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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha nope!! But then if it were the other way round I wouldn't expect them to send one if they didn't like mine x"
Nope from me too, I've done that and had rude replies ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears "
If I sent a pic to every guy who messaged me I might as well just make them public. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Not my type doesn't necessarily mean unattractive. I may decline because of facial hair, miserable looking photo, axe murderer eyes, because they're dark and I prefer fair...
It's not necessarily any kind of negative judgement.
Given that, I'm not really sure why the other party not being your type would make you feel better.
Once I've been turned down it no longer matters to me what the other person looks like. I'm more likely to be stalk...looking for my next vic...potential meet than thinking about it.
I could just be strange. Actually, I know I'm strange, I mean maybe I'm strange when it comes to this specifically.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not my type doesn't necessarily mean unattractive. I may decline because of facial hair, miserable looking photo, axe murderer eyes, because they're dark and I prefer fair...
It's not necessarily any kind of negative judgement.
Given that, I'm not really sure why the other party not being your type would make you feel better.
Once I've been turned down it no longer matters to me what the other person looks like. I'm more likely to be stalk...looking for my next vic...potential meet than thinking about it.
I could just be strange. Actually, I know I'm strange, I mean maybe I'm strange when it comes to this specifically.
" It was a bit of tougne in cheek . But yes you are strange ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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We've encountered radio silence after sending face pictures sometimes we think it's because they don't realise that people in their fifties are going to have faces of people (albeit gorgeous, well preserved and prize winning ) who are in their fifties ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the point of that? Would rather just spend the time messaging someone else than someone who wasn't interested. I have my face pics on public display so would assume people who weren't interested wouldn't message and ask to attach a face pic. I do get some rather bizarre reasons not to send one though. I hate chatting to people when I don't know what they look like, think its a bit rude really but that's just me. |
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You dont have to be too ugly, or even ugly at all, or not in someone's league, to not be chosen to pursue things with. And it is rather unenlightened to think that someone one is not compatible with is going to lavish attention on one following their decision to move on. Thats what one has likewise to do - move on. It could be seen as rubbing your nose in things to send the money shot etc, and I think I find it a bit pathetic to send a consolation prize of a pic, to prop up another's ego or esteem. Im not pursuing this suggestion and having someone at my coat tails. Life is short, spend it wisely. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Not my type doesn't necessarily mean unattractive. I may decline because of facial hair, miserable looking photo, axe murderer eyes, because they're dark and I prefer fair...
It's not necessarily any kind of negative judgement.
Given that, I'm not really sure why the other party not being your type would make you feel better.
Once I've been turned down it no longer matters to me what the other person looks like. I'm more likely to be stalk...looking for my next vic...potential meet than thinking about it.
I could just be strange. Actually, I know I'm strange, I mean maybe I'm strange when it comes to this specifically.
It was a bit of tougne in cheek . But yes you are strange "
No shit, Sherlock! ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No!. Just because you have sent me a picture doesn't mean I have to send one back. What's the point for me. I don't want any more people than necessary seeing my pic. I would be happy to get a polite no thanks. At least it's not ignore and block. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No!. Just because you have sent me a picture doesn't mean I have to send one back. What's the point for me. I don't want any more people than necessary seeing my pic. I would be happy to get a polite no thanks. At least it's not ignore and block. " No I agree but if you request one off me I think it would be polite to send one back ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"No!. Just because you have sent me a picture doesn't mean I have to send one back. What's the point for me. I don't want any more people than necessary seeing my pic. I would be happy to get a polite no thanks. At least it's not ignore and block. No I agree but if you request one off me I think it would be polite to send one back "
Yes, I agree with you there. I prefer to keep face pics off here as much as possible, so usually I wait until I have an inkling I might like to meet someone, but I would not ask for theirs meanwhile. If I am sent one unsolicited I do not feel I have to reply in kind.
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"I get a lot of faceless avatars with the message " Can I see your pics?". Bit cheeky seeing how there faceless lol "
I ll show you mine if you show mw yours, ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the point of that? Would rather just spend the time messaging someone else than someone who wasn't interested. I have my face pics on public display so would assume people who weren't interested wouldn't message and ask to attach a face pic. I do get some rather bizarre reasons not to send one though. I hate chatting to people when I don't know what they look like, think its a bit rude really but that's just me."
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" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .
Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. "
Now, now Tina, you know what happened last time motor boats were involved - it's all fun and games till someone loses an eye/breaks a nose!
To the OP, when I have sent a pic after saying a polite no thanks the response to it is either that I'm a fat munter so he wouldn't have met me if I'd begged or I start getting the begging messages. Neither of these makes for a fun inbox so if it's a no I simply say so and leave it there. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .
Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat.
Now, now Tina, you know what happened last time motor boats were involved - it's all fun and games till someone loses an eye/breaks a nose!
To the OP, when I have sent a pic after saying a polite no thanks the response to it is either that I'm a fat munter so he wouldn't have met me if I'd begged or I start getting the begging messages. Neither of these makes for a fun inbox so if it's a no I simply say so and leave it there. " ooooo you are a hard un ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .
Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat.
Now, now Tina, you know what happened last time motor boats were involved - it's all fun and games till someone loses an eye/breaks a nose!
To the OP, when I have sent a pic after saying a polite no thanks the response to it is either that I'm a fat munter so he wouldn't have met me if I'd begged or I start getting the begging messages. Neither of these makes for a fun inbox so if it's a no I simply say so and leave it there. ooooo you are a hard un "
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"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears "
Tosh ....... Reverse the serving order. You say to her.. 'I'll send you mine if you send me yours.' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears
Tosh ....... Reverse the serving order. You say to her.. 'I'll send you mine if you send me yours.' " yeah good
Tip . Then I'll say ." Nah yer not my type " and won't send mine . Revenge is sweet ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .
Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. Ive got a Moth ? "
Aha! proof positive that the dragon was overrated! ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .
Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. Ive got a Moth ?
Aha! proof positive that the dragon was overrated! " A very rare dragon moth ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my face pic to scare small children and to punish men who do not reach my exacting standards....
So your welcome to mine "
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .
Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. Ive got a Moth ?
Aha! proof positive that the dragon was overrated! A very rare dragon moth "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back .
Please, please, please send a pic of a speed boat. Ive got a Moth ?
Aha! proof positive that the dragon was overrated! A very rare dragon moth
" Size of a dragon but with the wings of a moth . Which does hinder its flying techniques ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears
Tosh ....... Reverse the serving order. You say to her.. 'I'll send you mine if you send me yours.' "
When he came to Wales he said I'll show you mine if you show me yours. It was all very embarrassing when he got thrown out of the fish and chip shop for exposing himself ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering . ( Please feel free to tell me to f..k off) But .. when you chat us guys and request a face pic . Then we get the dreaded " Sorry not my type " message . Could you at least send a " Look what you coulda won " Pic back . Just so (Even if its a lie ) We can have the pleasure of saying " Thats fine!! You was not my type anyway .Cheers ma dears "
"F..k off "
Permission was granted wasn't it ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No!. Just because you have sent me a picture doesn't mean I have to send one back. What's the point for me. I don't want any more people than necessary seeing my pic. I would be happy to get a polite no thanks. At least it's not ignore and block. No I agree but if you request one off me I think it would be polite to send one back "
Yes I agree with you there. I would never ask for a picture in the first place. If I like somebody then I will send a picture. But if some random person sends me a pic then I won't send one back unless I like the look of them.
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