'm going wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This should be good. Evening entertainment! Popcorn anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Zzzzzzzz

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I'm in a relationship and certainly not looking for another.....so only extra regular sex for me

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

"or do they suck the fun out it by turning it into some boring dating with endless rules, endless talking etc.

Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??

Interested to hear some of your experiences.

Why don't you just make your complaints, rather than hiding behind questions?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

think ill find a shit shield on this one ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After 7 days you ask this question! You might be digging a hole for yourself here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This should be good. Evening entertainment! Popcorn anyone? "

ohhh yes please ill provide the drinks!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I come on here to suck the fun out of all sexual experiences - not just my own but yours too.

I thought we were meant to do that...is that where I'm going wrong?

Haven't I sucked the fun out of your experiences yet?

I know sucking is involved somehow.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"or do they suck the fun out it by turning it into some boring dating with endless rules, endless talking etc.

Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??

Interested to hear some of your experiences.

"
OP, I think you have a point or three, but some are here for all those as well as sex. But some are here just for sex, good luck finding the latter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm here to swap knitting patterns, and recipes with ladies.

The vents I love their flying through windows with rope and milk tray under their arms.

I have no intention of having sex its filthy.

My ego lol watch the forums, not many woman do that

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some do. Some don't.

I think some men should understand that it's not safe for women to just meet anyone or everyone straight away without boring chitchat as you put it. I like to get to know someone before I fuck them, if they don't want to get to know me as well then tough luck, their loss!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"or do they suck the fun out it by turning it into some boring dating with endless rules, endless talking etc.

Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??

Interested to hear some of your experiences.

I'm with you there Bruv, Lets face it any woman who wont open her legs without any of that talking bollox has to be frigid right ?

Suicide is painless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"or do they suck the fun out it by turning it into some boring dating with endless rules, endless talking etc.

Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??

Interested to hear some of your experiences.

Have you considered that your senses of expectation and entitlement may be the issue here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like chatting, messaging, flirting & sex.....not necessarily in that order or all at the same time!

You get out what you put in, simples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sits quietly in the corner of the room and awaits the onslaught ...

Sits next to Enigma wide eyed and innocent looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why, do men?

Oh, wait.

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By *ackandkateCouple over a year ago

Truro

I'm fed up being used as a sex toy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

'Pulls up a chair and orders popcorn'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes! I also enjoy the banter and flirting - all part of the fun for me

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"This should be good. Evening entertainment! Popcorn anyone? "

I'll sit with you and share the goodies hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aw x you havent met the right one yet x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as you put the Sydney University, human rights and European Convention disclaimers, with all the correct articles, you'll have women falling at your feet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sits quietly in the corner of the room and awaits the onslaught ...

Move over gorgeous I have popcorn

Can someone call Tina.......

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"Sits quietly in the corner of the room and awaits the onslaught ...

Sits next to Enigma wide eyed and innocent looking

I have the same face on as you hehe

pass the popcorn hun x

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By *utumnWoman over a year ago

leeds

Glad I live up north!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok, who mentions Instashag first?!

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Tinaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm just here to get annoyed with men sending me messages. The very cheek of it!

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup, we're all out having wild spontaneous sex with the guys with lots of pics and concise, positive, non-ranty profile text!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"or do they suck the fun out it by turning it into some boring dating with endless rules, endless talking etc.

Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??

Interested to hear some of your experiences.

You might want to weight those questions just a touch more. Next time you post don't forget to call us needy bitches. That always gets attention.

I joined Fab to meet men for NSA sex but got kind of sidetracked by the quite frankly crazy people I met on the forums. So I have to admit the single man meets have declined, and the Fab Socials have increased because they're more fun.

The problem for me is that it seems there are quite a lot of men who also don't want to meet. they want to talk dirty, rub one out at my expense, then disappear, never to be heard from again. If its a choice between being stood up in a pub and meeting a group of lovely people, guess which way I'll be going?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ok, who mentions Instashag first?!

You did

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I certainly come on here for sex, although I insist on a a social first to see if we click. Met a gent tonight after getting a message from him last Thursday - we had a nice drink and chat and will hopefully arrange a play meet in the near future...I've also had socials that have turned into play meets (one of my most enjoyable was 4 hours after the first message we were getting jiggy in a deserted car park) and I've had socials where there's been no attraction on mine or his part and we've left it at that...

