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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little  |
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"Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little "
A good knee capping is required, yes a old boss of mine a real genuine twat! Listen lifes too short what comes around goes around in my opinion! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Not in Fab life, but was recently made very angry over something in my part time evening work. I refused to continue the meeting and waited until I'd calmed down to write an unemotional account of the situation which I emailed to the people involved and up the management chain...I was promised a response the following day but one week later am still waiting. I've emailed again asking for a response and may end up being finished, but it's become a point of principle with me now (and whilst I may have the morals of an alleycat, I won't be bullied). Fortunately, I've just had a promotion in my full time job which means the money from my part time work won't cause me any hardship but i would have reacted the same even if I hadn't |
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Do they know they have upset you this much?
If it was delibrate you are letting them win by getting so upset.
If they dont know they have made you feel this way then when you have time to calm down, chat to them and tell them how they have made you feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks, the only reason I'm so upset is it was done by someone who was my best friend for more than 20 years, so it's kinda hard for me to not let it get to me so much |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks, the only reason I'm so upset is it was done by someone who was my best friend for more than 20 years, so it's kinda hard for me to not let it get to me so much "
If they have been friends for that long talk to them and let them know you are upset. If it is unforgivable then it's time to end the friendship. Remember the good times you had as friends and call it day.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks, the only reason I'm so upset is it was done by someone who was my best friend for more than 20 years, so it's kinda hard for me to not let it get to me so much "
Oh I feel your pain and anger because I know exactly what that is like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now. "
That's hard but you can't ever go back. You can try building a new relationship with her but it sounds like she doesn't want that.
We can grow out of old friendships. Some evolve and some don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now. "
It always hurts when its someone you have been close with for many yrs
What made you text her after a yr? She may have had a yr of feeling as hurt as you do right now which may have made her reaction seem harsh
At least you tried
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now.
It always hurts when its someone you have been close with for many yrs
What made you text her after a yr? She may have had a yr of feeling as hurt as you do right now which may have made her reaction seem harsh
At least you tried
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I text cos I missed her and I thought after a year we could maybe put it behind us.
As for her being hurt, it was her who caused all the agro in the first place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ah hun that kind of rejection is hard to accept, you've extended the olive branch and she doesnt want to know.
you fell out for a reason & it's taken you a while to contact her again, time has elapsed and she has moved on, which is what you need to do now.
allow yourself a good cry, remember the good times & move on with your life & the friends you have now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now.
It always hurts when its someone you have been close with for many yrs
What made you text her after a yr? She may have had a yr of feeling as hurt as you do right now which may have made her reaction seem harsh
At least you tried
I text cos I missed her and I thought after a year we could maybe put it behind us.
As for her being hurt, it was her who caused all the agro in the first place "
Ah well maybe its for the best then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ah hun that kind of rejection is hard to accept, you've extended the olive branch and she doesnt want to know.
you fell out for a reason & it's taken you a while to contact her again, time has elapsed and she has moved on, which is what you need to do now.
allow yourself a good cry, remember the good times & move on with your life & the friends you have now x"
Thank you that's good advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time for Marvin to lay down some schoolin' about anger...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RXeucFePks0
 Just don't do anything rash. In the light of a new day perhaps you'll see it's all for the better? I hope so |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Time for Marvin to lay down some schoolin' about anger...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RXeucFePks0
Just don't do anything rash. In the light of a new day perhaps you'll see it's all for the better? I hope so "
Hahaha thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get on youtube and watch the Muppets doing Mahna manha 
If that doesn't help, then, crikey "
Thank you Tina, you're an absolute tonic, you always make me laugh  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Get on youtube and watch the Muppets doing Mahna manha
If that doesn't help, then, crikey
Thank you Tina, you're an absolute tonic, you always make me laugh "
Thanks - stuff like that can mean a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get on youtube and watch the Muppets doing Mahna manha
If that doesn't help, then, crikey
Thank you Tina, you're an absolute tonic, you always make me laugh "
Tina's not a tonic she's a....Phenomenon doo doo bi do do....Phenomenon do do bi do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You want to be friends again but want to knock their teeth out?!
Relationships of all kinds are fragile are people seldom appreciate them for what they are when they are there.
Moving on can be hard but it's just the start of something new which has the chance to be better. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"You want to be friends again but want to knock their teeth out?!
