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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% from or through this site,although we have had a couple of sexperiences from our usual real life world which have been enjoyable surprises but not something we actively look for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often wonder how people generally go about getting sex in the 'real world' these days? I mean personally any time I see a woman I like the look of out and about, she will have AT LEAST one guy with her already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up until saturday night I would have said 100% but whilst on a night out with friends I ended up taking a rather tasty black soldier home. The first "real" pull since I became single. (I'm so ugly  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex. "
It would be awesome and amazing if it happened that way for some of us older women too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
It would be awesome and amazing if it happened that way for some of us older women too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What percentage of your current sex life is initiated via Fab?
For couples I mean sex outside of just yourselves.
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Very few
It's better in the main stream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Up until saturday night I would have said 100% but whilst on a night out with friends I ended up taking a rather tasty black soldier home. The first "real" pull since I became single. (I'm so ugly )"
was there a reason you specified a black soldier rather than just 'a bloke'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Up until saturday night I would have said 100% but whilst on a night out with friends I ended up taking a rather tasty black soldier home. The first "real" pull since I became single. (I'm so ugly )
was there a reason you specified a black soldier rather than just 'a bloke'?"
to give us a good idea of who she went home with maybe? A realistic description |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex. "
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
It would be awesome and amazing if it happened that way for some of us older women too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Up until saturday night I would have said 100% but whilst on a night out with friends I ended up taking a rather tasty black soldier home. The first "real" pull since I became single. (I'm so ugly )
was there a reason you specified a black soldier rather than just 'a bloke'?
to give us a good idea of who she went home with maybe? A realistic description "
Thank you, I was about to say the same. That's the image in my mind as I keyed the reply. It wasn't for extra kudos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without! "
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like."
Well if it is as bad as you say it is, then surely more 'single men' would make more of an effort with their profiles and their messages? Just a thought!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like."
It's not just the ratio as far as I'm concerned, location comes into the equation as well making it three times as difficult to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like.
Well if it is as bad as you say it is, then surely more 'single men' would make more of an effort with their profiles and their messages? Just a thought! "
Clearly not, and thusly the situation I just described. Personally I'm complimented on my profile regularly, can't think of much that would enhance it, and my messages are well written and considered individually for whom they're meant for, on the rare occasion I find a woman I feel attracted enough to want to message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me my sex life on fab is 0%.. in the real world its about 49%  .
So where are you getting the other 51% from?!?!?!!?!?!!!!"
The other 51% is using my hand lol. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like.
Well if it is as bad as you say it is, then surely more 'single men' would make more of an effort with their profiles and their messages? Just a thought!
Clearly not, and thusly the situation I just described. Personally I'm complimented on my profile regularly, can't think of much that would enhance it, and my messages are well written and considered individually for whom they're meant for, on the rare occasion I find a woman I feel attracted enough to want to message."
I just wish the men up here were the same then! I'm lucky if they have a one liner saying 'looking for fun' well no shit Sherlock! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like.
Well if it is as bad as you say it is, then surely more 'single men' would make more of an effort with their profiles and their messages? Just a thought!
Clearly not, and thusly the situation I just described. Personally I'm complimented on my profile regularly, can't think of much that would enhance it, and my messages are well written and considered individually for whom they're meant for, on the rare occasion I find a woman I feel attracted enough to want to message."
Surely then you are only limited by your own preferences? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like.
It's not just the ratio as far as I'm concerned, location comes into the equation as well making it three times as difficult to meet."
I know where you are coming from, but I have plenty of thru traffic! Unfortunately most of them think staying in a hotel for the night before going offshore makes them single lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like.
Well if it is as bad as you say it is, then surely more 'single men' would make more of an effort with their profiles and their messages? Just a thought!
Clearly not, and thusly the situation I just described. Personally I'm complimented on my profile regularly, can't think of much that would enhance it, and my messages are well written and considered individually for whom they're meant for, on the rare occasion I find a woman I feel attracted enough to want to message.
I just wish the men up here were the same then! I'm lucky if they have a one liner saying 'looking for fun' well no shit Sherlock! "
I've often suggested in the past, having more than one category for single males, so you can block those who have no idea how to interact with women, whilst still allowing yourself to be contacted by those who've taken the time to learn how to be direct but respectful when asking a woman if she might like to have sex with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like.
It's not just the ratio as far as I'm concerned, location comes into the equation as well making it three times as difficult to meet.
I know where you are coming from, but I have plenty of thru traffic! Unfortunately most of them think staying in a hotel for the night before going offshore makes them single lol "
lol mine are usually ones that can sneak off for an hour [or less] when they're here on holiday   |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like.
Well if it is as bad as you say it is, then surely more 'single men' would make more of an effort with their profiles and their messages? Just a thought!
Clearly not, and thusly the situation I just described. Personally I'm complimented on my profile regularly, can't think of much that would enhance it, and my messages are well written and considered individually for whom they're meant for, on the rare occasion I find a woman I feel attracted enough to want to message.
I just wish the men up here were the same then! I'm lucky if they have a one liner saying 'looking for fun' well no shit Sherlock!
I've often suggested in the past, having more than one category for single males, so you can block those who have no idea how to interact with women, whilst still allowing yourself to be contacted by those who've taken the time to learn how to be direct but respectful when asking a woman if she might like to have sex with him."
Good luck with that one! Sincerely....
Let me know if it ever happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've often suggested in the past, having more than one category for single males, so you can block those who have no idea how to interact with women, whilst still allowing yourself to be contacted by those who've taken the time to learn how to be direct but respectful when asking a woman if she might like to have sex with him."
