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over a year ago
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I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP |
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP"
Help? What help are you expecting. If you don't like it don't do it! Why should she do stuff she doesn't like?Just for your enjoyment? How do you know that it isn't just you she doesn't want foreplay with? You might be crap so she just can't be bothered with it off you? Get a grip. Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ever thought that whilst you think you're good with your tongue & fingers, actually your not.
The stange thing is us girls are not all the same, what one of us thinks is mind blowingly good, another will hate & not want to do.
You're not compatible in bed....,move on if foreplay that important or accept your partner doesn't like it and accept that.
There is NOTHING wrong with the girl, however there is something wrong with your attitude towards this.
You're displaying a level of selfishness. Would you do something for her if you didn't like it & it did nothing for you? I'm guessing no, yet you expect her to do things she clearly doesn't want to because you want it....how is that in anyway fair?
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If the only thing that brought her to orgasm was to fuck your arse with a 9inch dildo would you agree even if you really didn't want it?
Why expect someone to agree to do things sexually that they don't enjoy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP"
Its what she likes that's her thing if you feel she is ignoring what you want then tell her not us alternatively stop seeing her. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Whereas she writes:
I'm sort of having a fling with this man but he keeps trying to lick my pussy and play with my nipples when I've told him repeatedly I don't enjoy it. He also wants me to suck him, which I don't want to do.
It's pants because I just want to ride his cock without him trying to fiddle with my bits. He insists he's never had any complaints and knows what I should want and he insists there is something wrong with me. What's wrong with him? HELP! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP"
It's not that she doesn't have any "feelings" per se.
It's more a case of you being more sexually open than she is.
That being said, I've never met a woman yet who isn't into foreplay, or at least some foreplay.
I don't think anything is wrong with her as you put it, she's just not very sexually open bro.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP
It's not that she doesn't have any "feelings" per se.
It's more a case of you being more sexually open than she is.
That being said, I've never met a woman yet who isn't into foreplay, or at least some foreplay.
I don't think anything is wrong with her as you put it, she's just not very sexually open bro.
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Seriously? You're complaining about a woman that just wants to ride you and you don't have to do much apart from get a hard on? In keeping with the general forum theme today....what the cunting fuck is wrong with you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, I hate guys playing with my clit. It annoys the ever living fuck out of me when many guys seem to like doing it. Very good chance your friend doesn't like it, so maybe ask her if there's anything she would like you to do as a compromise or move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing is up with her, she just doesn't like doing those things, not every woman does. "
I Agree!! also, I don't do the exact same things with each person I play with... I have to want to, and there are some thing I absolutely love to do, but if there is something missing, I will do what I need to do to get things done.
Have you actually asked her what she likes? That's a big deal for me lol just because a guy says he's good or great at something doesn't always mean it's something I'm interested in trying.
Look at it this way, at least she's told you she doesn't like you playing down there,then for you to find out by her just laying there while you did it! Have a talk with her if its bothering you that much. |
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP"
Hi, xx
Nothing wrong with you what so ever.
Nothing wrong with her either.
There are only two answers.
1) You are not sexually compatible and never will be so give up on it.
2) Find out if she doesn't like foreplay full stop or if it's your techniques she doesn't like or whether she just wants the quick come and nothing more. Have more chat and get to know each other's bodies and needs. Sex gets better with practice.
No one here can help you. Only you and your fling ee...... |
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"Fuck.
This place is hard enough for single men without threads like this that make us appear to be absolute fuck wits.
What's up with her? Crikey.
Grrr
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Crikey - not heard that since Billy Bunter was in Black and White. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck.
This place is hard enough for single men without threads like this that make us appear to be absolute fuck wits.
What's up with her? Crikey.
Grrr
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I agree with him. Stupid woman doesn't know a good thing when it's under her nose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you're with a woman who doesn't need any foreplay and she likes you to lie back while she does all the work.
Dude. 
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He doesn't get it, does he? Lucky Devil!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fuck.
This place is hard enough for single men without threads like this that make us appear to be absolute fuck wits.
What's up with her? Crikey.
Grrr
I agree with him. Stupid woman doesn't know a good thing when it's under her nose "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't think I should have put this thread up I'm sorry if I've offended anyone or sound like a selfish twat. I'm not really I just wondered if I was doing something wrong. I'll talk to her about it and sort it out. Thank you all for your advise and thoughts Andy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should have gone for the more expensive Doll in the shop.
Gimps top tip, If you don't fully inflate her she will wriggle about under you as if she's enjoying it...