I think after only 7 days you need to cultivate a little patience, go with the flow and hopefully you'll end up getting your end up

Welcome to Fab

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Yes. With guys, girls and couples they actually like. It might take talking to someone to figure out if you like them. Or reading their profile to know straight away you won't so there's no point wasting their valuable time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope its not the case, I'm on here hoping to learn how to make Vol au vent's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This should be good. Evening entertainment! Popcorn anyone? "

Begins sucking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And yet theres a Private message me please on a previous post..Just saying like

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hope its not the case, I'm on here hoping to learn how to make Vol au vent's"
prawns ones?

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"or do they suck the fun out it by turning it into some boring dating with endless rules, endless talking etc.

Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??

Interested to hear some of your experiences.

An awful lot seem to do those things. But in answer to your first question - yes some just like a fuck

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I'm fed up being used as a sex toy

I thought you were a sex object Jack? Don't women object when you want sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some do. Some don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ha ha ha ha..Too funny;-p

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

I like the way that, because it's a swinging site, you should apparently not be bothered about establishing any kind of rapport. Just dive in! Sure, the person you meet might turn out to be at best an arsehole or at worst dangerous, but you wouldn't want to upset the OP by having a conversation or something!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I first came on here a few months ago I was mainly looking for nsa sex with men. I met a few men and the sex was so bad that I'm now only looking for women.

I tell you this site will turn you good and proper.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men and women are turned on by different things usually. Anything that bends over n resembles a pussy a man will fuck . Woman need to be flirted with n teased its more then emptying their saks This isnt everyones take but I bet a few agree lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I first came on here a few months ago I was mainly looking for nsa sex with men. I met a few men and the sex was so bad that I'm now only looking for women.

I tell you this site will turn you good and proper.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, who mentions Instashag first?!

You did

I know, do I get a prize

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"I hope its not the case, I'm on here hoping to learn how to make Vol au vent's"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hope its not the case, I'm on here hoping to learn how to make Vol au vent's"

I can show you how to use that handy little tool of yours to make the bit wiht the hole in if you like

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

Well two of the Ladies I have met in here keep having a damned good try at sucking the fun out of my plums each time we meet up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This guy has got a point.

You ladies need to quit yapping and just drop your knickers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This guy has got a point.

You ladies need to quit yapping and just drop your knickers. "

I'm not wearing any

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people would argue that its not swinging if you're single. So a sense of entitlement from a guy on a swinging site is a bit moronic. Some would say. Not me though cos I wouldn't wanna upset the OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It is good to see some people can understand the question whilst other focus on something totally different.

Very entertaining replies especially since no one said anything about not talking before meeting..ha ha. The pertinent word is "Endlessly".

But yeah, I guess a few can but most want a bit dating and ego massaging before sex;-p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This guy has got a point.

You ladies need to quit yapping and just drop your knickers.

I'm not wearing any"

Assume the position and brace yourself

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This guy has got a point.

You ladies need to quit yapping and just drop your knickers.

I'm not wearing any"

Nor me xD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This guy has got a point.

You ladies need to quit yapping and just drop your knickers.

I'm not wearing any

Nor me xD "

Butt naked here

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now it could be fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is good to see some people can understand the question whilst other focus on something totally different.

Very entertaining replies especially since no one said anything about not talking before meeting..ha ha. The pertinent word is "Endlessly".

But yeah, I guess a few can but most want a bit dating and ego massaging before sex;-p"

What do you mean by 'a bit of dating and ego massaging'?

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"It is good to see some people can understand the question whilst other focus on something totally different.

Very entertaining replies especially since no one said anything about not talking before meeting..ha ha. The pertinent word is "Endlessly".

But yeah, I guess a few can but most want a bit dating and ego massaging before sex;-p"
You expected to touch a few nerves though....thank you OP you have made me smile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this an "I've had a frustrating weekend of let downs" post by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You all still need to complete part one of that request though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet, I don't meet everyone who mails me though, I'm sure all the ones who I reject think I'm a time waster but why would I care what they think? the guys I like and meet know I'm not

don't assume women don't meet just because they don't want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is good to see some people can understand the question whilst other focus on something totally different.

Very entertaining replies especially since no one said anything about not talking before meeting..ha ha. The pertinent word is "Endlessly".