If you did fulfil the criteria, surely it wouldn't be necessary - the guys stealing all the meets from you hit the right chord with the woman you fancy but didn't respond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've often suggested in the past, having more than one category for single males, so you can block those who have no idea how to interact with women, whilst still allowing yourself to be contacted by those who've taken the time to learn how to be direct but respectful when asking a woman if she might like to have sex with him.
If you did fulfil the criteria, surely it wouldn't be necessary - the guys stealing all the meets from you hit the right chord with the woman you fancy but didn't respond."
...or they didn't read my messages due to having packed inboxes, hence the wall of yellow I've alluded to before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Up until saturday night I would have said 100% but whilst on a night out with friends I ended up taking a rather tasty black soldier home. The first "real" pull since I became single. (I'm so ugly )
was there a reason you specified a black soldier rather than just 'a bloke'?
to give us a good idea of who she went home with maybe? A realistic description
Thank you, I was about to say the same. That's the image in my mind as I keyed the reply. It wasn't for extra kudos. "
makes for better reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I've often suggested in the past, having more than one category for single males, so you can block those who have no idea how to interact with women, whilst still allowing yourself to be contacted by those who've taken the time to learn how to be direct but respectful when asking a woman if she might like to have sex with him."
So how would you decide who goes in which category?  I'm quite sure all men on here think they're great at interacting with women!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...or they didn't read my messages due to having packed inboxes, hence the wall of yellow I've alluded to before.
But these women are meeting right?"
Not very often as it goes, the sort of women I message may have one or two verifications, how genuine these are I don't know, but don't suggest they're particularly active when it comes to meeting either way, or even reading their mail, as I often find. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
Hey, don't think for one minute it's only the single guys that have this problem!
Why do you think I go months without!
Now just imagine that the ratios were even more against you, there were even less guys you felt attracted to, and your messages to the competed with even more womens for attention in their inboxes, and you'll get some sort of idea what single male swinging is like.
It's not just the ratio as far as I'm concerned, location comes into the equation as well making it three times as difficult to meet.
I know where you are coming from, but I have plenty of thru traffic! Unfortunately most of them think staying in a hotel for the night before going offshore makes them single lol
lol mine are usually ones that can sneak off for an hour [or less] when they're here on holiday "
I was there forca hour and we crab fished |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" lol mine are usually ones that can sneak off for an hour [or less] when they're here on holiday
I was there forca hour and we crab fished "
lol I might have guessed you'd pipe up |
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"I've often suggested in the past, having more than one category for single males, so you can block those who have no idea how to interact with women, whilst still allowing yourself to be contacted by those who've taken the time to learn how to be direct but respectful when asking a woman if she might like to have sex with him.
If you did fulfil the criteria, surely it wouldn't be necessary - the guys stealing all the meets from you hit the right chord with the woman you fancy but didn't respond.
...or they didn't read my messages due to having packed inboxes, hence the wall of yellow I've alluded to before."
. . i dont believe having a long polite profile means more meets or should mean more meets its all down to how you think you get on with someone interacting by text or whatever then how you do get on when you meet ..i think even most guys on here could have regular meets but for some and me personally&maybe you it has to feel really right when together in person..not just half right and that cant be known until your actually together and can usually be sussed out in less than 2hours sometimes less or more theres no real rule from one person to the next. Thats how i feel anyway but i am a bit weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We go to clubs a lot so that isnt organised via fab. We have built up a network of people who hold parties via fab.
Other than clubs, parties we attend and meeting single guys if time allows, we dont have any other sexual experiences with others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I often wonder how people generally go about getting sex in the 'real world' these days? I mean personally any time I see a woman I like the look of out and about, she will have AT LEAST one guy with her already."
You appear to see your glass half empty fella. Lots of women go out socially not in the company of men. Many are open to having fun. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I've often suggested in the past, having more than one category for single males, so you can block those who have no idea how to interact with women, whilst still allowing yourself to be contacted by those who've taken the time to learn how to be direct but respectful when asking a woman if she might like to have sex with him.
If you did fulfil the criteria, surely it wouldn't be necessary - the guys stealing all the meets from you hit the right chord with the woman you fancy but didn't respond.
...or they didn't read my messages due to having packed inboxes, hence the wall of yellow I've alluded to before. . . i dont believe having a long polite profile means more meets or should mean more meets its all down to how you think you get on with someone interacting by text or whatever then how you do get on when you meet ..i think even most guys on here could have regular meets but for some and me personally&maybe you it has to feel really right when together in person..not just half right and that cant be known until your actually together and can usually be sussed out in less than 2hours sometimes less or more theres no real rule from one person to the next. Thats how i feel anyway but i am a bit weird "
I read the profile first. If the profile isn't good, I usually delete the message unread.
You get out what you put in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Up until saturday night I would have said 100% but whilst on a night out with friends I ended up taking a rather tasty black soldier home. The first "real" pull since I became single. (I'm so ugly )"
NOOOOOOO |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
It would be awesome and amazing if it happened that way for some of us older women too.
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So why do some of you limit your options wanting younger then yourselfs
Re the thread 70/30 in favour of fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex. "
Same for some of us females regarding the male population  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously though, it'd be amazing, absolutely awesome if a single male could log into here and consistently, reliably find women he's attracted to, to sort out meets quickly when he just gets the NEED to spend a little time with a women, enjoying one anothers company before sex.
It would be awesome and amazing if it happened that way for some of us older women too.
So why do some of you limit your options wanting younger then yourselfs
Re the thread 70/30 in favour of fab"
because the main basis of brains comment was 'someone you are attracted to'
so, im guessing he isnt on aout meeting any auld type, but someone he actually wants to spend time with
so why would a woman looking for younger than herself want to do anything differently? |
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