...Allegedly 
Gimp |
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"You should have gone for the more expensive Doll in the shop.
Gimps top tip, If you don't fully inflate her she will wriggle about under you as if she's enjoying it...
...Allegedly
Gimp"
I don't agree. If you over inflate, you get 'bounce back' and it feels like she's bucking under you and changes from a svelte size 8 you can inflate to a more tasty 14 with......this was a friend who told me this btw not me oh no....def not me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP"
She's got no feelings ?
I think you could be accused of that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP"
Move on if your not happy . |
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"Ever thought that whilst you think you're good with your tongue & fingers, actually your not.
The stange thing is us girls are not all the same, what one of us thinks is mind blowingly good, another will hate & not want to do.
You're not compatible in bed....,move on if foreplay that important or accept your partner doesn't like it and accept that.
There is NOTHING wrong with the girl, however there is something wrong with your attitude towards this.
You're displaying a level of selfishness. Would you do something for her if you didn't like it & it did nothing for you? I'm guessing no, yet you expect her to do things she clearly doesn't want to because you want it....how is that in anyway fair?
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This! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP"
please read my later thread thank you
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"You should have gone for the more expensive Doll in the shop.
Gimps top tip, If you don't fully inflate her she will wriggle about under you as if she's enjoying it...
...Allegedly
Gimp
I don't agree. If you over inflate, you get 'bounce back' and it feels like she's bucking under you and changes from a svelte size 8 you can inflate to a more tasty 14 with......this was a friend who told me this btw not me oh no....def not me. "
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP
Move on if your not happy ."
It really is this simple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think I should have put this thread up I'm sorry if I've offended anyone or sound like a selfish twat. I'm not really I just wondered if I was doing something wrong. I'll talk to her about it and sort it out. Thank you all for your advise and thoughts Andy xx"
As the old saying goes.
It's impossible to please everyone. But it is possible to offend everyone. You have offended a couple of people. But I think you should be able to post What's on your mind. Who cares if people don't like it. Just take advise from the people who don't want to slag you off but are offering advise. Like I said before. She sounds boring. I would feel exactly the same as you if I were in your position. I have been used to lots of foreplay all my life. So to suddenly be faced with someone not into it at all, would freak me out too and I think you are quite justified in posting your concerns. And you do sound concerned to me. Not a complete sod, as you have been made out to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think I should have put this thread up I'm sorry if I've offended anyone or sound like a selfish twat. I'm not really I just wondered if I was doing something wrong. I'll talk to her about it and sort it out. Thank you all for your advise and thoughts Andy xx
As the old saying goes.
It's impossible to please everyone. But it is possible to offend everyone. You have offended a couple of people. But I think you should be able to post What's on your mind. Who cares if people don't like it. Just take advise from the people who don't want to slag you off but are offering advise. Like I said before. She sounds boring. I would feel exactly the same as you if I were in your position. I have been used to lots of foreplay all my life. So to suddenly be faced with someone not into it at all, would freak me out too and I think you are quite justified in posting your concerns. And you do sound concerned to me. Not a complete sod, as you have been made out to be. "
Absolute nonsense oh sanctimonious one. You know nothing about this situation except his side - yet you've deduced SHE'S boring? Marvelous. She could be disinterested, unused to it, self concscious - any number of things: but it's clear to you she's simply boring.
The thread was cold and blunt, it made her sound like a broken toy that needs reopairing.
And any post the ends: what's wrong with her, and HELP, deserves all the criticism it draws.
SU
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think I should have put this thread up I'm sorry if I've offended anyone or sound like a selfish twat. I'm not really I just wondered if I was doing something wrong. I'll talk to her about it and sort it out. Thank you all for your advise and thoughts Andy xx
As the old saying goes.
It's impossible to please everyone. But it is possible to offend everyone. You have offended a couple of people. But I think you should be able to post What's on your mind. Who cares if people don't like it. Just take advise from the people who don't want to slag you off but are offering advise. Like I said before. She sounds boring. I would feel exactly the same as you if I were in your position. I have been used to lots of foreplay all my life. So to suddenly be faced with someone not into it at all, would freak me out too and I think you are quite justified in posting your concerns. And you do sound concerned to me. Not a complete sod, as you have been made out to be.
Absolute nonsense oh sanctimonious one. You know nothing about this situation except his side - yet you've deduced SHE'S boring? Marvelous. She could be disinterested, unused to it, self concscious - any number of things: but it's clear to you she's simply boring.