But yeah, I guess a few can but most want a bit dating and ego massaging before sex;-p"

I think you will find that the pertinent word is Ego

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You all still need to complete part one of that request though. "

I thought it was an order not a request

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By *araidWoman over a year ago

the west (ish)

"Yes. "

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"don't assume women don't meet just because they don't want to meet you "

This needs to be on the front page after people first join. In very big capital letters.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg xi just read the profile x you need to go pay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol. The OP just messaged me IN ALL CAPS calling me a dumbass.

You're a charmer. Can't think why women aren't queuing up to meet you.

"
watch it milk trays will be out

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Some people do get awfully narky when hey can't pull on a "sex site" because their personality is so utterly obnoxious it overshadows any physical attributes they may have.....

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Why is it low rent?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've also got to say OP no women in her right mind would mail or meet you with that profile, its very aggressive, what woman's going to meet a guy off here who comes over so serious and aggressive

I just got a shouty message from the OP!"

some people just take it all to serious

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

dear me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg xi just read the profile x you need to go pay "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like him.

At least I'm now off the hook for a bit while he's spreading his warmth.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Why is it low rent?"
I'm telling my dad and he is gonna beat your Dad up coz hes bigger!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg xi just read the profile x you need to go pay "

nail on the head there

free escort site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Good god.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Serious people..if it too hard for you to read and understand properly before replying don't.

Alot of your replies are not pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

Seriously some of you girls should get off your high horse and just chill out..but keeping it simple and fun might be too much to expect I guess.

Cheers to the meaningful replies who too k the question in good spirit/right context. I got a sense of what this site is about.

The rest of you should save your words, It won't be read ;-p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll await my message with much glee, poor sad fellow

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Why is it low rent?I'm telling my dad and he is gonna beat your Dad up coz hes bigger!

Er. No. That would be if I got the forum admin to ban him, or something.

I'm just repeating what he said. I didn't ask anyone else to do anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This guy has got a point.

You ladies need to quit yapping and just drop your knickers. "

I was going to but I'm too old

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've also got to say OP no women in her right mind would mail or meet you with that profile, its very aggressive, what woman's going to meet a guy off here who comes over so serious and aggressive

I just got a shouty message from the OP!

WHAT IT SAY

Gimp

Something about being unable to comprehend English.. then something about my insecureties! Pahaha, what insecureties? xD"

well of course its everybody else's fault he cant get a meet, I mean 20,000 women have to be wrong

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I love this.

Keep on digging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've also got to say OP no women in her right mind would mail or meet you with that profile, its very aggressive, what woman's going to meet a guy off here who comes over so serious and aggressive

I just got a shouty message from the OP!

WHAT IT SAY

Gimp

Something about being unable to comprehend English.. then something about my insecureties! Pahaha, what insecureties? xD"

Maybe he has found out ya bra straps broke

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Serious people..if it too hard for you to read and understand properly before replying don't.

Alot of your replies are not pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

Seriously some of you girls should get off your high horse and just chill out..but keeping it simple and fun might be too much to expect I guess.

Cheers to the meaningful replies who too k the question in good spirit/right context. I got a sense of what this site is about.

The rest of you should save your words, It won't be read ;-p"

Who pissed on your cornflakes this morning?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes me im here for nsa sex,i hate these constant pointless txts...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As he says on his profile..."Let the fun begin;-p"

...or alternatively not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some do. Some don't.

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Serious people..if it too hard for you to read and understand properly before replying don't.

Alot of your replies are not pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

Seriously some of you girls should get off your high horse and just chill out..but keeping it simple and fun might be too much to expect I guess.

Cheers to the meaningful replies who too k the question in good spirit/right context. I got a sense of what this site is about.

The rest of you should save your words, It won't be read ;-p"

Classic

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

How many replies by midnight ??? Think its gonna be big !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

nope I don't think a guys aggressive just because he puts a profile on here, I think a guys aggressive because he has an aggressive profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've also got to say OP no women in her right mind would mail or meet you with that profile, its very aggressive, what woman's going to meet a guy off here who comes over so serious and aggressive

I just got a shouty message from the OP!

WHAT IT SAY

Gimp

Something about being unable to comprehend English.. then something about my insecureties! Pahaha, what insecureties? xD

Maybe he has found out ya bra straps broke

Gimp"

I'm not wearing a bra xD

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I've also got to say OP no women in her right mind would mail or meet you with that profile, its very aggressive, what woman's going to meet a guy off here who comes over so serious and aggressive

QED!!

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Hooray!

I got a twatty message too.

