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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everything was going great with long term fb(became much much more) feel like she doesn't wanna know anymore, work commitments on both sides, finding time for each other is difficult.
Do we just jack it in, or plough through this tricky time? |
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"Everything was going great with long term fb(became much much more) feel like she doesn't wanna know anymore, work commitments on both sides, finding time for each other is difficult.
Do we just jack it in, or plough through this tricky time? "
does she feel the same as you
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Everything was going great with long term fb(became much much more) feel like she doesn't wanna know anymore, work commitments on both sides, finding time for each other is difficult.
Do we just jack it in, or plough through this tricky time? "
You don't have to give up everything, just reevaluate what is you both want. Life is about change. Evolve or die.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We both feel very strongly for each other, we are both married to different people.
Is it worth all the heartache? Feel like a love struck teenager, over someone I can't have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We both feel very strongly for each other, we are both married to different people.
Is it worth all the heartache? Feel like a love struck teenager, over someone I can't have "
Wow. I know exactly how you feel dude. And i have no idea how to help. |
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More details are needed in order to answer really.
For now I so would never give up something I enjoy. Life is for living and to be enjoyed. Only give up if you don't enjoy it any more. As for work I would never allow that to take over my life so much that I have little or no time to play |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've been exclusive for 6 months, but due to work issues not seen each other for 6 weeks, we are totally mad for each other, but as they say....out of sight, out of mind? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"We've been exclusive for 6 months, but due to work issues not seen each other for 6 weeks, we are totally mad for each other, but as they say....out of sight, out of mind? "
If out of sight out of mind applies here then you are not mad for each other. If that's the case then give up and concentrate on your marriages or finding people you can see on a more regular basis or even your work.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm got pissed, dunno if that's the answer.......
It rarely is, the problem is still there when you sober up  "
I found one time I was able to walk in a straight line far too easily and I wasn't slurring my words at all....in that case I found drinking was in fact the answer, well, short term anyhow because as you say, the problem just returned with sobriety.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do I just give up?
Option 3 get a more appealing user name. "
How will that help his situation? And it's a fine username, there's bound to be someone out there who likes bushmeat and such..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't want to leave our respective spouses, just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation to us? "
I'm stuck too x but I have commitments n so does he x we get by x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'm confused .. Married don't want to give up spouses .. Then u say uve been exclusive to each other for 6 months and possibly in love ? Needs more explanation for an answer to ur question  "
Why.... A+B + no strings, became A+B + so many strings that at least one of em has tied themselves up in knots... |
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