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"As i pointed out at the beginning of my post ... NO RIGHT OR WRONG answers simply looking for opinions " What is your _iew? | |||
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"Open debate - No right or wrong answers Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles " What ever next Mechanics taking a drive on a weekend? travel agents going on holiday? where will it all end | |||
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"As i pointed out at the beginning of my post ... NO RIGHT OR WRONG answers simply looking for opinions What is your _iew?" My View is each to their own .... You see that many pictures with people having bareback sex then i question would a really want to have sex with them ..... Im making a assumtion ... People who work in the Sex trade are far more aware of sexual health therefore they are more likely to ensure they don't take risks ? | |||
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"When escorts are paid they 'dont have a choice in who they play with' when its on fab they can be as picky as they like and choose the perfect guy/gal/couple's for themselves. Everyones allowed a hobby right? " Agree with this. No rules being broken and escorts enjoy sex the same as the next person. | |||
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"Open debate - No right or wrong answers Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles " what people do in real life their business when it comes to Fab it is their fun time. Obviously the ones who charge on fab get reported. Everyone entitled to fun time, used to work in a bar in Cardiff where half the clientele were ladies of night enjoying a drink on their night out | |||
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" Personally I don't care it dosnt affect me but if its not allowed by the powers that be aka FAB Then why is there obviously so much off it???? " Admin have to rely on people reporting it | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter!" Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? " No we mustn't lose Focus. lol. | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? No we mustn't lose Focus. lol." Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? No we mustn't lose Focus. lol. Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri " Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair. | |||
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"Lol One girl on here who also escorts, basically runs greedy girl nights etc where the blokes pay to get in so that circumnavigated the rules, she did point out to me when I questioned her that, I quote "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" Please note, I did not say that! X" is the fee not for the accommodation if its not her own place, drinks/foods, condoms? | |||
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"Lol One girl on here who also escorts, basically runs greedy girl nights etc where the blokes pay to get in so that circumnavigated the rules, she did point out to me when I questioned her that, I quote "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" Please note, I did not say that! X" Sounds like she is charging guys to cover expenses..... Why should someone be out of pocket so guys get a free shag | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? No we mustn't lose Focus. lol. Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair. " Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here ! | |||
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"Open debate - No right or wrong answers Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles " My moral _iewpoint is that I have no objection. If I owned or ran a swingers site I would object to escorts or any business using my site to tout. | |||
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"Lol One girl on here who also escorts, basically runs greedy girl nights etc where the blokes pay to get in so that circumnavigated the rules, she did point out to me when I questioned her that, I quote "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" Please note, I did not say that! X" If someone is charging for guaranteed sex it is still against rules. | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? No we mustn't lose Focus. lol. Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair. Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here !" and to quote Del boy "mon deo Rodney,mon deo" | |||
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"Open debate - No right or wrong answers Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles " ====================================== People have an occupation (unless they're independently wealthy and elect not to work), and also have private life interests. I don't see a problem. I've had swinging partners who were "escorts" and told me that they were ... but that in no way impacted on their love of swinging with men they found themselves sexually attracted to | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? No we mustn't lose Focus. lol. Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair. Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here !" Must be my age - or my sign of the Zodiac. I was a Prefect at school when I was 8 and was very Popular. People thoght I had the job off to a T. | |||
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"perhaps i should become an escort then i will get paid more than 6.31 per hour, i could tout for business in my camper van " | |||
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"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications " well I ask no one to pay for nothing .... just petrol to get to me .. is all my meet pays. | |||
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"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, " It didn't bother me that statement as it doesn't apply to me and I didn't think at the time it deserved a response. It sounds like you wanted a different response | |||
