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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"4 words in 7 weeks = win.
I really can't understand why chicks ain't beating your door down mate "
So give him some advice from a woman's point of view then why don't ya?? |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Well, you have only been on here 7 weeks! It isn't an Instant Fix site!
You have to SELL yourself. Your profile says nothing about YOU. Put an effort in, and you might get somewhere.
But it takes time, patience, perseverance, patience, and even more patience!!!!
There are countless other threads on here on the same issue. Read them and learn! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Very hard to get along on here when your new "
and have made absolutely no effort.
What is there to attract anyone on your profile?
Maybe you think you can "sell" yourself better in messages but it's fairly unlikely anyone will be interested in chatting to you unless your profile appeals to them. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
Its certainly character building. But don't give up. Read the forum, there are lots of threads with loads of good advice about profiles and photos. I'm not the best at selling myself and putting things into words but at least I've tried. This site works of you put the effort in. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
From a female point of view in the same country as you, your profile is just very very lazy!
I look at someone's profile before the message and if you messaged me? I'd delete straight away!
It seems most men up here haven't got a clue how to communicate with a member of the opposite sex ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"4 words in 7 weeks = win.
I really can't understand why chicks ain't beating your door down mate
So give him some advice from a woman's point of view then why don't ya??"
The guy hasn t asked for advice, and what advice can be given is either very generic ( countless threads on the forum) or its from one persons perspective and whats good for one isn t always what others look for
My advice fella, Look into the archives they re full of useful tips and advice ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very hard to get along on here when your new "
Lose the hat pic and smile and upload more pics but keep the cock ones private and more wordage in your profile like others have said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very hard to get along on here when your new
Lose the hat pic and smile and upload more pics but keep the cock ones private and more wordage in your profile like others have said "
Meant to put smile in your pics |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I have this vision of the OP coming back to this thread when he gets up, in from work, released from the cellar. He will open it up with optimism that there will be one person, just a single solitary soul who will have decided he is worth a meet.
However, with a profile as poorly constructed as that, it isn't going to happen!
Sell yourself, say why someone should meet you and not anyone else ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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