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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I've just received a message from a couple . Very nice message until it got towards the end . Their comment was ' we will meet but only if you shave your chest . Body hair isn't good ' .

Now am I being weird by thinking they are being out of order ?

Especially as they messaged me to just tell me that.

If you look at a profile , you except that that person has a beard, or chest hair or tats etc......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you answered your own question. They except you because you are un acceptable with body hair.

Fab Cliche 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now that is weird. Why message you in the first place if not happy with your looks. Possible piss take maybe.

Incidently you look pretty hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's accept not except

Mr P E Dantic

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Let them get on with it, some people demands on here are extreme and like a shopping list...just move on to those that will not set out demands in order for you to meet them..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"It's accept not except

Mr P E Dantic

Just answer the question and stop picking faults with threads you read....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Delete & Block. It's your body, do with it as you please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck it

Dust yourself off

Move on

The end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's accept not except

Mr P E Dantic

Just answer the question and stop picking faults with threads you read....

I try I try!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Ok

Fuck it

Dust yourself off

Move on

The end

That wasn't hard now was it!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Well I've just received a message from a couple . Very nice message until it got towards the end . Their comment was ' we will meet but only if you shave your chest . Body hair isn't good ' .

Now am I being weird by thinking they are being out of order ?

Especially as they messaged me to just tell me that.

If you look at a profile , you except that that person has a beard, or chest hair or tats etc......

tell em your preference is purple hair and if they both dye their hair you will meet em!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Some people on here think they are gods gift . Maybe they thought I would do it just to meet them ?

Well I've always been a ' you get what you see ' person . Take it or leave it I guess .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Now that is weird. Why message you in the first place if not happy with your looks. Possible piss take maybe.

Incidently you look pretty hot

Thank you . X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well I've just received a message from a couple . Very nice message until it got towards the end . Their comment was ' we will meet but only if you shave your chest . Body hair isn't good ' .

Now am I being weird by thinking they are being out of order ?

Especially as they messaged me to just tell me that.

If you look at a profile , you except that that person has a beard, or chest hair or tats etc......

tell em your preference is purple hair and if they both dye their hair you will meet em!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Op you are good looking so I would not stress about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well from speaking to others and via this forum, I have heard that there are many people who make demands of others, whether that be how someone looks or what they are expected to bring to a meet etc.

The thing is they can only control if you allow it.

If you receive a request like that, the answer is simple, message back saying 'no, im not doing that'.

Yes its very likely the meet wont go ahead but at least you have dignity and you havent allowed strangers to dictate to you. There is noone on this site worth that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one should have to jump through other peoples hoops and those that do just for a shag are the ones that maintain the inequality that is rife through this site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op you are good looking so I would not stress about it

Would you shave your chest chops for me cheekychops?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If people are making demands after choosing you in the first place, they should not of chose you in the first place.

Tell them that next time.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Don't get me wrong .... The chest hair is staying .

I did reply with a polite ' no thank you ' .

Was more just shocked at the fact that , that's what they expected of me .

Cheers for the replies

and spelling lessons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's their loss not hair loss

I deserve a clap for that x

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

You could just shave (I have it on good authority it will grow back eventually like a phoenix rising from the flames), fuck them and then invest in a chest mirkin while you're waiting for the regrowth to take effect.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It's their loss not hair loss

I deserve a clap for that x"

Try the bareback thread....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's their loss not hair loss

I deserve a clap for that x

Try the bareback thread....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people on here think they are gods gift . Maybe they thought I would do it just to meet them ?

Well I've always been a ' you get what you see ' person . Take it or leave it I guess .

keep the chest hair....yummy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get it all the time OP - everyone always wants me to chop my beard off. But, that's my look and they're just going to have to accept it.

I won't change my look to please others - i'm here to meet people who like me for me. The beard is part of the package. It may cost me a hell of a lot of meets..but, it's not the end of the world for me.

...just be yourself. And if that means the chest hair goes with it. Then, so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've just received a message from a couple . Very nice message until it got towards the end . Their comment was ' we will meet but only if you shave your chest . Body hair isn't good ' .

Now am I being weird by thinking they are being out of order ?

Especially as they messaged me to just tell me that.

If you look at a profile , you except that that person has a beard, or chest hair or tats etc......

Just for a laugh shave your chest , it makes your body as a guy so much more sensitive until it grows back ..

Same with legs arms etc really heightens the sensation of being touched

But if you do it all the time it doesn't have the same effect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get it all the time OP - everyone always wants me to chop my beard off. But, that's my look and they're just going to have to accept it.