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"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, It didn't bother me that statement as it doesn't apply to me and I didn't think at the time it deserved a response. It sounds like you wanted a different response" Not at all, I just thought that it was not a nice thing that the escort said and I was surprised no one responded to that other than via PM to ask who said it, chatting about escorting is very taboo on here, ok the one hand I think they should not be on here at all if they are underhand in extracting money from Men who can't frankly afford it or they would be seeing escorts and then on the other hand I think some of the ladies who just play with any guy might as well charge and drag themselves out of the poverty that they and there children are in | |||
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"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, It didn't bother me that statement as it doesn't apply to me and I didn't think at the time it deserved a response. It sounds like you wanted a different response Not at all, I just thought that it was not a nice thing that the escort said " It is also probably not true. | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? No we mustn't lose Focus. lol. Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair. Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here ! Must be my age - or my sign of the Zodiac. I was a Prefect at school when I was 8 and was very Popular. People thoght I had the job off to a T." Was wondering if anyone could recomend a UPVC window company as instead of exotic holiday this year we thought we would change the windows | |||
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"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications " To be honest the first post sounded like Chinese whispers. This one sounds like an agenda. Most women on here aren't escorts. Most people know that. An unsubstantiated quote from an unknown source is probably not going to provoke debate. | |||
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"k the one hand I think they should not be on here at all if they are underhand in extracting money from Men who can't frankly afford it or they would be seeing escorts" Are you suggesting men are on here as the women are a cheaper alternative to escorts? | |||
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"k the one hand I think they should not be on here at all if they are underhand in extracting money from Men who can't frankly afford it or they would be seeing escorts Are you suggesting men are on here as the women are a cheaper alternative to escorts?" I do like to play devils advocate and give a slightly skewered perspective but it is a consideration don't you think? | |||
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"I think some of the ladies who just play with any guy might as well charge and drag themselves out of the poverty that they and there children are in " I don't know what to make of this! Swingers seem to be an increasingly diminishing minority on here. | |||
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"i've seen a few on escorts sites where they charge per hour and so forth. how i know has they have put profile pictures on there that match upon this site dozy buggers " Exactly correct and forgive me for saying this but frankly if you've been having sex with lots of men you don't particularly fancy and your getting paid, would you really take your work home and do it as a hobby? An escort on here is generally touting for business, fact | |||
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"Yes I would agree real swingers seem to be in the minority but what is a real swinger? How do you define what is real? Ps I am playing devils advocate " I'm not interested in what people consider to be a 'real swinger' - I'm just constantly surprised at attitudes reflected in comments such as your own that suggest women would only be looking for sex due to some form of desperation. I don't think such attitudes understand swinging. PS I'm not hiding behind a mask of devils advocate | |||
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"i've seen a few on escorts sites where they charge per hour and so forth. how i know has they have put profile pictures on there that match upon this site dozy buggers Exactly correct and forgive me for saying this but frankly if you've been having sex with lots of men you don't particularly fancy and your getting paid, would you really take your work home and do it as a hobby? An escort on here is generally touting for business, fact " Fact? | |||
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"Yes I would agree real swingers seem to be in the minority but what is a real swinger? How do you define what is real? Ps I am playing devils advocate I'm not interested in what people consider to be a 'real swinger' - I'm just constantly surprised at attitudes reflected in comments such as your own that suggest women would only be looking for sex due to some form of desperation. I don't think such attitudes understand swinging. PS I'm not hiding behind a mask of devils advocate" I'm sure there are people both make and female on this site that swing for many many reasons, desperation, enjoyment, the thrill, stave off boredom, for the infamy, desperation, fun and hundreds of other reasons. Funny how I must read everyday couples and females moaning about the desperate messages they receive and some of the desperation shown by men, well some ladies show the same traits | |||
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"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications " I picked up on it. I prefer to use the term WOMEN. | |||
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"What a silly thread! Considering the last Escort was manufactured in 2002 I'm not surprised there aren't many still working on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! Can one afFORD to be complacent about it? No we mustn't lose Focus. lol. Next we will be talking about Holidaying in the Isle of Capri Ah, blue sea and a gentle Zephyr to ruffle your hair. Ha ha thats showing your age - ) ... How about all the sexy Cougars on here ! Must be my age - or my sign of the Zodiac. I was a Prefect at school when I was 8 and was very Popular. People thoght I had the job off to a T. Was wondering if anyone could recomend a UPVC window company as instead of exotic holiday this year we thought we would change the windows " Im thinking about my windows | |||
