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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
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I've read so many profiles demanding men turn up impeccably presented, which is fine if that refers to their bodily appearance and hygiene - but dictating sartorial this, that or the other is another thing.
Believe it or not, there are some of us here who don't spend half our day preening ourselves in front of a mirror and who have better things to spend our time and hard earned on than aftershave, hair gel, shoe polish and dry cleaning suits. Sure, I could waste my money on these things but I refuse to kowtow to overly materialistic expectations - especially since it's the person and their character who matters - not what latest fashionable shite they happen to be wearing that day.
I suppose you could pigeon hole us as being a little "rough and ready", which is fine as long as it's not taken to imply we don't know how to wash our hair or clean our teeth.
Let's be honest, wearing an Armani suit or a pair of Prada heels doesn't stop you being a dirty raddled bastard if you don't how to wash or you like a cream pie off every Tom, Dick and Harry you barely know over your perfectly polished car bonnet every Friday night - and they certainly won't stop you being a complete tosser if that's what you are.
Well, by the same token, it's perfectly possible to be as clean as a whistle, smell gorgeous, have a fantastic body and an engaging personality whilst wearing a pair of worn jeans and a scruffy jumper as long as they're clean.
Seriously, am I the only one here who prefers women to turn up wearing scruffy jeans, dirty boots and a torn jumper?..
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I assume if you're attached it's kind of hard to leave the house preened up anyway huh?
I for one do not mind what a man is wearing as long as it's all clean. I'd actually far rather a nice pair of jeans than a boring suit, and any man that meets me regularly is gonna get me in a pair of jods sooner or later!
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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
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"Having clean shoes, or clothes without holes shouldn't be seen as looking preened - I think most people would expect that to be a given."
You'll be telling us it's normal to eat quiche next! 
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"Having clean shoes, or clothes without holes shouldn't be seen as looking preened - I think most people would expect that to be a given.
You'll be telling us it's normal to eat quiche next!
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With the correct quiche cutlery, of course |
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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
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"I assume if you're attached it's kind of hard to leave the house preened up anyway huh?
I for one do not mind what a man is wearing as long as it's all clean. I'd actually far rather a nice pair of jeans than a boring suit, and any man that meets me regularly is gonna get me in a pair of jods sooner or later!
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No, not really - it's not like I have a lock that won't open unless I look like Swampy. I'm free to leave my house looking any way I like... and I agree, jods are fine.
It's expectation to the exclusion of all else I'm talking about - it's just nice to be ourselves sometimes, without having to worry about what kind of facade we need to erect in order just to be met.
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It all depends what you class has preened., if we are going out on a meet or just on the town I will polish my shoes iron my clothes and do the best hubbm to look well presented, I wouldn't dream of wearing jeans with holes in or tatty clothes, my clothes aren't super designer clothes but they are nice clothes, so if expensive clothes make you preened then I'm never going to be,
But you will never see me clean shaven I hate it I get a really bad rash, so my stubble is kept nice and meat and tidy and my hair is gelled but messed up, so I suppose you could say physically speaking I work hard to look unkempt |
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No, not really - it's not like I have a lock that won't open unless I look like Swampy. I'm free to leave my house looking any way I like... and I agree, jods are fine.
It's expectation to the exclusion of all else I'm talking about - it's just nice to be ourselves sometimes, without having to worry about what kind of facade we need to erect in order just to be met.
