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By *ipmummx OP Woman
over a year ago
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So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They try and dress it up as being about discretion whereas imho it is usually just a case of 'you show first and if we fancy you, you will get to see us'
If they don't fancy you, you ain't got a cat in hells chance of seeing their boat races ...
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By *ipmummx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"They try and dress it up as being about discretion whereas imho it is usually just a case of 'you show first and if we fancy you, you will get to see us'
If they don't fancy you, you ain't got a cat in hells chance of seeing their boat races ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I get your point....
if they'd messaged asking for a photo and refused to give one in return I get that's double standard but surely looking is just that ~ looking ?! |
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By *ipmummx OP Woman
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"maybe they have their face pics n their private gallerydoesnt that usually say ??
if they are in friends only yes but not private" i didnt know you could do that, something else i have learnt |
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"maybe they have their face pics n their private gallerydoesnt that usually say ??
if they are in friends only yes but not privatei didnt know you could do that, something else i have learnt"
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"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? "
Have you spoke to this couple or have you just been looking at each others profiles? |
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By *ipmummx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ??
Have you spoke to this couple or have you just been looking at each others profiles?" i noticed they had a look at my profile quite a few times so thought i would take a look at theirs but not much on there |
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I've met people before now without seeing them.
OK, it was fairlt local, but we'd exchanged mails and from that thy seemed appealing. They were.
Had thy not been, I would have probably have chatted, before politely walking away from the meeting.
I guess we all make our choices and sometimes, despite being a bloke, the visual thing aint the be all and end all. |
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"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? "
People look, they probably look at you when you go down the street or in tescos too. |
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Each to their own, but if they don't appeal to you, just ignore. I had a couple look at me & wink, so I winked back then sent a short message. They read it but never got in touch. Best thing to do is shrug it off & go look at or talk to someone else |
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"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? "
A fake profile most likely .... |
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"So a couple have looked at my profile quite a few times which i really dont mind. i do have pics and face ones for friends only. There profile has no pics no veris and states that others must have a face pic or they wont reply... Is this just double standards or a little strange ?? "
You can either play along or move along. Depends on how much of other people's crap you're ready to tolerate. |
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