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"Seems to me there's an awful lot of people on here who use escorts to speak with such knowledge and certainty " Maybe its desperation for some who cant get it for free here......... I don't think escorts should have it on there profile as even if not looking for work here , They are saying its there job .. And you get some on sites like this who are maybe feeling a bit down as cant get a meet and they see it as there only way out . | |||
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"Yes I would agree real swingers seem to be in the minority but what is a real swinger? How do you define what is real? Ps I am playing devils advocate " No. You are not. Asking a question is not playind Devil's Advocate. | |||
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"Seems to me there's an awful lot of people on here who use escorts to speak with such knowledge and certainty " I am very good friends with a lady who used to escort so I have a perspective on all the nonsense talked, she has since taken a 9-5 job and is far happier but less wealthy, there were many days where she would drink heavily and be depressed after seeing clients (hence my comment about bringing there work home) She is now on fab and sees plenty of profiles which she believes are touting for business. As a point I have no issue with escorts as it has a permanent place in modern society I just don't like the obvious touting and crossover, as she has pointed out many high earners use escorts for play time and that's fine and I for ease of arranging meetings with minimal hassle that is fine for them, I just worry about men on here who are taken for a ride and let there cocks rule their heads by being drawn in to paying girls when this could financially ruin there family etc | |||
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"Weirdly no one picked up on the point that this escort said "Most of the ladies on here are escorts" I would have thought most of the ladies would be unhappy with this statement, as someone quite rightly pointed out that this lady maybe charging for expenses, room etc, mmm doesn't wash an escort just covering costs with over 100 verifications " The woman who allegedly said this, isn't on the Forums so what's the point in commenting? If she want's to think that then it's her lookout. I'm sure that the men she chats to have minds of their own and will realise she's talking rubbish once they talk to others. | |||
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"k the one hand I think they should not be on here at all if they are underhand in extracting money from Men who can't frankly afford it or they would be seeing escorts Are you suggesting men are on here as the women are a cheaper alternative to escorts?" Yes some are. | |||
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"Most of the ladies on here are escorts" No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too ." I didn't say that I just quoted what the lady said to me when I questioned why she arranged greedy girl parties and charged men £30 per head along with another well known escort who has a profile on this site x | |||
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"Most of the ladies on here are escorts" No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too ." It's a woman's world I live in a house with 3 woman, the world population has swung 3% towards woman in the last century, Mother Nature has decided to fight back against men who have ruined this planet, I am not proud to be a man | |||
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"I'm sure there are people both make and female on this site that swing for many many reasons, desperation, enjoyment, the thrill, stave off boredom, for the infamy, desperation, fun and hundreds of other reasons. Funny how I must read everyday couples and females moaning about the desperate messages they receive and some of the desperation shown by men, well some ladies show the same traits" Sexual 'desperation' or lust is quite different to prostitution through desperation of circumstance. I think you're twisting your way into a muddle. Although that's not to suggest you're wrong, no doubt there's truth to your comments and hence my earlier one of seemingly diminishing swingers. When I first joined on here it seemed more balanced but it's become increasingly a more general 'sex site'. | |||
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"Hmmmm........you seem desperate that contentous points you are throwing out are not raising the noise you seek. Was I a cynic (actually I am) I would almost believe that you have a motive for this thread! " who is that comment aimed at ? | |||
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"Could be worse....are there any bankers on fab?" yes I would think so ......... we have a real mix here .. But they will never have it on there profile there job as this is there escape from work .. | |||
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"If you refer to the OP I'm not sure If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them." Admin agree with you and ask people to report so they can look into it | |||
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"Would asking for cake be the same thing? If not, open to offers." I'll do you for a slice of carrot cake. Twice for coffee n walnut ....WITH buttercream or forget it ! | |||
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" I just worry about men on here who are taken for a ride and let there cocks rule their heads by being drawn in to paying girls when this could financially ruin there family etc" I could never be drawn into parting with my money if it isn't what I wanted to buy. To turn it around the other way, we have been offered money for sex, so some men are quite happy paying. ( it is still not allowed on this site though ) | |||
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"Would asking for cake be the same thing? If not, open to offers. I'll do you for a slice of carrot cake. Twice for coffee n walnut ....WITH buttercream or forget it !" Carrot please .. x love coffee too ... ooo be dreaming cake now . | |||
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"Would asking for cake be the same thing? If not, open to offers. I'll do you for a slice of carrot cake. Twice for coffee n walnut ....WITH buttercream or forget it ! Carrot please .. x love coffee too ... ooo be dreaming cake now . " A good lemon drizzle ........ mmmmm | |||
