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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a visual type if bloke so I like all the sights that accompany sex. Breasts , bare bottoms and the like. "
Oh and I like to see my cock going in and out of various lady bits. |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm a visual type if bloke so I like all the sights that accompany sex. Breasts , bare bottoms and the like.
Oh and I like to see my cock going in and out of various lady bits. "
So the look not the feeling is preferable? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I like the fact he has his body pressed against mine, or the feel of his hands on various parts of me. Living alone means I rarely get human contact so its nice to get an all over body hug.  |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
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"well while I am partaking in Sex I don't have to do the housework  "
Isn't that a contradiction in terms 
Housework - Basically means do chores around the house making sure everything is run in. Smoothly and everyone is happy. So isn't a chore keeping the husband satisfied   |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"well while I am partaking in Sex I don't have to do the housework
Isn't that a contradiction in terms
Housework - Basically means do chores around the house making sure everything is run in. Smoothly and everyone is happy. So isn't a chore keeping the husband satisfied "
Have you been reading my copy of the Housewives Companion again?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a visual type if bloke so I like all the sights that accompany sex. Breasts , bare bottoms and the like.
Oh and I like to see my cock going in and out of various lady bits. So the look not the feeling is preferable?"
Probably , yes. Of course I like the feeling but it has to be visually stimulating to give it that extra deliciousness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well while I am partaking in Sex I don't have to do the housework
Isn't that a contradiction in terms
Housework - Basically means do chores around the house making sure everything is run in. Smoothly and everyone is happy. So isn't a chore keeping the husband satisfied "
why would half of that be MY job?  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like the fact he has his body pressed against mine, or the feel of his hands on various parts of me. Living alone means I rarely get human contact so its nice to get an all over body hug. "
Awwwwwwwwwww, I'll give ya a hug, but a matey type, fully clothed one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors."
Blimey.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like the fact he has his body pressed against mine, or the feel of his hands on various parts of me. Living alone means I rarely get human contact so its nice to get an all over body hug. "
MMMmmmmm same here!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors.
Blimey. "
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors.
Blimey. "
Well I was asked and I sort of got a bit carried away! It's been a while since I had that sort of a session. Too long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a visual type if bloke so I like all the sights that accompany sex. Breasts , bare bottoms and the like.
Oh and I like to see my cock going in and out of various lady bits. "
'Various lady bits' ~ made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors."
this! Wow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors.
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Says it all for me Vv
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors.
Says it all for me Vv
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This. |
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors."
Oooooooh. All of the above and then some. Were you in the room at my last meet? Lol |
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" The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
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and this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors."
yes please to all of the above!!! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
That moment when you're still mostly clothed, kissing, hands tangled and you feel how hard he is already as he pins you to the bed. That sense of anticipation, knowing how much you need him inside you...
Cripes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That moment when you're still mostly clothed, kissing, hands tangled and you feel how hard he is already as he pins you to the bed. That sense of anticipation, knowing how much you need him inside you...
Cripes!"
Ooooh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When she looks into your eyes, bites her lips, hands on the arches of your back, pulling you closer to her, legs wrapped around and whispers in to your ears 'fuck me'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...and especially that first moment when you finally place your cock inside. Hearing a slight gasp escape her lips as you hold your cock inside for a short moment before she nods for more..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The power.
Being taken into a submissive position, which uses my mind.
The not knowing what's going to happen next, anticipation.
I love to here the squelch as I leak, I love doggy style, trying to push back, my body begging for more, but not being allowed.
Foreplay I love the Blowjob, slow or the face fuck as it is my nourishment.
I could go on, but all night I would be lol...the after glow is fantastic, today was something else indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Foreplay?
Penetration?
Oral sex?
After glow?
Orgasm?
Something else? "
Bloody hell girl this has to be the best question yet.
For me its the knowing by her reaction that i am giving my woman pleasure, her noises and reactions to what i am doing is what sex is about to me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread is making me feel both horny and gloomy."
Funny, I feel the same! Especially felt a bit sad for the lady who said she liked it for the all over body contact as she lives alone and doesn't get cuddles (I can't remember her exact words?).