...just be yourself. And if that means the chest hair goes with it. Then, so be it.

"
No one should change how they look or dress to please someone else .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people on here think they are gods gift . Maybe they thought I would do it just to meet them ?

Well I've always been a ' you get what you see ' person . Take it or leave it I guess .

keep the chest hair....yummy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get it all the time OP - everyone always wants me to chop my beard off. But, that's my look and they're just going to have to accept it.

...just be yourself. And if that means the chest hair goes with it. Then, so be it.

Oh it's staying . Its part of me .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well I've just received a message from a couple . Very nice message until it got towards the end . Their comment was ' we will meet but only if you shave your chest . Body hair isn't good ' .

Now am I being weird by thinking they are being out of order ?

Especially as they messaged me to just tell me that.

If you look at a profile , you except that that person has a beard, or chest hair or tats etc......

Just for a laugh shave your chest , it makes your body as a guy so much more sensitive until it grows back ..

Same with legs arms etc really heightens the sensation of being touched

But if you do it all the time it doesn't have the same effect.

Shaved my legs once for charity ........ Never again !! The itching was unbearable!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you have the perfect amount of chest hair. You're gorgeous, change for no-one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you have the perfect amount of chest hair. You're gorgeous, change for no-one

Thank you

Nice to know people think that .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish someone would lol

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By *aucy3Couple over a year ago

glasgow

"I get it all the time OP - everyone always wants me to chop my beard off. But, that's my look and they're just going to have to accept it.

...just be yourself. And if that means the chest hair goes with it. Then, so be it.

No one should change how they look or dress to please someone else .

Cliché of the single.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm not keen on hair but I've never asked anyone to shave it off.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn' bother shaving chest hair. Pubes yes, balls yes, arse yes, face yes...anywhere else? Nope.

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By *extoysareusCouple over a year ago

kinky heaven

Sounds more like a dare than a meet, unless they want to play that game when you're there

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Op you are good looking so I would not stress about it

Would you shave your chest chops for me cheekychops?"

If I had chest chops our foreplay would be you plaiting it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op you are good looking so I would not stress about it

Would you shave your chest chops for me cheekychops?

If I had chest chops our foreplay would be you plaiting it

Sigh. One day. One day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not a fan of hairy men but its not like you're a gorilla lol, I'd meet you and wouldn't dream of demanding someone do something in order for me to meet them. Be yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no one would be that desperate to shave off body hair just so they could meet someone would they.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've just received a message from a couple . Very nice message until it got towards the end . Their comment was ' we will meet but only if you shave your chest . Body hair isn't good ' .

Now am I being weird by thinking they are being out of order ?

Especially as they messaged me to just tell me that.

If you look at a profile , you except that that person has a beard, or chest hair or tats etc......

People can ask you to do all sorts from travelling to them, booking a room shaving your chest or painting your balls cherry red and you can equally decline the offer (same as a bi guy asking to blow chunks up your yorkie box)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've just received a message from a couple . Very nice message until it got towards the end . Their comment was ' we will meet but only if you shave your chest . Body hair isn't good ' .

Now am I being weird by thinking they are being out of order ?

Especially as they messaged me to just tell me that.

If you look at a profile , you except that that person has a beard, or chest hair or tats etc......

"
They don't like body hair .. lots don't and not just on the chest .. Everyone has things they like and don't .. Just don't meet if that's not for you . X

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By *isalikesitWoman over a year ago

nottingham

No don't do it. I think stubble feels awful and it's not like you are that hairy!

Lisa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's bad form for anyone to give orders on here. Take me as I am or don't take me at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are not a genuine couple, it's the latest spam based advertising campaign from Gillette just to randomly message people and demand they shave more

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It's a weird one, and the people concerned may well post an answer.

You are an asset to fab, and I think that you'd be better meeting others who largely accept you physically as you are. Obviously I don't know how much that meet would mean to you, so if it really would be an incredible life-changing experience, then you could consider following their prompts. After the hair's gone, it may be time for castration though - who knows what's in their list of demands?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well just a little update . I'm now a arsehole ! They must have read this thread .

Gave a very polite ' no thank you ' to their shaving offer and left it at that . Looked at my messages few mins ago , and there it was . Lol

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"Well I've just received a message from a couple . Very nice message until it got towards the end . Their comment was ' we will meet but only if you shave your chest . Body hair isn't good ' .

Now am I being weird by thinking they are being out of order ?

Especially as they messaged me to just tell me that.

If you look at a profile , you except that that person has a beard, or chest hair or tats etc......

tell em your preference is purple hair and if they both dye their hair you will meet em!

Ha ha good one

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