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"Would asking for cake be the same thing? If not, open to offers. I'll do you for a slice of carrot cake. Twice for coffee n walnut ....WITH buttercream or forget it ! Carrot please .. x love coffee too ... ooo be dreaming cake now . A good lemon drizzle ........ mmmmm " gran I love that too ....... I don't eats loads its a lovely treat and this time of the day I may just have tea and cake ... I am going to now . xx | |||
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"If you refer to the OP I'm not sure If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them." I don't understand why men are vulnerable? Or why they need protecting from the consequences of their own actions? | |||
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" I just worry about men on here who are taken for a ride and let there cocks rule their heads by being drawn in to paying girls when this could financially ruin there family etc I could never be drawn into parting with my money if it isn't what I wanted to buy. To turn it around the other way, we have been offered money for sex, so some men are quite happy paying. ( it is still not allowed on this site though )" Agreed totally wrong and again the sign of a desperate man, if your being offered money, many people are drawn to buy something that they can't afford that's why our economy is only just recovering! So after picking holes in my comments do we all agree on this Escorts should not be targeting vulnerable men on here? can we leave that to Nike, coca cola etc or government instead | |||
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" So after picking holes in my comments do we all agree on this " Who did? | |||
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" I just worry about men on here who are taken for a ride and let there cocks rule their heads by being drawn in to paying girls when this could financially ruin there family etc I could never be drawn into parting with my money if it isn't what I wanted to buy. To turn it around the other way, we have been offered money for sex, so some men are quite happy paying. ( it is still not allowed on this site though ) Agreed totally wrong and again the sign of a desperate man, if your being offered money, " Thanks by the way | |||
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"If you refer to the OP I'm not sure If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them. I don't understand why men are vulnerable? Or why they need protecting from the consequences of their own actions? " Ok if you can't see that there are clearly vulnerable people in all walks of life including on here, then I don't think it's a discussion for you And as for consequences of their own actions I guess the monetary easing of our economy wasn't done to protect the consequences of many people actions by over spending was it? As a civilised society we should protect the vulnerable and as a whole ease the suffering of those even if the consequences are caused by their own actions | |||
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"I think I'm on to something lads, back after a profile rewrite..." I'm just bored and enjoy the banter and a proper debate especially when people skirt around the issue Can I have carrot cake? I luv da cake | |||
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"As a friend of mine once said "why pay £50 for a blow job when the tarts in the street will give you anal for free" " Which street was this? | |||
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"Open debate - No right or wrong answers Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles " It depends if there is any blurring or advertising on here for the other. Its not having one its how its used. | |||
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"As a friend of mine once said "why pay £50 for a blow job when the tarts in the street will give you anal for free" Which street was this?" I think it may have meant to read "when Alan will give you a tart for free" and it's referring to Alan the baker who occasionally gives away free samples on Loughton High Road. | |||
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"I think it may have meant to read "when Alan will give you a tart for free" and it's referring to Alan the baker who occasionally gives away free samples on Loughton High Road. " Brilliant thanks, I'll then trade those tarts to women on Fab for anal. | |||
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"If you refer to the OP I'm not sure If you refer to me my motive is plainly clear and I will spell it out Escorts should not be on this site to underhandedly take advantage of vulnerable men that could cause major impacts on there lives and those around them." I like to think as grown men we can't so easily be 'taken advantage of' not in the sense your implying anyhow without knowing what we're doing...I'm very capable of keeping my cock in my pants and wallet in my pocket ta very much.... | |||
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"I think it may have meant to read "when Alan will give you a tart for free" and it's referring to Alan the baker who occasionally gives away free samples on Loughton High Road. Brilliant thanks, I'll then trade those tarts to women on Fab for anal. " Grab your strap ons ladies........ | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun " My point too, so why are escorts in here? | |||
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"As a friend of mine once said "why pay £50 for a blow job when the tarts in the street will give you anal for free" Which street was this?" Somewhere in Southend | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here?" Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to... | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to..." And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here . | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here ." jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself. how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there? or sexy nurses? or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts | |||