I'm still on this site chatting to friends, but not meeting as I've become convinced that I'm NOT a swinger. The satisfaction of sex without emotion falls so far short of sex with it that I really can't be bothered with the former.
And if one is subconsciously trying to fill an emotional gap by having sex, even with an FWB, it's always going to be less than satisfactory.
Just saying! Sorry all you happy NSA swingers, no need to tell me what a great time you're having and how wrong I am lol! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"This thread is making me feel both horny and gloomy.
Funny, I feel the same! Especially felt a bit sad for the lady who said she liked it for the all over body contact as she lives alone and doesn't get cuddles (I can't remember her exact words?).
I'm still on this site chatting to friends, but not meeting as I've become convinced that I'm NOT a swinger. The satisfaction of sex without emotion falls so far short of sex with it that I really can't be bothered with the former.
And if one is subconsciously trying to fill an emotional gap by having sex, even with an FWB, it's always going to be less than satisfactory.
Just saying! Sorry all you happy NSA swingers, no need to tell me what a great time you're having and how wrong I am lol! "
I feel gloomy because I can vividly recall how incredible it can be and I'm reminded how long it's been since I felt it.
As long as there's a cerebral connection I don't need there to be emotion beyond that felt at the time. The physical/visual/mental experience then and there is what I desire.
I remember the heat, the lust and the raw desire and I'm left feeling frustrated and, to be frank, bloody horny.
It's not easy to find someone with whom the mutual experience is as I described though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is making me feel both horny and gloomy.
Funny, I feel the same! Especially felt a bit sad for the lady who said she liked it for the all over body contact as she lives alone and doesn't get cuddles (I can't remember her exact words?).
I'm still on this site chatting to friends, but not meeting as I've become convinced that I'm NOT a swinger. The satisfaction of sex without emotion falls so far short of sex with it that I really can't be bothered with the former.
And if one is subconsciously trying to fill an emotional gap by having sex, even with an FWB, it's always going to be less than satisfactory.
Just saying! Sorry all you happy NSA swingers, no need to tell me what a great time you're having and how wrong I am lol!
I feel gloomy because I can vividly recall how incredible it can be and I'm reminded how long it's been since I felt it.
As long as there's a cerebral connection I don't need there to be emotion beyond that felt at the time. The physical/visual/mental experience then and there is what I desire.
I remember the heat, the lust and the raw desire and I'm left feeling frustrated and, to be frank, bloody horny.
It's not easy to find someone with whom the mutual experience is as I described though."
No, it's very difficult. And when you've experienced something so good (whether the key is an emotional or cerebral connection) it's hard to accept less.
Personally I've decided not to. If it happens, great, if it doesn't, I've plenty of other things going on in my life that give me satisfaction, albeit of a different kind, but not lesser.
Hope it's the same for you. Wishing you all the best! |
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"That moment when you're still mostly clothed, kissing, hands tangled and you feel how hard he is already as he pins you to the bed. That sense of anticipation, knowing how much you need him inside you...
Cripes!
Ooooh! "
Double ooooooh!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think sometimes individuals need to be on the same page. Yes, sex with emotion is amazing! But for me, that emotion has been lust and desire. Personally, if the emotion is something else other than carnal lust and desire - then the satisfaction you're getting is not from the act of sex itself but something else (if that makes sense).
And for me, that's something that needs to be distinguished and put aside...
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over a year ago
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors."
off to have all that right now |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"This thread is making me feel both horny and gloomy.
Funny, I feel the same! Especially felt a bit sad for the lady who said she liked it for the all over body contact as she lives alone and doesn't get cuddles (I can't remember her exact words?).
I'm still on this site chatting to friends, but not meeting as I've become convinced that I'm NOT a swinger. The satisfaction of sex without emotion falls so far short of sex with it that I really can't be bothered with the former.
And if one is subconsciously trying to fill an emotional gap by having sex, even with an FWB, it's always going to be less than satisfactory.
Just saying! Sorry all you happy NSA swingers, no need to tell me what a great time you're having and how wrong I am lol!
I feel gloomy because I can vividly recall how incredible it can be and I'm reminded how long it's been since I felt it.
