Hi, I have been keen to try a club for some time but have been put off by all the single men as I have a partner. Does anyone know of any clubs where they have women only events or nights where no single men are allowed? I could be swayed into being between a couple as well. I have been interested in trying Killing Kittens for a while but have heard they have single men
attending also and has put me off. Can anyone offer some advice? |
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Someone will correct me if I'm wrong but quite a few clubs have couples and ladies only nights on a Saturday. Check out the club section at the top of the page  |
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"Hi, I have been keen to try a club for some time but have been put off by all the single men as I have a partner. Does anyone know of any clubs where they have women only events or nights where no single men are allowed? I could be swayed into being between a couple as well. I have been interested in trying Killing Kittens for a while but have heard they have single men
attending also and has put me off. Can anyone offer some advice?"
Just go to a reputable night, and go on a night when no single men attend if you're freaked out by single guys. Pretty much every club in the UK does non-single-guy nights. You just have to look at the events pages on their websites. |
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"im guessing single men are the devil  "
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own. |
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Saturday in some clubs seem to be couples and single girls only. We haven't been for a while but liberty elite and vanilla alternative did this sort of thing. Check out the websites. |
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Not sure to be honest, you might have to check out the clubs near you if you don't want to travel far that is. I know some clubs do bi nights but more for the males than females. As the Killing kittens place, well there is an oddity as in my magazine, there is an article about the woman who set up the club who says "Men have to wait to be approached" and almost in the same breath, she then says "We don't let single guys in, ever  |
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"Someone will correct me if I'm wrong but quite a few clubs have couples and ladies only nights on a Saturday. Check out the club section at the top of the page "
Chams do on Saturday nights |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own."
what clubs do you go to never have i experienced such things, they would be thrown out if they did that where i go |
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own. what clubs do you go to never have i experienced such things, they would be thrown out if they did that where i go"
I don't go to clubs because I find them tawdry and unpleasant. I also choose not to have sex with complete strangers.
That said I have been to several in the past, and places like Abfab and FClub do allow men to congregate and wank as mentioned. It happens on single guy nights I assure you. |
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"No matter how bad things may be, killing kittens is not the answer.
 Absolutely! KK is awful. Sexual elite my arse."
Oh really, well that changes things then. I thought KK would be good but maybe not then. |
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own."
This is exactly my point, not all women want men wanking over them and would completely put me off. Some people want to explore and enjoy themselves without being made to feel uncomfortable and bombarded. |
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"No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex."
Seriously? Fuck that, sounds terrible. |
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own.
This is exactly my point, not all women want men wanking over them and would completely put me off. Some people want to explore and enjoy themselves without being made to feel uncomfortable and bombarded. "
I find it off putting see groups of guys chasing couples and single women around so totally get where you are coming from. Check out the websites of the better clubs, get in contact with them and they will give you the dates when it is just couples and single females. Am sure if you find the right place you will have a great time. |
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"No matter how bad things may be, killing kittens is not the answer.
Absolutely! KK is awful. Sexual elite my arse.
Oh really, well that changes things then. I thought KK would be good but maybe not then. "
Its also very expensive even for single females |
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"No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex.
Seriously? Fuck that, sounds terrible. "
That's probably Friday nights |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own.
This is exactly my point, not all women want men wanking over them and would completely put me off. Some people want to explore and enjoy themselves without being made to feel uncomfortable and bombarded. "
but you are going on a pereception....
you said you are keen to try a club... but have you ever been to one before, because your perception and my reality are two completly polar opposites... |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own.
This is exactly my point, not all women want men wanking over them and would completely put me off. Some people want to explore and enjoy themselves without being made to feel uncomfortable and bombarded. "
choose your club carefully and this will not happen guys randomly wanking over people without consent would be removed from the club for sure  |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own.
This is exactly my point, not all women want men wanking over them and would completely put me off. Some people want to explore and enjoy themselves without being made to feel uncomfortable and bombarded.
but you are going on a pereception....
you said you are keen to try a club... but have you ever been to one before, because your perception and my reality are two completly polar opposites..."
this^^ |
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own.
This is exactly my point, not all women want men wanking over them and would completely put me off. Some people want to explore and enjoy themselves without being made to feel uncomfortable and bombarded. "
A few things - pick a night where they don't accept single guys. These are generally Saturdays at most clubs, but look at their even pages - do your research carefully.
Secondly, you could go with someone first off, either a girlfriend or a male-friend as a chaperone. Safety in numbers.
KK is liked by many people, but also many people don't like places like KK because they pander to a class of people who think they're something special and elitist. Sex isn't and should never be about being elitist, and is about inclusivity - this is why I dislike places like KK. The same can be levelled at various other clubs & organisations.