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"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo " well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to..." Lol most escorts if they are on here are Internet savy enough to have a profile elsewhere where to a point they can pick and choose there clients and I bet there are clients they enjoy being with and play with for free or a reduced rate because they like them, so again there is no real reason to be on here is there? | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here . jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself. how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there? or sexy nurses? or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts" yes but I never know if they really are as people can just say that thinking it looks good . | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here . jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself. how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there? or sexy nurses? or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts yes but I never know if they really are as people can just say that thinking it looks good ." and escort sounds better than prostitute lol | |||
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"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x" I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them. | |||
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"Anyone should be allowed to join this site (escorts included) as long as they stay within the rules of the site. Some escorts may enjoy swinging in their personal life outside of work. If they break the terms of use of the site and start asking for money on here though then report and hopefully site admin will remove them?" this. ateotd if you do something like sex as a living (not the drug addicted street walkers) then chances are you either really like it, and feel you may as well make a little money from it, or you are addicted to it. either way, people on here say they can separate sex for the act it is, from love, so why cant escorts separate sex, as a recreational activity, and that of a business proposition? | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here?" We've met an escort many times at a club. Strangely, she never charged us when we had sex with her - maybe she was on her dinner break? | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun " I'm sure escorts aren't legs akimbo 24/7. I'm sure their actual working time is a lot less than most peoples. | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? We've met an escort many times at a club. Strangely, she never charged us when we had sex with her - maybe she was on her dinner break? " hope the union dont find out | |||
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"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them." Report them for what? | |||
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"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them. Report them for what? " So we can sleep safely at night, knowing that "Flash" is keeping Swinging Safe for us all.... One Mans Traffic Warden is another Mans Terrorist | |||
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"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them." So you report them for being an escort when they are on here for fun only? | |||
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"For fear of sounding like a parrot....those type of profiles should be reported Jo well that's what we should all be doing even if it say here making friends and if escort on profile . I will from now on report as seen it. x I always do after google imaging some of there pics to see if they are on other websites, even if they don't say I'm an escort certain other things don't ring true and I will report them. Report them for what? So we can sleep safely at night, knowing that "Flash" is keeping Swinging Safe for us all.... One Mans Traffic Warden is another Mans Terrorist" | |||
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"Doesn't bother me, they are entitled to recreational sex are they not? " Fine thats true just as long as they are not looking to get customers on here as it gives people the wrong idea on the site. | |||
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"Doesn't bother me, they are entitled to recreational sex are they not? Fine thats true just as long as they are not looking to get customers on here as it gives people the wrong idea on the site. " They are on escort sites and on fab, I'm sure hard as it is to believe that escorts know the difference between escorting and swinging so will know they are on here for pleasure and not for work. | |||
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"It bothers me as you dont know how much teh bill is after the sex if you meet them from fab, rather have the menu before lol." tell em you work for the tax dept lol | |||
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"Doesn't bother me, they are entitled to recreational sex are they not? " | |||
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"Most the 'judgements' seemed pretty open minded or did I read them wrong?" I read them the same way as you. | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here . jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself. how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there? or sexy nurses? or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts" Many peope do suggest their line of work here and some may play up to the stereotypes that we have regarding certain professions ie; sexy nurses, firemen, policemen. After all a uniform is considered as sexy by many people. But the focus of this site is to hook up for non strings sex, so advertising your profession as an escort, if you are only on here for recreational sex, is rather foolish considering the amount of unnecessary messages it would create. It would be like going on a health and beauty forum and announcing on your profile that you are a plastic surgeon | |||
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"Most the 'judgements' seemed pretty open minded or did I read them wrong? I read them the same way as you. " This Thread has proven to be interesting, a good mix of light hearted banter mixed in with a great balance of sense and sensibility well done all proves we can all play nice from time to time -) | |||
