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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
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like or loathe?
its my sister in laws 50th next month and shes throwing a party to which we are invited
I don't want to go
its a long way and her friends are a little snooty but how can I say no when the rest of the family are going? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never used to be much of a fan of them but as everyone is getting older and some have sadly passed away I now try to go to as many as I can, you never know what's gonna happen or when you will see them next and I actually look forward to them now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life's too short, you don't know how many of these parties you have left or how many more opportunities you'll have to see loved ones. It's one day, suck it up and make some happy memories, some day it's gonna be all you have |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Life's too short, you don't know how many of these parties you have left or how many more opportunities you'll have to see loved ones. It's one day, suck it up and make some happy memories, some day it's gonna be all you have "
They arent happy memories if you dont especialy like them or like parties though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who's family. In laws are miserable two faced fuckers so parties are always very tense.
However my family are bonkers, Irish Scousers so there's plenty of drinks and laughs so it's great fun...until the obligatory fight at the end of the night! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love family parties as most of my family are good fun & it usually descends into a d*unken volley ball match by the end of the night.
I'd go & maybe tag on an overnight stay somewhere you'd like to go, on the way back. That way you attend the party, but combine it with something you fancy doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"like or loathe?
its my sister in laws 50th next month and shes throwing a party to which we are invited
I don't want to go
its a long way and her friends are a little snooty but how can I say no when the rest of the family are going?"
say you are going, right up until the night in question, thing ring and say you cant make it as 'something has come up'
i do it all the time with parties i dont wanna go to.
never been questioned any further either |
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i make it clear from the offset that im not wantin to go but its nothin personal against them and love my family. . and they can like it or lump it.whats the point waiting til the last minute and not bein able to relax. . |
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