It really does depend on what you're looking for, and what you're like as a person. I'm not saying my view is right, but it's right for me and a lot of other people who prefer to think of sex a celebration that should include everyone in a safe environment - not just one where they only allow what they deem to be, 'the beautiful people'.
Sexual elitism is shameful in my opinion, and is a form of exclusion that should be in no way encouraged.
There are plenty of good clubs, and events on that are safe and welcoming. Drop me a line if you want to know which ones. Note: this isn't me trying to pick you up. I can see you're not looking for men  |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own.
This is exactly my point, not all women want men wanking over them and would completely put me off. Some people want to explore and enjoy themselves without being made to feel uncomfortable and bombarded.
A few things - pick a night where they don't accept single guys. These are generally Saturdays at most clubs, but look at their even pages - do your research carefully.
Secondly, you could go with someone first off, either a girlfriend or a male-friend as a chaperone. Safety in numbers.
KK is liked by many people, but also many people don't like places like KK because they pander to a class of people who think they're something special and elitist. Sex isn't and should never be about being elitist, and is about inclusivity - this is why I dislike places like KK. The same can be levelled at various other clubs & organisations.
It really does depend on what you're looking for, and what you're like as a person. I'm not saying my view is right, but it's right for me and a lot of other people who prefer to think of sex a celebration that should include everyone in a safe environment - not just one where they only allow what they deem to be, 'the beautiful people'.
Sexual elitism is shameful in my opinion, and is a form of exclusion that should be in no way encouraged.
There are plenty of good clubs, and events on that are safe and welcoming. Drop me a line if you want to know which ones. Note: this isn't me trying to pick you up. I can see you're not looking for men "
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"I completely agree, single men smell. You wouldn't catch me meeting them lol it would seem so and if u turn your back we will wank over you!! "
I thought that was pigeon shit. |
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over a year ago
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"I completely agree, single men smell. You wouldn't catch me meeting them lol it would seem so and if u turn your back we will wank over you!!
I thought that was pigeon shit. "
No, that's all over my car. Again Filthy blasted vermin. |
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"im guessing single men are the devil
No they're not, but there are lots of clubs that have nights with flocks of men wanking in doorways, or over people having sex. It's very unpleasant and particularly unpleasant for girls on their own - going to clubs for the first time is a daunting experience and single men can often (not always) make the experience even more offputting for a woman on her own.
This is exactly my point, not all women want men wanking over them and would completely put me off. Some people want to explore and enjoy themselves without being made to feel uncomfortable and bombarded. choose your club carefully and this will not happen guys randomly wanking over people without consent would be removed from the club for sure "
I have only ever been to one club where the single men wanking thing didn't happen and that was Liberty Elite on a Friday night under the previous management. I have been to AbFabs, Eureka, Vanilla Alternative, Townhouse, Cupids, No3, Atlantis, Adventures, Xtasia and Chams and in every single one I have seen men wanking in doorways. Unless someone wants to run and report them for doing it the likelihood of them being asked to leave is tiny. And who wants to get up in the middle of a good orgy and run off to find staff?
When I am with my partner and single men get too close my partner asks them to move away and they usually do, looking mightily embarrassed. However, that doesn't stop another one wandering up five minutes later and doing the same. You will be so much better off on a couples night as long as you're happy with bi stuff |
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"I completely agree, single men smell. You wouldn't catch me meeting them lol it would seem so and if u turn your back we will wank over you!!
I thought that was pigeon shit.
No, that's all over my car. Again Filthy blasted vermin."
Are you sure it wasn't a single bloke, those bastards will wank over anything. |
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"I completely agree, single men smell. You wouldn't catch me meeting them lol it would seem so and if u turn your back we will wank over you!!
I thought that was pigeon shit.
No, that's all over my car. Again Filthy blasted vermin.
Are you sure it wasn't a single bloke, those bastards will wank over anything. "
Can confirm - I just wanked over this comment. |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"I completely agree, single men smell. You wouldn't catch me meeting them lol it would seem so and if u turn your back we will wank over you!!
I thought that was pigeon shit.
No, that's all over my car. Again Filthy blasted vermin.
Are you sure it wasn't a single bloke, those bastards will wank over anything. "
it was me  |
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"I completely agree, single men smell. You wouldn't catch me meeting them lol it would seem so and if u turn your back we will wank over you!!
I thought that was pigeon shit.
No, that's all over my car. Again Filthy blasted vermin.
Are you sure it wasn't a single bloke, those bastards will wank over anything.
Can confirm - I just wanked over this comment. "
I feel sullied now. |
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