Been on and off with tryin to meet a couple and already have a meet planned so the male part of the couple offered a solo meet but when I said I had a meet planned already but if my current meet cancels then will invite them they said invite them anyway, ok thats fine but I said I dont know if she who I already planned to meet is up for 3sums so id ask and see what she said and the replied sayin ive had meets before so the truth is I dont want to share...when truthfully I didnt know if they would want a 3sum or not especially a bi 3sum. So they blocked me instantly before i could even read the message when they said about me notbsharing because ive met on here before...so is that a normal reaction if somebody doesnt know/want to make potentially life changing choices for somebody? |
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"Been on and off with tryin to meet a couple and already have a meet planned so the male part of the couple offered a solo meet but when I said I had a meet planned already but if my current meet cancels then will invite them they said invite them anyway, ok thats fine but I said I dont know if she who I already planned to meet is up for 3sums so id ask and see what she said and the replied sayin ive had meets before so the truth is I dont want to share...when truthfully I didnt know if they would want a 3sum or not especially a bi 3sum. So they blocked me instantly before i could even read the message when they said about me notbsharing because ive met on here before...so is that a normal reaction if somebody doesnt know/want to make potentially life changing choices for somebody?"
Phew, I'm out of breath reading that one hun!!! My advice....just forget it and move on. Don't try to get inside the minds of peeps on here. It can be a dark a scary place!!! X |
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So in short...
They wanted to attend a meet you've arranged with someone else, you want sure if your meet would be ok with that?
They blocked you as you clearly didn't invite them along?
Is that even close to what your trying to say??
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"So in short...
They wanted to attend a meet you've arranged with someone else, you want sure if your meet would be ok with that?
They blocked you as you clearly didn't invite them along?
Is that even close to what your trying to say?? That does seem a much simpler way of saying it yes  that is pretty much want im saying
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"Haha sorry. I may be english but rnglish lessons in school werent my strong suit haha
Only kidding
£4?
How about u pay me £6 to change?
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On a side note - funny story. In school i remember this one boy wanted like 10p or 20p change. So, i told him to give me 50p and i'd give you 10p. Even i don't know how on earth that worked. I gave him 10p back and made a profit of 40p. How did he not realise that he'd be out by 40p? And at that time, that was a lot of money.
..i must have been a right bastard at times.
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"Haha sorry. I may be english but rnglish lessons in school werent my strong suit haha
Only kidding
£4?
How about u pay me £6 to change?
On a side note - funny story. In school i remember this one boy wanted like 10p or 20p change. So, i told him to give me 50p and i'd give you 10p. Even i don't know how on earth that worked. I gave him 10p back and made a profit of 40p. How did he not realise that he'd be out by 40p? And at that time, that was a lot of money.
..i must have been a right bastard at times.
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amusing lil story of your there...if only everyone that asked me for money paid me with 400% profit...would be loaded by now |
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"Been on and off with tryin to meet a couple and already have a meet planned so the male part of the couple offered a solo meet but when I said I had a meet planned already but if my current meet cancels then will invite them they said invite them anyway, ok thats fine but I said I dont know if she who I already planned to meet is up for 3sums so id ask and see what she said and the replied sayin ive had meets before so the truth is I dont want to share...when truthfully I didnt know if they would want a 3sum or not especially a bi 3sum. So they blocked me instantly before i could even read the message when they said about me notbsharing because ive met on here before...so is that a normal reaction if somebody doesnt know/want to make potentially life changing choices for somebody?"
Unless they had a verify of meeting as a couple, thats sounds like a single guy to me, |
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You are right in thinking that bringing someone else to a meet without the other persons agreement is wrong. The "couple" who contacted you was most likely a single guy and the disrespect he showed you and your meet was enough for you to have blocked him rather than the other way round. |
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"Sounds like a single guy .. totally agree ... "
I'd say a desperate single guy.
If a social meet was arranged then I'd expect to meet the person/couple. Not to have a group social. |
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"Sounds like a single guy "
Quite likely or a guy trying to meet without partner knowing, were all messages in reply deleted after sending. Nothing concrete in that but could add to the mix.
Even just a fb couple that also meet others alone.
Had they not blocked we,d have said room 101 them.
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"Sounds like a single guy
Quite likely or a guy trying to meet without partner knowing, were all messages in reply deleted after sending. Nothing concrete in that but could add to the mix.
Even just a fb couple that also meet others alone.
Had they not blocked we,d have said room 101 them.
Move on "
I know it is/was a genuine couple at some point as I did speak to the mrs the first time we were gonna arrange a meet but thats the only time I have. The times I spoke to them after if on phone at all was the guy. And whats room 101?  |
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