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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

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By *-4pleasureCouple  over a year ago

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"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance"

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance"

they might have got fucking board of waiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

"

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance"

Because they can and they chose too . Simples .

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Is when you friend them the first time they see your face pics?

Perhaps they don't fancy you. It doesn't mean you're fugly, just not what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her"

Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner "

I bet you don't sunshine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner I bet you don't sunshine "

Aww your sweet . Mwah

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By *odareyouMan  over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

On a night out with my mates they call me the cat,, I thought it was because I was fit and walked like a panther, nah, turns out when I appear the birds scatter,

Op only the people who ve blocked you can answer why, if you concentrate on the 'why did they do this' you ll drive yourself potty, concentrate on the people that will meet you,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner I bet you don't sunshine Aww your sweet . Mwah "

mwah

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner "

Fugly tucked away in corner waiting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner

Fugly tucked away in corner waiting "

Now you I would happily pull

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner

Fugly tucked away in corner waiting Now you I would happily pull "

Id happily let you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner

Fugly tucked away in corner waiting Now you I would happily pull

Id happily let you "

Good answer

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner

Fugly tucked away in corner waiting Now you I would happily pull

Id happily let you Good answer "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just because they don't fancy you, doesn't mean no one else will.

You could walk in a pub and twenty woman may not fancy you, but the one tucked in the corner with her mates will.

Just move on with the attitude of onwards and upwards.

Her Yeah I usually pull the fugly one in the corner

Fugly tucked away in corner waiting Now you I would happily pull

Id happily let you Good answer "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect"

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance Because they can and they chose too . Simples . "

Wow, what a imaginative and helpful answer,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it. "

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless "

Define Sane

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance Because they can and they chose too . Simples .

Wow, what a imaginative and helpful answer, "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane"

Google it

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

it can be one of many, many reasons... the fact they blocked indicates that they want no further contact. It is a shame after messages have been exchanged that they don't give a reason and you are not just left wondering...

but they let you know, you are not for them.

only you and them know the tone, frequency of your exchanges.

let it go, block them back to remind you that you have contacted them before and move on

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane

Google it"

Other search engines are available.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yawn "

You tired?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane

Google it

Other search engines are available."

Your point??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"it can be one of many, many reasons... the fact they blocked indicates that they want no further contact. It is a shame after messages have been exchanged that they don't give a reason and you are not just left wondering...

but they let you know, you are not for them.

only you and them know the tone, frequency of your exchanges.

let it go, block them back to remind you that you have contacted them before and move on

good luck"

Good advice, being blocked can be annoying but it can save time, next

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yawn

You tired? "

You bothered

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane

Google it

Other search engines are available.

Your point??"

I don't point, it's rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

3 meets in 3 months . I would say you are doing well . Try 2 meets in 2 yrs and im not fugly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yawn

You tired? You bothered "

Yeah,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane

Google it

Other search engines are available.

Your point??

I don't point, it's rude."

Your point?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane

Google it"

Was that a request or an order

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane

Google it

Other search engines are available.

Your point??

I don't point, it's rude.

Your point?"

I made my comment about nine posts ago.

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

the best thing to do is move on .. re_iew what youve said just in case you came across creepy .. but whats been done has been done .. no going back if youve been blocked .. the block can be a useful tool and its not necessarily the rude rebuttal it appears to be

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By *uggarbunnyWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm still chatting to guys in my friends list who I haven't met yet. I don't feel like I'm being groomed. To me I feel like I've found some that are on my wave length and not wanting to shag every thing that sends a mail. There are different levels of what people are looking for on here and it's nice not to tar everyone with the same brush to coin a frase. I like a face photo at the start. If I'm not attracted to the person I will say no. It could just be that. Don't give up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane

Google it

Other search engines are available.

Your point??

I don't point, it's rude.

Your point?

I made my comment about nine posts ago."

Which was

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless "

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now."

Oooooops

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops "

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her "

Well ive blocked you so maybe you should not communicate with me either . Rules are rules

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her "

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her Well ive blocked you so maybe you should not communicate with me either . Rules are rules "

True, I dint want to get you in trouble

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp"

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle "

So you dont like to think of me as Gimp, Who would you prefer me to be, Does this stem from some childhood trauma that you are repressing, You can tell me your darkest secrets i am here to help you face your Demons

Dr Spock

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle

So you dont like to think of me as Gimp, Who would you prefer me to be, Does this stem from some childhood trauma that you are repressing, You can tell me your darkest secrets i am here to help you face your Demons

Dr Spock"

Your hilarious, anyone who calls themselves a gimp is in no position to psychoanalyse others, maybe you should sit down in my couch, explain why you call yourself a gimp btw I have blocked you a while ago so we may be breaking site rules

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle

So you dont like to think of me as Gimp, Who would you prefer me to be, Does this stem from some childhood trauma that you are repressing, You can tell me your darkest secrets i am here to help you face your Demons

Dr Spock

Your hilarious, anyone who calls themselves a gimp is in no position to psychoanalyse others, maybe you should sit down in my couch, explain why you call yourself a gimp btw I have blocked you a while ago so we may be breaking site rules "

Ahh so you break everything down to the meaning of a name then, Ok let us do it your way if it helps.