Relationships of all kinds are fragile are people seldom appreciate them for what they are when they are there.
Moving on can be hard but it's just the start of something new which has the chance to be better. "
Very deep and very true.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You want to be friends again but want to knock their teeth out?!
Relationships of all kinds are fragile are people seldom appreciate them for what they are when they are there.
Moving on can be hard but it's just the start of something new which has the chance to be better. "
I wanted to knock her teeth out because I was angry with what she said. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get on youtube and watch the Muppets doing Mahna manha
If that doesn't help, then, crikey
Thank you Tina, you're an absolute tonic, you always make me laugh
Thanks - stuff like that can mean a lot "
I was actually gonna send you a pm a few weeks ago to tell you I thought you were awesome, but thought it might have been a bit weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics  |
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"Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little "
No - never felt this way. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics "
No way! That is Bridezilla gone mad.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics "
noooooo that's so bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics "
Oh my god that's nasty!! She did ask me to cover up my tattoos for the photos  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics "
I would have told her she may need a stand in too. I can't believe anyone would say that to someone else, let alone a friend...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics
I would have told her she may need a stand in too. I can't believe anyone would say that to someone else, let alone a friend... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little "
I live by the old addage that "a person who makes you angry controls you." So i dont allow myself to angry at anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little
I live by the old addage that "a person who makes you angry controls you." So i dont allow myself to angry at anyone."
I haven't heard that old adage before but I like it.
That's it now - no more anger for me. I can't stand the thought of being controlled. |
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics "
why didnt you guys just decline the kind offer ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics "
Well that sets the tone for the rest of their marriage. I can't believe the audacity of some people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little
I live by the old addage that "a person who makes you angry controls you." So i dont allow myself to angry at anyone."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics
I would have told her she may need a stand in too. I can't believe anyone would say that to someone else, let alone a friend... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Revenge!! The best revenge is living your life to the full, be happy and totally remove them from your life (if possible). Otherwise it will eat you up. Turn it into a positive and let karma take over |
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"Revenge!! The best revenge is living your life to the full, be happy and totally remove them from your life (if possible). "
You are spot on... after all, that is what the ex friend has done and it seems to have worked a treat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Weddings can make people do naughty things.
A friend of mine was asked to be a best man but was told there would be a second best man for the photos as the wife to be wanted someone good looking for the pics
Oh my god that's nasty!! She did ask me to cover up my tattoos for the photos "
well you cant blame her for saying that can you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand this thread and I don't wish to sound harsh.
Friendship broke down a year ago, Op attempted to rekindle it, the other party rejects and is happy with the status quo. This results in anger to the point of wanting to inflict extreme violence.
I must be missing something here because on the face of It, sounds like the ex friend is well rid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Revenge!! The best revenge is living your life to the full, be happy and totally remove them from your life (if possible). Otherwise it will eat you up. Turn it into a positive and let karma take over "
Indeed |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now. "
And that makes you want to knock her teeth out for that?
This is going to sound harsh....but I think she is wise not to want you as a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now.
And that makes you want to knock her teeth out for that?
This is going to sound harsh....but I think she is wise not to want you as a friend."
Harsh but fair
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"Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now. "
Delete her number, forget about and move on. Its done and dusted so no point beating yourself up over something you can't change. You tried but now it's time to let it go.
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"Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little
I live by the old addage that "a person who makes you angry controls you." So i dont allow myself to angry at anyone."
It's a good adage.... but no other person makes us angry ..... if you are angry it came from inside you.
I know when im angry and I don't blame others for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't understand this thread and I don't wish to sound harsh.
Friendship broke down a year ago, Op attempted to rekindle it, the other party rejects and is happy with the status quo. This results in anger to the point of wanting to inflict extreme violence.
I must be missing something here because on the face of It, sounds like the ex friend is well rid. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't understand this thread and I don't wish to sound harsh.
Friendship broke down a year ago, Op attempted to rekindle it, the other party rejects and is happy with the status quo. This results in anger to the point of wanting to inflict extreme violence.
I must be missing something here because on the face of It, sounds like the ex friend is well rid.
