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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

IM finding theres a lot on here who just want to chat, but with no intention of meeting.

This is a swingers site ,,go to Facebook and chat..

wonder if others are coming across this even more?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like to chat and also had some meets!! To me the site is more than just meets! Its about getting to know other people and not just a quick meet!!

people want many different things from the site....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do people not even reply nowadays. just a thank you would be nice..

We have sent out messages ,taken the time to read their profile and what they require,,

why do many lie what they want from here or are the just dreamers and not real SWINGERS

SHAME SHAME SHAME

ADmin should deny some people profiles ..

not just men the woman are as bad ,, no manners..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite the experts after being here four whole weeks.

If people want to chat or hang around the forums - that's their business.

Bossy boots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yes but seeing profiles which just SAY NO MEETS whats that all about.

who said anything about quick meets ,,surely that's what swinging is all about MEETING !!!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's up to you how you want to use the site, but also it is up to other people how they use the site. No reply can be taken as a no thanks.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"yes but seeing profiles which just SAY NO MEETS whats that all about.

who said anything about quick meets ,,surely that's what swinging is all about MEETING !!!!"

Some people are on a break. I'm on a chair, they're on a break. Jim Davidson was on Big Break. It's up to them what they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

no no #

us who pay for this site arnt getting a choice unlike others who dnt and just hang around chatting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to use this site to suit their personal needs. If we all used it the same way people would have nothing to moan about in the forums now would they!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

no your missing the point

this is a SWINGERS SITE..

and your not that either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I pay for the site, and spend most of the time chatting... I have looked at your profile and i am not saying that ours is anything special but i found yours very difficult to read and make head or tail of it, quite confusing as to what u are after.. Maybe take a look at that if you are having difficulty meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes but seeing profiles which just SAY NO MEETS whats that all about.

who said anything about quick meets ,,surely that's what swinging is all about MEETING !!!!"

People's situations change. Sometimes couples take a little break from swinging. But they don't want to delete their profile and lose contacts with those they have met before. Nothing wrong with that at all.

If you don't like it, you DONT have to do anything, just get to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"IM finding theres a lot on here who just want to chat, but with no intention of meeting.

This is a swingers site ,,go to Facebook and chat..

wonder if others are coming across this even more?

On the hole I have come across no such tissues...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

well honestly forums are crap .as I only came in this to highlight a point ,,and indeed the response is what id thought, im saying what a lot on here think ,but too scared to say..many we have meet ..say the say..

lot of timewasters...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't meet many but chat to loads I enjoy getting to know people also wouldn't meet anyone I hadn't chatted to for quite a while x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also from your posts in here it seems like you have a chip on your shoulder. Have you considered it might be you with the problem and not others?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're sorry, consider ourselves told. We like to chat as well as enjoy sex with others, we'll leave immediately.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

your profile may put people off as it is too shouty shouty

good luck for the future

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By *uriousfriendWoman over a year ago

Galway

its a free site for everyone and people opt to pay. people who dont arent freeloaders sat chatting for free

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"no your missing the point

this is a SWINGERS SITE..

and your not that either"

I'm not meeting at the moment.I'm just chatting and going on the forums.Does that make me less of a swinger than you are? No!!

You run your profile your way and I will run mine my way.And yes I am a site supporter so pay my dues. If you don't like it tough! Do you seriously think this will get you meets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I only mentioned about profiles which said only here for chat

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

You're quite angry aren't you ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're quite angry aren't you ?"

Sounds like he needs a tug.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well honestly forums are crap .as I only came in this to highlight a point ,,and indeed the response is what id thought, im saying what a lot on here think ,but too scared to say..many we have meet ..say the say..

lot of timewasters..."

Forums are not crap but sometimes the posts are !

If it's any consolation we agree with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am saying what I see and heard ,, yet again another jumping in without reading...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not a swinger...shall I delete my profile now?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gggrrrrrr you tell em! Bloody pretend swingers all over the place

Line em up and shoot the buggers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

someones agrees with me at last

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

if you say so ha ha

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I think this thread (potentially idiotic as it is) presents the opportunity to make a number of points.

1) The internet is a medium through which people communicate (usually via the written word). If you come on the internet expecting this not to happen, you are delusional.

2) The term 'swinger' means different things to different people - none are incorrect.

3) People clearly do meet each other. They often then leave things called "verifications" on the profiles of people that they have met so that nosey bonks can be assured that they are indeed, real.