Genuine..Really ? Is that a plea to be trusted, A futile hope that people will believe you are the only truthful person on the world wide web.

Guy ?..An Americanism, Do you feel inadequate, Does using the word give you a sense of power and strength.

4...Was that the age when the Trauma happened, IQ ?

Dr Patel CDM and bar

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle

So you dont like to think of me as Gimp, Who would you prefer me to be, Does this stem from some childhood trauma that you are repressing, You can tell me your darkest secrets i am here to help you face your Demons

Dr Spock

Your hilarious, anyone who calls themselves a gimp is in no position to psychoanalyse others, maybe you should sit down in my couch, explain why you call yourself a gimp btw I have blocked you a while ago so we may be breaking site rules

Ahh so you break everything down to the meaning of a name then, Ok let us do it your way if it helps.

Genuine..Really ? Is that a plea to be trusted, A futile hope that people will believe you are the only truthful person on the world wide web.

Guy ?..An Americanism, Do you feel inadequate, Does using the word give you a sense of power and strength.

4...Was that the age when the Trauma happened, IQ ?

Dr Patel CDM and bar "

Amazing, google really is your friend, do you try and portray yourself as being an intellect as a means to try and belittle others an attempt to cover up your insecurities?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle

So you dont like to think of me as Gimp, Who would you prefer me to be, Does this stem from some childhood trauma that you are repressing, You can tell me your darkest secrets i am here to help you face your Demons

Dr Spock

Your hilarious, anyone who calls themselves a gimp is in no position to psychoanalyse others, maybe you should sit down in my couch, explain why you call yourself a gimp btw I have blocked you a while ago so we may be breaking site rules

Ahh so you break everything down to the meaning of a name then, Ok let us do it your way if it helps.

Genuine..Really ? Is that a plea to be trusted, A futile hope that people will believe you are the only truthful person on the world wide web.

Guy ?..An Americanism, Do you feel inadequate, Does using the word give you a sense of power and strength.

4...Was that the age when the Trauma happened, IQ ?

Dr Patel CDM and bar

Amazing, google really is your friend, do you try and portray yourself as being an intellect as a means to try and belittle others an attempt to cover up your insecurities?"

You keep mentioning Google, Please explain what part i would feel the need to Google, Do you really think that i would feel the need to prove my intellect or lack of to you ?

My Diagnosis would be feelings of grandeur, Narcissism or Napoleon complex

Next patient please.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle

So you dont like to think of me as Gimp, Who would you prefer me to be, Does this stem from some childhood trauma that you are repressing, You can tell me your darkest secrets i am here to help you face your Demons

Dr Spock

Your hilarious, anyone who calls themselves a gimp is in no position to psychoanalyse others, maybe you should sit down in my couch, explain why you call yourself a gimp btw I have blocked you a while ago so we may be breaking site rules

Ahh so you break everything down to the meaning of a name then, Ok let us do it your way if it helps.

Genuine..Really ? Is that a plea to be trusted, A futile hope that people will believe you are the only truthful person on the world wide web.

Guy ?..An Americanism, Do you feel inadequate, Does using the word give you a sense of power and strength.

4...Was that the age when the Trauma happened, IQ ?

Dr Patel CDM and bar

Amazing, google really is your friend, do you try and portray yourself as being an intellect as a means to try and belittle others an attempt to cover up your insecurities?

You keep mentioning Google, Please explain what part i would feel the need to Google, Do you really think that i would feel the need to prove my intellect or lack of to you ?

My Diagnosis would be feelings of grandeur, Narcissism or Napoleon complex

Next patient please."

Why have you adopted a patronising tone? do you think you are better or more intellectual than me? Why did you try and psychoanalyse me, for a joke, or to try and prove a point? Do you often make judgements and diagnose people you have never met simply in the things they have written on here?

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By *.nottsbloke..Man  over a year ago

the vale

To me saying he is grooming seems a tad silly to me. Or am I wrong in think most are here for sexual hook ups? I know there are some that.just chat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To me saying he is grooming seems a tad silly to me. Or am I wrong in think most are here for sexual hook ups? I know there are some that.just chat"

Grooming is going to far, chatting about meeting on a sex site isn't grooming as far as I am concerned

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Go on boy fetch !! There's a good lad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle

So you dont like to think of me as Gimp, Who would you prefer me to be, Does this stem from some childhood trauma that you are repressing, You can tell me your darkest secrets i am here to help you face your Demons

Dr Spock

Your hilarious, anyone who calls themselves a gimp is in no position to psychoanalyse others, maybe you should sit down in my couch, explain why you call yourself a gimp btw I have blocked you a while ago so we may be breaking site rules

Ahh so you break everything down to the meaning of a name then, Ok let us do it your way if it helps.

Genuine..Really ? Is that a plea to be trusted, A futile hope that people will believe you are the only truthful person on the world wide web.

Guy ?..An Americanism, Do you feel inadequate, Does using the word give you a sense of power and strength.