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I can relate - I even mention it on my profile. Yes I have stockings and heels but sometimes I do get bored with being asked to wear them! |
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"It all depends what you class has preened., if we are going out on a meet or just on the town I will polish my shoes iron my clothes and do the best hubbm to look well presented, I wouldn't dream of wearing jeans with holes in or tatty clothes, my clothes aren't super designer clothes but they are nice clothes, so if expensive clothes make you preened then I'm never going to be,
But you will never see me clean shaven I hate it I get a really bad rash, so my stubble is kept nice and meat and tidy and my hair is gelled but messed up, so I suppose you could say physically speaking I work hard to look unkempt"
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I had a date once and he turned up n looked ok if a little casual trakis
Wen I sat down with him for a coffee I realised his fingernails were black he hadnt shaved, brushed his teeth nor had he used deodrant never mind aftershave then spent 10mins how he never left the house without doing his hair ffs
so I can understand why woman list wot thy expect. Its not until someone doesnt dress appropriately that u think of it |
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turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever... |
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". .i dip my cock in detol and off we go. X"
just had a random flashback to music lessons at school - jar of something we used to dip the recorders in - made me shudder |
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We both put effort in and expect it back in return! If i'm decorating or gardening then yeap its me old clothes and sloppy jo jumpers ... Not when we are out at clubs / parties tho!!! Soap n water, smartness and self pride cost fuck all but some effort and self worth! If others couldn't be bothered then frankly they aint for us .   |
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". .i dip my cock in detol and off we go. X
just had a random flashback to music lessons at school - jar of something we used to dip the recorders in - made me shudder "
i lied for comedy effect. . . . .i actually use jeyes fluid, saves on aftershave x x X |
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I find it wierd that anyone sees spending money on cleaning their shoes and cloths as a waste of money, i quite like the rough and ready guy but one who is clean and smells nice, for me rough and ready don't mean scruffy  |
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"I've read so many profiles demanding men turn up impeccably presented, which is fine if that refers to their bodily appearance and hygiene - but dictating sartorial this, that or the other is another thing.
Believe it or not, there are some of us here who don't spend half our day preening ourselves in front of a mirror and who have better things to spend our time and hard earned on than aftershave, hair gel, shoe polish and dry cleaning suits. Sure, I could waste my money on these things but I refuse to kowtow to overly materialistic expectations - especially since it's the person and their character who matters - not what latest fashionable shite they happen to be wearing that day.
I suppose you could pigeon hole us as being a little "rough and ready", which is fine as long as it's not taken to imply we don't know how to wash our hair or clean our teeth.
Let's be honest, wearing an Armani suit or a pair of Prada heels doesn't stop you being a dirty raddled bastard if you don't how to wash or you like a cream pie off every Tom, Dick and Harry you barely know over your perfectly polished car bonnet every Friday night - and they certainly won't stop you being a complete tosser if that's what you are.
Well, by the same token, it's perfectly possible to be as clean as a whistle, smell gorgeous, have a fantastic body and an engaging personality whilst wearing a pair of worn jeans and a scruffy jumper as long as they're clean.
Seriously, am I the only one here who prefers women to turn up wearing scruffy jeans, dirty boots and a torn jumper?..
.. or is it just me? "
We would get on so well!! I'm assuming you still like a woman to bathe daily and clean her teeth twice a day though?? |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever..."
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand he will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand he will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return "
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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
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I must say, it's odd that so many here appear to have missed my point... who think that wearing a pair of worn jeans and a scruffy jumper means you're dirty - that this means, somehow, you don't know how to wash your face or clean your teeth.
Sure, we all like people we meet to be clean, that's rather as read. However, the gist of my point was appearance rather than cleanliness, on the practicality and aesthetics of wearing boots rather than high heels, worn jeans rather than smart slacks, fluffy jumpers rather than dry cleaned suits.
Maybe they ought to read the OP again, particularly the "clean as a whistle" bit.
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Something else to consider is that many of us will meet you at a public venue. There may well be certain standards that are expected there, or we may hold a certain public office that would cause our profiles to be somewhat undermined if we are trying to get a table as a mismatched group. Camera lenses are often everywhere these days, and having someone who looks like tracy emins bed trying to finger you under the table is not something we all wish to relish when it is circulated. |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return "
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest..... |
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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest....."
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man! |
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"I find it wierd that anyone sees spending money on cleaning their shoes and cloths as a waste of money, i quite like the rough and ready guy but one who is clean and smells nice, for me rough and ready don't mean scruffy "
This for me you don't have to be head to toe in Armani just clean, tidy and smelling nice |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest.....
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man! "
Oh it was.....I think we shall remain friends was a bloody good laugh as it goes.... |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest.....
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man!
Oh it was.....I think we shall remain friends was a bloody good laugh as it goes...."
was great, n looking forward to next meet, xx |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest.....
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man!
Oh it was.....I think we shall remain friends was a bloody good laugh as it goes.... was great, n looking forward to next meet, xx "
lol, I promise not to be muddy this time or to make you do my washing or to need to throw me in the shower!! your some kind of angel I tell ya!! |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest.....