4) Being on a swingers' website does not mean you will fuck absolutely anyone. Calling people who will not meet you because you do not fit their preferences "timewasters" makes you look very bitter and thus unappealing.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

if the site has changed significantly since the last time you were here, it may no longer be the site for you..

I personally think the site has evolved from a few years ago but I still enjoy the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

maybe you should

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as people are upfront about what they want and are using the site within the rules they have as much right to be on here as anyone else. There are many guys in the armed forces on tours of Afghanistan and just want to chat but the ones I've spoken to have said that so no issues with leading people on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How people use the site is not anyone's business but their own.

I'm sure you'll find like-minded individuals if you look hard enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The irony of saying forums are crap on a forum is hurting my head.

I need a lie down.

Remember members - no chatting just meeting! Got that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bull and sub is swinging I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ive indeed upset the apple cart

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

what like your CAKE

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The irony of saying forums are crap on a forum is hurting my head.

I need a lie down.

Remember members - no chatting just meeting! Got that?

can I lay down with you?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Goes off and gets the steam powered cast iron printing press out.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

lot of timewasters..."

Haha course they do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do what I like......fuck the rest!

Oh I do

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

lot of timewasters..."
so ... If you are meeting ' many' why would you really be concerned about how others choose to use this site and what they are doing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

what like your CAKE

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Why do all the ranty people who make snipey comments at people never use the quote button so you can't tell who their adolescent comments are made to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yeah we like fucking

EXCATLY MY POINT

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Why do all the ranty people who make snipey comments at people never use the quote button so you can't tell who their adolescent comments are made to? "

I'm assuming they are all in reply to something Toshn will say tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do all the ranty people who make snipey comments at people never use the quote button so you can't tell who their adolescent comments are made to? "

Dont think they know how to!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're quite angry aren't you ?

Sounds like he needs a tug. "

Or a big hug

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yes come and lay on my bed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like banana flavoured Angel Delight....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yeah we like fucking

EXCATLY MY POINT"

So you think 'fancy a fuck' messages are the way forward?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

that's 1 offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

if you so say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes come and lay on my bed"

and who is this once in a lifetime offer directed to??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"no your missing the point

this is a SWINGERS SITE..

and your not that either"

if that's directed at me explain why I'm not a swinger, I'm curious to know.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Fuck off ( 's and colds ,take lemsip! )

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I only mentioned about profiles which said only here for chat"

But your profile implies you chat.....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"someones agrees with me at last"

Unfortunately we are probably gonna be the only ones who do ....

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yeah we like fucking

EXCATLY MY POINT"

Go on then

Go forth and fornicate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I must be correct

chat has gone quite

maybe your all fucking each other now..

ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lot of timewasters..."

Well if its not working for u and its crap here simples delete your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

not if you READ it we dnt do chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

why should we delete it im making a point ..

and not chatting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I must be correct

chat has gone quite

maybe your all fucking each other now..

ha ha

Your a little weird and angry me thinks!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"not if you READ it we dnt do chat rooms"

....."NEVER NEVER ASK US TO MEET ALONE ,COUPLE WE ARE COUPLE WE STAY... DNT EVER ASK THE SUB TO COME INTO THE CHAT ROOMS OR ANY OTHER CHAT PLACES AS THIS WILLNT EVER HAPPEN AS MASTER DOESNT ALLOW!!!!!!........"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

so rude some

people shame not in the fucking position

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yes we dnt do chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hmmm

we all weird we all on this site!!!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"IM finding theres a lot on here who just want to chat, but with no intention of meeting.

This is a swingers site ,,go to Facebook and chat..

wonder if others are coming across this even more?

"
so ... Come on the furums where people chat, to moan about people chatting and not meeting cos they chat. And chatters aint swingers cos swingers just fuck and don't chat . Time wasting chatty non swingers ... Are we keeping you from fucking?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so rude some

people shame not in the fucking position"

We met last week, in the process of arranging another hopefuly for next week so we are in the fucking position!!! And if i am not mistaken are u not chatting!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

love your comment...

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Well, this is going swimmingly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

nope im asking and inquiring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do you get to meet people on here without chatting a bit first, send some sort of swingers morse code???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

is it just

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"IM finding theres a lot on here who just want to chat, but with no intention of meeting.

This is a swingers site ,,go to Facebook and chat..

wonder if others are coming across this even more?