4...Was that the age when the Trauma happened, IQ ?

Dr Patel CDM and bar

Amazing, google really is your friend, do you try and portray yourself as being an intellect as a means to try and belittle others an attempt to cover up your insecurities?

You keep mentioning Google, Please explain what part i would feel the need to Google, Do you really think that i would feel the need to prove my intellect or lack of to you ?

My Diagnosis would be feelings of grandeur, Narcissism or Napoleon complex

Next patient please.

Why have you adopted a patronising tone? do you think you are better or more intellectual than me? Why did you try and psychoanalyse me, for a joke, or to try and prove a point? Do you often make judgements and diagnose people you have never met simply in the things they have written on here? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

As you always quote on my posts. It's 'my choice' As 'flattered' as I am by you always commenting on my comments your opinion means jack to me so please feel free to save your time and effort. Yes this is a public forum to save you saying it, but it is also against forum rules to try and communicate with people who have blocked you. So you can stop now.

Oooooops

Indeed, I wouldn't mind but I blocked her

Of course you did.

Now come in and sit on the couch, tell me all of your problems, when did it start, how are you feeling.

I'm here to help

Gimp

Sorry I can't take you seriously if you keep signing off with Gimp, makes me chuckle

So you dont like to think of me as Gimp, Who would you prefer me to be, Does this stem from some childhood trauma that you are repressing, You can tell me your darkest secrets i am here to help you face your Demons

Dr Spock

Your hilarious, anyone who calls themselves a gimp is in no position to psychoanalyse others, maybe you should sit down in my couch, explain why you call yourself a gimp btw I have blocked you a while ago so we may be breaking site rules

Ahh so you break everything down to the meaning of a name then, Ok let us do it your way if it helps.

Genuine..Really ? Is that a plea to be trusted, A futile hope that people will believe you are the only truthful person on the world wide web.

Guy ?..An Americanism, Do you feel inadequate, Does using the word give you a sense of power and strength.

4...Was that the age when the Trauma happened, IQ ?

Dr Patel CDM and bar

Amazing, google really is your friend, do you try and portray yourself as being an intellect as a means to try and belittle others an attempt to cover up your insecurities?

You keep mentioning Google, Please explain what part i would feel the need to Google, Do you really think that i would feel the need to prove my intellect or lack of to you ?

My Diagnosis would be feelings of grandeur, Narcissism or Napoleon complex

Next patient please.

Why have you adopted a patronising tone? do you think you are better or more intellectual than me? Why did you try and psychoanalyse me, for a joke, or to try and prove a point? Do you often make judgements and diagnose people you have never met simply in the things they have written on here?

Yes"

Based on what? Does it empower you? Give you a sense of self worth? I am intrigued , what are your motivations?

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And the winner is....luvsmuffin!

Ground into a corner by mere words

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Is this a competition? Have you been voted the forum adjudicator ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm still chatting to guys in my friends list who I haven't met yet. I don't feel like I'm being groomed. To me I feel like I've found some that are on my wave length and not wanting to shag every thing that sends a mail. There are different levels of what people are looking for on here and it's nice not to tar everyone with the same brush to coin a frase. I like a face photo at the start. If I'm not attracted to the person I will say no. It could just be that. Don't give up"

Thank you

As a rule face photo is sent by 2 message. Ie when they have replied. So it gives them a chance to say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't spend any more time thinking about it. It's just one of those things you put down to experience

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bloody hell... I almost forgot what the op was asking !

There seems too many hidden agendas with certain individuals here .

So going back to the op ... sounds like too much procrastinsting ... once a good level of contact is established then either arrange a meet or leave things till the time is right to do so .

Constant chat for the sake of it is boring and monotonous so perhaps they got bored and blocked you ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance

You make it sound like you are "grooming" them - perhaps they feel too that all your actions are to elicit a particular response that you desire.

The only response would be a meet. Just trying not to be a pushy male and show some respect

Why would the only response be a meet? Ive got people on my friends list who I havent got round to meeting yet. I may meet them in the future I may not. It's not a given just cos we are friends that I will meet. Does sound like you are trying to groom these women and they have got wise to it.

Groom them, stop being so dramatic, at the end of the day most sane people are on here to meet people, why would you want to waste your time chatting if your never going to meet. Pointless

Define Sane

Google it

Other search engines are available.

Your point??

I don't point, it's rude.

Your point?

I made my comment about nine posts ago.

Which was "

A little difficult to understand without punctuation. Was that a question? Or did you just bore yourself to sleep halfway through a sentence?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well here goes, ducking ready for the abuse about single guys moaning, not in a good way

I have cultivated several online relationships with single females and couples on here, chatting, going at their pace, not being crude, or offensive, waited for a while before asking if i could "send" friends invite, respecting their answers, so why is it after accepting an maybe another message or two do they then block me...am i that fugly or is it because i'm too kind... i don't know, so the question is why??

perhaps other fabsters could help out

thank you in advance"

I would assume your private pictures just don't appeal; to them if thats the only thing that has changed. Why not change them and try and get better ones.

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