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Bi but coming from the other way....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you think of bi guys you generally think about a guy who has been predominantly heterosexual in his sexuality but then starts exploring with other guys.
But what about a guy who goes the other way? Never been with a woman, lived a generally homosexual life, but then starts to think about experimenting as a bi guy, but his experience is lacking on the MF side and not the MM side.
Anyone experienced this? Would it put genuinely Bi couples off?
Thoughts welcome, and apologies for the use of labels; it's just easier to explain in those terms |
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Yes, I met such guy once. He was gay and although he didn't "turn" bi he wanted to know what it was like to be with a woman. He was a virgin with women. Anyway I met him but didn't convince him to turn straight
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I once went dogging with another girly and got ignored by half a dozen guys who were all leaning against trees and looking at each other hoping for action, but not being willing to begin themselves.
Upon being ignored, I told my friend that I must conclude that all of these guys are gay.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you think of bi guys you generally think about a guy who has been predominantly heterosexual in his sexuality but then starts exploring with other guys.
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Im not bi.
But doesn't every bi guy on the planet start like that?...
I don't think people are born bi?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you think of bi guys you generally think about a guy who has been predominantly heterosexual in his sexuality but then starts exploring with other guys.
Im not bi.
But doesn't every bi guy on the planet start like that?...
I don't think people are born bi?
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Not necessarily. Some people are born gay. I have had lasting relationships with both sexes, but I have many friends who have never so much as kissed a woman (intimately) and moreover never will. |
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I was straight until I'd been in Brighton a while and then it was sort of by accident anyway. Don't think I had any bi feelings at all. Mostly straight now anyway with a little indulgence now and then  |
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"I was straight until I'd been in Brighton a while and then it was sort of by accident anyway. Don't think I had any bi feelings at all. Mostly straight now anyway with a little indulgence now and then "
but have you always acted camp
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"I was straight until I'd been in Brighton a while and then it was sort of by accident anyway. Don't think I had any bi feelings at all. Mostly straight now anyway with a little indulgence now and then but have you always acted camp
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In the sense that I like to get my pole up? I don't think I'm camp. My profile particularly says no camp guys. I don't like camp coffee. I've been camping before, granted....perhaps I'm just dramatic  |
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"I was straight until I'd been in Brighton a while and then it was sort of by accident anyway. Don't think I had any bi feelings at all. Mostly straight now anyway with a little indulgence now and then but have you always acted camp
In the sense that I like to get my pole up? I don't think I'm camp. My profile
particularly says no camp guys. I don't
like camp coffee. I've been camping
before, granted....perhaps I'm just
dramatic or in denial "
I deny I'm in denial.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I have known gay men and women who have come the other way. Largely it has not been about being bi but about falling in love with someone of the opposite gender, giving up their previous life and starting anew.
The oldest was in his fifties when he fell in love with a woman and couldn't imagine living without her. His male partner of 20 years was very shocked.
Most bi people I know have always had an interest in exploring both straight and gay sex.
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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We always agreed on a motto of not being an experiment for anyone, however you're profile and pics would certainly mean we,d chat and see how things fared. So yes the answer is that people are around like that. |
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