As long as there's a cerebral connection I don't need there to be emotion beyond that felt at the time. The physical/visual/mental experience then and there is what I desire.
I remember the heat, the lust and the raw desire and I'm left feeling frustrated and, to be frank, bloody horny.
It's not easy to find someone with whom the mutual experience is as I described though.
No, it's very difficult. And when you've experienced something so good (whether the key is an emotional or cerebral connection) it's hard to accept less.
Personally I've decided not to. If it happens, great, if it doesn't, I've plenty of other things going on in my life that give me satisfaction, albeit of a different kind, but not lesser.
Hope it's the same for you. Wishing you all the best! "
Well, I don't know how the sex will be until I've sucked it and seen, so to speak
If it seems unlikely it would be satisfying, I'll decline. Otherwise, I have to play my part and do my best to make it mind-blowing and hope it pans out. I won't settle just for the sake of a shag but there are never any guarantees. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Oooh so many things. I don't know where to start.
The anticipation. That intense look in someone's eyes that says they want to fuck you inside out, and knowing you're looking at them in exactly the same way. The gentle exploration. The teasing. The gasps, groans and other assorted noises. Watching them arch and throw their head back and knowing you're getting it just right. Small drops of sweat trailing down sensitised skin. Wanting it now but being made to wait, or making yourself wait. Skin on skin. Touching so as to stroke just the fine hairs on the skin. The velvety smooth skin of a raging hard cock in my mouth. The feeling of licking and sucking balls. Stroking or sucking on a soft cock and feeling it swell and grow hard. That moment just before penetration when you're ready to beg, or already begging for him balls deep and he's pressing against you almost, but not quite hard enough to enter, holding himself there and letting you try to squirm your way onto his cock, resisting as you wrap your legs round him and try to pull him inside. And then when he suddenly thrusts his full length inside. If I could bottle that feeling I'd never leave the house. The moments just before orgasm when it's so intense it's almost painful, where you don't know whether to beg them to stop or beg them not to and where you need the release so badly you think you might lose your mind, where you'd do anything to crest that wave...
Then there's the visual aspects, looking into his eyes as you suck his cock and balls, looking into his eyes as he licks and sucks you. Watching his cock slide in to you. Watching in a mirror, or lots of mirrors.
off to have all that right now "
I am utterly, absolutely and completely envious. Enjoy! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I think sometimes individuals need to be on the same page. Yes, sex with emotion is amazing! But for me, that emotion has been lust and desire. Personally, if the emotion is something else other than carnal lust and desire - then the satisfaction you're getting is not from the act of sex itself but something else (if that makes sense).
And for me, that's something that needs to be distinguished and put aside...
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Which is why she's decided she's not a swinger and has ceased engaging in NSA encounters, since that's not what she wants. |
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"I think sometimes individuals need to be on the same page. Yes, sex with emotion is amazing! But for me, that emotion has been lust and desire. Personally, if the emotion is something else other than carnal lust and desire - then the satisfaction you're getting is not from the act of sex itself but something else (if that makes sense).
And for me, that's something that needs to be distinguished and put aside...
Which is why she's decided she's not a swinger and has ceased engaging in NSA encounters, since that's not what she wants. "
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over a year ago
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"I think sometimes individuals need to be on the same page. Yes, sex with emotion is amazing! But for me, that emotion has been lust and desire. Personally, if the emotion is something else other than carnal lust and desire - then the satisfaction you're getting is not from the act of sex itself but something else (if that makes sense).
And for me, that's something that needs to be distinguished and put aside...
Which is why she's decided she's not a swinger and has ceased engaging in NSA encounters, since that's not what she wants.
Exactly! Thank you "
In his defence, I think Pops may have been commenting generally about people who want an emotional connection rather than about you and your specific circumstances. |
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"Foreplay?
Penetration?
Oral sex?
After glow?
Orgasm?
Something else?
Bloody hell girl this has to be the best question yet.
For me its the knowing by her reaction that i am giving my woman pleasure, her noises and reactions to what i am doing is what sex is about to me.
Gimp"
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"This thread is making me feel both horny and gloomy.
Funny, I feel the same! Especially felt a bit sad for the lady who said she liked it for the all over body contact as she lives alone and doesn't get cuddles (I can't remember her exact words?).