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man!
Oh it was.....I think we shall remain friends was a bloody good laugh as it goes.... was great, n looking forward to next meet, xx
lol, I promise not to be muddy this time or to make you do my washing or to need to throw me in the shower!! your some kind of angel I tell ya!!"
Didn't mind at all, I nu where Ud been for a week! Ur company was well worth it.x |
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I wear what I fancy wearing and hope the person(s) I'm meeting would do the same. If I was going somewhere where dress code is important I'd wear something appropriate. |
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"I must say, it's odd that so many here appear to have missed my point... who think that wearing a pair of worn jeans and a scruffy jumper means you're dirty - that this means, somehow, you don't know how to wash your face or clean your teeth.
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Contradicting yourself a lot here mate. You says that worn jeans and scruffy doesn't mean dirty, yet your original posts states that anyone who looks after themselves, dresses well or cleans their shoes as materialistic and "preened"
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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest.....
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man!
Oh it was.....I think we shall remain friends was a bloody good laugh as it goes.... was great, n looking forward to next meet, xx
lol, I promise not to be muddy this time or to make you do my washing or to need to throw me in the shower!! your some kind of angel I tell ya!!
Didn't mind at all, I nu where Ud been for a week! Ur company was well worth it.x"
For gods sake, get a room you two - oh wait, you already did... alright then. 
Sort of underlines my point about how much more important things like friendship and acceptance are over the more common expectations of appearance though - so what if someone's a little unkempt here and there, or prefers to wear scruffy jeans and fluffy jumpers... doesn't make a jot of difference in the shower.
Personally, I should prefer to be judged by a woman when she has me tied to the bed and is sitting on me.
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest.....
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man!
Oh it was.....I think we shall remain friends was a bloody good laugh as it goes.... was great, n looking forward to next meet, xx
lol, I promise not to be muddy this time or to make you do my washing or to need to throw me in the shower!! your some kind of angel I tell ya!!
Didn't mind at all, I nu where Ud been for a week! Ur company was well worth it.x"
your some woman...enjoying the company of a muddy blithering idiot like me lol...must say...your outside the norm, and that's no bad thing =) thank you a billion for looking after me =) xxx |
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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
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"I must say, it's odd that so many here appear to have missed my point... who think that wearing a pair of worn jeans and a scruffy jumper means you're dirty - that this means, somehow, you don't know how to wash your face or clean your teeth.
Contradicting yourself a lot here mate. You says that worn jeans and scruffy doesn't mean dirty, yet your original posts states that anyone who looks after themselves, dresses well or cleans their shoes as materialistic and "preened"
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No not really - go back and read it again more carefully this time. If you're still finding it difficult, I'd be happy to repost it for you using smaller words and simpler ideas.
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I like a man to have clean,ironed clothes. I don't like tracksuits or trainers at all. I do like a slightly dishevelled look though,especially tousled hair. But my favourite is smart casual fresh from the shower. Smelling laundry fresh and sparkly |
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By *opinov OP Man
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"I like a man to have clean,ironed clothes. I don't like tracksuits or trainers at all. I do like a slightly dishevelled look though,especially tousled hair. But my favourite is smart casual fresh from the shower. Smelling laundry fresh and sparkly "
Damn, I don't have an iron - still have a little hair though. |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest.....
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man!
Oh it was.....I think we shall remain friends was a bloody good laugh as it goes.... was great, n looking forward to next meet, xx
lol, I promise not to be muddy this time or to make you do my washing or to need to throw me in the shower!! your some kind of angel I tell ya!!
Didn't mind at all, I nu where Ud been for a week! Ur company was well worth it.x
For gods sake, get a room you two - oh wait, you already did... alright then.
Sort of underlines my point about how much more important things like friendship and acceptance are over the more common expectations of appearance though - so what if someone's a little unkempt here and there, or prefers to wear scruffy jeans and fluffy jumpers... doesn't make a jot of difference in the shower.
Personally, I should prefer to be judged by a woman when she has me tied to the bed and is sitting on me.