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"People and society are so PC and naive,we all pay for sex wether it be directly or indirectly wether it's this site,swinging club etc " I'm intrigued where Political Correctness comes into this? | |||
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"People and society are so PC and naive,we all pay for sex wether it be directly or indirectly wether it's this site,swinging club etc " Not true in over 50% of cases people dont. | |||
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"Open debate - No right or wrong answers Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles " you picked on escorts.... but I know a fair few porn actresses on here... they are in the "paid" sex trade... do we single them out as well??? as long as they are not plying for trade on here... I don't see any difference between them and any other profession | |||
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"Open debate - No right or wrong answers Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles you picked on escorts.... but I know a fair few porn actresses on here... they are in the "paid" sex trade... do we single them out as well??? as long as they are not plying for trade on here... I don't see any difference between them and any other profession" Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT | |||
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"Open debate - No right or wrong answers Whats your _iew .. People who work in the "paid" sex trade and also have fab profiles you picked on escorts.... but I know a fair few porn actresses on here... they are in the "paid" sex trade... do we single them out as well??? as long as they are not plying for trade on here... I don't see any difference between them and any other profession Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT " Read the title you chose for the thread. | |||
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" Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT " ahem... this must be the worst case of "selective memory" I have seen in a while... what did you call the thread? I was just pointing out there are other "sex paid" workers... do they not deserve a chance to be here as well | |||
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" Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT ahem... this must be the worst case of "selective memory" I have seen in a while... what did you call the thread? I was just pointing out there are other "sex paid" workers... do they not deserve a chance to be here as well " My Point was - and ill clarify.. The point was "PICKED ON" .i object too... i haven't "picked on" any group as we have discussed in the thread.. I agree my initial point was specific about Escorts but the thread has covered several areas therefore | |||
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"People and society are so PC and naive,we all pay for sex wether it be directly or indirectly wether it's this site,swinging club etc " if you are paying for sex at swinging clubs, then you may want to report the management to the law. the only swinging club we went to, we paid to enter a venue, where sexual activity is welcomed and encouraged, but not insisted upon (so not actually paying for sex, but merely somewhere to do it), same with paying your dues on here. they dont entitle you to sex, otherwise every single bloke on here would be a paying member, it merely shows you have a wish in helping with the costs of running the site. the ONLY people that pay for sex, are those that actually DO go with escorts and prostitutes in a professional capacity, because you cant even say marriage is paying for sex, otherwise there wouldnt be so many 'single' men on here looking for extras. | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here . jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself. how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there? or sexy nurses? or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts Many peope do suggest their line of work here and some may play up to the stereotypes that we have regarding certain professions ie; sexy nurses, firemen, policemen. After all a uniform is considered as sexy by many people. But the focus of this site is to hook up for non strings sex, so advertising your profession as an escort, if you are only on here for recreational sex, is rather foolish considering the amount of unnecessary messages it would create. It would be like going on a health and beauty forum and announcing on your profile that you are a plastic surgeon " and thats a bad thing? i suppose those suggesting they are escorts are doing so to show they have attained a certain level of sexual play that they feel they are good enough at to charge for the privilege. if i wanted a shelf putting up, i wouldnt get in touch with a sexy fireman lol | |||
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" Singled out ? .... that would imply i selected a certain criteria .... I DIDNT ahem... this must be the worst case of "selective memory" I have seen in a while... what did you call the thread? I was just pointing out there are other "sex paid" workers... do they not deserve a chance to be here as well My Point was - and ill clarify.. The point was "PICKED ON" .i object too... i haven't "picked on" any group as we have discussed in the thread.. I agree my initial point was specific about Escorts but the thread has covered several areas therefore " You singled out escorts when there are numerous other people involved in many other forms of paid sex work on fab. That is "picking on" escorts. Just because other people did or did not mention other sex professions doesn't change that you were singling out escorts. Escorts shouldn't be regarded differently to other sex workers. | |||
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"Most of the ladies on here are escorts" No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too . It's a woman's world I live in a house with 3 woman, the world population has swung 3% towards woman in the last century, Mother Nature has decided to fight back against men who have ruined this planet, I am not proud to be a man" Not proud to be a man?? What sort of bloke are you? | |||