The thread was cold and blunt, it made her sound like a broken toy that needs reopairing.
And any post the ends: what's wrong with her, and HELP, deserves all the criticism it draws.
SU
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think I should have put this thread up I'm sorry if I've offended anyone or sound like a selfish twat. I'm not really I just wondered if I was doing something wrong. I'll talk to her about it and sort it out. Thank you all for your advise and thoughts Andy xx
As the old saying goes.
It's impossible to please everyone. But it is possible to offend everyone. You have offended a couple of people. But I think you should be able to post What's on your mind. Who cares if people don't like it. Just take advise from the people who don't want to slag you off but are offering advise. Like I said before. She sounds boring. I would feel exactly the same as you if I were in your position. I have been used to lots of foreplay all my life. So to suddenly be faced with someone not into it at all, would freak me out too and I think you are quite justified in posting your concerns. And you do sound concerned to me. Not a complete sod, as you have been made out to be.
Absolute nonsense oh sanctimonious one. You know nothing about this situation except his side - yet you've deduced SHE'S boring? Marvelous. She could be disinterested, unused to it, self concscious - any number of things: but it's clear to you she's simply boring.
The thread was cold and blunt, it made her sound like a broken toy that needs reopairing.
And any post the ends: what's wrong with her, and HELP, deserves all the criticism it draws.
SU
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I really don't know what I said that was so terrible that you felt you had to be so rude and insult me. What did I say that was sanctimonious? ?????.
You say I know nothing of his situation. You are right I don't. What I do know is he was asking for some help with a situation he found confusing and unfamiliar.
I said I thought she was boring. If I were with somebody who was just interested in penetration then I would think they were boring. She may have her reasons for this and good luck to her. But I would still be bored no matter what her reasons were. She isnt here so she isn't being offended by anything we are saying about her. You got irate with me. I was irate with nobody. I never am. I just put want I think without resorting to name calling and being nasty. Some people  |
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"Don't think I should have put this thread up I'm sorry if I've offended anyone or sound like a selfish twat. I'm not really I just wondered if I was doing something wrong. I'll talk to her about it and sort it out. Thank you all for your advise and thoughts Andy xx
As the old saying goes.
It's impossible to please everyone. But it is possible to offend everyone. You have offended a couple of people. But I think you should be able to post What's on your mind. Who cares if people don't like it. Just take advise from the people who don't want to slag you off but are offering advise. Like I said before. She sounds boring. I would feel exactly the same as you if I were in your position. I have been used to lots of foreplay all my life. So to suddenly be faced with someone not into it at all, would freak me out too and I think you are quite justified in posting your concerns. And you do sound concerned to me. Not a complete sod, as you have been made out to be.
Absolute nonsense oh sanctimonious one. You know nothing about this situation except his side - yet you've deduced SHE'S boring? Marvelous. She could be disinterested, unused to it, self concscious - any number of things: but it's clear to you she's simply boring.
The thread was cold and blunt, it made her sound like a broken toy that needs reopairing.
And any post the ends: what's wrong with her, and HELP, deserves all the criticism it draws.
SU
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think I should have put this thread up I'm sorry if I've offended anyone or sound like a selfish twat. I'm not really I just wondered if I was doing something wrong. I'll talk to her about it and sort it out. Thank you all for your advise and thoughts Andy xx
As the old saying goes.
It's impossible to please everyone. But it is possible to offend everyone. You have offended a couple of people. But I think you should be able to post What's on your mind. Who cares if people don't like it. Just take advise from the people who don't want to slag you off but are offering advise. Like I said before. She sounds boring. I would feel exactly the same as you if I were in your position. I have been used to lots of foreplay all my life. So to suddenly be faced with someone not into it at all, would freak me out too and I think you are quite justified in posting your concerns. And you do sound concerned to me. Not a complete sod, as you have been made out to be.
Absolute nonsense oh sanctimonious one. You know nothing about this situation except his side - yet you've deduced SHE'S boring? Marvelous. She could be disinterested, unused to it, self concscious - any number of things: but it's clear to you she's simply boring.
The thread was cold and blunt, it made her sound like a broken toy that needs reopairing.
And any post the ends: what's wrong with her, and HELP, deserves all the criticism it draws.
SU
I really don't know what I said that was so terrible that you felt you had to be so rude and insult me. What did I say that was sanctimonious? ?????.
You say I know nothing of his situation. You are right I don't. What I do know is he was asking for some help with a situation he found confusing and unfamiliar.
