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By *r-Unique OP Man
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I lowered my lower age limit a while ago by a few years, indicating I would consider slightly younger people.
As yet I've not me anybody, even socially, who would previously have been excluded by my age preference previously.
I raised my upper age limit once too. That was an unsuccessful experiment and I lowered it again quite soon afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anything my preferences have become a lot stricter than in real life! "
at last...now I will meet you..always wanted you choosing quality over quantity  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I changed from looking for girls and couples to not actively looking at all (for the imminent future anyway). Along the way I met a single man and they couldn't even message me for the first six weeks. I'm glad I branched out; so far, so good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I increased my age limit upwards & that was a disaster I won't repeat. I lowered my age limit 18 months ago & haven't looked back since & still meet the 1st younger guy I met then x |
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Although my preferred age range is 30-60, it's not set in stone and I have had fun with a 25yr old.
Personality is something entirely different in that I can only truly judge a person by meeting them for a social first.
Looks, as it states on my profile are by and large unimportant  |
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By *r-Unique OP Man
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"No, No and No 
Boring lol Why is it boring? 
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk "
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't.  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't. "
Ok then, change your straight rule, get fucked up the arse, suck a few cocks and come and tell me how great it was to expand your horizons. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't. "
But if your 'rules' are working for you there is no need to change them. Not boring at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't. Ok then, change your straight rule, get fucked up the arse, suck a few cocks and come and tell me how great it was to expand your horizons. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Preferences can change but at my age I now have my comfort zone. I don't stick rigidly to it because there will be men who aren't typical of their age group who are single |
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By *r-Unique OP Man
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't.
But if your 'rules' are working for you there is no need to change them. Not boring at all!"
Rules were working and still people have changed them as this thread shows |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't. Ok then, change your straight rule, get fucked up the arse, suck a few cocks and come and tell me how great it was to expand your horizons. "
Hahaha  |
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By *r-Unique OP Man
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't. Ok then, change your straight rule, get fucked up the arse, suck a few cocks and come and tell me how great it was to expand your horizons. "
Difference between person and preferences |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't. Ok then, change your straight rule, get fucked up the arse, suck a few cocks and come and tell me how great it was to expand your horizons.
Difference between person and preferences "
No there is not, look at your OP......back peddling now are we? Go on be a devil....you cannot tell me I am boring because I don't wish to change my preferences and not do it yourself, because that would make you hypocritical would it not? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't. Ok then, change your straight rule, get fucked up the arse, suck a few cocks and come and tell me how great it was to expand your horizons.
Difference between person and preferences "
No, no difference at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't.
But if your 'rules' are working for you there is no need to change them. Not boring at all!
Rules were working and still people have changed them as this thread shows "
Someone who has only a 3 line profile & no public photos calling someone else boring ROFL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't.
But if your 'rules' are working for you there is no need to change them. Not boring at all!
Rules were working and still people have changed them as this thread shows "
I didn't change mine. I just became attracted to different people as I got older,became single and got out more |
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By *r-Unique OP Man
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't.
But if your 'rules' are working for you there is no need to change them. Not boring at all!
Rules were working and still people have changed them as this thread shows
Someone who has only a 3 line profile & no public photos calling someone else boring ROFL "
You have about 18 pics and none showing your face. So who are you to comment  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't. Ok then, change your straight rule, get fucked up the arse, suck a few cocks and come and tell me how great it was to expand your horizons.
Difference between person and preferences
No, no difference at all."
I changed the sex of the person I was looking for and not my preferences and had a wonderful time doing some of the things suggested above. As you already pointed out OP, some of the rule changes people have made have also been beneficial. Maybe you should change your sex preference, see how it goes. I can guarantee you would find it far from boring!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, No and No
Boring lol Why is it boring?
Not taking a risk on it, lol Why does changing preferences, mean I am not taking a risk
Because they are rules that aren't going to be broken. Therefore boring, lol. As you can see some people have changed it in someways and it worked and in someways it hasn't.
But if your 'rules' are working for you there is no need to change them. Not boring at all!
Rules were working and still people have changed them as this thread shows
Someone who has only a 3 line profile & no public photos calling someone else boring ROFL
You have about 18 pics and none showing your face. So who are you to comment "
hahahahaha seriously lol. bless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I haven't changed any of my views on what I want from here, my preferences have stayed the same.
Gimp wanted to try something different, not as a preference but a change.
So pretty much the same really.
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person? "
Isn't it a bit boring just having 3 possible changes? Surely an adventurous man as yourself would experiment with his sexuality as well as race and age changes? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"So did we establish if I was boring?
The point of the thread wasn't to do with that "
But you never answered, what you thought of my suggestion. I am aware what the thread is trying to do, you called me boring for sticking to my preferences, which is an interesting point of view, merely carrying on the train of thought. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"So did we establish if I was boring?
Yes, apparently so, in the opinion of one person.
