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By *GATE44 OP Man
over a year ago
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Can you help me with some advice I have this person on my friends list who says they don't want to meet me anymore but they want to keep in touch to say hi now and then and although I really like them I don't see the point in keeping them on my list what do you all think ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you help me with some advice I have this person on my friends list who says they don't want to meet me anymore but they want to keep in touch to say hi now and then and although I really like them I don't see the point in keeping them on my list what do you all think ? "
My personal opinion (which i have no wish to force upon anyone) is that i use this site as CHAT and sex. I get good results.
I think using it as SEX and chat, you are bound to be dissappointed.
In summation, keep them around. Embrace the social side of the site. You may just enjoy it more.
But thats just me. Feel free to ignore me. |
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"Can you help me with some advice I have this person on my friends list who says they don't want to meet me anymore but they want to keep in touch to say hi now and then and although I really like them I don't see the point in keeping them on my list what do you all think ? "
If you want to say 'hi' now and then, leave them on your list.
If you do not want to say 'hi' now and then, take them off your list.
They have not wasted your time. They have been honest.
Now make a decision.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get rid! Clearly wasting your time.
They didn't waste him time. They said ' I don't want to meet you' ..... He might be wasting his time thinking about it but that's the only time wasted."
Go granny!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ive not wanted to continue meeting former meets then ive deleted them from my friends so I don't keep seeing their (sometimes irritating) status' on my homepage...that said its nice to chat occasionally, but I hate it if they want to chat constantly on a daily basis when I just want to concentrate on chatting to people im going to meet in the future...as long as you're not going to pester for chat then don't burn your bridges, you never know when you might need an escape route |
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"Can you help me with some advice I have this person on my friends list who says they don't want to meet me anymore but they want to keep in touch to say hi now and then and although I really like them I don't see the point in keeping them on my list what do you all think ?
If you want to say 'hi' now and then, leave them on your list.
If you do not want to say 'hi' now and then, take them off your list.
They have not wasted your time. They have been honest.
Now make a decision.
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"Can you help me with some advice I have this person on my friends list who says they don't want to meet me anymore but they want to keep in touch to say hi now and then and although I really like them I don't see the point in keeping them on my list what do you all think ? "
I don't think you need advice per se!! If you want to chat sometimes, keep them on your fiends list. Or if you really like them keep them anyway - people change their minds sometimes, things change!!
Or I sometimes 'demote' people to the hotlist - so I can still find them easily but not be informed of their every meet/status update, nor they of mine!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is nice to chat from meets, but if they wish not too interact or ignore, because you was not for them get rid.
No reason not to say hello now and then, some worry about losing a veri, but not here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can you help me with some advice I have this person on my friends list who says they don't want to meet me anymore but they want to keep in touch to say hi now and then and although I really like them I don't see the point in keeping them on my list what do you all think ?
If you want to say 'hi' now and then, leave them on your list.
If you do not want to say 'hi' now and then, take them off your list.
They have not wasted your time. They have been honest.
Now make a decision.
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that's his problem,he cant make a decision,he wants others to make it for him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They maybe thought, although you werea thoroughly nice chap, and nice to have as a friend but completely wank in the bedroom
Embrace the fact you have a friend and got laid, lots on here havnt
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Just sayin like  |
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Ask yourself does it really (really?) matter?
Its your choice and it is in your own destiny whether they stay or go. Why not just leave them there and see how much of an impact it has on your time on this site - I suspect the answer will be little impact…… so you are procrastinating about nothing really.
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