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Are you happier in a relationship or when you're single
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"Depends on the relationship I suppose."
This. 
Up until two years ago, I had a few years of being single I was extremely happy and everything was fantastic. I seriously questioned being in a relationship ever again.
Then I met my fella and I soon realised that I could keep some independence and be in a relationship at the same time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have the best of both worlds.
long distance relationship.
see each other as often as we can (usually every other weekend, for 3 days) and spend every waking minute with each other, hugging and holding as much as possible.
then, when we part company, its phone calls texts but we both do our own thing (obviously not sexual as we are dedicated to each other)
so we arent living in each others pockets.
we are there for each other
we have our own space and lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only had one relationship,which lasted 30 years and was a nightmare for me. I would like someone to sit with and watch tv or go out for a quiet drink with or even to stroll along the beach at midnight,but I don't want the rest of the relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not been single for twenty five years. I think I enjoyed it at the time but I'm as happy as I can possibly imagine at the moment. I would dread being sing again though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a difficult question. I'd love someone to cuddle up with at night, chat, laugh and have sex with on a regular basis....is that a relationship lol? But I do like my independence..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in a relationship with same man since I was 15yrs old.very happy till the last 2yrs of marriage it just died. For over a year now have been single and really loving it, I have no itch to settle down staying single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to find I'm happier in a relationship... Plus if they're a good laugh, you can have some really good times. That said, the freedom to do what you want is enjoyable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither is better or worse. They are just different. I've enjoyed being single and enjoyed being in relationships, both have their pros and cons.
That said having no family I do enjoy the security of a relationship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There certain people here think they are in a relationship with a fuck buddy and call them boy friends. Carzy world out here...Some weirdos who is even trying to get pregnant to trap guys. What a crazy world. Well for some repeating history is not an issue lol  |
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when you have been in an abusive relationship its nice to be able to do as you please ,but miss a cuddle and at the end of a long day someone to share your troubles with so not ending up on here pouring your heart out ,just hate been alone and suppose if you,ve alawys been
single its prob easier than it been forced upon you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happier now as a single woman than I was in my last relationship and in the last few years of my marriage.
But that's not to say I wouldn't be happy in the right relationship in the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quote happy being single but I prefere to be in a relationship. I miss the company and the human contact. Oh and I miss the regular sex   "
Sums it up for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to be single, although I have some great friends that when we meet we hold hands, cuddle and act like we are in a relationship but without all the drama involved "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to be single, although I have some great friends that when we meet we hold hands, cuddle and act like we are in a relationship but without all the drama involved "
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I prefer being single because I value my own space so much.
I miss cuddles, regular sex and sometimes someone to go out to dinner, or whatever, with.
I don't think I could be in a regular, monogamous relationship again though. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been single so long that my side of the bed is in the middle 
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I have 2 cats. My part of the bed is whatever small, oddly shaped space they've left me. And even that bit is only on loan from them and can be taken back at any time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was happy single, happy married (for a while), happy single and happy in a relationship. I'm just a happy bunny! "
As above, happy single, happy married (for most of the time) happy single, happy in a relationship (till he died) and happy single. Happy bunny here still. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been single so long after some really terrible relationships that I find it hard to get out of my set ways and try to make something work.» x"
Me too, can't let someone get too close, always keep them at arms length until I know I can trust them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had really good relationships & a good marriage until the last few months, which were flaming awful & not to be repeated.
I enjoy the freedom of singledom, like others have said I miss regular cuddles, chance to discuss your day with each other & regular sex - but it suits for now and I can't see it changing imminently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting question. I think I prefer to be in a relationship but never found the right relationship but had not found swinging then either. Suspect single with a regular fb and swinging would be preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was married a long long time and very unhappy. Single now and much happier. Would like to be in a nice easy going and caring relationship. But Ive lost my faith I'm afraid.... |
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