I'm still on this site chatting to friends, but not meeting as I've become convinced that I'm NOT a swinger. The satisfaction of sex without emotion falls so far short of sex with it that I really can't be bothered with the former.
And if one is subconsciously trying to fill an emotional gap by having sex, even with an FWB, it's always going to be less than satisfactory.
Just saying! Sorry all you happy NSA swingers, no need to tell me what a great time you're having and how wrong I am lol!
I feel gloomy because I can vividly recall how incredible it can be and I'm reminded how long it's been since I felt it.
As long as there's a cerebral connection I don't need there to be emotion beyond that felt at the time. The physical/visual/mental experience then and there is what I desire.
I remember the heat, the lust and the raw desire and I'm left feeling frustrated and, to be frank, bloody horny.
It's not easy to find someone with whom the mutual experience is as I described though.
No, it's very difficult. And when you've experienced something so good (whether the key is an emotional or cerebral connection) it's hard to accept less.
Personally I've decided not to. If it happens, great, if it doesn't, I've plenty of other things going on in my life that give me satisfaction, albeit of a different kind, but not lesser.
Hope it's the same for you. Wishing you all the best! "
Definitely hard to accept anything less. |
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Every single fucking moment Getting lost in that moment with my partner(s) whether that is teasing and tormenting, deeply erotic foreplay or out an out animalistic fucking. Exploring each other losing the boundaries between us, sharing the ecstacy of orgasmic pleasure.
Well that'll do for starters |
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"I think sometimes individuals need to be on the same page. Yes, sex with emotion is amazing! But for me, that emotion has been lust and desire. Personally, if the emotion is something else other than carnal lust and desire - then the satisfaction you're getting is not from the act of sex itself but something else (if that makes sense).
And for me, that's something that needs to be distinguished and put aside...
Which is why she's decided she's not a swinger and has ceased engaging in NSA encounters, since that's not what she wants.
Exactly! Thank you
In his defence, I think Pops may have been commenting generally about people who want an emotional connection rather than about you and your specific circumstances."
No prob |
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"This thread is making me feel both horny and gloomy.
Funny, I feel the same! Especially felt a bit sad for the lady who said she liked it for the all over body contact as she lives alone and doesn't get cuddles (I can't remember her exact words?).
I'm still on this site chatting to friends, but not meeting as I've become convinced that I'm NOT a swinger. The satisfaction of sex without emotion falls so far short of sex with it that I really can't be bothered with the former.
And if one is subconsciously trying to fill an emotional gap by having sex, even with an FWB, it's always going to be less than satisfactory.
Just saying! Sorry all you happy NSA swingers, no need to tell me what a great time you're having and how wrong I am lol!
I feel gloomy because I can vividly recall how incredible it can be and I'm reminded how long it's been since I felt it.
As long as there's a cerebral connection I don't need there to be emotion beyond that felt at the time. The physical/visual/mental experience then and there is what I desire.
I remember the heat, the lust and the raw desire and I'm left feeling frustrated and, to be frank, bloody horny.
It's not easy to find someone with whom the mutual experience is as I described though.
No, it's very difficult. And when you've experienced something so good (whether the key is an emotional or cerebral connection) it's hard to accept less.
Personally I've decided not to. If it happens, great, if it doesn't, I've plenty of other things going on in my life that give me satisfaction, albeit of a different kind, but not lesser.
Hope it's the same for you. Wishing you all the best!
Definitely hard to accept anything less. "
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"I think sometimes individuals need to be on the same page. Yes, sex with emotion is amazing! But for me, that emotion has been lust and desire. Personally, if the emotion is something else other than carnal lust and desire - then the satisfaction you're getting is not from the act of sex itself but something else (if that makes sense).
And for me, that's something that needs to be distinguished and put aside...
Which is why she's decided she's not a swinger and has ceased engaging in NSA encounters, since that's not what she wants.
Exactly! Thank you
In his defence, I think Pops may have been commenting generally about people who want an emotional connection rather than about you and your specific circumstances.
No prob "
...like i say. Use the site however you please. Doesn't matter what others may say or think. You're on here for your own enjoyment. So, do as you please.
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