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do you want a slutty look or a nice dress and heels look
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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it amazes me what men expect when meeting a fwm for first time . i think a initial meet should always be nice dress oe nice clothes. if you want to dress slutty do it in the bedroom . i hate to see older women dressed like sluts too. im no snob but i think ladys should look classy when in public |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its subjective
One persons class is anothers trash
Its how you carry yourself and the aura that you give off that makes the difference between class and slut
And what about the classy sluts?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its subjective
One persons class is anothers trash
Its how you carry yourself and the aura that you give off that makes the difference between class and slut
And what about the classy sluts? "
words...my mouth....right outta |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on where really, love to see slutty look in clubs, but feels so wrong at lunch time in Starbucks!
For social meets vanilla meet point = vanilla disguise should be the general rule. Problem is I look crap in a nice dress and fall off heels  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it amazes me what men expect when meeting a fwm for first time . i think a initial meet should always be nice dress oe nice clothes. if you want to dress slutty do it in the bedroom . i hate to see older women dressed like sluts too. im no snob but i think ladys should look classy when in public"
I agree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.
Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...
Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think its a good idea to show to much on a first meet you may not even like them in the flesh, don't want to be flashing my cleavage and stocking top all night to a guy i have no intentions of playing with, may give the wrong impression and be misleading for you to only say your not interested after a few drinks |
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By *W69Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.
Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...
Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's more about how a women carries or portrays herself than the length of her skirt for me.
In my experience other women are more likely to negatively judge what a women is wearing than men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.
Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...
Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.
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Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks! |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.
Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...
Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.
Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks! "
Damn well said - nothing wrong with wellies anyway!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off.
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Do men often make such demands/requests?
I can imagine that becoming a little irritating.. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
I wear a nice dress and heels. Get sick and tired of men demanding that I wear something especially for them.
I don't need to be told how to dress. I've been dressing myself for nearly 50 years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off.
Do men often make such demands/requests?
I can imagine that becoming a little irritating.."
Sometimes yeah, it baffles me that they expect me to walk around in public with half my ass out and my boobs practically on show! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off.
Do men often make such demands/requests?
I can imagine that becoming a little irritating.."
ive had a few guys make requests on what they would like me to wear if we met |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
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Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off.
Do men often make such demands/requests?
I can imagine that becoming a little irritating..
Sometimes yeah, it baffles me that they expect me to walk around in public with half my ass out and my boobs practically on show! Lol"
Or to open the door in skimpies. No thanks. I'd rather not put myself on show to the neighbours. Besides what if, in the flesh, I don't fancy them? Harder to say no thanks if you're dressed like that. |
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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago
Darlington |
"Subtle, sexy confidence....that's what appeals to me.
Even in the bedroom, what I find hot is classy underwear/make-up with a slutty, unrestrained, adventurous, fun attitude towards pleasure...
Sexy and slutty is a state of mind, I feel.
Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks! "
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
" Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks "
I agree for the most part. However, a guy did once text me telling me that he wanted me to wear stockings the next time we met. That was actually a bit of a turn-on. |
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" Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks
I agree for the most part. However, a guy did once text me telling me that he wanted me to wear stockings the next time we met. That was actually a bit of a turn-on. "
. Of course it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do men often make such demands/requests?
I can imagine that becoming a little irritating..
Sometimes yeah, it baffles me that they expect me to walk around in public with half my ass out and my boobs practically on show! Lol"
For me, that removes the thrill and excitement of undressing each other....wondering what delights await. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Men trying to dictate how i should dress /appear is a massive turn off. Ill dress how i feel comfortable regardless of what anyone else thinks
I agree for the most part. However, a guy did once text me telling me that he wanted me to wear stockings the next time we met. That was actually a bit of a turn-on. "
I guess there are boundaries, and it's all subjective. In the end, respect is what matters most.
I may, in passing, mention liking stockings et al, but perhaps wouldn't be so bold as to making a request, unless we'd met previously and a mutual connection had been built/discovered. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
If I'm dogging, I'll dress more suggestively. However, for pretty much everything else I try to dress nicely and appropriately for my age and the location. Ie, a really nice dress.
It's a mistake a fair few girlys make at first - dressing too slutty. |
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