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it's not the wrapper that counts =) |
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"I like a man to have clean,ironed clothes. I don't like tracksuits or trainers at all. I do like a slightly dishevelled look though,especially tousled hair. But my favourite is smart casual fresh from the shower. Smelling laundry fresh and sparkly
Damn, I don't have an iron - still have a little hair though. "
you can flatten clothes by putting them under your mattress. But not if you have slats |
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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
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"Personally, I should prefer to be judged by a woman when she has me tied to the bed and is sitting on me.
it's not the wrapper that counts =)"
D'ya know, I could've saved myself so much time and effort if I'd just written that as the OP in the first place.
"I like a man to have clean,ironed clothes. I don't like tracksuits or trainers at all. I do like a slightly dishevelled look though,especially tousled hair. But my favourite is smart casual fresh from the shower. Smelling laundry fresh and sparkly
Damn, I don't have an iron - still have a little hair though.
you can flatten clothes by putting them under your mattress. But not if you have slats "
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It's not about "preened" or designer labels, anyhow. I think it's tacky to have your labels on the outside of your clothes anyway, like the dreaded Superdry.
It's looking like you've made an effort for someone, that's all. That you (I imagine as a newbie) "care" for all of the hour or two that you may be meeting for.
I wouldn't want to shag a chap who looked like you could smell his knob through his kecks.
I want to go to my husbands office when he is suited and booted (which isn't often, so is quite a novelty for me)and have my way with him on his twirly office chair. He won't let me though, because his colleagues would know I was there and why he wasn't answering knocks on his door. |
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"turned up to a lasses house recently on my way home from a festival...muddy clothes the lot =) not what i normally do but we got on great, made good friends and continue to be so....the state of my clothes made no difference whatsoever...
that's different, if i met a guy straight from a festival i would understand hpe will ne dirty, i have been to many i know what they are like, but if i met a guy coming from home and he turned dirty i would leave, i always turn up to meets clean and i expect the same in return
I know exactly what your saying as I say, its not the norm for me to turn up all covered in mud and sunburned lol..
Guess I was just trying to say that it doesent truly matter how you turn up, if there's a good excuse anyhow lol.....
To be fair she was extremely understanding as she knew where I was coming from....she washed my clothes and bunged me in the shower before feeding me a lovely roast dinner bless her....was a most unusual fab meet to be honest.....
... But the very best of meets, by the sound of it - full of friendship, understanding and generosity and devoid of superficial judgment.
You lucky man!
Oh it was.....I think we shall remain friends was a bloody good laugh as it goes.... was great, n looking forward to next meet, xx
lol, I promise not to be muddy this time or to make you do my washing or to need to throw me in the shower!! your some kind of angel I tell ya!!
Didn't mind at all, I nu where Ud been for a week! Ur company was well worth it.x
For gods sake, get a room you two - oh wait, you already did... alright then.
Sort of underlines my point about how much more important things like friendship and acceptance are over the more common expectations of appearance though - so what if someone's a little unkempt here and there, or prefers to wear scruffy jeans and fluffy jumpers... doesn't make a jot of difference in the shower.
Personally, I should prefer to be judged by a woman when she has me tied to the bed and is sitting on me.
it's not the wrapper that counts =)"
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It's not about "preened" or designer labels, anyhow. I think it's tacky to have your labels on the outside of your clothes anyway, like the dreaded Superdry.
It's looking like you've made an effort for someone, that's all. That you (I imagine as a newbie) "care" for all of the hour or two that you may be meeting for.
I wouldn't want to shag a chap who looked like you could smell his knob through his kecks.
I want to go to my husbands office when he is suited and booted (which isn't often, so is quite a novelty for me)and have my way with him on his twirly office chair. He won't let me though, because his colleagues would know I was there and why he wasn't answering knocks on his door. |
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By *opinov OP Man
over a year ago
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"... am I the only one here who prefers women to turn up wearing scruffy jeans, dirty boots and a torn jumper?..
.. or is it just me? "
.. so, it's just me, Banana Cake, Christos and Fruitiloop then, eh?
Anyone else?... |
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I remember not too long ago going out an spending a fortune on ripped jeans an tops with holes in and even dirty looking jeans. Obviously we all wash an clean up thats just goes without saying. Why dress up like a penguin in a suit if I had to do that id be punching above my weight. Smart casual all the way |
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