I feel I belong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

nope I don't think a guys aggressive just because he puts a profile on here, I think a guys aggressive because he has an aggressive profile

Did you get blocked yet? xD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Serious people..if it too hard for you to read and understand properly before replying don't.

Alot of your replies are not pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

Seriously some of you girls should get off your high horse and just chill out..but keeping it simple and fun might be too much to expect I guess.

Cheers to the meaningful replies who too k the question in good spirit/right context. I got a sense of what this site is about.

The rest of you should save your words, It won't be read ;-p

Who pissed on your cornflakes this morning?"

Well it wasn't a woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Serious people..if it too hard for you to read and understand properly before replying don't.

Alot of your replies are not pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

Seriously some of you girls should get off your high horse and just chill out..but keeping it simple and fun might be too much to expect I guess.

Cheers to the meaningful replies who too k the question in good spirit/right context. I got a sense of what this site is about.

The rest of you should save your words, It won't be read ;-p

Who pissed on your cornflakes this morning?"

well he never told me he wasn't into water sports till after

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By *adyGardenWoman over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"or do they suck the fun out it by turning it into some boring dating with endless rules, endless talking etc.

Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??

Interested to hear some of your experiences.

All I have to say is you're a bit of an idiot and kinda miss the point of the site and the concept of swinging. It isn't just about sex it's about the social aspect too. If all you want is sex then go on tinder as that is what that is for. Single women need to guard their safety and I won't meet a guy without a social meet in a public place. I love sex as much as the next person on here but I'm dammed if I'm going to let someone fuck me that doesn't have an ounce of respect for me or other women which clearly you do not. We are people not toys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who pissed on your cornflakes this morning?"

Perhaps it was someone from the "Love being a dirty whore" thread? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

nope I don't think a guys aggressive just because he puts a profile on here, I think a guys aggressive because he has an aggressive profile

Did you get blocked yet? xD "

no, I think he secretly likes me

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Serious people..if it too hard for you to read and understand properly before replying don't.

Alot of your replies are not pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

Seriously some of you girls should get off your high horse and just chill out..but keeping it simple and fun might be too much to expect I guess.

Cheers to the meaningful replies who too k the question in good spirit/right context. I got a sense of what this site is about.

The rest of you should save your words, It won't be read ;-p"

oh dear..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hope its not the case, I'm on here hoping to learn how to make Vol au vent's

Lol

They're a tad dated you want to try your hand at filo pastry tartlets

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Serious people..if it too hard for you to read and understand properly before replying don't.

Alot of your replies are not pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

Seriously some of you girls should get off your high horse and just chill out..but keeping it simple and fun might be too much to expect I guess.

Cheers to the meaningful replies who too k the question in good spirit/right context. I got a sense of what this site is about.

The rest of you should save your words, It won't be read ;-p

Who pissed on your cornflakes this morning?"

You know someone will offer that if you make it sound like a thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pertinent to the question asked.

Naughtynympho..what a joke. Just because a guy put a profile on here, it means he aggressive or desperately want to meet any of you girls.

nope I don't think a guys aggressive just because he puts a profile on here, I think a guys aggressive because he has an aggressive profile

Did you get blocked yet? xD

no, I think he secretly likes me

Lucky! Bet its cos you're sexy and slim and he likes to make people think he's not attracted to fat girls

I didn't get a chance to defend myself from his stabby words. Gonna sit in a corner and cry now cos I'm "fat and ugly"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who gives a fuck! Nothing worse than a little boy that throws his rattle.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apparently, (although I have now been blocked so I can't explore the theme more) all the women I have met are ugly and some people demand 'fit' women to shag.

Interesting.

well I'm free next Friday if your into mingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a fuck! Nothing worse than a little boy that throws his rattle.

Her"

Tempted to steal his lolly-pop xD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the OP's ironic username.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Apparently, (although I have now been blocked so I can't explore the theme more) all the women I have met are ugly and some people demand 'fit' women to shag.

Interesting.

well I'm free next Friday if your into mingers

If I was into mingers, I wouldn't be looking to shag you.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Apparently, (although I have now been blocked so I can't explore the theme more) all the women I have met are ugly and some people demand 'fit' women to shag.

Interesting.

Damn! Rumbled as ugly and unfit. Fancy another pasty?

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By *andWCouple over a year ago

Pontypridd

Somehow I knew this thread was not going to end well, maybe rewording something's would be a good idea OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apparently, (although I have now been blocked so I can't explore the theme more) all the women I have met are ugly and some people demand 'fit' women to shag.