Go tell that to every other person/couple then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

politeness and message

that's not chatting

since when has a letter been chatting

did you go to garth or something

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I did read your profile, OP, but found the standard of English to be so low, it was virtually incomprehensible so I apologize for any confusion on my part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

im trying to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The irony is that by replying so much and engaging with all the contributors to the forum..........deep breath.......you're chatting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why should we delete it im making a point ..

and not chatting"

Cause your moanng everyone's a time waster people will use this site as they wish and you can't grasp that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

are we at school now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what like your CAKE"

my CAKE gets fucked a lot thank you. I also talk to people on here. It's called "being sociable"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

no this is writing

chatting is verbal with yur mouth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A chat about hating chat!

Aggghhhhhhhh!

Paradox over load.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I did read your profile, OP, but found the standard of English to be so low, it was virtually incomprehensible so I apologize for any confusion on my part."

You willn't AVE said that Stv

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"A chat about hating chat!

Aggghhhhhhhh!

Paradox over load.

I changed to Persil years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"no this is writing

chatting is verbal with yur mouth"

No you're wrong

Chat can be written.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well that'sfive minutes of my life I will never get back again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really not taking sides in this debate but is nt half the fun the search or anticipation even if it ends in a letdown

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok. So im

Single = not a real swinger

Here chatting = not a real swinger

Yet I attend various swingers clubs and play with various people

Have met a few ppl here who I play with regularly,who in turn play with people they choose to as and when they want to, without any commitment

use the site to meet / chat to sexy openminded ppl

And pay site supporters fee.

What difference does it make to you op ???

Non. Because even if I was a real swinger..ie part of a couple looking to meet other couples, id still use the site in the same way..just with added restrictions of having to suit my partners preferences / kinks too.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Well that'sfive minutes of my life I will never get back again.

What would you have done with those five minutes ?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

The couple didn't ask for their profile to be critiqued

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ha ha

go to a club then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"politeness and message

that's not chatting

since when has a letter been chatting

did you go to garth or something"

Exchanging messages on here or text etc is chatting via social media. If one message is sent then not replied to then its not really chatting is it but to me, exchanging several messages when online is chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

fuck fuck fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd like to add that I haven't yet read the definitive definition of a 'swinger' as im too busy chatting and occasionally meeting, but I like this site and don't have anything to rant about, should I get my coat now?

"Taxi for petite"?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"no this is writing

chatting is verbal with yur mouth"
so... Why not get permission to go on chat and tell all those there then? That they not real swingers and should not be on this site and should be meeting and fucking?! How very dare they eh!!! Lmfao

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If people don't like how I operate on here, or meet with my preferences, they are more than welcome to move on to the next profile!

As I certainly wouldn't want to interact with them either, so I'm _iewing this thread as a 'toys out the pram' because people don't do things the you way you want them to

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

no your wrong but im not here to argue

we here to have play

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I only mentioned about profiles which said only here for chat"

Maybe those profiles have a FB or FWB at the moment and use fabs to stay in touch with friends, find out about events/socials etc. maybe they have put that on there for a while as they have work/child/family commitments like are moving house or have a lot of work on so no time to meet.

Should these people delete their profiles and lose friends/veri's/photos etc???? No!

And I think you are missing the point. This is a swinging site and swinging to most is more than just notching up meets with anyone who happens to send you a message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"no your wrong but im not here to argue

we here to have play"

You had me at hello xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"no your wrong but im not here to argue

we here to have play"

We can tell! This will have them queuing round the block

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"are we at school now

No, but it's not beyond the realms of realistic expectation that one learns, remembers and uses what they learnt....education is not just for school, it cam be used all through your life. For example, people used to write things with pens and pencils, then the Internet came along and it wa decided by users that the term 'chatting' would be used to describe immediate electronic intercommunication between people on the internet, so, with straightforward simplicity and elegance, simply by 'typing' to us, you're 'chatting' by default...savvy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I dnt disobey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"no your wrong but im not here to argue

we here to have play"

Seems to me like ur here to moan about lack of play rather than do anything pro active to get more play

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By *alopeteyMan over a year ago

maghull

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The sun has got his hat on...hip hip horray, the sun has got his hat on and he is coming out to play.....

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By *ay Dee BeeMan over a year ago

INGATESTONE near Brentwood

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Group hug everyone?

Get some of the love back?

Come on - huddle in.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

OK stop attacking the OP.

Time to shut I think.

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