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It certainly went down from the OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I must say these posts have cheered me up no end!! extreme violence? Lol. Did I actually say I'd do it? Not everything should be taken literally!! And why should I hide my tattoos?! It's a part of me so you accept or you don't. Ie by not asking me to be your bridesmaid in the first place think I'll take the advice about the karma doing its work. What's goes around comes around. If this is true than I pity her |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thank you splits. The thing is we fell out nearly a year ago after she dropped me as her bridesmaid cos she said I didn't seem that interested in doing it. I just text last week to say I missed her and was sorry it came to this, hoping we could go back to how we were and patch things up. She just replied and said she doesn't want to go back because fortunately for her everything has worked out and she's happier now. Delete her number, forget about and move on. Its done and dusted so no point beating yourself up over something you can't change. You tried but now it's time to let it go. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must say these posts have cheered me up no end!! extreme violence? Lol. Did I actually say I'd do it? Not everything should be taken literally!! And why should I hide my tattoos?! It's a part of me so you accept or you don't. Ie by not asking me to be your bridesmaid in the first place think I'll take the advice about the karma doing its work. What's goes around comes around. If this is true than I pity her "
Sorry to burst your bubble but karma doesn't exist |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Am a great believer in karma. You can only try, it's their loss. And you have so much more to give x "
do you know the OP? if so cool.
if not, what utter tripe.
the other lady has made a choice, the OP tried to no avail.... now is the time to leave it be.
it's not the other person's loss and as for much more to give
good luck for the future to all concerned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex husband makes me angry
He pisses me off so much at times
His new partners daughter took out a loan but decided to use my address, didn't pay it back and I had the bailiffs banging my door, I explained to them she didn't live here but as you can imagine they didn't believe me and went to get a court order to take my goods, I asked my ex for her address and he point blank refused to give it me, I explained to him she had used my address to take out a loan and now they was coming to take my stuff, which would include the kids stuff, his kids I may add but he was more bothered about protecting this partners lying daughter than stopping his own children from having their stuff taken, in the end I had to contact action fraud and get a case number to stop them, but he would have been happy for them to come
I could have smashed his fooking nose off the car |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex husband makes me angry
He pisses me off so much at times
His new partners daughter took out a loan but decided to use my address, didn't pay it back and I had the bailiffs banging my door, I explained to them she didn't live here but as you can imagine they didn't believe me and went to get a court order to take my goods, I asked my ex for her address and he point blank refused to give it me, I explained to him she had used my address to take out a loan and now they was coming to take my stuff, which would include the kids stuff, his kids I may add but he was more bothered about protecting this partners lying daughter than stopping his own children from having their stuff taken, in the end I had to contact action fraud and get a case number to stop them, but he would have been happy for them to come
I could have smashed his fooking nose off the car"
That's disgraceful! Did she get done for fraud? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My ex husband makes me angry
He pisses me off so much at times
His new partners daughter took out a loan but decided to use my address, didn't pay it back and I had the bailiffs banging my door, I explained to them she didn't live here but as you can imagine they didn't believe me and went to get a court order to take my goods, I asked my ex for her address and he point blank refused to give it me, I explained to him she had used my address to take out a loan and now they was coming to take my stuff, which would include the kids stuff, his kids I may add but he was more bothered about protecting this partners lying daughter than stopping his own children from having their stuff taken, in the end I had to contact action fraud and get a case number to stop them, but he would have been happy for them to come
I could have smashed his fooking nose off the car"
Finally someone understands
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"ah hun that kind of rejection is hard to accept, you've extended the olive branch and she doesnt want to know.
you fell out for a reason & it's taken you a while to contact her again, time has elapsed and she has moved on, which is what you need to do now.
allow yourself a good cry, remember the good times & move on with your life & the friends you have now x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex husband makes me angry
He pisses me off so much at times
His new partners daughter took out a loan but decided to use my address, didn't pay it back and I had the bailiffs banging my door, I explained to them she didn't live here but as you can imagine they didn't believe me and went to get a court order to take my goods, I asked my ex for her address and he point blank refused to give it me, I explained to him she had used my address to take out a loan and now they was coming to take my stuff, which would include the kids stuff, his kids I may add but he was more bothered about protecting this partners lying daughter than stopping his own children from having their stuff taken, in the end I had to contact action fraud and get a case number to stop them, but he would have been happy for them to come
I could have smashed his fooking nose off the car
That's disgraceful! Did she get done for fraud?"