Interesting.

well I'm free next Friday if your into mingers

If I was into mingers, I wouldn't be looking to shag you.

awww thank you OP I think you've helped me pull, who said women don't meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apparently, (although I have now been blocked so I can't explore the theme more) all the women I have met are ugly and some people demand 'fit' women to shag.

Interesting.

You, or the OP, I think we know who we'd all chose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Somehow I knew this thread was not going to end well, maybe rewording something's would be a good idea OP"

Nahh its funny

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Iv got a pissy message aswell but not from op lol

This one wont write on the subject just wants the argument thru pm lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Iv got a pissy message aswell but not from op lol

This one wont write on the subject just wants the argument thru pm lol"

He won't get messages any other way

Ooh bitchy me is seeping out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And another one bites the dust, and another one does, another does another one bites the dust...

Used to love that song thanks for reminding me

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By *occerstar579Man over a year ago

Harrogate

"Some do. Some don't.

well said!!! gotta be able to communicate with someone before u fuck them!!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Has to take the title of THEE worst, most off putting male profile on this site

OMG lol any woman that agrees to they terms, wait....no woman will agree to they terms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like the OP's ironic username."

i noticed it too x perhaps he just a fab virgin and has no social skills x

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

It's ok, I've shagged for too many for him to be interested in me although I do meet his other criteria.

Does this mean I can drone on endlessly with no end in sight?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't bother love its proberly broke in half..you don't want half measures now

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like the OP's ironic username.

i noticed it too x perhaps he just a fab virgin and has no social skills x "

I think like a lot of men he joined thinking it would be full of hot women all falling at his feet, he now realises the women on here aren't as easy as he hoped they would be and he's pissed off

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Apparently, (although I have now been blocked so I can't explore the theme more) all the women I have met are ugly and some people demand 'fit' women to shag.

Interesting.

Damn! Rumbled as ugly and unfit. Fancy another pasty?

I never say no to pastry products.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

It might be a lawless late Sunday night moment.

Yep, you can't quote PMs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

How old are we?

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

"
Well as a few have done it, its obviously ok , shoe on the other foot maybe some would be a tad pissed off...hey ho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

How old are we?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do girls come on here just to massage their ego or insecurities via message??"

No they come on here to laugh their heads off at guys who haven't got a clue...at least that's how the forum generally works

...and you walked right into it. It's like a wasp trap for hopeless men. We sit around waiting and...all of a sudden...one just flies in and gets himself stuck on all the sweet honey plastered around the place lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

Well as a few have done it, its obviously ok , shoe on the other foot maybe some would be a tad pissed off...hey ho

Anyone can quote my pms any time, I got nothing to hide. I practically run around the forums naked waving around my dirty underwear. I'm a bitch, and not ashamed of anything xD Some people like it, some people don't. In my opinion, if someone doesn't want something repeated, it shouldn't be said in the first place. Its a tough world out there xD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

How old are we?

I'm telling

I did genuinely laugh out loud when I read it

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

Well as a few have done it, its obviously ok , shoe on the other foot maybe some would be a tad pissed off...hey ho

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Discretion anyone?

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

How old are we?"

I've not blocked you so my age is clearly stated on my profile. Go and look at it if you can count to 36.

At the end of the day rules are rules, amazes me how many people on here would be up in arms if their private messages were mentioned on the forums, yet numerous people have openly done it on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bollox ! Are you saying this isn't the knitting circle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you experience the shoe on the other foot come back and say the same thing, like I said hey ho."

It's called real life, everyone says something they shouldn't, then it gets repeated and comes back to bite them in the ass! I just don't share anything I don't want anyone to know

hey ho!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I haven't been a recipient of a PM howler on this occasion but as I respond to everyone who sends me one because of a post, keep it on the thread. If that's what your gripe is about you should do it openly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't even get a message off him, I feel left out now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bollox ! Are you saying this isn't the knitting circle

If your knitting can you do the OP a willy warmer as his will get mighty cold with this post...;)

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I didn't even get a message off him, I feel left out now

Never mind, I sent you a message instead.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

How old are we?

I've not blocked you so my age is clearly stated on my profile. Go and look at it if you can count to 36.

I can count - I can also spell surprised.

My point was we are adults - you don't need to run and tell mum.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"When you experience the shoe on the other foot come back and say the same thing, like I said hey ho.