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"Most of the ladies on here are escorts" No ........... Most woman who are here love sex as much as men and feel they have the same rights too as men . Its not a mans world now its a womans world too . It's a woman's world I live in a house with 3 woman, the world population has swung 3% towards woman in the last century, Mother Nature has decided to fight back against men who have ruined this planet, I am not proud to be a man Not proud to be a man?? What sort of bloke are you?" A man with more than one verification and no endless cock pics! | |||
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"If I was an escort I doubt I could be arsed being on here too,I reckon id be sick to death of sex,it would be the same as me being on holiday from work and hanging round the A&E depts of different hospitals for fun My point too, so why are escorts in here? Because they want to have sex with someone they choose to...And why say on there profile there job if not looking ..? I cant make out why they say I am a escort but here on fab just having fun making friends ... WHY say there job no one do here... But them here . jo, if you think only sex workers suggest their line of work on here, then you ar fooling yourself. how many sexy firemen/policemen/forces guys are there? or sexy nurses? or those that state they cant put pics on cuz theyre teachers any number of people suggest their line of work on here, not just escorts Many peope do suggest their line of work here and some may play up to the stereotypes that we have regarding certain professions ie; sexy nurses, firemen, policemen. After all a uniform is considered as sexy by many people. But the focus of this site is to hook up for non strings sex, so advertising your profession as an escort, if you are only on here for recreational sex, is rather foolish considering the amount of unnecessary messages it would create. It would be like going on a health and beauty forum and announcing on your profile that you are a plastic surgeon " | |||
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"Having just read this thread right through, I am I can 100% guarantee that there are many paid sex workers of varying types on this site who are here for recreational sex only and are not touting for business in any way. I know a few of them. Some of the comments are unreal " I know some are my friends and not one has it on there profile you would never know just normal people nothing different about them at all. Its just when you see on a profile escort but not looking for work just friends ... only thing I say is why say as people are meeting them not needing to know there job and on a sex site . As still will get people mailing in hope they can pay. Some will get around the fab rules doing this in hope some will mail too . | |||
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"Having just read this thread right through, I am I can 100% guarantee that there are many paid sex workers of varying types on this site who are here for recreational sex only and are not touting for business in any way. I know a few of them. Some of the comments are unreal I know some are my friends and not one has it on there profile you would never know just normal people nothing different about them at all. Its just when you see on a profile escort but not looking for work just friends ... only thing I say is why say as people are meeting them not needing to know there job and on a sex site . As still will get people mailing in hope they can pay. Some will get around the fab rules doing this in hope some will mail too ." Exactly on 2 occasions I've been chatting to ladies I knew to be escorts and they've eventually said oh I see your married sorry I won't see you on here but if your look at my profile on a/w then I will see you!!! Strange how no escort has come on here to defend or just contribute, unless of course they have present company excepted xxx | |||
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"Having just read this thread right through, I am I can 100% guarantee that there are many paid sex workers of varying types on this site who are here for recreational sex only and are not touting for business in any way. I know a few of them. Some of the comments are unreal I know some are my friends and not one has it on there profile you would never know just normal people nothing different about them at all. Its just when you see on a profile escort but not looking for work just friends ... only thing I say is why say as people are meeting them not needing to know there job and on a sex site . As still will get people mailing in hope they can pay. Some will get around the fab rules doing this in hope some will mail too . Exactly on 2 occasions I've been chatting to ladies I knew to be escorts and they've eventually said oh I see your married sorry I won't see you on here but if your look at my profile on a/w then I will see you!!! Strange how no escort has come on here to defend or just contribute, unless of course they have present company excepted xxx" Ruggers posted much further up to tell people not to say they are an escort on this thread. As far as you can know, sex workers, both current or previous, could have posted here. Besides, some don't want to advertise the fact on here. Isn't that what you are complaining about? Those who advertise on here? Why should an escort have to defend themselves and their right to seek recreational sex with people they fancy. I'm damned sure I'd want to do what I wanted with people I'm attracted to after servicing countless people I'm not attracted to and doing exactly what they want. I'm getting a NIMBYesque feeling that some regard escorts as lesser beings that should be kept segregated from the decent "real swingers" (whatever and whoever they are). I agree nobody should tout for paid work on here, be it sex or plumbing. I don't necessarily see as setting a cover charge for events and parties as charging for sex. It depends on the individual circumstances. I don't think all sex workers should be lumped into the same category and be treated as pariahs here. If they follow the rules, they should be as welcome as anyone else. | |||
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