they have opened a case but all this only happened this week, I only reported her Thursday so not heard back yet, I do have the case number though which will stop anyone coming to my home which to be honest is all i'm bothered about as the bailiffs wouldn't drop the case unless I could provide them with an address for her, which I didn't have and no one would give me |
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"My ex husband makes me angry
He pisses me off so much at times
His new partners daughter took out a loan but decided to use my address, didn't pay it back and I had the bailiffs banging my door, I explained to them she didn't live here but as you can imagine they didn't believe me and went to get a court order to take my goods, I asked my ex for her address and he point blank refused to give it me, I explained to him she had used my address to take out a loan and now they was coming to take my stuff, which would include the kids stuff, his kids I may add but he was more bothered about protecting this partners lying daughter than stopping his own children from having their stuff taken, in the end I had to contact action fraud and get a case number to stop them, but he would have been happy for them to come
I could have smashed his fooking nose off the car
Finally someone understands
Love your avatar pic by the way "
aww ta lol
its happened a few times to me, he moved into a house and tried to claim housing benefit in my name, and again his partners daughter was working on the side and used my address to have her wage slips send to I assume so they didn't connect the work with her benefits
he's just a total knob head |
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"My ex husband makes me angry
He pisses me off so much at times
His new partners daughter took out a loan but decided to use my address, didn't pay it back and I had the bailiffs banging my door, I explained to them she didn't live here but as you can imagine they didn't believe me and went to get a court order to take my goods, I asked my ex for her address and he point blank refused to give it me, I explained to him she had used my address to take out a loan and now they was coming to take my stuff, which would include the kids stuff, his kids I may add but he was more bothered about protecting this partners lying daughter than stopping his own children from having their stuff taken, in the end I had to contact action fraud and get a case number to stop them, but he would have been happy for them to come
I could have smashed his fooking nose off the car
Finally someone understands
Love your avatar pic by the way
aww ta lol
its happened a few times to me, he moved into a house and tried to claim housing benefit in my name, and again his partners daughter was working on the side and used my address to have her wage slips send to I assume so they didn't connect the work with her benefits
he's just a total knob head"
Jesus I don't know what to say you've been treated badly in so many ways. I hope it gets resolved. |
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He's just a dick head, always was, always will be, thing is he's not even a clever dick head cause they keep getting cough
The reason the housing benefit thing came to light was because they forged a reference from the council to give to the landlord of the new house, im my name, effectively his new woman was pretending to be me so they could put the housing and council tax benefits in my name, but the spellings on the reference was so bad they landlord got in touch with the council, who in return got in touch with me, I don't even live in a council house I have a mortgage but they put my address down, a none council house as a home the council was giving a reference for
its almost funny
I was fuming at the time though |
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First comes the hurt, then the anger, then the indifference.
If someone falls out with you over something so trivial, its not worth worrying over.
I have never failed yet in giving back the same respect I am given, today starting another.
Her |
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"First comes the hurt, then the anger, then the indifference.
If someone falls out with you over something so trivial, its not worth worrying over.
I have never failed yet in giving back the same respect I am given, today starting another.
Her"
Thanks, just waiting for the indifference, but think it's on the way  |
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"First comes the hurt, then the anger, then the indifference.
If someone falls out with you over something so trivial, its not worth worrying over.
I have never failed yet in giving back the same respect I am given, today starting another.
Her
Thanks, just waiting for the indifference, but think it's on the way "
your welcome, it takes the longest that bit, but you will be oh well. |
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"I know just the feeling and even though my anger has calmed down. The hurt is still there. So I wouldn't care if anything bad happened to them. "
That's exactly how I feel, and if that makes me a bad person well so be it. I don't really give a flying f**k |
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By *r-UniqueMan
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"I know just the feeling and even though my anger has calmed down. The hurt is still there. So I wouldn't care if anything bad happened to them.
That's exactly how I feel, and if that makes me a bad person well so be it. I don't really give a flying f**k "
Before I felt like driving to the culprit and losing my cool. Now I just don't care what happens to them as long as it's not good. So you feel the same as I do. Only I wouldn't say it like that exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been so f******g angry with someone you wanted to just turn up at their house and knock out some of their teeth?! I'm so angry and hurt right now. Please tell me about the things that made you feel this way so I don't feel so alone. I can elaborate a little
I live by the old addage that "a person who makes you angry controls you." So i dont allow myself to angry at anyone.
I haven't heard that old adage before but I like it.
That's it now - no more anger for me. I can't stand the thought of being controlled. "
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