I don't get 100s of messages.
If I am visiting somewhere then I will certainly have a browse and initiate contact. Sometimes they reply, sometimes they don't. Otherwise I'm happy to message people on my friendslist.
I get lots of wee messages from women but its usually to say they've sprayed the dog with coffee ?. . I know i dont get it either . . I thought that squirting carry on might be piss but coffee doesnt sound right
"Do women ever start conversations on here?
Or do they just look thru their hundreds of messages and cherry pick??"
Only with those on my friends list I answer messages but don't get hundreds.