Nobody else seems to have a death wish "
To be honest, its an opinion of someone who doesn't know me, so its hardly going to shatter my rock n roll lifestyle. |
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By *r-Unique OP Man
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"So did we establish if I was boring?
The point of the thread wasn't to do with that But you never answered, what you thought of my suggestion. I am aware what the thread is trying to do, you called me boring for sticking to my preferences, which is an interesting point of view, merely carrying on the train of thought."
It's like asking someone who goes out partying every week what they are doing this weekend and they say "I'm being boring and staying in". Apparently jokes like that don't work on here |
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person? "
What have you changed? How did it work for you? |
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"So did we establish if I was boring?
The point of the thread wasn't to do with that But you never answered, what you thought of my suggestion. I am aware what the thread is trying to do, you called me boring for sticking to my preferences, which is an interesting point of view, merely carrying on the train of thought.
It's like asking someone who goes out partying every week what they are doing this weekend and they say "I'm being boring and staying in". Apparently jokes like that don't work on here "
Maybe because that's not a joke  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference is to meet people I'm attracted to, so no hasn't changed since I came on the site...what I find attractive might be different, but I've not noticed a change. I'm attracted to lots of different attributes though so it might just be that my preferences are quite broad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So did we establish if I was boring?
The point of the thread wasn't to do with that But you never answered, what you thought of my suggestion. I am aware what the thread is trying to do, you called me boring for sticking to my preferences, which is an interesting point of view, merely carrying on the train of thought.
It's like asking someone who goes out partying every week what they are doing this weekend and they say "I'm being boring and staying in". Apparently jokes like that don't work on here "
I was about to say I think the OP meant it in the sense of 'bor-ing'....throw away kind of comment than you actually being boring for sticking to your preferences. |
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By *r-Unique OP Man
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?"
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"So did we establish if I was boring?
The point of the thread wasn't to do with that But you never answered, what you thought of my suggestion. I am aware what the thread is trying to do, you called me boring for sticking to my preferences, which is an interesting point of view, merely carrying on the train of thought.
It's like asking someone who goes out partying every week what they are doing this weekend and they say "I'm being boring and staying in". Apparently jokes like that don't work on here
I was about to say I think the OP meant it in the sense of 'bor-ing'....throw away kind of comment than you actually being boring for sticking to your preferences."
But he cannot judge that.....from a forum post or three. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters. "
What constitutes a coffin dodger? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters. "
Cool so when are you going to do a tranny then? I mean it would show us all you are a man of conviction and its deffo not a moan thread about someone rejecting you. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters.
What constitutes a coffin dodger?"
People who play chicken on the motorway? |
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters. What constitutes a coffin dodger?"
Anyone over 60 going by his age range. Bit of a crass term IMO
Aren't we all coffin dodgers in a way, regardless of age? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters. What constitutes a coffin dodger?"
I guess its those over his upper age limit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Age range has increased over the years, both upper and lower limits as we age so those we are attracted to move in a relative pattern.
But the rest pretty much stays the same, exceptions for those we meet at clubs as we can get to know people not words then.
We are probably boring, according to OP's criteria, but we really don't care. |
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters. "
So you.don't change your preferences then but call others who won't boring....interesting. |
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters. What constitutes a coffin dodger?"
. .when the arse of the coffin collapses just before it reaches the hole |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Age range has increased over the years, both upper and lower limits as we age so those we are attracted to move in a relative pattern.
But the rest pretty much stays the same, exceptions for those we meet at clubs as we can get to know people not words then.
We are probably boring, according to OP's criteria, but we really don't care. "
It's funny how many "boring" people have no trouble getting meets.
Maybe that's why they don't change their preferences. They don't need to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So did we establish if I was boring?
The point of the thread wasn't to do with that But you never answered, what you thought of my suggestion. I am aware what the thread is trying to do, you called me boring for sticking to my preferences, which is an interesting point of view, merely carrying on the train of thought.
It's like asking someone who goes out partying every week what they are doing this weekend and they say "I'm being boring and staying in". Apparently jokes like that don't work on here
I was about to say I think the OP meant it in the sense of 'bor-ing'....throw away kind of comment than you actually being boring for sticking to your preferences.But he cannot judge that.....from a forum post or three."
No I agree that's why I think it was said like that, you know you not playing the game so you're bor~ing....
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"We all have them on here and are entitled to them. My point was though:
Have you changed yours for the any of the following and how didn't turn out, would you do it again?
1. Increase or lower age and how much by?
2. The look of the person as in body features, nationality/race?
3. Personality of the person?
What have you changed? How did it work for you?
My variation of women is so large. I don't need to change it as I don't sleep with coffin dodgers or kids. I am open to what nationality/race I get with and I am not going to get with a cruel person and that's all that matters. What constitutes a coffin dodger?
Anyone over 60 going by his age range. Bit of a crass term IMO
Aren't we all coffin dodgers in a way, regardless of age? "
Lots of people could be construed as so, I think. |
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