It's called real life, everyone says something they shouldn't, then it gets repeated and comes back to bite them in the ass! I just don't share anything I don't want anyone to know

hey ho!"
No, that's crap, you went along with the crowd as you realised you would be backed up, amusing as you think it is..... the OP has had the last laugh as you were all being wound up good and proper.....discretion is valued on a swingers site and on the swinging scene.

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

"And another one bites the dust, and another one does, another does another one bites the dust...

Used to love that song thanks for reminding me

Dum Dum Dum, Dee Dum Dum Dum Dum Dee Dum

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

How old are we?"

Which one of us?

We can probably work it out by kids TV they remember.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I didn't even get a message off him, I feel left out now

Me neither, maybe I'm too ugly for even a nasty message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got sweaty knees for some reason.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Ant credibility of debating with someone goes out of the window when you start slinging personal insults, say more about you that the person who has pissed you off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you experience the shoe on the other foot come back and say the same thing, like I said hey ho.

It's called real life, everyone says something they shouldn't, then it gets repeated and comes back to bite them in the ass! I just don't share anything I don't want anyone to know

hey ho!No, that's crap, you went along with the crowd as you realised you would be backed up, amusing as you think it is..... the OP has had the last laugh as you were all being wound up good and proper.....discretion is valued on a swingers site and on the swinging scene."

I don't expect to be backed up for anything, its not a popularity contest.

I didn't share anything personal, I just laughed at an insult thrown my way, I didn't even quote it!

About discretion - exactly, if you don't want your dirty laundry aired, you shouldn't share it in the first place.. personal discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just waiting for those pastries to be handed around

oh no, its weight day tomorrow I cant be eating pastries on a sunday night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ant credibility of debating with someone goes out of the window when you start slinging personal insults, say more about you that the person who has pissed you off.

I have to admit it's not just the op's posts that have left me more than a little

and

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm just waiting for those pastries to be handed around

Yeah, when's it my dinnertime?

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"When you experience the shoe on the other foot come back and say the same thing, like I said hey ho.

It's called real life, everyone says something they shouldn't, then it gets repeated and comes back to bite them in the ass! I just don't share anything I don't want anyone to know

I don't expect to be backed up for anything, its not a popularity contest.

I didn't share anything personal, I just laughed at an insult thrown my way, I didn't even quote it!

About discretion - exactly, if you don't want your dirty laundry aired, you shouldn't share it in the first place.. personal discretion. "
Which you ignored

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got sweaty knees for some reason."

Woah Libertine!! You just crept up on me! Freaky avatar...stay back stay back I tell you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Men and women are turned on by different things usually. Anything that bends over n resembles a pussy a man will fuck . Woman need to be flirted with n teased its more then emptying their saks This isnt everyones take but I bet a few agree lol"

I don't have sacks......

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've got sweaty knees for some reason."

Front or back?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

[In response to the waiting for the pastries to be handed round post]

I'm making notes on who might meet fat munters so I know who to stalk next...

Wow that hit too big in short order. You certainly made an impact there OP.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Putting up contents of messages from the OP is low rent folks, as much as people may piss you off.

Agree with you Femme, i thought it was against the sites terms of use to mention the contents of private messages in the forums?

Suprised this thread has not been closed by moderator or removed?

How old are we?

I've not blocked you so my age is clearly stated on my profile. Go and look at it if you can count to 36.

I can count - I can also spell surprised.

My point was we are adults - you don't need to run and tell mum.

I've not run to tell anyone, not even reported the thread. Femme already mentioned it before me but you never asked her how old she was? Wonder why, maybe you want to get into her pants?

Was just suprised at the double standards some people are displaying here, and equally suprised the mods have not closed or removed the thread for repeated breaking of the terms of use?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Front, it's weird.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That reminds me actually, I have the best joke ever!

Knock knock?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Was just suprised at the double standards some people are displaying here, and equally suprised the mods have not closed or removed the thread for repeated breaking of the terms of use?"

Because this mod was asleep in bed and not logged in when people decided to break rules...I am guessing Jezebel wasn't here either.

The best thing t do is report any post that break rules just incase a mod is not here so Admin can pick it up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes they do, you just need to find them

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

For reference.......airing dirty washing/ quoting other peoples PM's / dissecting peoples profiles when they didn't ask for it and abusing people on the forum are all against forum rules.

You can check the forum rules out in the link below.

http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

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