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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or do other women find the terms MILF and cougar completely derogatory? I don't want to be defined by my age anymore than I do by my size or my hair colour. Older men don't seem to have equivalent terms except maybe letch and who would use that?
Any message I get that has those terms in the title or even as part of the profile name gets deleted without being read. So think on young'n and look sharp!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't find them derogatory, they're a stupid stereotype perpetuated by the porn industry but I find them more childish and irritating...I tend to use the application of such terms a useful idiot filter...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have guys only 3 years younger calling me cougar or older woman 
But what really pisses me off is being called milf, I don't have kids.....so definitely not a milf. |
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I don't like to be defined by my age but for women in todays culture of youth it's inevitable. We're all defined somehow and usually by physical characteristics unless someone knows us well, tall, dark and handsome is a well used description as is petite blonde. The sexual overtones of milf and cougar are off putting to me more than anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just you, I state it on my profile. It's the assumption by some men that older women are cougars who hunt them and treat them like their boys,dragging them around clubs to show them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or do other women find the terms MILF and cougar completely derogatory?
Nope. No different to BBC etc."
WE, VWE that puts guys off because if they say they are but are smaller than expected they're scared they'll get laughed at |
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"Or do other women find the terms MILF and cougar completely derogatory? I don't want to be defined by my age anymore than I do by my size or my hair colour. Older men don't seem to have equivalent terms except maybe letch and who would use that?
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I refuse to accept either - I have not had kids so I am no Milf and I let the guys do the chasing so I am no cougar either!
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"the sort of words you expect from kids or the less inteligent maybe
i just think they are silly and patronising.
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I don't disagree with any of this but there is a huge number of women that describe themselves as milf or cougar thus perpetuating the the whole thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or do other women find the terms MILF and cougar completely derogatory? I don't want to be defined by my age anymore than I do by my size or my hair colour. Older men don't seem to have equivalent terms except maybe letch and who would use that?
Any message I get that has those terms in the title or even as part of the profile name gets deleted without being read. So think on young'n and look sharp! "
In all honest when people don't use their real names here then I don't think it really matters but if it bothers you ignore, block of inform the people who use it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or do other women find the terms MILF and cougar completely derogatory? I don't want to be defined by my age anymore than I do by my size or my hair colour. Older men don't seem to have equivalent terms except maybe letch and who would use that?
Any message I get that has those terms in the title or even as part of the profile name gets deleted without being read. So think on young'n and look sharp! "
I don't mind either word tbh x it's gilf that gets annoyed lol  |
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