I said I thought she was boring. If I were with somebody who was just interested in penetration then I would think they were boring. She may have her reasons for this and good luck to her. But I would still be bored no matter what her reasons were. She isnt here so she isn't being offended by anything we are saying about her. You got irate with me. I was irate with nobody. I never am. I just put want I think without resorting to name calling and being nasty. Some people "
Hello.
We've now lost the thread and appear to be arguing amongst ourselves. I was neither rude not not insulting: you, in my opinion took the wrong side. The female in the story is voiceless - all we have is his side and it's written in such a derogatory and misogynistic tone that he, to me, is not entitled to much or any sympathy.
You adapt to what each other likes, it's organic, you certainly don't say what wrong with a person the moment they don't like what you do.
And if he's bored, like you said you would be? Find someone else.
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"Don't think I should have put this thread up I'm sorry if I've offended anyone or sound like a selfish twat. I'm not really I just wondered if I was doing something wrong. I'll talk to her about it and sort it out. Thank you all for your advise and thoughts Andy xx
As the old saying goes.
It's impossible to please everyone. But it is possible to offend everyone. You have offended a couple of people. But I think you should be able to post What's on your mind. Who cares if people don't like it. Just take advise from the people who don't want to slag you off but are offering advise. Like I said before. She sounds boring. I would feel exactly the same as you if I were in your position. I have been used to lots of foreplay all my life. So to suddenly be faced with someone not into it at all, would freak me out too and I think you are quite justified in posting your concerns. And you do sound concerned to me. Not a complete sod, as you have been made out to be.
Absolute nonsense oh sanctimonious one. You know nothing about this situation except his side - yet you've deduced SHE'S boring? Marvelous. She could be disinterested, unused to it, self concscious - any number of things: but it's clear to you she's simply boring.
The thread was cold and blunt, it made her sound like a broken toy that needs reopairing.
And any post the ends: what's wrong with her, and HELP, deserves all the criticism it draws.
SU
I really don't know what I said that was so terrible that you felt you had to be so rude and insult me. What did I say that was sanctimonious? ?????.
You say I know nothing of his situation. You are right I don't. What I do know is he was asking for some help with a situation he found confusing and unfamiliar.
I said I thought she was boring. If I were with somebody who was just interested in penetration then I would think they were boring. She may have her reasons for this and good luck to her. But I would still be bored no matter what her reasons were. She isnt here so she isn't being offended by anything we are saying about her. You got irate with me. I was irate with nobody. I never am. I just put want I think without resorting to name calling and being nasty. Some people
Hello.
We've now lost the thread and appear to be arguing amongst ourselves. I was neither rude not not insulting: you, in my opinion took the wrong side. The female in the story is voiceless - all we have is his side and it's written in such a derogatory and misogynistic tone that he, to me, is not entitled to much or any sympathy.
You adapt to what each other likes, it's organic, you certainly don't say what wrong with a person the moment they don't like what you do.
And if he's bored, like you said you would be? Find someone else.
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Jesus Christ on a bike ....if a woman wrote about a guy who gave no foreplay and just wanted to shove his cock into her she'd be getting all kinds of ohh's and ahhh's and how women need foreplay....he would be a selfish git, only out for hinself etc etc etc ....My advice to you would be find someone else who will enjoy your attentions and let her find someone who's not interested in foreplay.....neither of you have anything wrong with you, your simply not for each other ....that's all. |
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"Jesus Christ on a bike ....if a woman wrote about a guy who gave no foreplay and just wanted to shove his cock into her she'd be getting all kinds of ohh's and ahhh's and how women need foreplay....he would be a selfish git, only out for hinself etc etc etc ....My advice to you would be find someone else who will enjoy your attentions and let her find someone who's not interested in foreplay.....neither of you have anything wrong with you, your simply not for each other ....that's all."
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"I'm sort of having a fling with this woman but she doesn't like me licking her pussy or playing with her nipples or really any foreplay. She just likes to ride my cock and when she sucks me it's only for a few seconds. It's pants as I love loads of foreplay and I'm good with my tongue and fingers. What's up with her? HELP"
She's ok with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus Christ on a bike ....if a woman wrote about a guy who gave no foreplay and just wanted to shove his cock into her she'd be getting all kinds of ohh's and ahhh's and how women need foreplay....he would be a selfish git, only out for hinself etc etc etc ....My advice to you would be find someone else who will enjoy your attentions and let her find someone who's not interested in foreplay.....neither of you have anything wrong with you, your simply not for each other ....that's all."
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